I did it Sup Forums, finally after 22 years had sex

I did it Sup Forums, finally after 22 years had sex

The problem is that I am finding more satisfaction at the fact of thinking I am not a virgin anymore than the actual intercourse

I was limp almost all the time
Only when she blowed me I had a semi hard on
I tried to make her feel good by eating her out but it probably sucked
I did try my best
I tried to remember all those mind blowing vore doujinshis
Those that made my dick hurt after hours of fapping
But just couldnt get fucking hard

What should I do?? Are there any secrets other than pills?

Any advice?
She understood my situation and was really cool about my issue but I dont want this to happen again

Try less porn and less fapping. Make a fap break and she will turn you on by putting a spoon to her mounth

Makes sense but I thought I was kinda training myself to avoid being a quick cummer

Isnt there a middle stage?

Whole reason you had trouble was nerves. I have slept with a lot of girls over the years, and went to a prostitute once. It was so weird and awkward that I couldn't get hard no matter what I tried.

Every time you do it you will be more relaxed and this will become less of a problem. For what it is worth, general health also decreases dick problems (ie. good diet, no substance abuse)

dont overthink it. usually this is just because of your nerves. if you become more comfortable you'll be fine

You won't be, don't be affraid. If you won't fap a lot and let her get you off regulary you will achieve some satisfying results

heres another case proving that porn is causing ED
stop watching porn and masturbating for at least 3 months faggo
thank me later

Yeah I was pretty nervous at the beginning but I thought I had it under control after we talked nonsense in bed and when the awkwardness was gone

I probably wont stop my fapping habits entirely but at least I'll try to reduce the frequency

I think ED is just a myth with young people, maybe just nervousness as said above

Less porn and no jerking off for a few days OP. If you do jerk off, edge and dont cum.

Lost my Vcard when I was 18 (21 this year) and had the same problem as you but over the years I found out the root of the problem was simply 3 core factors-chemistry, environment and mood.

Sometimes you just dont have chemistry with the person even tho she's a 10/10. Ive banged hotter prostitutes and my classmates but the only one that
I really enjoyed banging is my gf because we have good chemistry and I could go all day with her.

Dont worry OP, its rather normal. Find a nice comfortable place to fuck and set the mood with lots of foreplay. Communicate with your partner and youll enjoy it!

Pay a hooker
When she arrives, tell her:
>Teach me everything.

You're overthinking and fapping too much. Sounds like performance anxiety and overmasturbation are your problems user

>The problem is that I am finding more satisfaction at the fact of thinking I am not a virgin anymore than the actual intercourse

Good, now you realize that sex is overrated and to not put pussy on a pedestal.

>lost virginity at 16
>now 26
>6 relationships later

dont worry about it OP. after a few weeks of experimenting sexually you'll feel comfortable with it all. No one is a pro straight up and if you try to convince yourself you are then it heaps too much pressure on you.

sit back and enjoy what you've got. live the moment. carpe diem.

This helps. I really didnt know this girl thus no true chemistry was ever achieved. I'll try to work on my communication with this gal and see if something comes out

I doubt everyone is lying

>few weeks of experimenting sexually
I just hope I didnt misused my one in a million chance. It was hard to get this girl

>finally after 22 years had sex
Your report suggests otherwise.

What
>actual intercourse
took place when you
>just couldnt get fucking hard
?

>hours of fapping
See, that's part of the problem.
The other is that sex doesn't deserve the hype it gets anyway; people act like it feels way better than it does.
Still, cut the faps, dude. Shit, rub some skin care lotion on your poor, chapped dong just to heal it.

those slight hard ons from the bjs made me a man. I went limp after a couple of minutes tho

Everyone talks about it and I was finally part of the trend
I think fapping is my addiction (which I'll try to moderate)

Most people's first time is underwhelming. You will get better at it and enjoy it more. Welcome to the ckub, user.

Marriedfag here. I jerk off at least once a day to porn. Never had a problem getting it up. Your ED is likely psychological if you are otherwise healthy. Talk to a doctor.

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I guess I'll just need to exaggerate my first experience as everyone does :^)

I'll take care. I'm hoping this isnt pathological and just psychological as you say

Stop watching porn and jacking off. Probably will feel 100x bettter