22 year old virgin, friends are cunts, life just generally shit. How do I turn things around for 2017?

22 year old virgin, friends are cunts, life just generally shit. How do I turn things around for 2017?

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You don't. This is life from now on. Did you actually think it would be exciting and glamorous like the media portrays it? Fuck no. Why do you think so many millions of social rejects like yourself are on this shithole of a site in the middle of the night? You're all the same. So, you see OP. You were never alone all along.

So this is it?

>get a tinder
>start lifting
>start doing brazilian jiu jitsu

Yep. Start living for yourself and fuck others. Do what makes you happy and make a living out of it. You're the main character of your story. Friends and relationships are simply compliments to your life, not the focus of it.

First of all, don't wait to change shit because of a repetition of our specific time layout. If you really want to turn your life around you have to start today. Find a hobby that you can practice with people you don't know such as rugby or a cooking class. I would advise you to start doing some kind of sport because being more fit makes you more attractive. Most girls aren't totally focused on the body but it definitely helps.

Oh, and fuck all that Gym bullshit. Just keep healthy and in shape. You don't need to look like Arnold. That's fucking gross.

get the fuck out of straya

>start exercising
>stop watching porn
>learn a new language
>get back into study
>read, and I mean proper literature, not fucking Clive Cussler
>get a hobby, anything, here's a fucking list if you're that desperate
artofmanliness.com/2016/01/25/the-ultimate-list-of-hobbies-for-men-75-ideas-for-your-free-time/
>save money
>meditate

Unfortunately, unlike the general attitude towards self-development usually dictates, the mere act of putting in effort will likely not turn you into an instant millionaire/billionaire/what-have-you overnight, but you'll at least feel marginally better about yourself as an individual. Give it a go OP, what's the worst that could happen?

this is true, girls are more interested in guys who play a competitive sport such as rugby, football, tennis, ...

this

yeah maybe in 5th grade

>competitive
>tennis

You might as well wear tight short shorts and play ping pong

>start doing Brazilian jiu jitsu
Nigga what

Find chix u can sneak up on

Lower standards.

Rinse repeat until happy.

Happiness had to be worked for, you have to real fucking try.

I'm 20 and I've noticed a lot of girls prefer actual sports over going to the gym. I'm saying this as a guy who did powerlifting from the age of 15 to 18(4xgym/week bw180lbs squat 405lbs bench 295lbs deadlift 415lbs) and won a belgian championship. I've started playing rugby two years ago and I notice girls are way more interested in this sport than going to the gym.

lol all you want, assuming you're 180 pounds or less and have no grappling experience, i can pretty much guarantee i could literally end your life in under a minute if you tried to attack me.

You'd be better off sitting at a bar somewhere, even if you only order one drink and barely, if at all even drink it, stay maybe 30 mins or an hour, you'll eventually end up having someone hit on YOU (they probably won't be a 10 or maybe not even female, but it will happen eventually)...if anyone asks why you there alone, there's dozens of "good" reasons..waiting on a friend, etc. The sooner you act, the sooner it will happen.

man who tf cares, why take up a hobby because you think women like it. do what makes you happy.
kek, fuckin normies.

I lost my virginity when I was 12 and have only had sex maybe 3 times since then. Its now been a full year since my last notch. fml.

Agree, forget about the gym, almost every girl I've seen laughs and make fun of the "gym" guy and think he's a queer, which is usually accurate.

keep telling yourself that, beta fatass. keep telling yourself that girls prefer "gentleman" with "class" and "intelligence" like yourself, and that it's perfectly fine to keep drinking moutain dew and eating hot pockets and beating off to hentai all day. because those women you never interact with don't LIKE guys who go to the gym and make something of themselves, anyway.

lel, why so defensive? I've honestly seen girls at a bar making fun of guys with huge muscles and saying he's probably got a little dick. Don't take it up with me, go take it up with them girls...Besides, if a girl thinks a guy is "cute" they don't give a shit about him having muscles or even money...A gym can't do shit for ya ugly head brah.

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kek
>mfw i've had ex with 20+ grilz in my life

*sex

Let me guess, there's a Ronald McDonald house for the mental retarded right next to that gym you go to and the "grilz" can't resist your grammar, muscles and charm. Thank goodness for OP you took some time off from fuckin' and pumpin' to lend your expertise on life, OP you should thank this guy!

First, shift your focus. If you focus on making life no longer shit, you will either constantly find reasons your life is shit if your a pessimist or you will just see your life as marginally better than shit if your an optimist.

Next, realize that you're 22. Sure your not 15, you don't have your ENTIRE life ahead of you, but it's not like you're 50. You still got plenty of time.

In that time, you should want to accomplish something. You probably already do. Either way, all you need to do is find something to care about and do it ready hard. It doesn't matter if it's art or science or religion or sports, or just having friends. Just find something you can be passionate about and do it as hard as you can.

Whatever you want out of life, stop seeing how much you've fucked it up, and start looking for the ways you can move toward your goals. This means you have too examine your failures to find out why you failed and, more importantly, how you can do better. Go into some things with the understanding that you will fail, but that the only reason your doing it is to learn how to succeed later. Have patience.

Finally, man the fuck up. Stop pudding around and complaining about how shit your life is. You're living the fucking DREAM! There are kids in 3rd world countries that eat the kind of pain and misfortune you're talking about for breakfast, so stop pussying about on Sup Forums and get your life together. Honestly, shut down this tab right now and get to work on whatever the fuck it is you are trying to do.

I know what your thinking: fuck off, he doesn't know how tough it is for me. He doesn't know how shitty my life is.

I don't. But I do know that the reason you're thinking that is because you really want there to be a less obvious soloution than getting up and getting back in the ring. Getting up is hard, and I'll guarantee you'll get knocked down again, but at least you'll be able to get in a punch of your own and than getting kicked while you're down.

Same poster as the long post above. On the topic of going to the gym: first, some girls are into it and some aren't. Just a fact. Second, if you are a boring dude who just lifts weights because society told him to, you're probably not doing yourself too many favours. Girls are gonna know your compensating for a lack of confidence (aka small dick). If you actually have an interest in self improvement and gym time is something you enjoy, girls will notice that and see a guy who is getting what he wants out of life.

In other words, simply going to the gym will not make you any better with the ladies. Caring about something (whether or not it's the gym) will.

>manlet

>i can pretty much guarantee i could literally end your life in under a minute if you tried to attack me.

my IQ is 158 and i can bench twice that, come at me faggot

come at me faggot im fucking jacked ill fuck you up

yep, the girls were right at least about this guy ...total faggot...Not simply because you post a picture of your ass to complete strangers (mostly male), but more about you trying to make the post all about your own ass...try to squeeze in a few therapy sessions between those gym/shower sessions with "the boys"...

S-sorry.

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Did someone who didn't just make that image actually say this?