hey dude i think im like ideally the answer you're looking for mate.
hey man so uh, hear me out, I'm about the same ethnic group and i dont stand out as tall or particularly attractive
But my dude,
Really what the answer you're looking for is Be Comfortable.
Like really mate, if you're a comfortable and cool person to hang around people will attract to you, It helps that I live in a small population area and the people here are alot more chill, (Not big city scene) But i've lived in a big city and gone to HS there, currently just graduated
But dude, what you need to do is first, Be yourself, find things that you can particularly idunno be fond of.
You gotta have your own life and not seem like a lame, If a girl detects at ever that you might be lame as fuck they'll throw you to the curb for their endless lust for sex-mates but dude.
Just be yourself, find some sort of fashion (lol all i wear are plain color, but nice dark tones like dark maroon is a dope color and dark forest green, plain color flannels) and some like corduroys or nice dark blue jeans some tan khakis just really dont overthink it.
First impression is everything, don't be too available but be intriguing that the other person WANTS to learn about you because if you play your cards right girls fall head over heels in love with you if you give them the attention they want for the moment and you throw em to the curb, Just makes em want you more bro fr
I know it's a 1:57am explanation after chillin with a few mates at my house on a Wednesday Night, dude just 1. find yourself a hobby that you can be Passionate about (and that isnt socially weird, like video games)
2. Fully be chill at all times, Don't overthink
3. Confidence is key, stop worrying dude
4. Know who you are and where you want to be
5. Love
lolnohomobro
but haha those steps sound like you dont even slay poon bro