Relationship Thread ok i know this is not the best place to talk about serious stuff but lets give it a shot im just wondering, one year ago me and my gf got together, before that i was single my whole life and i masturbated like 1-2 times a day, never had sex before knowing her but my problem is after we have sex i want to satisfy my sex drive more, she is completely satisfied and doesnt want to do anything else in this direction
so my question is, is our sex just not that satisfactory or is there something wrong with me?
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Jaxon Evans
The best way to find out is to talk to her
Leo Rivera
not reading any of that fuck you pal
Gavin Reyes
my problem is that i cant just tell her that she cant satisfy me, im not even sure where the problem is, or should i just tell her what my problem is i mean it worked with other problems as well
Aaron Roberts
Agreed. You sound pretty young OP so let me tell you something I wish I'd known in my teens and 20s: don't be afraid to have a conversation about the serious, important stuff. It saves you so much trouble. Don't be accusatory and don't be defensive. Be as level-headed as possible.
Robert Hughes
this is actually what im always trying to do we often get into arguments about her not starting to talk about important stuff, it is always my job i dont know if this is how it works actually, always thought there was emancipation or some shit
Isaac Russell
I wouldn't say "hey you're not satisfying me" Have a normal adult ass conversation. Explain that you don't always feel satisfied but make sure it's understood you are coming at her with something that is your problem. It's up to her to decide to help or not but no conversation is going to go well if you start out making it sound like her fault. Sounds like maybe she is shy or worried about upsetting you. While it may not be your fault I'd guess she feels uncomfortable bringing up things that might sound like she's blaming you (sorta like "hey I'm not satisfied after sex" might make her feel shitty) All I can say is being comfortable enough to talk about problems in the relationship is the best way to make one stronger.
Aiden Wilson
The way i see it OP,she is satisfied.
She can still give head,handjob,tittyfuck.You need to take lead because you did this to yourself.
Your bitch isnt fully satisying you?You let her get complacent.
Keep her on her toes.Women on their toes will choke that dick down.I speak as someone who is in a LTR.
Jaxon Morales
well you actually helped me there my friend, she told me once that she is worried about upsetting me, which makes me upset okay seems like im the problem i talk to her tomorrow, i need to calm down, i mean i dont hurt her physically but it seems that im kind of an asshole thanks for the advice m8
Bentley Cooper
When you're fucking her and shes about done just stop. And wait for her to beg you for more, do this until she begs and begs for more. Pretty much you'll train her to fuck you when you want.
Blake Jones
the problem is not that i wont cum when having sex, the problem is that i just want more
Kevin Thompson
I have my own weird problem:
>Have gf >Lived at parents house >Wanted to fuck all the time, took every opportunity to
>Gf gets apartment for a summer, whole place to ourselves >Spend the weeks leading up to it imagining that we'll be fucking 3 times a day >Move in >Sex drive absolutely plummets >Barely have sex thrice a week, if that
Don't really get it...
Tyler Hughes
Np and I wish you luck. Although I wouldn't say you're the problem, she probably just has some issues making her feel that way
Joseph Ward
are you talking about your sex drive or hers?
Brayden Thompson
Mine. It got to the point where she was jumping me (which is completely fucking backwards as far as we go) and I was shrugging her off. If I felt like getting off, I'd just watch some porn.
It's like when I have the opportunity to have sex whenever I want, I completely lose the desire to.
Landon Adams
Thats a you problem tho, you're probably gay honestly. That or shes fuck ugly
Cooper Wilson
sounds obvious, but maybe you just have to spice it up a little did you talk to her about this?
Andrew White
Same issue here, I can go twice or three times. Where as she can go MAX twice, dont get me wrong the sex is great for her aswell as for me. We make sure we pleasure each other the way we want to etc. Also I don't stop until she comes (90/100 times). We used to have sex every time we saw each other (at either of our homes that is. Or we even had sex in public areas like changing rooms etc.
Anyway long story short, sex is great for us. I feel like her sex drive is plummeting at the moment. inb4 no confidence, faggot, cuck whatever. Thats not the point, I just want to up her sex drive a bit any suggestions?
Nolan Martin
A bit. I have a theory that living with her is like eating your favorite dessert every day as opposed to every once in a while. With the latter, it's a nice treat to look forward to which heightens the pleasure of indulging in it; with the former, it not only dulls the joy of having it, it can make you outright sick of it.
Jayden Ortiz
when me and my gf got together we had sex literally every day, not as much anymore, i have a similar problem..
Robert Clark
talk to her about it. stop being dumb. like just tell her your sex drive is even more intense and you want to totally satisfy it. not weird. but like don't be a dick about it. don't word it in a way which just puts the blame on her