In this thread I pretend to be a psychologist

In this thread I pretend to be a psychologist.

Tell me your real problems and I will pretend to help you with them.

I'm still not over my obese ex-girlfriend that I was with for 2 years and broke up with me to move to another country.

It sounds like the breakup was not entirely mutual. Would it have been possible to go with them or was their leaving the country an excuse to end the relationship with you?

My toe hurts

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I am a failure. I have no goals or aspirations. I dropped out of college because my career choice was a huge joke and I'm not that book smart to begin with. I have no passion for anything. I just lost my job. It's only a matter of time before my depression pushes away my girlfriend, I've always been dumped and it'll eventually happen again. I feel like a burden to my family.

I don't know what living is, but this doesn't feel like living.

This too shall pass user, feel the pain, don't try to ignore it because it is painful. Even the bad feelings are part of us, meaningful signals we need to live and to heal. Feel the pain, let it hurt and if the damage does not need further attention the pain will pass.

Sounds like you're judging yourself by some external standard. You ARE a failure, your career choice IS a huge joke, you ARE NOT book smart, you have NO passion for anything. I'm sorry to hear you're in that situation user.

But I want to ask, are you the one who thinks that you are dumb and you career was a joke or is that a judgement that other people are making for you?

I am insane. I'm neither good or evil but often be irrational. I've got a huge ego and I like being feared and I get feared a lot due to my lack of sanity. I can be the nicest person ever or the worst person ever. I am in constant conflict with my morality. Help me.

Can you give me an example of a moral conflict you've been in recently?