I'm coming to 23 years old

I'm coming to 23 years old.
Still a virgin. But I don't really care. My life sucks enough and I don't have the confidence to fuck a woman.
Does anyone else feel like this? Accepting never getting sex?

I'm also 23, but when i was 21 i decided to pay for sex. Ot was a good choose. Virginity for guys is a mental block thing it helps to get it over with, so you obsess over it else. You don't have to pay but if you settle there are plenty of sluts out there.

Do you even lift faggot?

Ur just a fag who never leaves the house so the opportunity it to have sex is literally some scenario you've never found ur self in. A normal person gets the chance in a higher frequency cuz they're not on trap or Rekt threads all day like u

U fuk in fag

30 year old kissless hugless friendless virgin here. planning on killing myself someday.

Why kill yourself when you can go out gloriously. When you are ready for it to end take as many credit cards as you can. Get as many cash advances as possible. Pay some desperate people to create a huge distraction in the middle of the streets. Use it as a chance to create mayhem. Try something

I have the chances, which were promptly turn down. I can also use English correctly because I'm college educated and have a normal social life. I've deliberately chosen not to be a retard "alpha", because I'd rather not put myself in such situation.

Unless this is bait, I pity your education.

Im 18 man but ive gotten lucky. Went to a club with a friend and picked up a qt 3.14 and fucked a few days later. Try out your luck at the club if you havent already

>on trap or Rekt threads all day like u
Also, why the hell why I visit those threads? I seldom come to Sup Forums, by the way. The amount of stupid is too high. You guys have interesting memes sometimes, so I come to steal some.

>never said anything about being an alpha meath eat
So you are a mgtow incel virgin who is cccomplaning

Being college educated myself, I understand you are just as retarded as those who arent

sex is not like in movies or porn, it feels empty if you do it with someone you dont really feel something for, and it feels good when you do it with someone you feel something for. Anyway if sex's what you really want you should try to overcome your social anxiety problems, meet people regurally, that way no matter how ugly or fucked you are, you'll allways find someone that you can relate to.

Thing is, I don't *want* to. Being able doesn't mean I want. I'm not emotionally ready.

Well, your college education sure was awesome. Also, I'm not an incel. I've stated in my original post what I am.

You really sound like bait, so I'll stop answering.

self-confidence really is key. I'm 24, but my whole thing is I don't try. Sometimes you get offers, so who knows.

The important thing is to conceptualize female friends as friends first, and not as romantic partners. But if they express interest in you, why not?

Whatever, it's all case-by-case.

Accepts never having sex/ then wonders why he's a virgin

Hmmmmm

It's ok bro. I lost my virginity to a hooker when I was 24 and can't say that I regret it much.

Yeah, I know it's not like the movies. See . I don't think I'm emotionally fit for that situation.

I'm not wondering why. Do you even know how to read?

Same.
23, virgin, never kissed. I tried before and eventually figured out that there is no point in even trying. It will only lead to more pain. People are assholes and women are the special kind of assholes so you and I would be better alone.

Honestly I have the money to do this, but as says, it's probably not worth.

To all the haters, let it be known I've kissed and fingered before. Sex is different.

That's part of it. In the professional field I'm assertive and usually assume the leader role. Emotionally I'm not one for this kind of thing. If anything, I'm open for someone who is really special, were that to happen.

ALL VIRGINS IN THREAD,
GET PROSTITUTES ASAP.
WHATS WRONG WITH YOU START LIVING
THERE IS NO SHAME IN GETTING A PROSTITUTE
IM A 10/10 WHO FUCKS ON FIRST DATES
STILL DONT MIND PROSTITUTES.
DO IT UP LIVE IT UP ITS AWESOME.
NEVER TOO LATE EVER.

only 23? lol, pleb spring chicken

>36 year old virgin, happily so.

i dont have my life wrecked by some harpy i fucked just cuz i was a tard and went along with it.

I respect prostitutes and how they earn a living, but still I'm not looking for sex for pleasure. There are other much more pleasurable things for me.

You should try dating some guys. They poses the dicks that judging by the tone of your posts; you really want up your ass. Females are harder to convince to fuck you in the bum

Yes i know how to read and how to infer. I understand that you are searching for people to empathize with on Sup Forums, but anyone who talks about giving up has deeper issues.

This is more or less what I wanted to hear. Honest response from someone who actually lived through the choice.

It's not empathy for which I am looking. At best there would be a post as to give a perspective other than "kys faggot".

Forgot to mention: you sound like a sincerely good person. The comments about giving up because *they* gave up are not of relevance. For the time being I need to fix personal issues, most stemming from my last girlfriend's emotional abuse.

Looks like Sup Forums style empathy to me, but it's just an opinion dude. Honestly, if sex isn't a big deal to you then just live your life not trying to force things in either direction. I'm just saying you can develop bad personality traits self-fulfilling virginity

From my point of view, it's still worth it as a way to experience something new and I'd do it, but it's all up to you in the end, bro. In my case, I've found a girl I liked a few months after I went to hooker and dated her for 2 years, so I think getting rid of my virginity helped with my self-confidence issues. As for how sex feels if you're with a hooker or your girlfriend: well, there is a difference, but definitely not a dramatic one, in my opinion.

We'll can't help much, but be careful when taking advice because small details can vastly change situations

Well, thank you guys. Sup Forums can actually be more mature than just fucktards who like furry porn.

I know where to find them, but I'm corny enough to not want that. Still, according to it might just backfire and end up biting me in the butt.

To be honest, I'm a fairly polite person and very attentive. Within a specific situation I can usually manage well enough, but the big picture panorama is the one that's a bit flimsy. What you said about self-fulfiling virginity causing bad personality traits could make sense. I'll take it into consideration for the big picture.

sex is more tha just ohysical it can be mental too and the ohysical is just an elevstor between the mental and emotional and spiritual so if u can mentally remmeber something or emotionall intutitive understand something its better than sex the physicsl will follow likr a glove on a hand trying to unpack a piece of steak at the costco warehouse

Thanks for the reply. I'm not really into spiritual stuff, but I do agree with sex being not only a physical thing. At least not for humans and non-psychopaths. That's actually the main reason I've stepped back. I'm like a 7-8 on looks, so that's not the problem.

Well, 26 y.o virgin here, its alright I guess. I feel like I've missed out sometimes, like if I'd been having regular sex my life or outlook might be different in some way great or minor, but in general it seems most men's lives are made worse day-to-day by the regular inclusion of and interaction with women.

That said, there are young guys who haven't even gotten their woman pregnant or anything and still won't leave them despite the constant complaining of their girlfriend doing something retarded to make their day harder. I think partially they "complain" to remind everyone that they've got a girlfriend, and also obviously having one (at least for them) outweighs the negatives.

Also worth mentioning that I'm anti-social and have zero close friends, so it's not surprising I find sustaining a relationship with women so unrewarding when I find sustaining one with anyone so.

Do you have problems in the professional life because you don't keep close friends? In theory those friends can help you move up or improve your situation. Truthfully, keeping contacts has helped me land a few good opportunities.

OP here. I need to leave now. Your attentiveness and help is very much appreciated. Have a good day, everyone.

It might backfire to you, man, but it might not. What are you thoughts on women? For me, I tend to overidealize them in a white knightish romantic way, even now. And that's a big mistake, tbh.

Probably small problems like minor difficulties with some more sensitive co-workers not giving you a hand with stuff where its up to them if they help you or not. Similarly I don't help them, but most people really don't ask that often. I don't try much to get along with anyone, I don't have a normiebook to add my contemporaries, literally never ask for anyone's number unless for specifically work-related shit, I'm terse most of the time and generally seem to rub most people the wrong way.

I work in manual labour though, and trades, that sort of stuff. Being kind of an asshole is tolerable if you're good at your jobs and I am, I wouldn't say I encounter professional obstacles like say not getting a promotion or getting my shifts reduced due to my anti-social nature, but this would probably be different if I worked in say, an office etc where you have to brown nose the HR department or your head admin or whatever.