Continuation of "Girls we've friendzoned"

Continuation of "Girls we've friendzoned"

In this thread, tell me about the times you've friendzoned somebody.

Last thread timed out while I was typing my reply, and I refuse to send this story to the void.

Anyways, my experience.

> Be me, 22 years old, recently out of a relationship, on work placement for my final year of university
> Get grouped up with a few other students, myself and one of them really click and become good friends.
> She's awkward, kinda insecure, but pretty funny and cute as fuck.
> Myself and friends called her EveChick (She played EVE Online)
> Three weeks of friendly coworker stuff.
> We get lunch together more frequently, hang out outside of work hours once a week, and generally only spend time with each other at placement.
> We give it an exclusive label and start moving towards a relationship
> Two weeks after that, EveChick breaks it off because it feels super unprofessional, even though our placement is ending in one week.
> Find out her ex has been back in town for one week prior to that and that they've been talking a shitload through a girl we both talk to.
> It's a blow to my self confidence, but I move on and am banging somebody who was waiting for me to get out of my pseudo relationship.
> We don't put a label on it, and I continue to seek out other dates too. Good times.
> EveChick and I continue to get lunch, stop spending time with each other outside placement.
> Second last day of our work placement, EveChick starts dropping clumsy hints that she's lonely and going to miss me a ton, and that things are "too quiet around her apartment now".
> Doesn't mention her ex, doesn't know I know. I assume he's back in another province by now.
> I have a pretty good idea of what she's going to do tomorrow, and make a plan.

>> Two weeks after that, EveChick breaks it off because it feels super unprofessional, even though our placement is ending in one week.

Sounds like OP got friendzoned first.

> Last day of placement, last time we'll see each other on a schedule unless we start hanging out again.

> Final lunch together
> She starts asking me about my plans after this, what I'm doing now, "do you have any special friends in your life now user ;p?"

> "Oh? Not really."

> "Me either... (gives explanation about why she's sorry and how it was unfair, fucking shoot me, it's foggy now)...

> "I'd like to keep going out for lunch, but maybe you can just start coming over to my house, and we can cook food together ;)?"

> "Yeah sure, [fuckbuddy] taught me a few recipes recently while I was over at her house, maybe we can try pizza?"

>Instantly see the reaction, she's thrown way off.

>"Oh, is Emily a friend? I'd love to meet her and maybe she can teach me too!"

>"Eeeehhhh, she's pretty private and really prefers just us to hang out."

>"Ok. I want to see you this week user, can we do thursday :)?"

>"Maybe after 9? I'm on a date that night."

> Gut punch, she's visibly elevated. Eyes turning slightly red and her next few words are super shaky.

> "Can we do Wednesday or Friday?"

> Uuuhhhh fuck, I'm with [fuckbuddy] on Wednesday, and seeing that date again on Friday."
> "I'll just call you next week? Sorry we can't do this week :(."
> Wednesday and Friday plans were made up, but it didn't matter. Just needed to have an effect.

>" Ok user"

> Never tried to reschedule, slowly stopped texting over the next month, was perpetually busy when she wanted to hang out.
> Fuck it felt good.

Occasional regrets, but mostly for the wrong reasons. (We didn't get to do anal :( )

I absolutely did, I don't see anything wrong with that.

go on

already finished dumbass

Wait, so you did fuck her though?

hero
also nice dubs

Only two or three times, but yeah, we fucked.

Felt amazing.

Surely there are other people with past experiences?

justice.

only ever been friendzoned, op :(

>be me
>16 years old
>junior year of high school
>it's the beginning of the school year and I have biology with this cute blonde
>we've known eachother for some years now but we never really connected much
>start talking
>become friends
>she's into movies, and she's actually seen most of the same movies as me
>fast forward a few weeks, I'm at my house sick so I'm missing school
>at around 3 pm she shows up at my house
>we chill and watch some TV for a while
>I decide to make a move and start kissing her on the neck
>she's actually shocked and tells me to get the fuck off of her
>my mother bursts into the room
>"user! Get off of your sister! What are you doing!"
>tfw I was the one friendzoned

She was asking for it.

>coworker, who is 28 and dating and living with a software engineer for his money/the badass house he lives in, comes with me to my weekly trivia game
>we get drunk, she tells me that she's been having dreams about me and how if she wasn't with software engineer she would be with me
>not at all attracted to her, she's a 5/10, belly, flat ass, plus major personality issues (depression, anxiety, narcissism)
>i laugh it off
>we go to leave at the end of the night and she grabs me and tries to kiss me when I'm by my car
>pull away, fake laugh, "you're so wasted," etc
>other female coworkers find out, they are much hotter than her, now i am god-emperor of my workplace

>Forgot to mention, software engineer is like 25 years older than her

I'm on mobile so no greentext for you faggots. Anyways I used to have a best friend in highschool that was a girl. I would be able to talk to her and hang out with her wherever. Shit was fun basically another bro. Although she was a 5/10 mulatto. After a year of being close friends she admits she likes me. I reject her first advance and try to keep everything normal between us. Though our senior year, she starts getting more and more desperate for me. I start getting pissed off and towards the end try to cut off all communication. I catch wind of her plans to ask me out for prom during an entire school assembly and so I decide to beat her to the punch. By asking out a different girl. I make a shitty plan to ask out a pretty solid girl 8/10 thicc in the wide hips sense. She says yes. The look on the other girls face was so satisfying tbh. I told her 6 months ago, 2 years after graduating HS to leave me alone. 10/10 would break a girl's heart again

Bump

Gets cucked quite often really

It sounds like you were just too much of a little bitch to be honest with someone. Instead of being a man and telling the truth you wanted to act like a high school girl.

Grow up you fucking faggot.

How does mobile stop you from using greentex?

Fag I can't read this

Takes forever I guess

Doesnt take any longer. Actually takes less time.

That was kinda unnecessary. You could've just told her "I don't want to be in a relationship right now." Regardless of the stupid shit women say about men and commitment, that shit is like fried honey to a black bear. If she for a moment feels you don't want her, you got her already in the palm of your hand. You should've just kept fucking her but made it clear that you don't want anything serious. Missed opportunity there, buddy.