will give $10 steam games to the 2 best answers...
So Sup Forums, im here bc i need some relationship advice. Im 19 years old, and recently i just lost my virginity to a girl ive been seeing for about 2 months.
about a week later she then dumped me because i was always too nervous to initiate stuff in bed.
a couple days later i told her exactly how i feel, that i really care abour her (i didnt say i love her) and all that shit and that shes super special to me, but it didn't work.
I need to know how to get her back. I honestly already tried getting over it for the past 2 months but every time i see anything reminding me of her i get depessed because i really did love her even though i didnt say it.
if i had a second chance i wouldnt ever hesitate to initiate sex or anything, but how can i get that second chance? i will be able to see her at parties that we both go to but thats about it
Say your steam name and what game you want at the end of your advice. thanks Sup Forums, i will deliver either when the thread stops getting posts or after about 20 minutes.
what are her hobbies/likes? need to know it first.
Caleb Cook
honestly, just forget her. she's just a pretentious slut if she can't make you feel better about yourself. sounds like she's one of those thots who'd rather be fucked/abused by some 7ft nigger.
Angel Jackson
it sounds like there was more going on besides not initiating in bed
Julian Gutierrez
I don't expect this answer to help you much, I'm just telling you the truth. but I'll leave my steam id anyways since you've asked for it
/id/LoP0ly/
Connor Moore
OP I need you to answer my questions not I can't help you.
Noah Adams
if you didn't tell her you loved her and you actually do love her, then find her and tell her you love her. why not, at least you won't have any regret afterwards if she didn't say it back to you. plus you know girls like hearing guys be truthful and spilling feels for them.
and if you want to send me a steam game that's cool, steam name is: megacharibulb
Robert Cruz
uhh shes kind of a dork she just likes cooking and watching tv and cuddling and stuff and drinking/partying/college activities
Isaiah Torres
fucking whipped cuck anhero in front of her home
Josiah Hall
You should just get over her. Seriously. There are better girls out there, and it sounds like you aren't a massive autist of super ugly or anything so you'll find a girl for you.
Parker Cox
She's a whore op. If youve been dating for 2 months and dhe always wants to have sex with you, shes only in it for the sex. Find a better girl, who loves you for who you are. My girlfriend didnt even do anything remotely sexual with me until 8 months.
tl;dr find a not slut
/id/dramaticpuppet
Nicholas Collins
i mean when i asked her why she wasnt into me anymore, she said it was because that and because she felt like she had to do more work in the relationship overall.
and i agree its totally not attractive for a guy to be a nervous little bitch, and now that i know that i can just force myself to be the one to start shit and be the man. I just need to know how exactly im supposed to get to the point where she gives me a second chance.
Blake Gray
OP here, basically what im asking for is i need a way to just hook up with her one more time, so that i can show her that she was wrong about me.
so how do i fuck my ex one last time?
Eli Edwards
Op Ill be quick and honest, I got work in 3 hours and need sleep so I'll give you a quick run down. Don't pursue her. All she'll do is keep doing the same shit, I just got out of a relationship thing that went back and forth for 2 years, I never loved anyone so much. I even got a new girlfriend a few months later, I still dont feel the love for her I did the last girl, but the last girl screwed me so hard. Take it from my experience, even if she took your virginity, just screw it. Most girls like dominance. Some girls are mutual with that factor. You just gotta find someone else, or get more dominant and try again, or take a break from her and practice on other females in being dominant, or read up etc. Personally, I say drop it and leave her, move on, but if youn wanna.pursue, get better in being dominant and show her. And prove it. GoodlucK OP and gnight, PLS choose me
Steam is Daxter_D7
Ryder Walker
If you are looking for a hookup just level with her and tell her what you want or wait for ger to get drunk lol Bagelbeetoo
Andrew Adams
Asked her if she wants some fuck.
Angel Bell
If you were honest with her and she doesn't want to be with you anymore, then you must let her go. It'll be very hard the first few weeks, but time will heal. Work on yourself more, find a new hobby, talk to old friends again. When she realizes that you don't care or want her anymore, that will make her want you again. But since you don't care anymore, it won't matter. Good luck bro..
Do you have money? If so, start having sex with escorts. Make sex more natural to you and it makes initiation that much easier. Also stop fapping so much. You'll become a gorilla before you know it.
No money? Just be cool to her. Be like whatever, but don't stop dropping hints. Don't be a creep or anything, but express attration without being overbearing. When you get an opportunity to hang with her with tensions already high, just do what you did to win her in the first place. Hope this helps.
i think you should still tell her you love her, then tell her to give you a chance to prove it. like i said before, girls respond to emotions pretty well. tell her you want to make love to her so you can prove your love to her.
still me steam name is megacharibulb
Wyatt Fisher
Honestly I would also like to suggest you to look for someone else, but if you can't forget her and really want her back then here are some things you need to do:
You need to change yourself, seems like part of the reason she doesn't want to get back with you is because, she wants someone who could make her feel secured and wanted, someone that is decisive and takes the lead in the relationship.
Here are some tips to get her back, try and get her to casually go on a *date* with you, you need to show her you can take charge in things plan everything out.
Try to get her to a isolated place where you can make out and make sure to take the leap this time, start with a slow and passionate kiss and work your way up from that, don't mess up this time! This time tell her you love her and that you can't get her out of your head.
I wish you the best of luck OP. If you found my advice helpful could you get me this, please?
Also, OP 2 months is not enough. You invested a lot into her since you lost your virginity to her. That has a lot to do with it as well. You don't want to lose your sex hole. You are investing too much in her and there is no return, no profit. You need more time and you need to be proactive in doing other things that make you forget about her. I'm 28 years old and I don't think about women anymore, not as much as I used to. When you get older, your problems will change too.
James Torres
if shes not into you, shes not into you. it might be better to just find someone else
Isaiah Rogers
My gf broke up with me because I wasn't enrolled in University yet. The day prior she said her parents were upset about our relationship (because she's asian and her parents are strict) and said we wouldn't be able to have sex for a year. I said I didn't care because i really liked her and she still split with me. My first piece of advice is to find someone else, because I can't.
From my experience, I fell in love with a girl after dating for over 2 years and we broke up, and I wanted her back so bad I tried my hardest but all I did was harass her. My last piece of advice is you need to gain closure and see if she comes back on her own terms. If you care about her, you won't make her feel bad about her relationship with you or make her guilty for it.
Cooper Evans
Id/Cringew She's looking for something hot You need to try to explain that you are new and are willing to try doing kinky things. Ask her what she's into, but also do things YOU want to do to her. Surprise her. Spin her around, grab her neck. To win her back? Go somewhere discrete maybe her house/room or maybe public if she's into that
Jaxon Young
i feel the same about not wanting to make her feel bad. I dont want her to pity me because that wont make her feel attracted to me again. I need to figure out a way to make her get back with me, but i need her to think its HER idea and not mine.
basically im down to mindgame the fuck out of her to make her want me back and think that she wants me, then once i get a second chance i can show her how wrong she was
Joseph King
>dating for 2 months >been broken up for over 2 months
not gonna happen buddy.
William Gonzalez
At a party start being more... chadlike Make her jealous
Hook up with other girls, then start fucking them more, and better. Whenever her or one of her friends is around, talk to whoever youre talking to about how "x loved it when i y'd her z" or something,(just make youre youre not like "hey did you watch the game last night? Yeah the lakers I MADE JOANNA MOAN SO HARD SHE WAS POURING") and eventually, she will want to get back with you
Alternatively, you could just man the fuck up and say that youre not a pussy any more, and you want to show her. I dont know her so I dont know which of these to try first so use your judgement, OP.
/id/dramaticpuppet
Benjamin Diaz
Someone already said it and I'll just repeat it, maybe two people giving the same advice will let you know it's the best advice! If you are gonna see her at parties you have a great opportunity there. Girls crave excitement and being drunk at a party makes them loose. When you're drunk just talk to her and without going ott just slip something about getting it on or about your moment together where something nearly happened. Get her mind switched on to little thoughts about sex. Maybe even rub your hand off her lower back or ass a little a bit low key so she's not sure at first if you are actually doing what she thinks you are. If you do that she'll be turned on and want it. Then you can lead it to a situation where you are alone and can suck the titties off her
Adam Nguyen
I regret what I did with the girl I loved, I made her feel bad about our relationship instead of remembering the good ones. I'm thankful because she forgave me but you might not be as lucky. Since then I havent had a relationship, I'm in fact quite alone. Bud, if you're social, get out there.
Carter Baker
Whatever you do, don't go down the "mind game" route. For two reasons. One being that it's not healthy. And the other is because a lot of girls can sense when you're mind playing them.
She probably thought you didn't want her at all/enough when you didn't initiate in bed.
How was your relationship with her prior to losing your virginity to her? I think you need to go back to square one and take it from there. Romance her all over again
Elijah Nelson
>femanon here
If I can be totally honest with you, I think you should try and have a civil, open discussion with her about exactly what you're feeling now. Yeah it sucks to have to open up like that sometimes, especially to someone you care so much about, but if you want her to know then just tell her. If you love her, tell her that. Better yet, show her. Show her that you're confident and that you want something with her. It's scary to just jump into things like that, but trust me, some girls enjoy an empathetic man.
steam: melissakitten
Good luck user
Jacob Wright
Tits or gtfo Tits and will buy 20 usd game >time stamp with face Op here
Alexander Baker
Sorry bro didn't give you my Steam ID, wasn't my first priority.
/id/linoxas/
Juan Reed
I said the same fuckin thing dude Bagelbeetoo
Camden Walker
why the fuck does she have to show her face to proof she is a femanon? All she needs to show us is her tits with timestamp
Nathan Green
Not as hot Come on user
Brody Powell
well we are not going to get anything if we are too greedy, just saying.
Jayden Green
I'm offering 20 dollars for one picture
Parker Cook
It's cool, I give the Sup Forumsros what they ask for
First off it's safe to say she already wasn't a virgin long before you lost yours to her. Of course this sex may mean a lot to you being your first time and with someone you really loved, but sadly it just didn't mean as much to her, this was more lust than love.
Now, this doesn't in any way mean she's a whore or a slut, nor does it mean you're a beta or a loser or any of that shit. This is simply a case of two people with two different mindsets and two different relationship goals. You're both still young in the grand scheme of things. You're looking for a relationship, something special, and she's looking to satisfy her libido which is apparently more active than yours (again, this isn't a bad thing despite what other anons in this thread may say).
Now here's the hard truth and you honestly need to accept this tonight or you're going to have a very rough next few weeks/months/years depending on how long it takes to get over this. You are not going to get her back. Period. This is nothing against you or her, but you both are simply incompatible. She wants sex, and your initial chance didn't satisfy her, and she simply isn't looking for a redo. She has moved on.
Do not keep trying to win her over, it will simply not work, or worse, make things very sour between you two.
Do your best to move on, or if needed, forget about that part of the relationship entirely and do your best to see her as just a friend, like a sister or something even.
There are 300 Million+ people in the United States. If you are already set on finding a good meaningful relationship, you will find one eventually. But it will not be her. Fortunately you have plenty of time left in your life to improve on yourself for when that time comes.
Not gonna drop my Steam ID, I'm honestly fine with the games I have. You can pay me back by simply following this advice as best as you can. That's good enough for me.
