This girl Im sleeping with says she doesn't cum from fucking, only fingering and its kinda killing me inside...

This girl Im sleeping with says she doesn't cum from fucking, only fingering and its kinda killing me inside. I get a nut and then spend like 25 minutes finger fucking her and its so god damn boring. Show me some insane finger bang techniques or show me how to fuck better, I don't know.

Each girl is different, some like a firm fingering, others need the clit simulated and almost no insertion.

how do you finger her now that gets her to cum?

>implying getting bitches off matters
You dumb fuck.
My wife doesn't get off when I fuck her because her dad fucked her so good when she was a kid and it's fine,

You fucking suck OP.

Spiderman grip that shit with your two middle fingers, use the "come hither" motion inside the pussy.

The ridged bit you feel is the G spot. This is where she feels pleasure. Massage this with the "come hither" motion and gauge her response, increase speed/pressure according to her body language.

She'll cum buckets

Ask what she likes. Also watch/read what lesbians do and like they kind of know what works. Im married and i swear by this.

This guy gets it.

You have only been with 1 girl then.

been with heaps of girls, i dont use the spiderman grip shit but that come hither shit works

i'd say 75% of the time the 2nd half of your advice is +

Why are you not eating her out

also make sure you're stimulating her clit while you're fucking her.

she likes long, consistent g spot stimulation. she has to get her mind right though, literally has to be thinking about cumming in order to come. so i have to be super intimate while finger fucking her otherwise I will sit there with my hand up her cooch for 40 minutes which sucks for everyone.

oh oh i know the answer! get a bigger dick.

related

we're not that serious yet, we will be probably, eventually, but for now im seeing other people, I doubt she is, but she could be. so no mouth to vag yet.

try fingering during penetration? some girls are different and its not your fault, i actually need both clit simulation and penetration to get off usually neither just one can make me cum, doesnt mean it doent feel good for her

first of all, you gotta learn to tease. guys just want to get right to business but for chicks it's all about anticipation. if you think you're going too slow, go slower. tickle around. make her want it so bad she's about to die. only then do you give it to her.

learn to foreplay better, finger better, eat her out better. look it up, the internet exists and there's good shit out there.

the real trick, though, is the reacharound. go at her from behind, doggy, spooning, that leaning-back-reverse-cowgirl thing they do in porn, whatever. but while you're fucking her, reach around and stimulate her clit. start light/slow, and increase pressure/speed depending on her response. keep it up and she'll be biting the pillow and shaking in short order.

some girls need clit stimulation, some need deep stimulation. the reacharound accomplishes both. if a girl says she doesn't cu from fucking, it's because she ain't been fucked right.

Wait, what? You're fingering her and fucking her and you two aren't "serious enough yet" for oral?

Bro just go down and start licking, she will love it.

That is the most retarded thing I've ever read and I tried Twilight once

...yes? condoms and generally avoiding swapping bodily fluids, Is that weird? Generally until I go get tested with a girl, I won't give/get oral or fuck without a condom.

do you fucks just eat out all the random campus chicks you meet up with and fuck? This is why you have herpes now.

that's pretty presumptuous

>you'll get herpes if you lick minge
>putting my dick in is 1000% safe always and bears no consequences

Up your game.

then how is it weird that I am not gung-ho about diving face first into some pussy I'm not even cuffing?

OP, your penis is too large for her to enjoy.
I had this problem until we tried anal.
Now if she wants to cum from sex we do anal.

>dad fucked her so good when she was a kid
fuuuuuuuuuuuuck dude.

I've had several partners who regularly came via penetration, this girl is just different. Im not packing some ridiculous dong, shes just doesn't get off on penetration it seems.

I wanna change that though. I get off on seeing a girl shudder and fuck up the sheets, but becoming a finger wizard just seems sort of boring

I will gladly take the odds of me catching something with my dick wrapped in a trojan over french kissing some random skanks coot.

OP, your penis is too small for her to enjoy.
I had this problem until we tried anal.
Now if she wants to cum from sex she pegs me in the ass.

oh

kek

:(

>chekd
How many knuckles deep? I do this technique but sometimes she says it hurts.

>:(
then fuck off back to facebook ya soft cunt.

Stupid fucker. Make her cum FIRST.
Girls are tighter after they cum. Makes the fuck amazing.

heh my dick was made for her
but only in missionary
the banana up curve shit just works

ayy

Use one finger and just furiously fingerbang the fucking shit out of her like they do in pornos dude.

Trust.

Dude, foreplay comes before fucking. Start slow and gently increase in speed. Get her to suck your dick while you play with her pussy. Make sure she busts before you do, that way she's nice and wet when you fuck her and she'll be sensitive.

best

I've never met a woman that has not gotten off via penetration. OP your peepee is too small.

nah im good

I once dated this chick that physically could not orgasm. Sex was cool cuz I knew she couldn't enjoy it, I knew she was 'faking', but it was a performance just for me, like my own porno. and she was so enthusiastic, it was amazing

>i'd call her but she wants nothing to do with me

that shit'd really get to me. when a girl doesnt enjoy it it just kills my boner

not very often you hear that around here, usually it's the other way around

Hate to break it to you user, but you're normal.

I know this...finger for 10 minute until she comes...then we fuck and I cum in 30-60 seconds

I get that, and mentally it was weird at first. but she would really put on a show cuz she liked me and wanted me to enjoy it so i went with it

after like the second or third time is when it started getting awesome

no, i get it. a chick blatantly not enjoying it is a real turn off, makes you feel inadequate

Are you fucking serious?

This. But the first part.
Sex is actually a mental thing, not banging the right physical buttons at the right time, although it helps.

Getting her into it and soaking wet before penetration will help you get the job done.
Once I penetrate a woman she's already close to cumming and it doesn't take me two minutes after to get her over the top.

Works for most of the girls I've been with

It doesn't work with every girl. Some girls don't cum even with that.

I just said fuck it, and got my gf a vibrator. She doesn't use it for penetration - says the real thing is significantly better.
But, the vibes on the clit she likes.
Also, we started using it during sex as well to give her the best of two worlds.
That this vibrator thing really liberated me. She likes to get fucked by me and when I'm tired or finished
she just proceeds to relief herself and leaves me alone.
Plus, she loves me tons and thanks me after every orgasm that I bought her that.

I've made every girl i've slept with cum. Usually with hands, but i make a special effort if i know ima fuck em more than once.

If you are on top arch your back inward slightly so your pelvis grinds against the clit in time with you thrusts, if you can put an arm around her lower back while stabilizing yourself with you other arm, the lift willl push your dick into the g-spot sorta, and a triple hit makes girls melt.

Alternatively you can do the flip from cowgirl into missionary and do the same thing without having yo dick touch air. If you have the upper body strength that is. Usually gets them wetter enough to just go to town till they done.

I have problems cumming, so i can go for hours, results in a good amount of understanding what makes a girl cum.