Hey Sup Forums after 18 years of being of virgin i had sex and had a blowjob but it felt completely unsatisfying like...

Hey Sup Forums after 18 years of being of virgin i had sex and had a blowjob but it felt completely unsatisfying like it felt nice but all that happen was mostly me pleasuring her and me just there grunting this cant be all that there is right????

Only plausible reason:

You're a faggot

It's pretty much this, hate to brake it to you. Sex isn't as amazing and life changing as everyone makes it out to be, having a good wank beats regular sex everyday.

The only exception is when you're in a relationship and love your partner, then it's more emotionally satisfying.

Mate, I fucked fat chicks, I fucked skinny chicks, I fucked serbian chicks, I fucked german chicks and I fucked Swiss chiks and i've never had an orgasm. It is boring and unsatisfying af.
But I've learned 1 thing, women are the most disgusting thing to ever exist. They smell terribly, are unhygienic and don't care about you, only about their own satisfaction.

Yes. There's been a lot of medical journal written on this phenomenon. It's nothing to be afraid of user. Your gay.

You are gay

Look OP, sex isnt like media want you to think, like is saying.
BUT, let me tell you something, most people find their first experiences (specially the first one) weird, unsatisfying, etc. Its normal, just keep trying, best sex comes later on. Also, sex can be different on many levels depending on the person(s) you are fucking with, so keep that in mind. Best you can do now is fuck as many girls as possible until you find what kind of sex you like, and with some luck you will find a life partner with the same tastes.

only one this left for you then

start no-fap retards

Tried it, it's disgusting.

Exactly what I'm doing right now. Stopped hunting pussy a year ago.

You jerk off too much.
Also, you suck at fucking.
Beat it less and practice more. It will become more fun.

Sorry, missed the "no-" thought you wrote "to fap"

I 'm on Sup Forums

Nah dude im sure i was doing fucking good she just kept moaning my name amd shit but i was like meh.I guess it probably was with who i was but fuck man huge let down. And you guys telling me im gay nah son i got mad love for the vaginal cress but man it suckeddd

Its ok, OP: You fell for the "virginity" meme. Sex will get better over time, but it isnt as groundbreaking as movies and shit make it to be.

Do some drugs then fuck

Trust me on this one

Sex feels good, but overall it is kind of a let down. I've had sex with many women in many different situations. I've had girlfriends, was a swinger, had affairs, helped women have affairs, had threesomes and group sex. Overall it is kind of a let down. I've gotten more satisfaction from non-sexual activities. I'm still horny, and still fuck pretty regular, but it's something I could pass up.

Was buzzing it good man that's what made it even more of a disappointment but oh well sex is what it is ill still do hopefully it'll get better in time but i see myself just beating it to feel good rather than sex

Theres a few things that could do this and carefully consider each one as they aren't jokes:
A. You could actually be gay.
B. You could have depresison or anxiety
C. Certain medications can cause this or even temporary ED
D. You had a diety high(compared to baseline) in estrogen. Asian diets namely.
E. you're circumcised
F. You masturbate too much or grip too hard
G. Related to F: You watch too much porn. This actually changes the pleasure centers in your brain and how they respond. Jack off to your imagination about 1:3 times.
H. Performance anxiety. Whether you like it or not you've been bombarded with the message that your dick isn't for your pleasure its for hers.

Carefully consider all of these as it may be one or all of these reasons.

Really? Nothing feels better than an orgasm while high. Fapping > sex, but Jesus both are fantastic when I'm stoned

Ooops.
I. You use body soap on your junk. Not every man has this and not every soap will cause this but mens body soap is a little harsh on the sensitive skin of your genitals. This causes the nerves to desensitize a bit and the skin to thicken up a bit.

Don't worry too much user.
My first time was terrible too, basically i just couldn't cum because of how much sex hurt me, we were trying for more than an hour and it nothing happened.

Then, the second time i literally endured 5 seconds.

It gets better over time.