ConfessionThread

ConfessionThread.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and ive faked every orgasm. I feel terrible

honestly how to you fake an orgasm that convincigly? Unless your boyfriend is retarded, wouldnt he feel that your vagina isnt twitching and tightening and reacting as you orgasm

You should send nudes so that we can orgasm

I used to cum in a stepmoms bra and panties.
And when I was 11 I almost had my half sister who was 8 suck my dick.
I blamed my half brother who was 10

If you really value the relationship, you're going to have to come clean sometime and sooner is better than later.

Hopefully he'll forgive you, and then you two can actually talk about what works for both of you.

I've been with the same woman for nineteen years now, and the sex just keeps getting better because we communicate about what we like and what we don't.

This sounds like a big problem and you should talk to your boyfriend about it. You need to tell him what he needs to do in order to get you off.

>you're going to have to come clean sometime and sooner is better than later.

That's a fucking terrible idea. I'd dump you instantly for being dishonest about something that intimate.

If you did come clean you should say it's a recent thing. Have some fucking tact, don't be like the rest of the retards on Sup Forums.

Tits or gtfo

I don't believe that you feel terrible. I think if you did you would have told him a long time ago. I think you're the kind of over-thinking, manipulative woman who lets him think he's great in bed because you think he needs you to control his emotions. I think you've spend the past four years talking shit about him to your girlfriends and fantasizing about other men. Hell, you've probably cheated on him several times to boot.

If you care about him at all, tell him, but don't be surprised when he dumps you like you deserve. All of this drama because you couldn't be honest with somebody you claim to care about.

You're the worst type of person.

It's fucking simple. Think of what he's not doing, or what pleases you, then start slowly guiding him.

Why?

I'd be annoyed about the dishonesty, but that it was motivated by a desire to avoid hurting my feelings would take most of the sting out of it.

Who hurt you???? You don't know why it's hard for me. He took my virginity in every way. First make out first penis I ever touched first person to feel me up. I don't know how to improve our sex to make me cum!!!! Cause everything with him was my first.

Viagra & milkweed will help you O.P

TITS OR GTFO

NOONE ASKS FOR TITS ANYMORE I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S SUMMER ALREADY.

>implying ops bf ever made anyone cum
he doesn't know better user.

See? This is my problem. You're confessing to have been doing something that would probably hurt your loved one greatly were he to find out, and all you can worry about is how hard it is for YOU.

I don't even want to know all the shit you've done to him that you're not willing to own up to.

Dubs demand it

just rub your clit while he's fucking you, cum on your own.

Now trips demand it

If even *you* don't know what you want, there is a problem.

Try new things with him and see what works for you. Ask him to try new things/techniques and when something feels good, tell him.

Let's see a photo of this rock solid pussy slayer

Its ur fault 100% and u should feel terrible. you need to show that ur not having orgasms and guide him to do it properly.

I never believed you anyway

Why would a picture of her boyfriend help anything?

Man im 22 years old and idk what to do

OP HERE
I'm in my 3rd year of college, a pysch major, a great job and blah blah blah but i feel so terrible and out of control. Like my parents are very strict Mormons and I met my bf just as I was breaking away. Idk I truly don't mean to hurt him. I just want him to be happy

You kind of owed it to him to not fake your orgasms, you know. Now even if you guys break up, he doesn't know how to fucking please a woman because of you. Selfish bitch.

I dunno, luv, I just dunno.
I realize so far I've kind of been Captain Hindsight telling you what you've done wrong already and how much of a bitch you are for it, and I realize that's probably not so helpful.

If I were your boyfriend, I'd want to know. I'd want to know the truth sooner than later, but I can tell you, I'd be fucking livid. Many men use their sexual history to help define themselves. It only factors into a man's personality a bit, but it's still relevant. If I'd been having sex with a woman for four years thinking I was X good in bed, and partly defining myself based on that, I'd feel betrayed and hurt and furious that you'd lied to me for so long. I'm a grown man, I don't need a woman worrying about my emotional state so much that she filters my knowledge of truth.

If you really care about him, tell him, and accept any punishment he feels you deserve (going on a break, being dumped, etc), within reason of course. His response depends on how much he valued the false knowledge that he was pleasing you. Don't resent him if he hates you for a while because of it. But still tell him.

And for fuck's sake if he doesn't dump you you'd better make damned sure you help him learn how to be a sex GOD to make up for the dishonesty.

Tldr;
You're a
Fag

He's been with 7 girls before me. Don't act like its my job. He was with most those girls for a while sooooo

Show your tits betch

It doesn't matter how many girls he's been with, because girls tend to do things like: be dishonest about their partner's abilities, not help out so much in bed and let the guy take the lead, and assume the guy should know everything even if the girl knows nothing. Any of that sound familiar?

We're getting off-track though. My honest advice is right here

I have the assboigers disease

it is partially your responsibility to tell him what he is doing wrong and what he is doing better. You actually have to make an effort to get something out of it you know

I already told her she was a bitch, I figure I can at least tell her something constructive too.

>implying OP is a girl

Tits or GTFO

Can't fake a male orgasm pal don't be an autism.

>This

I've done it. I just throw out the condom before the girl sees it.

My current girlfriend was the same as you, I except for the kiss part.

She also faked orgasms the first 3 months or so. She came clean and I got very sad, but we got over it and now, almost 2 years later, the sex is much better for both of us.

Just come clean and tell him

I tucked my ex gf's moms toothbrush under my balls, rubbed it all over my dick as well. Looking back at it now I wish I woulda just came on it.

Probably should find a way of making yourself orgasm nd then slowly change the sex to include it. If he does notice the difference tell him that it was more intense for you or some bullshit. Never talk about how you where dishonest, but if he asks tell the truth.

Few months ago sucked my first dick. off a gay hookup site. Been craving cock since. Even straight porn , the cocks get me off more than the pussy does