Are kissless virgins real in this day and age...

Are kissless virgins real in this day and age? I hear a lot of you claiming to be kissless virgins and it sort of blows my mind. Didn't you play spin the bottle at your friends bar mitzvahs or whatever your religious or ethnic equivalent is?

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I'm 28 and a kissless virgin

I grew up in a tiny little village in the middle of nowhere. My graduating class had 7 people in it which is a relatively high number considering the year before us had 3 and the year before them had 4 so there really wasn't much of a selection. Add that to the fact that I am highly introverted and its easy to see why I am kissless virgin for my younger years.

Now that I am older I have developed the value that I don't even want want to have sex with random people. If I don't want to spend my life with someone I don't want to sleep with them.

I also do not drink and avoid places full of drunk people and most of my friends are much older than me.

I have only met 2 people in my life that I could see myself being with and both of them where already in relationships so I again didn't even try.

TL:DR I really just don't care and only want to have sex with someone I love.

At some point you gotta bang somebody. For real.

Kissless virgin checking in.

I think I could probably atleast get a kiss at some party, where everyone is really drunk, but at this point I really don't care that much about it. I'm 19 btw.

And I'm not a retard, I actually mostly know how to talk to people, I just don't feel the urge to - outside of my friends group.

And I don't think beating myself up over it would help, so I just don't care.

>what is avoiding people at all costs and only interacting with people anonymously online

> Tips fedora

>being this normal

Get thefuck off of this board kid

You will cure cancer and be killed by free masons when you are 43.

Youll find a wife when you turn 26, it will be a coworkers "date" at a work event. Two kids, pretty mediocre life in columbus ohio.

That'd be fine.

Yeah, I'm a 30 year old shut in.

It's really easy to never do anything when you never leave the house for anything.

21 year old kissless virgin here, in high school I had a lot of friends but never really cared about getting laid. Now that I'm out of high school all I do is work and play video games in my free time. Have a few drinks with my friends every other day and that's about it.

Anyone younger than 22 it's ok.
Others should probably get down from your social pedestal and go enjoy life.Not being interested is Ok, but stop being judgmental of people who have fun.

I am an adult kissless virgin......I was preoccupied in my youth with sports and video games. Then I was preoccupied with trying to get gainfully employed. So I've never had the confidence to go after women when I feel that objectively speaking, I can't impress them with my income.

I'm 36

she was

And woman never ask you out or at least blatantly hit on you? I can see how someone who's autistic could miss the latter but the former even gets through to them.

Man, I grew up in a town with less than 300 population. Class was 5 people large. About the same age as you, I still got girls. stop making excuses and drink a fucking beer.

With the quality of today's women and feminism, what do you expect. You can just watch internet porn and not get STDs.

You think the quality was higher in the 70's?

Kissless Virign checking in.

Going through school I was only focused with schoolwork and hanging with my friends. Those who had relationships that I knew ended roughly so I chose to not care and avoid them.

Now that I'm in College, I would like to meet a girl and such, but with my current body, that's not happening.

I do wish to get working on improving it though

21 here.

Main reason is social anxiety. I've had girls give me pretty obvious hints but I'm too nervous to do anything.

THey are real for sure. I know a woman who is 24 and absolutely hates the thought of sex. She has never had a bf, never kisses and i highly doubt she has ever toucher her vagina in a intimate way.

The few situations where that seemed to be happening involved skanky types that I'm not into and straight up autistic bipolar girls.

yes 28 yo kv here and no but atleast im not jew

You can do it dude, all you need is a tiny bit of motivation, don't keep telling yourself you're gunna do it you need to just start one day and never give up

Molested and kissed at 12 by drunken step mom

>git gud fags

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Kisless virgin obese ugly man here, Yeah beign ugly and fat doesn't help

My first kiss was at maybe 17, w/ an older girl who kinda randomly kissed me near her garage. It seemed amazing at life-changing, at the time.

I'd later make-out w/ another girl, who was a friend of a friend, kinda randomly. I felt up her breasts as well, until we were stopped by her temporary guardians. Those were my first kisses, before I'd ever have sex.

20...kiss less virgin. I m not even sure why. I live in New York.i m in college, have a decent job. Athletic body, 5'11". People always tell me I am funny and shit. But I never asked anyone out. Not a faggot nor shy.

>are kissless virgins real this day and age?
Yes. Unless your asking some philosophical question. Then no.

>sort of blows my mind
Blows my mind how your mother can fit all those dicks in her mouth. Ayyyyyyy. Seriously though who cares.

>didn't play spin the bottle
I was a fucked up child who hated everyone around him. I still do. I like being alone and bitter.

I bet you are attractive.

Imma be real, because why the fuck not, we're all anons anyway.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 30.

I had a girlfriend a bit before then, met her when I was 29, but she had some very severe anxiety issues and we didn't actually ever wind up fucking. I did get head from her a few times, though, so I guess it's something. Had never kissed a girl before then.

We broke up shortly before my 30th birthday, and my balls were blue as fuck and I needed to get that shit done already, so I went on vacation and wound up going to a brothel and fucked a hot, slim Mexican/Native chick. Was pretty good.

Since then,move been on a fucking tear. It's been 4 years and I've fucked about 50 different girls now, so making up for lost time, I guess.

There's a an element of random chance to it. Are you friends with any attractive girls? Since, that can be huge in attracting women. If not, what are your connections? It's easiest to find people through other people.

Actually I got a lot of girlfriends without having any actual friends. The only people who to this day will hang out with me are people I have sex with. No one actually likes me and I don't know why.

And no. I'm not a bully.

18 year old kissless virgin here.

Almost all of my female classmates and schoolmates when I was still in high school either had sex/relationships already with multiple men or have 1 or 2 boyfriend(s) right now (and what shocked me is that the smart, nerdy ones already had multiple relatioships and probably had sex at least twice). Even the unlikely couples in our class had relationships (the guy who tormented/bullied a certain girl on multiple occassions during my high school days started a relationship with her a few months after gradution).

As for the present, almost all of the women in my college campus are in a relationship (even the ugly ones) and the ones who don't are either not interesed or really picky.

The barrier that prevents me from getting even a kiss is either most of the women that I want are not interested (they are in a relationship or something) or the barrier itself is complex and cannot be taken down.

Since I live in the Philippines, my high school days ended only 2 years ago (which means that I'm in 2nd year college).

Should I perform a shooting a la Elliot Rogers (or Columbine) or kill myself. Prostitutes are not an option since they're tricky in my country.

23 year old kissless virgin
I just lack confidence and spent most of my middle school and high school years having a personal existential crisis. Call me a fag or whatever but i think to much about random shit and doubt that any girl would want to be in a relationship with me.

YA TRICK YA.

Technically speaking I'm not kissless because a single time a girl gave me a peck on the lips after a bunch of drinks at a bar. But considering that is my ONLY kiss to date, and that I'm 33 and virgin - yeah I'd say it's a real thing.

You'd be amazed what a highly religious mom and a family with communication issues can do to a person.

I m yeah.... But they r just "friend". not close friend.

ITT: watch a bunch of people make excuses because they couldn't be bothered to make an effort or face rejection

It blows my mind a bit that there are still non-programmers in the developed world in 2016.

How in the hell do you grow up with computers all around you, spend hours a day in front of your very own personal computer, and carry a damn portable computer with you in your pocket every minute of your life, and somehow not ever even fucking learn to program?

What the hell do you do with these computers? How do you manage to avoid picking up basic computer skills like this? How do you even manage to put up with using computers when you can't program them? It's got to feel a lot like having to have your mom do your laundry for you because your autistic self never managed to learn how to operate the god damned washing machine.

Virgins though? I guess people have different interests. But who the hell doesn't use computers?

Dude you are my clone, you just describe me.

i mean, if no one else will- i'll say it

You're all right guy

here.

Alright so I'm gonna try and give advice in this thread. Mind you I'm also a old ass virgin so I can only tell you what I did wrong. I can't tell you how to succeed (arguably, no one can).

has a good point. My single biggest regret was not trying more often. I'd get myself worked up for months, desperately try to get the nerve up to ask someone out, do it, and get rejected. That made me not want to do it again. So between ages 20-28 I tried to go out with maybe 5 girls.

That just doesn't work. And my advice to anyone reading this is just to try. Learn to talk to women. Ask them out, ask ANYONE out because frankly, you're gonna flub the first few times anyway so may as well make it people you're not worried about impressing. But the more you try while you're young, the easier life will be for you. Being 33 and dropping your spaghetti if someone attractive talks to you - it's not a good look.

Start small, work on just getting a conversation going. Absolutely anything.

Also, if you're really having trouble consider therapy. There is nothing wrong with having someone guide your mental patterns in a way that helps you instead of hinders you.

But yeah, just talk to girls, try your best. Consider taking up hobbies that will allow you to be close to them as part of the course. For example, dance or improv classes.

All of this is towards one simple end - to be able to speak to girls. I'll tell you this right now, you could make a billion dollars a minute and be the nicest guy on earth - if you can't speak to women, they won't treat you any better than a social outcast at an anime convention.

So learn to talk. Learn to speak. And try your best. Godspeed anons.

i am a kissless virgin because i am a 4/10, but I still think i'm cool as fuck like 7,5/10 personality which makes me a picky person. no. i just want to have intimacy with someone decent who shares the same interests. can't find anyone in my city= virgin and kissless as fuck being 18 yo