I have a problem ejaculating with my new girlfriend. It takes me a full hour to cum and it's a problem because she sometimes gets dry before I'm finished.
I can cum easily within 5 minutes if I'm masturbating
Anyone else had a similar problem? Could it be that my gf is too loose and I can't get enough friction?
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How often do you masturbate?
I have the same thing. feel bad because I sometimes have to fake it then masturbate later.
Quite often, but I've tried abstaining for a few days If I know I'm meeting with her.
I don't think that's the problem as I have masturbated several times a day for as long as I can remember but did not have this same problem with my ex gf.
Have you talked to her about it?
I have a hot girlfriend rn. I had erectile dysfunction because of performance anxiety related issues.
Porn and masterbating throws our bodies out of wack. Instant gratification and being able to see whatever crazy porn you want whenever is not how we were designed.
I struggled with a complete stop of masterbation, but am a lot better now. I get harder elections and can actually fuck my girlfriend with a condom and plenty of lube.
Talk with your girlfriend and stop porn and masterbation. It'll be hard, but you'll be readjusted.
Godspeed OP. I'll hang around in this thread to answer questions.
I haven't talked to her about it, because I know she'd be embarrassed. I only recently took her virginity and I hurt her if I set the pace. I guess its something we have to work on together.
Her vagina is probably too loose. I have the same issue with your mom. So I just put her legs together and hit it from the back.
She might also not turn you on bastard guy.
Thanks for replying, but I think my problem is caused by something different. I don't even watch porn that much, I usually just imagine erotic things and jack off. I'll definitely try to masturbate less to see if it helps.
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>Kek
It's normal, if you date old girls, you need to take the young and thight girls.
Everyone ITT who has this problem. Stop watching porn and stop death gripping your dick at 100 mph.
She's about 20 and lost her virginity a month ago.
But I didn't have this problem before and I haven't changed my routines significantly
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Your problem is death grip. Stop masturbating.
When you fap you hold on to your dick as hard as you can without hurting it to stimulate it as much as you can.
A vagina will never match that grip unless it's a 5 year old.
Stop fapping and your dick's sensitivity will go back to normal over time.
Sup Forumsro start using lub it makes a huge difference and my gf loves it, same issue I had
P.s.if no got lub spit on it
Yeah I didn't see that post until after sorry.
You go condom or no? I use condoms and the current brand isn't lubed enough so lots of lube helps as well
I had this problem too. And my ex was a virgin with that WATER.
Just fuck her till she cums, then have her suck you off and bust in her mouth while she sucks you dry.
Whatever brings you pleasure creates links in your brain between that thing and pleasure. It's for social and nesting purposes, you end up smiling slightly whenever you think of that person you're fucking.
Social control of sexual behaviour means some young men hit their mid 20s with nothing but porn and masturbating in their life experience, their minds and bodies have no normal conditioning to be able to enjoy fucking a person.
Don't feel down, you can retrain your brain.
When you get much older you will discover that part of the spice of masturbation was that no matter how silly the fantasy, there was always the possibility there you could live it out. When you are 63 you'll know when you see a girl in their 20s that there's no way she's going to be into you even if you pay her. That's when shit gets real.
Men commit suicide not as troubled 20 somethings who are lonely or heartbroken, that's baby shit. After their 50s they realise that all the good things in life are behind them, all that's left is fantasies of things that can never be, or memories of things that will never be again.
Try to enjoy life now guys, gettin old aint for the weak.
Death grip is horrible I agree.
We don't use lube, she gets pretty wet and if I was able to finish in a normal time then there would be no problem with lubrication.
dirty talk user. You gotta keep your head in the game so talk dirty to keep things up and make her talk dirty back. You'll be cumming in no time
>dirty talk user
I'll try this next time.
I think it may be more a problem with my technique. She's about as tall as me and all my previous girlfriends have been significantly shorter.
Normally when I jack off my foreskin goes over the gland slightly which makes me cum. When we have sex, I don't think that happens at all. We are using condoms
thanks user
It's not an uncommon thing. Especially with new relationships. It's due to nerves. You can't really relax, probably in your own head too much. It'll pass, you just need to spend the time getting comfortable with each other.
Hmmm sucks bro I'm sorry. I'd just try to think about it less, talk to your GF, try different things.
I'm pretty sure it's not nerves. I had problems staying hard at first but now I'm quite comfortable with her and relaxed.
Get her to play with your nipples, rub your balls, lick your asshole, or suck around your ear.
hah, well - the fruit industry actually solved that problem a little while ago
Soo first its it a problem, for most people it would be a fucking blessing! Embrace it! I had this problem too though and your I should be enjoying sex not worrying about if you are going to cum. So here are some thoughts, fucking relax and be glad you aret blowing your load in 2mins! Alap make it about her. I know that sound gay but really get her going it can be a huge turn on. Use lube, honestly if anyone is getting dry you need to use more fucking lube. Finally tell her you like it when she moans, I think one of the things that we miss in RL compared to porn is sounds, the suckin, slopping and moaning is all fake/exaggerated so when it's dead quiet when in RL it can mess with your head. Just some ideas... Good luck Sup Forumsro
i think you'll find this problem already solved by the fruit industry.
Did you hear about the local farmers market union of Nebraska and Chiquita fixing that issue?
Faggot. Fruit industry solved that shit
Wow auto correct sucks lol
Have you tried looking into the fruit industry.
>But I didn't have this problem before and I haven't changed my routines significantly
It happens over time. It's never an instantaneous thing but the longer your porn use and the more you masturbate you get stuff like this. Trust me dude 99% of the time this is caused by too much porn. Young dudes having erectile dysfunction and this types of issues is so prevelant now because of porn.
That is not true at all. First off the fruit industry had something to say about it.
More important constant masturbation trains the body to ejaculate faster. Completely disregarding what you just said.
Is it more about the porn or just masturbation? Because most of the time I don't watch porn when I jack off, I just use my imagination.
Sometimes you must make a decision. Girls of PORN will never leave you. They will never make fun of your penis size and sleep with your classmates. Dump the bitch. Porn is much much better.
Nah, she's the first "real" girl I've dated, whatever that means. I've fucked lots of sluts but never a girl like this
stop fapping, or lighten your grip when you do it. Your sensitivity is probably down.
Someone explain this meme to me?
Just some new forced meme.
Please clarify "the fruit industry" as specified in this thread. Anyone?
does she grip your dick? does she move and not just lie there like a sack of meat? does she moan?
get her on the pill and get rid of the condom. it's like fucking with a wall between you.
Nah she doesn't do much, it's all pretty new to her but I'm teaching her.
I used to death grip but I fixed that about a year ago.
But anyway I don't think it's either of those because I used to death grip really hard and my previous gf was almost like asleep when we fucked and I was able to cum with no problems.
So it's just said randomly? This was my post - Was it something I said?
Yeah looks pretty random to me. Might even be a bot or something.
Is she hot? Like really hot? If so, that could be your problem. Nervousness can cause a huge delay which will go away once you've been dating a few months
You need to stop getting off to porn.
When you masturbate don't use visual material.
She is pretty hot but I've had much hotter girlfriends, so it might not be that.
>Nah she doesn't do much, it's all pretty new to her but I'm teaching her.
does she want it when you two start? or is she really scared? because she should be doing more, and shouldn't be going dry.
Also try denying your self. Next time you are going to have sex, jack off until you are getting close then stop. It fucking sucks at first, but it helped me.
also, one way you can tell if she's into it is if her whole body sweats.
Yeah, she's almost overflowing down there during foreplay.
She goes dry only like 40 minutes into penetration
jebus make it stop
Are you circumcised OP?
You're a god actually
>she sometimes gets dry
that's because she wants a giant black dick, she realizes your tiny thing is just poking her... and the faucet turns off
So let's see...
-you aren't coming quickly, takes about an hour
-she can't go for that hour, she gets dry
-you cum after 5 minutes by yourself
So therefore you're seeking a solution to make sure you cum within a normal amount of time, before she gets dried out. Yes?
Don't let her tell you what to do. Society tells us that inferior men cum quick. She should look up at you like a beast. Some anons say lube helps (it does), but also you gotta keep her excitement level up- I bet the excitement of getting railed wears off after her second O or 20 minutes, whichever comes first.
Don't blame her pussy, it's plenty tight. Don't blame yourself, you have great stamina. Take charge and be more assertive (and get some lube)
haha probably this
and the fact that OP is a faggot who needs to feel cock in his hand before he can cum
kek
Happened to me before. I always focused on making her cum first and she'd end up dry 5-10 minutes after cumming. I found a couple positions where i could use her as a cocksleeve that worked for me