okay Sup Forumsoys, here's the deal
>~3 year relationship
>getting tired of gf, feels disappearing a bit, kinda want to break up but kinda don't
>start chatting up another girl on snapchat with my 'extra' snapchat account (never cheated or anything before, made this account primarily to watch pornstars and escorts on snapchat)
>other chick has a bf but she's dirty with me
should I try to cheat or just break up with gf and pursue the snapchat girl and other random sloots?
You already did cheat you idiot.
Now break up with her and stop being a lil bitch
how did I cheat? haven't even met the girl. it's just harmless fun
You didnt really. If youre done then youre done. Really sit down and consider if you will be truly happier out of your relasionship . Consider that the new one might not work out as well. If thats fine with you then leave. And dont ask this faggot board for any meaningful advice.
You think just because it doesn't get physical it means there's no cheating? Poor delusional fuck. Was it your gf sextig a random dude you'd feel cheated.
Anyway, break up with gf and stop being a little pussy.
I have this urge to get attention from girls other than my gf and I want to fuck pretty much every girl I see that's above 6/10. I have heard that every guy feels this way after a while, but it's fucking hard right now. I'm well aware that the snapchat girl probably won't work out, but I just want to fuck her
I'd be mad, but I don't consider it cheating
After 3 years if you don't see yourself marrying her than stop wasting her time dude
I don't see myself marrying anyone, ever. why would I get married?
If it isnt cheating then tell your girl. No big deal right?
Because if she's looking at you for the long haul and you guys aren't on the same page then just let her know so she can get a fresh start... better now than wasting another 3 years of her life and treating her like shit
If you know if wont work then get the fuck over yourself. Either break up with her and being a single faggot who cant handle a real relasionship or grow the fuck up.
> have comfortable gf situation
> got that onegina though
> otherwise gf arrangement is good
>feel like OP
> pick up slut from bar
> pound town, throat fuck, leave
> doubts gone.. Onegina in remission
> still with gf.. All is good
Don't get distracted from a good thing by hormones. Just sow your oats and maintain a good thing. If you fuck around and still have doubts.. Bail.
by that logic you should tell your girl every time you jerk off to porn or watch another girls' ass
It's not fucking rocket science dude.. man up
OP's faggotry level is too damn high.
finally a fucking realist who lives in this world flooded by faggots, most of which are in this thread. thanks guy
not even close to the same thing because your intention is to physically cheat on her at some point
preach
I'll need to see some snaps to give proper advice.
fantasies are fantasies. I haven't made any plans to cheat on her and the other chick won't cheat on her bf anyway. just asking for some opinions
You're a piece of shit, that's Sup Forums opinion.
If it were reversed you'd feel like shit. The respectful thing would be to bail if you want to be with other women. If you chose not to bail then stop talking to chick and never ever tell your gf.
men aren't ment to fuck one chick for eternity. it gets fucking boring after a couple of years
>other chick has a bf but she's dirty with me
>should I try to cheat or just break up
FOURSOME
I miss 2006 Sup Forums, there were a lot less white knighting faggots here back then
just read the first few comments, but yeah dude, like most people are saying, man up and end it. whether or not you think it'll work out with the bimbo you're sexting, you've already violated your gf's trust, and are just wasting her time. not right, not cool. it'll suck for her whenever you end it, but she'd sure as shit rather have it suck now than in another couple wasted years.
she actually joked around about having a threesome with me and my gf because her bf can't satisfy her lust for sex
This place has gone to shit, if you are bored of her and willing to post about her its done. Idiots
the thing is, when I was single I was a total beta but in a relationship I'm hot shit
Pretty much all your seeking here is validation from a bunch of degenerates.. because it sounds like you've already rationalized it in your mind that its ok
If she's looking at you as a potential husband and you're not ever gonna be that for her than just communicate with her man.. maybe she'll be down for an open relationship maybe not, but at least you're not that scumbag who goes behind her back treating her like shit while lying to her face
Oh OP.. are you really that fucking retarded?
This.
OP, you've already cheated on her. user is right, just because it doesn't get physical doesn't mean it isn't cheating, there are different levels and you have marked them all I suppose besides the physical part.
Break up with gf, you said your feels are just disappearing for her and that you're tired of it. Pursue random "sloots" and some other whore on snapchat.
Seriously. People aren't predisposed to monogamous relationships. That is societal and religious pressure talking.
There is nothing wrong with choosing a primary spouse, and having mistresses/concubines on the side that come and go. The idea that you need to start from scratch every time you want a new piece of ass is functionally retarded.
We've always done this shit both sides.. its edgy newfags that pretty Sup Forums use to be nostalgic about some non existent time
if you want to do the right thing /thread
if you want to be that guy and fuck around with sluts on the side than do whatever the fuck you want to do.. you're going to do it anyway
I'm leaning more and more towards this
Said by selfish assholes who lie to themselves about 'living in the moment'
I want opinions and stories/experiences
do you honestly want to be 50 years old with a 50 year old nagging cunt wife with a dried up smelly vagina?
OP has always been treated like the faggot he's always been.
>Seriously. People aren't predisposed to monogamous relationships.
How does disease spread? You're not a fucking caveman, hurry up and catch up with evolution already.
>That is societal and religious pressure talking
Granted society determines what's right and wrong, and so did religion, but at the same time some religions consider paedophilia to be absolutely fine, but logically thinking we know it isn't.
>There is nothing wrong with choosing a primary spouse, and having mistresses/concubines on the side that come and go.
Yeah, if you're a fucking gorilla shitting and wiping your ass with a leaf. Fucking hell you're dumb, just stop this retard justification of things you want.
>The idea that you need to start from scratch every time you want a new piece of ass is functionally retarded.
Functionally retarded, so not actually retarded like yourself. Who says you're starting from new or better yet, who says you set out for ass primarily in a relationship?
Relationships come and go and start up just as quick as they unexpectedly can end. If you want a different ass every night it's entirely acceptable, just not while in a relationship.
Many a true word hath been spoken in jest.
– William Shakespeare, King Lear
Ful ofte in game a sooth I have herd saye!
– Chaucer, The Cook's Tale
I'm guessing 95% of the fags in this thread have never had a gf and thinks it'll be "pretty fucking sweet" to be in a LTR
Ideally if i ever did get married it be to someone i actually enjoyed spending time with aside from the sex.. not saying its not important but you make it sound like id be marrying somebody i hate
bet in that context no, which is probably why i wouldnt be married for long in that scenario... aka divorce
Considering I'm pretty monogamous, all my relationships have been ltr, and i actually like the comfort of a loving companion... yeah i have no idea what I'm talking about
most "awesome" chicks tend to get super fucking annoying and weird over the years
You know what else is just societal pressure? Having a job and making a living. Just trash dig and see how that works out by your faggot logic.
>my last post
Are you talking about yourself, faggot? I'm in a relationship right now, granted there's benefits to both sides of the the arguments in this thread, I'm just not a fucking retard.
Want to fuck around? Go fuck around.
Want to have a relationship? Have a relationship.
Stop trying to mix the two, you can have your cake but most definitely not in this situation eat it too.
Look at the most underdeveloped countries today, or even at tribes. They have one thing in common, they don't know how to have a functional relationship that doesn't mix into the let me fuck everything that walks.
>muh life is good because I fuck loads of women
Shut the fuck up faggot, hormones pushed us to fuck anything that walked for a reason thousands of years ago. Let's grow up a little bit now.
>this
Well said user, well said.
not judging but "awesome" =/= cool/a little crazy with awesome sex
the right partner should share similar values but provide a balance to you're personality
Break up with GF.
Fuck snap girl.
Send her back to her BF she's a cheating whore.
Commence fuckery.
Don't stay in any relationship that feels "kinda" anything. It's not worth it. Go fuck the whores bro
If your dick isn't happy, you won't be happy.
Go make your fucking dick happy and worry about the rest later.
You will be happier just to end your current relationship.
I can completely agree with this, if you wanna fuck around then go fuck around, but don't just be that one dick who finds justification in cheating and being a screw up in relationships.
Let's try keep a little bit of value in relationships, I feel there's already a movement on trying to devalue and destroy meaningful relationships.
You didn't fucking cheat.
Don't listen to these whores.
> oh no! An opinion other than my own!
> better call him names and tantrum like a child
Get off your high horses.
People are realizing more and more that marriage, and long term monogamy aren't reasonable expectations anymore.
Despite your narrow points of view.. Some of us can be polyamourous and maintain a long term relationship while hooking up with other people.
I do it.. Friends of mine (men and women) do it.. and as for disease, ever heard of condoms and periodic testing?
My life is very low stress despite having a managerial career. One of my ex's is the same way. People wonder why we are relaxed under pressure.. It's because we get to take the edge off sexually from time to time in our relationships.
Now I'll relax and wait for more whining from those trapped in an antiquated relationship model.
yeah its made by narcissistic edgy retards who want to justify their actions
>better call him names and tantrum like a child
>Sup Forums
...
I'm not arguing against you dude.. if you want to fuck random girls be my guest literally nobody here is arguing against that its your life live it how you want it
you obviously feel very strongly about you're position so you stand by it.. but if you're not willing to stand by it with your partner when the chips are down and communicate that with her how you feel than you're a coward
who just likes to talk shit.. and make himself feel better by convincing other dudes to make the same choices
>You didn't fucking cheat.
Someone has clearly cheated many a times on his gf if he has ever had one, and feels the need to justify himself through you OP, how sad.
>Don't listen to these whores.
Implying those who wish to keep value and meaning in a relationship are the whores, unlike the ones who cheat and fuck around. Retard alert. This is clearly bait, and tasty bait at that.
I hear you, no worries mate
Preach!
The opposite is true of me.
>Not in a relationship total alpha
>In a relationship i'm needy and pussy beta
What do I do? I would like to be in a relationship.
these other faggots act like they want to fucking crucify me even though I haven't even touched another chick
i hate the slippery slope argument but it does have merit
rarely is any affair/cheating a singular mistake.. its a series of poor choices when you're wrapped up in the high of the moment than inevitably lead to cheating
My father told me when it comes to girls always remember the first rule of wing walking:
Never let go with the first hand until you have a firm grip with the second hand. Otherwise you'll find yourself with nothing but your cock to hang on to.
true. it just feels so fucking reinvigorating to talk to this other chick and to remember how it was like to talk freely with girls other than my gf
My new sensei.
Meh, all who has had a gf have been there. You are not alone.
Opinions are always welcome, but if it's a shitty unjustified opinion then you're getting called a fucking retard and a faggot.
Welcome to Sup Forums. Newfag.
I'm not on any high horse, I'm quite simply just trying to tell people that if they want to fuck around, then go fuck around and not try to mix it with what a relationship is.
People are realising more and more that marriage is flawed through the laws put on it. Long term monogamy aren't reasonable expectations anymore? Sources for proof?
Being a social outgoing person I know a load of people who are in relationships and yes, I also know people who love to just fuck around, and they too agree that the two should be separate.
>narrow points of view
Coming from the degenerate edgy teen with "muh hormones" controlling him.
To everything else you just said, just wow, you're a fucking retarded alright. Condoms don't always work too, and periodic testing.. you're trolling me now, yeah?
>take test monthly to check for disease
>doc says I'm only every month
>go back one month and get diagnosed with some disease due to too many sexual partners
>but muh periodic testing
You're a faggot and a retard.
Go relax with your illogical points of view, you can only see the world through the eyes of yourself you edgy egotistical narcissistic idiot.
I'm quite relaxed too, so that must be evidence relationships work well!
>but you seem angry
Oh fuck off, welcome to Sup Forums, a place I can spill whatever's in my mind without care.
i know man its the rush of hormones, endorphins, and dopamine that give you that rush.. moments are fleeting though you'll always be looking for that next high
if thats where your heads at man and you're not that into her just man up and let her know that.. if you care about her at all just try and do whats best for her
This nigga knows whats up. Been with wife for 15 years, married 12. About every other year I'll slam a strange to ease the inner douchefuck in me and then back to having a great life. Don't be stupid about it.
I care about her a lot, but I'm starting to think that I have a lot of slutty sex that I want to have with other chicks. I don't want to hurt her, and I still love her deep down, which is why I haven't broken up with her. it's just these fucking hormones man. I'm 29 with the sex drive of a 13 year old
thanks for your honesty. my parents are fucking miserable together and they have been married for over 30 years. I'm 100% convinced that they would be happier if they fucked around on each other once in a while
Best response so far. By all means stand by it with your partner. OP may be surprised at how open his gf may be to the concept. I don't condone cheating personally. I find paranoia about sleeping around stems more from the fear of losing the relationship to the third party and not the sex itself.
>it's just these fucking hormones man.
I'm the asshole who has been calling you out and entirely against cheating. Relationships and fucking around should never mix blah blah.
Of course it's your hormones, and I too in my relationship experience the same thing but as an user has already said in here, you fulfil your highs, you'll only want more. It's never ending and how I suppress the feelings is by quite literally by just not having vanilla sex with my gf.
We fuck like rabbits and are open to new things all the time. The more sex we have the better it gets. Either don't throw away what you have and talk it out with your gf about how you're getting sexually frustrated as what you're getting now isn't enough, or end it and go off and pursue whatever your brain desires.
Sloots. Always. No room for heart in the pimp game.
I'm in my 30's kid. Been on Sup Forums since it was founded. As for sources.. How about pragmatics? I know enough people in enough long term relationships (and seen enough fail) that my point of view has been experienced first hand as accurate.
Go crack Google open and see the psychology backing my statements.
Bonus points to you for proving my tantrum name calling though. Kek
Dude trust me i get it.. everybody's an addict to something.. its a coping mechanism for whatever going on in your life: misdirection, stress, unfulfillment
All I'm saying is don't drag down the people you say you love with your shit
>30
>28
>kid
>go google muh sources
>been on Sup Forums since it was founded
Oh fuck off you pathetic faggot.
>Implying swearing equals throwing tantrums
Thanks for the bait, kid. I'll take it any day.
if you're not happy, break up with her. Simple as.
>this
Why do so many faggots argue against this and tell OP to cheat?
I know we ourselves are mostly degenerates but do we really have to stoop to such a retarded level?
>Not happy in a relationship and want more? Break up.
>Not happy in a relationship and want more while also keeping the relationship?
Talk it out with your gf
Don't become a faggot like
These kinds of threads always bring out the most butthurt relationship experts. OP why would you even ask Sup Forums of all places? Take it to /soc/
I tend to be a degenerate lowlife myself, so I thought I'd ask my peers
>most butthurt relationship experts.
Two conflicting arguments are in this thread, those who think a relationship should be between 2 people and ended if you want more and have lost feelings etc.
Then those who think cheating and so on is justifiable through their own personal experiences.
Also it's on page 5 of me posting this, so why are you here reading through this thread?
What's your opinion on it all?
Learn what you needed here?
My opinion is OP already has made up his mind, and is just looking for confirmation bias to act.
Oh yeah I read your opinion further on up, agreed with it.
Well time to bail this thread, it's dead. Goodbye anons lurking.
do what you want. You will be old some day, I mean really old - ready for death. Would you think "Oh, I was so loyal entire life - so cool" or maybe "Fuck yeah, I fucked ton of bitches and had lots of fun" ?
OP here. Again, I want stories, other Sup Forumstards experiences and opinions on the matter. Also, nucleus
Fine.. from personal experience only all I can say is please don't fuck your life up. Cut ties with the girl on snapchat and don't ever take those steps to cheating on your gf again.
Get more involved with her or break it off, try repair yourself because I know how stressful it is what you're going through right now and it's not nice.
It's hard to keep up too, it will just fuck you over mentally in the long run if you can get away with it also.
The fact that you chat with her secretly makes you a cheating cunt, you don't afford a gf break up pls m8
>this
If you have to keep other girls from your gf, girls you're sexual with already.. it's cheating.
I don't afford? u wot m8
I know I should stop talking to the other girl and that it's a dick move on my part. the thing is, me and my gf have been drifting apart a bit since she may have to move to get a new job and I don't want to move away. that has been a constant stress factor for the last year
I really like the escape from reality that talking to this other chick has turned out to be. I haven't even shown her my face or told her my real name
You are all pathetic. Probably two samefag homosexuals stroking each others egos.
Take that heard mentality back to tumblr.
/adv/ for advice.
/soc/ is primarily for meeting people.
Op remember if a girl is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you she will be willing to cheat on you
>3 year relationship
unless you want to marry her, ditch her and acquire new gf
also, what the fuck is up those nipples
Monogamy is an outdated construct.