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is it possible to be happy ?

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no

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Yeah, but it depends on the chemicals in your brain.

For example, I'm only happy... probably less than 1/5 of the time. Usually it's about 2-3 good days followed by 2 or 3 weeks of being unhappy. Sad, depressed, unmotivated, whatever you want to call it. It feels like the world is working against you, the deck is stacked (which, to be fair, it actually is), and like nothing is going to go right.

I really wish it weren't like this.

Your emotions are a choice.

Happiness is an illusion

Yes. You can't expect it to be absolute contentment tho. All feelings are fleeting and will eventually change. Happiness is understanding how much worse it could be and making the best you can out of what you have.

Get good at something and learn to like yourself. Learn to appreciate the spaces between you and everyone you know. Just between us, that space leaves room for you and I to grow.

Good luck getting happy, OP.

im pretty happy

the fact that you posted porn is a sign that your pleasure center is shrinking user. this is why you question the existence of happiness

Not for very long.

Like a child, happiness comes with innocence and passion. If you lose both, then you're doomed forever.

yes and it is fucking easy just stop being a huge faggot all the time and think for yourself for once.

happiness is staying away from women... they all screw you over in the end.

I wnat to disagree with this... but i am a homosexual and never even hang out with women monotonically, and find myself to be overwhelmingly happy and fulfilled.

so you might be right?

I have several questions

Or you screwed up and can't deal with it so you blame others, in this case women.

Not true. Buying into this idea can convince an individual that it is true, however. If you're human, you will feel passionately about some things and not so passionate over others. Just gotta keep tweaking the brain and figure out what works, what's worth keeping with you, and what's best left alone. Every individual has a unique setup that works best for them.

Nope

Kind of

True

what

>being alone = happy
That's a negative, ghost rider

it iS possible to be happy done be 2 down!! heres something that cheered me up and my mom seid its healthy also! youtube.com/watch?v=1NJbT4GZIPs

Only the ignorant can be happy

>things sad people tell themselves to feel smart

yeah that actually is a good point.

Not an argument, frawg

you're right. its just a fact.

Frawg, plz, stahp

Half true. Only the ignorant can truly meet bliss, but we've all got an ignorant aspect to our personalities. Enjoy the small victories, else fall to the many failures you'll inevitably accumulated.

A lot of being happy is accepting that you'll never truly know, understand, see or solve it all and that it's extremely likely that no one ever will.

The world is not ideal and for it to be ideal to one, it would have to be a mess to another. Just get comfortable and fear if you want to fear. Otherwise, find comfort in the fact that you've got a chance at all to question why you aren't more comfortable.

eh, i'm willing to extend this to humans in general, people aren't worth investing emotionally in because they are inherently untrustworthy.

Happiness is not sustainable. Stay active and work. Don't be a lazy nigger.

eh, i enjoy being alone, you dont have to deal with drama and bullshit.

i come home to peace and quiet and no unexpected complications... i love it.

ur the kind of guy who finds a way to tell everyone you were molested as a kid huh?

No, but normies like to pretend.

Are they really not worth investing in? Is it truly better to not try at all to meet somebody you can enjoy because you know that there are so many you won't? No one's ideal and you're next, if you catch my drift.

sure, but an isolated example doesn't mean its a rule. lots of people are sad on their own. lots of people are sad with people.

its almost as if happiness is different for everyone, or at the very least not dependent on a single specific point of 'alone' or 'social'.

depends on what you define as molesting.

psychological molestation habitually over a long period of time as a teenager? than yes, you would be right.

I think you missed the point, bruv

I'm happy like 95% of the time for no apparent reason. Sometimes I think I'm crazy for it

i dont care, i was being honest with you, bruv.

no, i more meant you tell everyone about how ur ucle touched your wee wee when you were 4 and then when they all talk about how you keep telling everyone you pretend its betrayal een though you've known them like 5 minutes and decide that they're your new best friend after like 4 hours.

You are. Being crazy doesn't make you any different from unhappy people though. Your personal brand of delirium just runs a bit brighter than many. Lucky you.

i dont open up to anyone, even some of my best friends have no idea.
its none of their concern, it only comes up when people ask me why i tend to armslength people in general, or wonder why i dont have "significant others".

>i dont invest in people
>this is why i have multiple 'best friends'

top kek user.

>i can count my "best friends" on 2 or 3 fingers

even then, i dont even really talk deep with them... and they seem to be ok with it.

if you think so, you are dumb
if you don't you are doomed

You're world's a mess dude. Sit down please.

I was wrong about their point, it seems. What I had thought they were getting at was that you're the type of person that'd rather hold onto the idea of being wronged rather than moving forward and away from that role as a victim. We're all victims in some way or another. Life is not fair. So do something to make the world a little less shitty if you truly dislike the way things are.

In the short term, yes. In the long term, no.

It goes against human nature. We always want more. We don't think about what we have, we think about what we don't have. That's why people who are already billionaires want more money. Because they see other people who have more than them and want what those people have. It's like when you get a new phone, and it's fucking awesome, and you love it, then your friend gets a new phone and it's better than yours, and suddenly you don't think your phone is awesome anymore.

We can never be happy because no matter how happy we are, no matter what we have, things could always be better, and we can never be satisfied with what we have.

Since the thread is started. My I ask why you guys are so unhappy if it's not for a very specific reason? I had a girlfriend that was always just depressed for no reason and I could never understand why..

Lucky fuck

The stupid thing is I can't even imagine what that would be like. Being happy, almost all the time. I literally cannot fathom it.

yeah, no, my point was that hes the kidn of guy who thinks hes creating these deep bonds, sharing stupid shit with people then acting betrayed when people discuss it.

When you grow up in the military, and you are moving every 3 years, you tend to develop the notion that friends are short term and disposable, then it get to the point of why bothering, then you become content with your own and your family's company, the rest of the world dont mean shit, and when you are also the observing type and see how humans in general treat each other, that idea is further reinforced.

Like the concept of love, it's something that each individual should discover, and interpret, on their own. However, every culture has, for the most part, put great emphasis on the idea that, if a person creates a family, happiness will be achieved. For many people, this may be true, but modern thinking has allowed many to deviate from the norm, therein allowing people to more freely explore what happiness is to them.

This is true atleast for happiness

some people are legit depressed because they have a chemical imbalance in their brain that they cannot fix.

others are 'depressed' because they want to be, even if only on a subconscious level. there are reasons.

nah. it just means you're appreciative.

sometimes looking up and seeing cool clouds is all you need for it to be a good day.

most people get upset and 'depressed' becuase nothing extra special happened that day.

I just always have a "could be worse" attitude that seems to stave off the negativity. I guess it's a kind or childish way of reasoning, but I believe it holds truth.

It's the wiring. Some people have more links to the "wowgreat" parts of the brain and others have more links to the "fuckfuckfuck I hate myself fuck" parts. It's unfortunate but just the way things are. These people can be as happy as anyone else, it just takes a great deal more effort and understanding.

Learn to switch off, like meditating without actually meditating.

learn to enjoy the simple pleasures and seek to be content and true happiness will follow.
Now if you'd rather just feel pleasure drugs will do the job while your high on them. You'll feel worse however afterwards especially with hard drugs

I honestly think being appreciative is a key cornerstone to happiness. Even if it's just for giving the chance to be alive. It gives you a nice way to view the world

This is one of the stupidest posts I've seen in a while. You don't even have a general understanding of how the brain works.

i would be inclined to agree. nothing wrong with trying to better your situation but once you stop trying to focus on little details that dont actually affect you life gets pretty good.

If you want something fight for it. Many friends will leave you. If you don't let yourself try to keep the ones that might maybe mean something more to you, you will never lose that feeling that you fucked up until you rectify that which has been fucked. Namean, man? Your background is only the backdrop on the road that's taking you to where you one day will be. Make it a trip worth taking or don't. That's on you

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Ha. This is the issue I ran into with my last girlfriend. And I think that's one of the fundamental issues between people whose minds work correctly (yours) and people whose minds don't.

>I could never understand why
Just like I cannot understand how you can be happy all the time. Well, I can "understand" it: your brain releases more dopamine and it stays in your brain longer, therefore you are happier, longer.

But the actual feelings? Like, the experience of waking up happy 6 days a week? Completely alien. I can't imagine what that would be like. I can't imagine how great it would be.

Like the other anons said, it can be due to a specific event (breakup, failing a class, etc) and temporary, or it can be an issue with the chemistry of the brain (chronic depression). Lucky me, it's chronic.

That's the thing. I know god damn well it could be worse. I could be from a poor family. I could be black, living in Detroit, and not have any hope for a real education or career. I could be stupid, I could be ugly and short and out of shape. I could be (more) socially retarded.

And as much as I would like for it to be a specific thing that causes me to be unhappy, like not having a girlfriend or not having money, in my various experiences that hasn't changed. I haven't "had money" yet, but I always used to pin it on one individual thing. "Once I finish this class I'll feel better", "Once I have a girlfriend I'll feel better", "Once I get in shape I'll feel better". And the truth is, nothing ever gives me a lasting high. I remember the first time, a few years ago, I looked in the mirror and thought "damn, I actually look really good". I felt like I was flying... for about a day. Then it came tumbling back down the hill, and I was back to feeling like crap most of the time.

I hate that this happens to me, but I also find it fascinating.

Putting something simply is sometimes important. Clearly we don't have parts of our brain that are inherently good and bad. What I'm saying is that some people have conditions like depression that make it harder to enjoy life than somebody that doesn't have it.

Get over that need to push someone else down so that you can climb up and you might find life a little more enjoyable.

FAP TO TRAPS
or just embrace your inner sexuality that's been deemed taboo by society
it genuinely saved my mental and let me realize who I am

Eh, you dont know the half of actually fighting for what you want and getting nothing in return, i used to fight for the few relationships i felt worthwhile outside of my family... i fought for the m harder than i fought for anything in my life? what did i get for it? fairweather friends and being alienated... thats a great motivator... i went WAY beyond what was considered normal to prove loyalty and friendship.. and in the end i receive alienation and abandonment for my efforts.

>I hate that this happens to me, but I also find it fascinating.
Well there's something to smile about! Cheer up user!

real talk is it gay to be super into traps

Hardy har har.

>just snap out of it user
Just like you snap out of a broken arm, right?

just stop having an idea of "straight" or "gay"
sexuality has always been pretty fluid until Christianity really took over
its totally human to want to fuck whatever
we are animals, dont forget it

Happiness is like eating your favorite food, candy or drinking your favorite soda. Except you can't buy it or get a lot of it, think about it as a very small version of your favorite thing.

It is very hard to get, on top of that, sometimes it's not up to you who can get it but others can only give it to you. The more you search for it and the more you to long acquire it, the less appealing it is. But then It comes small enough to get a taste of it again and you rinse and repeat.

Sometimes you taste happiness once in your life, some people get it all the time, most never get try it. All hard work and suffering can't guarantee it and in turn some people get it constantly without any effort.

That's what happiness is.

Perspective. Maybe what you saw as a positive action was viewed by others and a little too much. It's hard to know who wants how much of what, but not impossible to figure out. I've been there man. I blamed the world for my unhappiness. It wasn't the world that was fucking with me though. I was just too caught up in all this extra meaningless bullshit to see that I had a way out of that and a way into somewhere that works better for me. It's over when you fold. Unless you're willing to die for a lonely and stupid cause, don't fold.

Try to be the person you needed to meet when things went wrong and watch how people flock to that light.

Protip: save up a few hundred dollars, get a really good escort, have her swallow your dick. You will know happiness.

>is it possible to be happy ?
Not from Sup Forums.

Damn I'm honestly sorry you feel like that user, shit must really suck.

happiness isnt sex for everyone
but if it works it works

taking a nice long break from Sup Forums will do wonders for your happiness

no, but just ignoring everything could be great

I second this

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only faggots are happy

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forever? no.
For a while? yes.
Just keep mixing it up until you die.

this

I was sad once

Only for some people, and only some of the time. Other people, like me, are clinically depressed and require medication to feel not-sad. But even that isn't a feeling of happiness.

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