Does anyone else really like being submissive?

does anyone else really like being submissive?

like not even in a sexual way, I just like being told what to do and pleasing people.

Anyone else like this?

So I'm curious. Does it involve neglecting yourself with the consequence of lack in self-respect. Or, is it rather a role-playing thing or lighthearted thing? I guess what I wanna know is, is it deep down based on fetishising a former abusive relationship: revictimizing to cope with a trauma?

No I completely respect myself, I haven't been abused either, I just like being small and compliant

how isfj of you

me

I guess I could understand that to some extend, even if I don't consider myself "submissive".
I would say however, that to give up your will to someone relieves you of the anxiety of decision-making and responsibility. If the recipient gives you encouragement, that is a good feeling too.

I do, don't have anyone who wants to be my master tho and i'm too shy to be asking people anyways

No, but I married a girl like that. Best decision I ever made.

Yeah and I imagine you are aware of the likelihood of "wrong" kinds of people leeching of your desire to be "submissive" if you know what I mean, right?

As a recovering sadist, i can tell you that there are a lots submissive people.
That makes it so hard to not slip into my old ways. I have to be very careful when i meet new people or have a relationship of any kind.

Yeah I do, I don't want to be treated badly..

I guess you would apply to my point here, not to say "wrong", but since you say recovering (sadist) I assume it was undesirable. I think there's a power dynamic to everything obviously so I cannot possible say which one is "right" or "wrong"-minded. Think of this: Do submissive people need sadists, and vice versa. Why isn't that win-win. Even if it's about role-playing these roles.

I'm misunderstanding sadism. I think I meant dominant people. dammit

Because sadists/master types can easily be prone to actual real life abuse, and submissive/slave types can easily be prone to being abused and taking it. There's a blurry fucking line between sexual domination and actual domination, the latter of which is real abuse and can damage people and relationships irreparably.

I'm completely submissive sexually, but I hate being ordered around when outside of the bedroom. Not really sure why, but I'm sure I'd make a terrible significant other because of this.

sounds like you were born to be someone's bitch user
suck my cock :3

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that blurry line you speak of is interesting. We could go as far as saying practically the majority of people get off on being dominated say - by the state/government: having a politician (who thinks he can dominate people).

sorry, i dont do feminine penises

thats why i said suck mine, not yours silly

me

In my case, my sadistic tendencies led in to many negative things. As you start to see others either prey, puppets or enemies. It leads to narcissistic behavior and that is very destructive.

I'm on the opposite end. I'm dominant in non sexual was such as just sorta talking differently with a submissive, or helping tie her shoes, ordering for her in a restaurant, or generally making her feel little.

im a girl

we thank you for your service

cute

Yeah I guess haha, never really thought about it. I've sorta just always been the dominant type, in and out of the bedroom. Like it's more of a lifestyle choice than anything else I guess.

That is very well put, I see what you're saying. Interesting that you devided people into those groups, that seem very logical but first and foremost - practical to you narcissistic goals so to speak. I guess, someone who doesn't havo those goals wouldn't look at people in that way. Even if, they would realize they're not ouside of it, but only "in it" experiencing it among other people.. struggling to be happy. or something.

oh, nvm then, dont suck it

I would

Welp in case this thread 404s my kik is aleandres if anyone wants to share experiences or just generally talk. Honestly this has been a pretty chill thread.

you wouldn't, its only 5 inches and very desensitized, better find you a big nice cock

tbh Id prefer it if I was a stay at home wife who had a handsome dominant husbando rather than where I am now. i guess thats why im kinda of a trap

>does anyone else really like being submissive?
>like not even in a sexual way, I just like being told what to do and pleasing people.
>Anyone else like this?
Fuck no. Only betas are submissive. Dominant people like me are alphas. Fuck what people think. I'm not there to please people. What type of gay shit is that? Pleasing people smh

But i have always wanted to try sucking someone off

I bet you want to please other alphas all the time. Look at meee, I'm so alpha. and they say in return: yeah, you're OK. I'm just teasing bro

When I was at my worst, I could make those whom had fallen my prey to do almost anything I wanted. They felt loved and important and same time became more and more addicted to me and my influence. When I think how i was back then, and how i saw others, it horrifies me

so then im a beta, i see no problem here

Wow, I can kinda understand the draw people might've had. Kudos to you for understanding the detrimental effects of it and change your priorities.

we would be watching tv then i'd pull my dick out and push your head on it telling you to open wide

If you actually knew me I'd be the type who makes other alphas fear me.

Porn made you this way.

Good that you knew your place beta.

i feel you, at some point the power and superiority feels werent enough (like how you need higher doses of heroin to get high when an addict) and made em cut themselves for me and make em say they enjoyed being raped and allowed it like a whore and watch em cry on camera, its really terrible when you kinda wake up and realize what you did

ok

right.. of course. And also you can dominate others with the best lies in town ;)

well I always knew my place, you were the one who said fuck that. Shouldn't alphas like betas?

Submissive and ignorant. Typical beta.

Alphas like betas? I don't like anyone.

Just my two cents: I think betas creep alphas out. They're looking for approval all the time, and alphas be like: I can't fucking help you, what's your problem? Alphas get the shit done. Betas need it.
PS.I'm not very alpha, but I can imagine :)

i like you though :)

My reasoning right there.

Angry and judgmental. Typical beta asshole. Get a clue :)

I think you guys are missing the distinction between betas and submissives

What a waste of quads fuck off faggot.

this

>Angry and judgmental. Typical beta
Not angry and yet again not a beta. That would be you.

Thanks for clearing that up.

post steam id

I might be omega or delta, I'm ok with people not liking me / finding me attractive unless I really like them

I'm not even lying tho, despite some mean words you seem like a cool person. you're interesting at least

Whatever.

Alright. Fair enough

don't be grumpy, im sorry if i offended you

-_- you didn't offend me. Stop being a submissive little bitch that's what annoys me.

its just who i am though. and im not a whimp or anything i just like making people happy! i dont mean to annoy you

here's what I think

beats: no self confidence, will follow despite reservations, do not enjoy it

submissives: more confidence (although not alpha/dom levels), follow because theyd rather follow than lead, willing to stand up for themselves if necessary

at least this is how I feel

>hoped it was a pretty feminine sub boy
>turns out roastie
you catfished me OP
i'll get back at you one day!

>i just like making people happy!
Why??

how did i cat fish you? im 5'0 100 pounds and im a boy

cause its fun i guess

>5'0
kek, no wonder you're submissive
are you feminine lil nigga?

How is making people happy fun?? I'm the opposite. Making people fear me is fun.

I like that explanation. Submissive+beta would be pretty bad. Only sadist would take them on.

im feminine yeah, but im white

I just do what im told, i really dont want to get into a fight

"Making people fear me is fun" Why?? back at ya

I just want to be a mugi-level submissive

do you have a round thick butt?

yeah its pretty girly

I don't fucking know. I'm also kind of a sadist and blood and gore never really phaze me. Edgy I know but that is just how my mind works. I think I'm polarized since my sense of morality is not the best. Sometimes I'm on a good side then I'm on a bad side. It's complicated.

>i really dont want to get into a fight
Why don't you like fighting?

This whole back and forth between you two is making me cringe.

pics?

Well if its physical I dont wanna get hurt, and if its with words i dont want my feelings to get hurt or hurt someone else's feelings

Logically or the most humanly evolved would be to derive pleasure from making people happy, right? Because you get something out of it. Not only do you get gratification from it, studies show it, but also you get reputation, business: happy costumers, happy kids and so on. Making people fear you has its place, for protecting yourself or others from threats. But to make people fear you in general who are harmless is weird I think.

I have to say, that nothing was more satisfying than turning someone dominant/sadist into submissive. There was feeling of danger and conquest. When finaly someone like that ate from your hand it was terrible sensation of superiority.

I guess it just makes me feel powerful and more dominant.

that sounds awesome but difficult to do

will need proof

:/ not a fighter huh? Your no fun. Fighting is the best. Physically fighting is the very best though. I guess its because I tough and strong guy.

It's a natural trait. Especially for men. But the question would be in what way? It could be repeating trauma or just protecting yourself from something psychologically. Or do you think people are born to certain inclinations and such?

Both

>protecting yourself or others from threats. But to make people fear you in general who are harmless is weird I think.
It's just a sense of superiority and power.

bro im 5'0 100 lbs id lose a physical fight in less than a second

>trauma
This probably.

Then work out? What's keeping you from trying?

i dont wanna, i like the way i am

So then what happens if you're forced into a fight?

eh, this little sissy boy is boring, im out