Has anyone been with or dated rape victims? What is your experience? Pic unrelated

Has anyone been with or dated rape victims? What is your experience? Pic unrelated

they werent rape victims until we were dating.

But they were fine with it. They new if I wanted it I would get it and they respected that.

Bump

They'll always have that promiscuity and you can do pretty much anything with them. Freaky hoes. They can't be faithful.
Im a strong guy and I'm 6'4. So whenever I grab my girl a certain way or try choking her during sex she has flashbacks and convulsions that make the whole experience not very fun and we both get turned off

The sex is great but the relationship sucks, oh and have fun waking up to her screaming randomly

>not realizing the bogbros were the first rape experience

Might be more along the lines of molestation than rape, chick I knew had been eaten out as a young teen by stepfather while she was sleeping. It was a huge fetish of hers to be eaten out while asleep but it was almost as if she were bipolar about it. She'd want to act out all these sorts of fantasies and shit and be really into it, then it happens and she freaks put and spends five hours crying in the shower. So yeah, not that great. Don't know if it's necessarily related but a few years after we split I found out she started doing meth pretty hardcore.

Op here, I noticed the same thing. I'm currently seeing a co worker of mine (nothing serious, just 3 base stuff) and she had a panic attack the first time we made out and did mutual touching, she had a flashback and then snapped out of it and was like "wow what happened?" She also says she wakes up screaming.

Were you in the secrets thread earlier? If so I was the one talking to you about this

My friends girlfriend was raped last year before she was dating him. She seems to be pretty cool about it, I don't think it effected her too bad.

No, not me. I've posted a picture of her once a few days ago but that's about it

Married to one. Has it's ups and downs.
Nothing really out of the ordinary because I've dated a few hyper sexual skanks

Dated 2 girls both molested for years by their step dad.
I would say stay away they're damaged goods bruh. Both had borderline personality disorders and were fucked sexually. You think you can fix it but you can't. Best to let them just get into a shitty abusive relationship because they're subconsciously drawn to it

Married to a rape victim. Was raped as a child and then date raped at college. Trusts no one but me. It's not bad.

Rape her. It will complete cycle.

Yeah, I'd say it's more common than not to have some sort of weird or painful sexual experience in your life or childhood, I know I have, some people just don't handle it well at all. I don't feel like rape victims who are suddenly "broken" are now damaged goods, I just see them as people who's minds weren't apt to handle that kind of experience, whether it caused them guilty erotic pleasure or actual pain.

Already have. She has a drinking problem that works to my advantage.

Does multiple rapes of the same victim count?

Oh, I forgot my point which is that the type of person who will spend their whole lives allowing one event to defeat them are probably defeatists. Doesn't make them bad people, it's similar statistics with PTSD in war.

Dated one in college that got diddled by her uncle... pretty normal, would do anything to me and let me fuck her in any hole at any time, but would not let me touch her pussy with my hand or let me go down on her. Also let me fuck her best friend Amy a few times, so that was pretty cool.

Rape victim here. This feels accurate. Some like myself, handle it better that others

story pls. do u think about it when u get off?

This guy knows.

Dated a girl who was molested when she was 11-14 by her dad.
Very intelligent. But had bi-polar type of personality. Could not trust her doing anything on her own.
Best sex I ever had though.

Yeah I'm just gonna keep avoiding grills like that. Too much work, too many games, too much walking on egg shells. It's kinda scary watching someone literally turn into a different person in front of your eyes. Like total personality shift. Seems like thats the kind of women I attract tho

I dated a girl who was raped, she was a good fuck until she went and cheated on me.

My girl was abused by her father as a child. Pretty much normal but won't let me go down on her. I guess it's common among victims to hate it?

No but a girl I went to high school with I saw year later at a wedding had been raped. I came on top alpha trying to get some ass and she freaked the fuck out and had a panic attack in the middle of the reception. Was pretty weird.

mine said her uncle never fucked her, just used to jam his hands down her shorts and try to get his finger in her, so that's why she hated it. glad he didn't cram his cock in her mouth, because damn, she gave great head.

My Dad snuck up behind me while I was praying to shrek and inserted a twelve inch galvanized steel pole into my rectum, got hard just thinking about it. This happened ten minutes ago.

The sex was great, one was a life long gymnastics student with the best ass ive seen to date, as long as there was a sense of impersonalness. Get too emotional with it and the water works begin

Yeah girl I love was date-raped when we first started hanging out.

Twisted it around where she blamed herself and now I'm in an open-closed relationship. I can sleep around but she wants to remain loyal to me. She's normal, no screaming or getting uncomfortable from my touch.

I love that girl

I've made rape victims that others have dated if that's what you're asking ;)

Also, these things happen to more women than you think.

I'm seeing a girl right now who went on a date with a guy who drugged her, and she woke up during it.
She took a year off work, and seems ok. I think it took her a while to come to terms with what actually happened, she was in denial about it for some time. The case against the guy is still being built.
She has a high sex drive and is pretty cool.
Have to watch myself before I make distasteful jokes though

all the relationships I've had but one have been with women who were raped at one point. Most cases a gang rape while they were virgins. They are either into rape play in their normal sex life by the time I got them or I convince them it's a healthy way to get those emotions out and finally heal. It's only about 50% bullshit it actually does if you're not an asshole and give them the consoling after you finish. Keeps them asking for it. I'm kind of a piece of shit I know that but I didn't seek these women out.

yeah would not recommend. miles of emotional and trust issues that will literally never end or be solved. no matter how hard you try. because theyre women and they play on that weakness and vulnerability to get what they want and its simply too much effort for them to move on. dated one for 2 years.

protip: fucking dont

Girl I'm with was molested when she was really young(5-7).

Incredibly loyal and faithful. Has some domination fetishes, but other than that normal, great, healthy sex.

your story is true and I know it lol. Experienced similar several times

Yeah we only talked about it once. Never again for 7 years… she's on drugs now

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ex-gf was raped by her ex-bf , resulted in complete loss of sex drive. it was horrible, do not recommend

Dated a girl from when i was 16 until i was 19. She got raped for her first time. She didn't handle it well. She cut herself a lot during the early stages of our relationship and we didn't have sex at all. Well we had sex twice but i didn't even get off before the freak ou started. Tbh OP its not worth it if they take it bad. You cant fix them. She left me to date a chick.

me 2 :I

Been in a on again/off again relationship with a girl for a couple years now 10 years younger than me, she's 19 and likes calling me daddy.

They like older men, want to be faithful but freeze up when hit on by aggressive men and may give in under certain conditions. May or may not submit if you don't make them feel better about their insecurities while you're enjoying the time with them.

They're not material you want to build a life with, but they're fun and kinky. We have a good time together but the quirks make you wonder sometimes if you're thinking too much with your dick.

Op here, all very interesting points. I don't think I'll really date my co worker. She and I aren't looking for a relationship at the moment. We're just FWB. I'm not too concerned about not having sex with her every day either. I'm also seeing a Chinese student from uni. And my ex who is also FWB. I just think my co worker is very cute (physically and in her personality) and sexy

Just be careful OP

Make sure to keep texts n shit so they cant pin ya for rape

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Currently dating one who was raped by her brother when she was young. It's all good. She has a strong personality, very cute and loving.

You do realize that even if he deleted the texts, the carriers still keep their own logs that they can turn over to the authorities, right? Absolutely agree about keeping records and stuff, but if you wind up in court you wouldn't be screwed just because you recently might have deleted your old backlogs.

Army fag here. Every single chick in the enlisted category has been touched or claims to have been touched.

Personally, its only worth it in the beginning, when she wants to impress you by showing off how sexual she is.

Op here. I'm leaving this thread soon, I need to go to work. Here's my co worker in case anyone wants to see. She's a 20yo Egyptian girl

Leave the opportunity to have some 'fun' up in the air. Go out for drinks, hang out whatever. But don't fall for her, you will regret it in the long run.

Carriers don't keep logs of what you text.

I've dated them, and they are just like anyone else. honestly, it's like anything else. It's all about how they take it and handle their business. Some people can't spill a drink without having an emotional breakdown, while others can crawl out of a car wreck with a broken leg or something and calmly ask for an ambulance.

Everyone's different and reacts differently to different stimuli.

My experience is they all lied about being raped

Not bad OP. Just be careful when she starts showing red flags.

Phone companies keep transaction logs of the to and from of a text message, but not the content itself.

So they know who you were talking to and when, but not what about. That's like some secret police, court order, conspiracy shit if it is kept anywhere.

I have night terrors too. Fuckin Cobras man.

Dated one who lied for two years about being raped as a teenager, then later added a second lie about also being molested by her uncle as a child. A little something called borderline personality disorder. Made my life hell but the sex was like straight out of a porn. Killer blowjobs, some threesomes, titfucking (she was a G cup) At one point she snorted coke off my dick. 10/10 would recommend

Some bipolar chick who was raped a lot because she was in a shitty neighbourhood who had drug addicted parents and a black baby at the age of 12 used to be turned on by me. I turned her on 3 times and at the 3rd time I tried to sext her and at the start it was pretty good but then her bipolarity kicked in and so she never spoke to me again. I got pissed since I was already hard and she was just a useless tease so I decided that since she was a bipolar retard I might as well not talk to her anyways.

My trips tell the truth. That being said I'd never date a rape victim. They're too annoying.

Damn, so many of these chicks have borderline huh? I'm with a chick right now who has it... and yea she's fucken sketchy... I think it's about time to abandon ship.

do it user. it'll turn into a hellscape where she takes your money and isolates you from your friends, trust me

Flasbacks will bite you in the ass. Be ready and willing to change your behaviour based on her trauma.