I hate my life Sup Forums, I'm a short, balding, lazy eyed 24 year old kissless fucking virgin who still lives with his parents.
I hate my degree, I hate my home life, I'm fucking angry and stressed all the time from some sort of shitty existential crisis.
I have no goals or desiree to do anything but in the same regard I feel trapped and like im wasting my life literally all day every day.
The most exciting thing to happen to me in years was I had a coffee date with a qt 3.14 but hey guess what, she cancelled so now I have nothing to look forward too.
I don't know what to do, I don't even have the courage or the drive to an hero.
How the fuck do I stop feeling like this.
I hate my life Sup Forums, I'm a short, balding...
start working out
it literally starts getting better from day 1
don't give up living user, dont let life win by letting it keep you down
tell you when i know mate
Yes. Get active. You'll feel better and look better. Second, get out of the house and do things. If you have a job, start saving and move into a cheap apartment with a roommate. From there, you'll hopefully have a new friend and a new start. Get out and do something crazy. Talk to strangers, ask out that cute girl. If you're at such a low point, it can only get better. Go for it OP. You can do it.
life sucks bro sorry, at least you got internet
when you lose that, yes an ... hero asap
Posted exact same shit your saying more or less, and I felt like my fat 400lbs ass was suck on a couch that would turn into my tomb. I got my ass up and exercised at the gym, and when I need a break from that I'd go on a bike through the woods. Finally ditched all the shit I was eating and drinking, now I'm down to 280 but I can fit in human clothes, got a decent job going, and got some good shit for once in a long fucking while. Owe it all to walking in parks and watching lotr at the gym.
pretend you're a confident, well groomed, interesting 24 year old experienced player who lives in a cool ass loft in the city. apply your degree or apply whatever skill you think you're best at, at a job. pretend you're happy and relaxed. practice all this pretending by doing it around people. do this for 30 days.
on day 31, you will be very close to being that person. the moment you realize that you can become anything you want... ask someone out. if they say no, kill yourself immediately.
Hey, nice job user. That's tough to do. Keep it up man, you're a champion.
Stop coming to Sup Forums. Seriously. There is little to nothing of value here. Once in a blue moon a worthwhile thread rolls around, but they are so few and far between it really isn't worth it at all.
What you've got is a bunch of hormonal teenagers and creepy manchildren beating off to all manner of degeneracy, and drunken underacheivers like myself trying to peddle pearls before swine like I have any or all of the answers.
Go outside, get on your bike, and ride until your legs falter. That's what I'll be doing once the snow melts.
Here's parting gift.
can't get surgery to correct the eye? i have eye problems too, but surgery doesn't help because i'm blind in the eye.
it can get better if you want it to, i still struggle with depression on and off throughout the years, but i did end up getting married and having kids. you can find a woman who isn't a petty bitch and loves you for you if you try.
I am active, I work out 4 - 6 times a week but even that only lasts a short while.
What do you do if you have no one to get out of the house and do things with?
That's good to hear user! Keep it up!
Does this actually work?
>kissless fucking virgin
>The most exciting thing to happen to me in years was I had a coffee date with a qt 3.14 but hey guess what, she cancelled so now I have nothing to look forward too.
>How the fuck do I stop feeling like this.
First of all, learn to love yourself and stop being a sorry emotional asswipe
Cunts aren't worth having your ressources, time and energy wasted on their goddamn self entitled delusions of grandeur
Stop letting the goddamn status quo dictate you how to breath, eat, shit, think and live
This is the first step towards cultivating your being
You lack passion and it's really obvious
You should probably start getting yourself invested into an artform or some kind of hobby that could turn into a life purpose and have fun in the meantime
Throughout the process you'll learn more about yourself than wallowing in self pity and honestly...
>the more you live, the less you die
YOU ARE YOUR OWN FRIEND
STOP LETTING YOURSELF BEING YOUR OWN ENEMY, this shit is thwarting your progress in all it's forms
You always have the last word, don't let anything tell you otherwise
Think about your own well being
Top kek
change your mindset, every time you think of how terribly shitty you/ your life is just mentally say FUCK IT and then get a down syndrome gf
this
Do you have a job op?
Take some LSD. Do research first obviously. Believe it or not the best place to buy it is online
Join a dance class, an art class, a club from meet up, anything that you find interesting. If you're doing something you genuinely enjoy then you will shine, and you will meet others that enjoy that same thing. That could lead to new friends, too. But don't get hung up on looking for dates. Focus on finding a healthy and positive mindset. Happiness is great, but don't forget that life is all about ups and downs. Focus on building mindfulness and well-being.
I've been married twice, and after my second divorce I was basically stagnant for about 4 years just waiting to die. But things got better because I stopped trying to improve to impress others, I started working for myself.
Heroin. Heroin will remove all the pain, OP. Do it.
This. Find clubs, or social groups. Join a new activity and be outgoing. Get a good, positive mindset. You're in charge of your destiny OP. Don't give up.
I need to see this eye
Kill Trump, or his head Bannon, and you'll end up with a one kilometer of wet pussy lined up outside your room fella.
yes but the hours will drop down to my shitty contract from pretty much next week.
Those are some nice tittys
Thank you anons, this is great
It's not like a full time lazy eye but if stare too long or look awkwardly or im tired it'll drift off and face the outside of my face, it gives me an awkward look and makes eye contact hard but it doesn't work very well so i don't know its doing it half the time
Nice man, that's a huge life change
Tits for you
I got an audible account so I could pick up some audiobooks to help with my personal development. The best ones I've listened to that truly helped are: The 4 Agreements, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and Flourish (by Martin Seligman). It's not quick fix self-help bullshit. You've got to put the work in, and if you do then you will build yourself back up not only to the person you want to be, you'll build to the person you can and should be.
“Treat a man as he is, and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he could be, and he will become what he should be.”
I've seen some comments putting it straight-forward and it might hurt. That's the way it has to be, though. You are not a victim of circumstance. Own your life for what it is and own your mistakes; and even more important you need to own your victories. Use those victories to build a better self and then a better world around you.
All I can say is that shits a lifestyle
I was 290 got down to 175 in about 2 years, I got too relaxed with my diet and what'd you know, in about a year I gained it all back, fml.
Now I have to do it all over again
>creepy manchildren
That's me!!
I've slipped before. Like I said, I basically lost 4 years of my life to just giving up for a long time.
You've done it once, you can do it again. And with the lessons you've learned from this backtracking maybe you can find even more success. Good luck, you've got this.
I have this too; had the lens removed because of a cateract when I was a baby. The doctor said I could get cosmetic surgery, to make the eye at least look normal, but eventually it would drift again. I could keep getting the surgeries, but they'd only get riskier with each one because of scar tissue. Fucking sucks because otherwise I'd be pretty decent-looking.
Go outside and force yourself to stare at a tree and notice it's infinite beauty, or drop acid, one of the two.
same here user,
>father died
And the only thing that keeps me up is my mother, she has diabetes, & i don't want her to suffer after my suicide.
Shits so hard, I know how to get back to it, plus I've already built up a good foundation of muscle, it's just getting back to the schedule is so damn difficult. I was putting in 7 days a week for 2 years straight
Hey, I got a coffee date with a qt 3.14 coming up, hopefully it's not cancelled lul
But hey man, shoutout to you. As a loser, I can see eye-to-eye with all kinds of losers, but at the end of the day, we're only losers because we're unorthodox, there's nothing wrong with you. I hit a rough bump myself, but I can tell you that one day you're going to die, and you can't just ride out to the next life. This is the one you got, so just be you man. If people don't give you the same time and energy you give them, fuck it. Society, regardless of what it feels like, has given a degree, a home, and food. I'm sure there are people within a few miles of you that will never get that opportunity. It could be worse, just make the best of today, and the best of tomorrow.
An hero /thread
meh. It's making you feel slighty better until you quit because of general senselessness... and feel like even worse useless shitbag since then.
Don't listen to them, user.
life is an art of pretending, isn't it?
Do it pussy