Is it worth trying? This is the level I've stooped to where I'm seriously considering using this to find someone...

Is it worth trying? This is the level I've stooped to where I'm seriously considering using this to find someone. Either this or I wait until uni seems to be my only options right now

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It's legit. Try it. Take good pictures of yourself, and message clever things to your matches not just "hey", or "what's up"

Also, most girls there know the deal. They're there to fuck as well

Socially awkward guy with no real redeeming qualities other than height and a reasonably attractive face here.

I used it and got quite a few matches but the only ones that weren't completely boring and shit to talk to were a couple of fatties.

Got talking to someone who I actually found attractive and they seemed cool at first but then realised they're 'twitter funny' and by that I mean they think they're funny because of their constant sarcasm and wit that gets endless retweets on social media. It started to piss me off and then she suggested i'm weird for not being on Twitter so I left it.

tl;dr: You can get female attention from it and sex if you play your cards right but not from anyone attractive or anyone you'd want to have any kind of long term relationship with.

Unless you're a 5 star man.

No. It's all spam now. It was good for the first year it came out, but it's worse than craiglist now.

I'm currently dating this girl I met off Tinder so I guess it "works". My advice would be to meet up ASAP once you 2 start talking. No point in messaging for weeks. As soon as you sense that she's interested, ask to go out for drinks or something.

Tinder works fine. Like anything you have to put effort into it. As in get good photos, message girls, take em on good dates etc.

Never worked for me and I don't think the bios usually tell you much about the people. Still, if you're looking for a quick hookup or just have no other options, give it a shot. Worst thing that can happen is nothing.

I've had a lot of success on it getting laid but none of the people I'd meet on there I'd ever consider for relationships, guess the same could be said about me. I once spent 3 months with my profile saying "I'm the fuck boy you've been memeing of" (get it? Meme/dream?) and didn't take a hit on my matches.

Anyway if you're good looking enough you'll have no problem jus seal the deal quick and don't tell them everything or you won't have anything to talk about on the date.

Damn that sucks, long-term is sorta what I was looking for. I was with a girl for 5-6 months once and since then I've just had no luck at all and I've started getting a bit desperate.

How long have you been going out with her for?

The thing I worry about are fake profiles, and I'm a bit weak so being baited like that would be really depressing for me. I don't think I would be good at quick hookups regardless, not really into that much

Yes.
Another tip: tinder social. Girls are more likely to come out in groups, so you don't have to waste so much time talking to them on the app. Got laid from someone reasonable thru that this weekend

Women (whether feminist labeled or not) typically see men as disposable utilities to extract benefits from, or a meal ticket or an emotional tampon. They behave like materialistic children who never grow up, throw tantrums, constantly need emotional support and verbal reassurance, have no concept (or need cause meh vagina!) of loyalty, gratitude, sacrifice, patience or humor. They have a manipulative nature, they cannot give with one hand without taking with another, sending mixed messages, playing mind games and taking everything personally. They’re artificial, overly dramatic and require material props to have the same inner-existence men enjoy. What is being independent and alone to a woman? That is the opposite of womanhood. The only connection women have to the world is their vagina, and most of them don’t know how to fuck and just lay there like a corpse, and once the sex gets boring, they cannot cook or clean and are literally good for nothing. I’ve got better things to do than be bothered with all of that shit.
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Use OKCupid

Maybe my life would actually be better if that was true, but ever since I've been with someone and felt what it's like to be loved and wanted that's all I really want in my life anymore, to the point where I don't care about much else apart from my close friends and some of my family.

Why OKCupid? Is it better somehow?

Girls on Tinder want only one thing and that is that you have enough money to pay for their holidays.
Competition is also big.

can i set up tinder without facebook or at least without giving out my phone number (fb registration)

Haha that's another thing I worry about, my friends finding out that I'm this desperate. My closest friends I could tell but for me honestly it would just be a bit sad for other people to see.

No. Just make a facebook account specifically for tinder.

>implying OP actually gets any matches to start sending messages in the first place.


I've been on Tinder 2 weeks, max out my free "likes" every day and not a single match. I'm not even picky, if they don't look like a whale, I swipe right. Not a single match ever. You can't send messages without matches.

>Maybe my life would actually be better if that was true, but ever since I've been with someone and felt what it's like to be loved and wanted that's all I really want in my life anymore, to the point where I don't care about much else apart from my close friends and some of my family

Spend some time in an assisted living facility if you'd like the awful truth to your fantasy.
Reality Check:
Even if you do the job right, your kids are most likely going to be too busy with their lives to bother with your end. They'll show up once or twice, and definitely to split up your loot, but for the most part you are dying alone anyway.
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And then there are men who married women with other men’s kids (the sperm donor already turned into an indentured servant by the state).
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You're in high school. Get over this "woe is me," "last resort" shit, faggot.

this require a phone number that i dont want to give

Tinder, Not really no, no one is looking for anything on it. everyone is just "there for the bantz"

Do yourself a favor and use an actual dating app.

Tinder has always been a success for me. I've met up with 3 women, minimal effort. Each was a cool chick. Saw the first two for a couple weeks each. Banged on the first night. The 3rd was something different, def more than just a fuck. Took things slower with her and now we've been dating for 4 months.

Try it OP.

I don't know about kids but mostly I just feel a bit empty now that I know how good my life can be with someone.

I'm just looking for someone to make me happy :)

Sounds like the dream for you. What's the girl you're going out with now like?

I used to think like OP that finding dates over the internet is desperate etc. Maybe it is, but literally no one gives a fuck, just do it. Stupid restrictions to put on yourself simply to stop yourself from putting in any effort at all, and just hoping that youll end up finding someone out of pure chance that will do all the work for you.

Na you still gotta do all the talking, and actually have good photos that they will like. You just gotta be willing to put the effort in.

Shes awesome. A really smart bookworm that likes to cook and knows a lot about craft beer. I probably lucked out finding someone so cool but I'm sure theres more like her on tinder

Gave it a try for a week which probably isnt that long, i used all my swipes every 12 hour but only matched with 1 girl who then unmatched me after 5 minutes. Not a good success at all. And what sucks the most about it is, i cant even use anything else to hook up with girls because everyone uses Tinder.
>feelsterribleman

Holy fuck what a way to start 2017....go leak your sister or ex gf today lol - snap-leak-cf

Ive used it for about 2 weeks now, swiping here and there, not really exhausting the swipes. Got 2 matches so far, 1 that stopped responding instantly, probably cause i didnt ask any question so she didnt want to pick up on the convo.

2nd match im talking to now, seems to be going well. She's a bit further away, but conversation is going further, lots of smileys seems to be the solution. Will probably ask her out soon if it seems right. Anyone know how long you can take before asking to meet? Earlier is better right?

That's a good way to think about it actually, that's a good point. Have you tried it yourself before?

That sounds really lovely, good on you for finding someone amazing :)

Sorry to hear that, how long ago did you try tinder?

Nice to hear things going well for you on tinder. Someone earlier said that it's better to ask them out sooner rather than later, I would probably agree with that even though I haven't used tinder before

best used during college not for direct hookups but for finding parties to get laid from

Are you ugly?

>I just feel a bit empty now that I know how good my life can be with someone

You're being a fool

It works if you go there optimistically, looking to have a couple of mostly casual dates that could end up in sex, friendship, or romance depending on how the nights go. If you have a normie girl friend or two (or at least a normie firend with a steady GF), have them help you start out.

Make sure you have clothes that fit you and complement your body type, clean your face and hair up and get help, possibly from a cosmetologist but honestly your RL normie friends should be enough. Even a chubbier guy can be attractive if he carries himself right and puts the right dressing on, but you might need to focus on you before you try dating if you're a genuine fatass.

Take some time to get photos of you taken that look nice. Don't do what most fuckers do and photoshoot that shit, it WILL come off as hella fake. Go out to normie events with friends who can help you have a good time (even if it means just hanging out with them like you do when you're at one of your homes, just in a different setting). Encourage them to take a couple pictures if they see you having fun, they don't need to be candid or anything, just showing you genuinely going out and being happy. This will make you look better because it shows your emotional best. Do it while dressed in a way that makes you look good and with people who enjoy your company and you'll be getting matches and replies faster than you would with selfies.

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Im andSo yeah im using it atm, and if anything ive got a shot. Ive also dated through some website before. Met someone multiple times, never banged though, so both lost interest. I think it was on my part, i just wasnt attracted to her. It does work though, and it doesnt really feel bad once youre meeting up with someone.

OP, use Bumble. It's a MUCH better version of Tinder. I've been very pleasantly surprised

What do you think is fulfilling in life then if not a relationship?

Yeah I think if I made a profile it'd be important to show that I'm a social person with pictures that have others in them as well, I imagine that's what a lot of people would look for.

That sounds pretty good, I think I'm feeling more inclined to give it a shot after hearing the feedback from everyone :)

How is it better than tinder? Also I've never heard of it myself before, so do many people use it?

Bumble has a much higher concentration of attractive women. If you're matched, the women have to make the move and message first. Hot women feel more comfortable using it because they're not being harassed as much

They have to message first? How does that work, like women have to reply first or whoever accepts the match has to reply first?

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After a match, she has to message you first before you can message her at all

What does Sup Forums think of cougar websites / apps ?

All these normie fucks need to leave

You fucking piece of shit. I've fucked about 25 women in 2016 thanks to Tinder. Still fucking two of them. Tinder is the best *I'm tall, reasonably good looking and confident. A less confident 5'4" man let friend had zero luck and found it to be a utterly humilliating experience.

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I'm going to get some rest now, thanks everyone for the replies :)

Then stop being so fucking ugly, clean yourself up

Its bullshit and 90% of women Just do it for confidence or to spread STDs. I dated once a girl and it was an disaster

did you go with other guys?

Tinder used to work a LOT better but the Jews in charge realized there's no laws making them play fair so they changed the algorithm so free-using men almost never get matches. Now it really doesn't work unless you pay for boost.

>knows a lot about craft beer
you got a keeper there user

Bumble is absolutely 100% worthless. Far FAR fewer matches than Tinder and the girls are less responsive. It's literally marketed towards paranoid feminists, enough said.

It's not gonna solve your problem, I'd recommend getting a social hobby before tinder if you want to MEET girls

Tinder behavior is antithetical to good relationships for some weird reason

ask to meet for coffee as soon as you reckon shes reasonably sure youre basically normal.
That shouldn't take long.
Don't leave it.

yeh but from then on its same old. Just makes them feel happier but men still have to make all the effort.

Yellow seems quite interesting. Met a decent Irish milf on there but fucked up with a joke a guy would get but she took it a creepy and weird.

Enjoy the herpes

any evidence of this or just your assumptions?
(the change in algorithms, not the Jew bit)

Yeah, I used to get like 3 matches a day and now I get zero unless I pay for a boost, then I get 12 at once. This has been going on for like a month now, it's not normal.

>Bumble is absolutely 100% worthless. Far FAR fewer matches than Tinder and the girls are less responsive. It's literally marketed towards paranoid feminists, enough said.

You just hit the nail with the head!

No free rides. Jews need your money.
Good luck with Tinder. it's not the same as it was before.

You just hit the nail with the head!

No free rides. Jews need your money.
Good luck with Tinder. it's not the same as it was before.

>marketed towards paranoid feminists

iow. desperate chicks.

How old are you? Hook up apps are social norms now, get over it faggot. You're clearly an autistic, can't get a girl in person. Tinder will only hide your social awkwardness until you meet someone in person. You might as well just kill yourself

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>Did not bodyslam Andre the Giant

Fucking kektorious