I just found out that my Fiance, her best friend and her best friends husband have had multiple threesomes

I just found out that my Fiance, her best friend and her best friends husband have had multiple threesomes.

>The four of us are friends, I've been with my fiance for 3 years, been friends with her friend / husband for the same amount of time. Friends husband Tony is a nice guy, we've gone fishing, I helped him replace the transmission on his Ford.
>They were over on the weekend, we were drinking. He cracked a joke about a birthmark on my fiances thigh that kinda looks like a duck. I ask how he knows about her birthmark. Shit gets quiet. "Oh, Sonya told me I think". Shit got awkward for the rest of the night.
>I confronted my Fiance, she admitted that when she and Sonya were living together and her friend was dating and engaged to Tony they used to share the same bed. She didn't want to give me any details, but I got the impression that she was only involved when Sonya was involved, Tony and my Fiance never went one on one so to spreak.
>My fiance said it ended when Sonya and Tony got married and moved out, and that she hasn't been with them for years, and certainly not while the two of us were together.

I asked her why she'd never wanted to have a threeway with me and another chick since she was obviously open to the idea. She said it was a stage of her life that's over, it was only with Tony and Sonya, and she loves me too much too share me with anyone else.

How should I feel about this? I feel cheated, jealous of Tony obviously, and a little angry.

I'm worried that pushing for a threesome of our own will ruin our relationship but I'm also struggling to let it go.

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>She said it was a stage of her life that's over, it was only with Tony and Sonya, and she loves me too much too share me with anyone else.

Wow thats convenient

just don't freak out, maybe give it a break? a few weaks without seeing her could help you feel better and let go. Whatever you do don`t turn it into constant fights.

Blatantly honest response here. She doesn't want to do it with you.... If a a person is turned on by a another and turned on to do things they will do them. She's just not turned on about doing it with you. Either drop it 100% b/c she doesn't feel that way about you, or Find someone who will satisfy the lifestyle you're looking for.

agreed, tell her you are now on that stage.

Since this happened before you were together and she says it is a part of her life that's over, you should let it go.
It sounds like you have a good relationship so enjoy it.

Get out of this relationship OP, its gonna bother you for the rest of your life.

Not any girl can be in a threesome, it requires a certain type of whore if she isnt the one thats in a relationship with the guy.

Get out of this while you can OP.

She wanted to fuck chad and if she needed to let another girl be involved. So be it.

You're her beta runner up. She does not have to exert the same level of sexual energy for a beta like you and she knows it.

Fiance? I'd really think that over user, I really would.

yep! It will bother you for the rest of your life for sure. Unless she accepts doing threesome with you

so during the time she was living with her friend were you engaged? If so idk why you would stay with this girl.

If she has only done a threesome with those two I would hedge a bet it was because she wanted to do that with her friend. What was just the penis. That's why she's not in that stage anymore because it isn't an option because you can't lay the wood to her friend.

Be very upfront with her about how you feel but also don't be a dick about it. Say you need some 100% honest answers from her and ask her a few of the questions that concern you the most.

Even if she does a threesome with him shes the sort that is willing to be a whore for another man. Not wife material at all.

It's really not that big of deal, if it was before you were together. If you love her, then move on and don't make a big thing of it.

fuck dude, chill out. just enjoy thinking about it. do you want to go back in time and take her virginity too? people have a past. sometimes people did funner shit than you. you cant force her to have a threesome because you missed out last time! forcing that shit never works.
if you want to push it, chat to nice guy tony about it. go visit them more. make them all drink lots. see what happens. but don't be a whiny bitch

Just leave the bitch OR make up a similar situation by yourself. Tell you have something special going on but it's just a stage of life.

It's not worth it. They are probably still doing something. It's UNFAIR towards you and nothing will resolve it.

Think about what makes you happy. Are you happy to be a cuck in relationship or... Don't be pussy whipped, think with your own brain and just get... out.

This "love" will end up with her being banged up by a black dude and him filming it like a cuck.

Get out of this OP, dump this slut.

This.

Tell her you get a threesome with her and Sonya or its over. That is if you would fuck Sonya, if not choose another bitch. If she refuses peace the fuck out of that shit.

cut those friends off right away.

The answer is simple. Fuck Sonya with Tony. Sonya will want to because it'll make her friend jealous, Tony will comply as long as you play your cards well.
Then tell your whore of a fiancée it's a stage of your life that just begun.

She sounds like a whore and it's clearly bothering you. If it were me, I would end the relationship. Its something that would eat away at me and constantly make me question her faithfulness and commitment to me.

I'd have to find somewhere else to go. My fiance and I live together.

I don't know it it's a lifestyle that I want, but it's like "she's willing to do something for someone else but not for me." We're meant to be getting married. This sort of barrier shouldn't be there. I think. Or I feel.

It's hard to know that Tony has been balls deep in my fiance, that my fiance has seen Tony and probably worn her fare share of his cum in and on her. He's probably seen my fiances orgasm face... I don't know if I want to know other people that know my fiance that deeply. I know what my fiance is like in bed, and if she's done half the things with them than she's done with me that's A LOT of things...

No, she was living alone when we met.

This is exactly how I should be thinking.

You have to talk exactly this to her, but with pacience and love.

Explain that, you would feel much better if you could have new experiences. Let her chose the other female and be very patience.

If you be open, patience you probably will get what you want.

Forcing her to have a threesome isn't going to get rid of your own feelings about the situation.

>tryin to make a ho a housewife

The only thing you can do, sit down and talk. Acknowledge what she said, as far as i heard you, but tell her exacrly what you feel and if possible why.

Or you can suck his dick.

Shes done more with Tony than you will ever see - coz youre beta in her eyes.

Get out of this OP, im sure youre a cool guy but this girl will be trouble in the future.

oh OP you textbook cuck

About Tony you will have to put in balance. If you really like him what you could do is try to even things, but in intelligent way. So start to have threesome with your wife, like I suggested here:Than, try to seduce very slowly all the three others to share the bed with you. Be confident and don't show any violence, or hate, or jelous. Be PATIENT, like a WOLF.

When you get in the act, do everything you want it with his wife. Give her pleasure. Don't bother with your wife and him (really hard - to do that, you have to remenber that they were already there). Do these things until the things inside you get some peace and you can look into Tony's eye and think ("I fucked your wife too").

overused word. they weren't together back when it happened you fucktard

Tell her it's a MFF threesome with you or GTFO

Whether she agrees or not, dump her ass (preferably after finding a replacement slut). Or use her strictly as a cum dumpster and see how far you can push it (ie, don't fuck her unless she brings over another woman).

Once a slut, always a slut.

sounds like you are not okay with it, which is fine. I don't think any sane man should be. But you are willing to let it slide, which is bullshit and the exact reason it will eat at you. The best thing you can do is tell her exactly this, your own words:
" "she's willing to do something for someone else but not for me." We're meant to be getting married. This sort of barrier shouldn't be there"

"It's hard to know that Tony has been balls deep in my fiance, that my fiance has seen Tony and probably worn her fare share of his cum in and on her. He's probably seen my fiances orgasm face... I don't know if I want to know other people that know my fiance that deeply. I know what my fiance is like in bed, and if she's done half the things with them than she's done with me that's A LOT of things..."

and that doesnt sit well with you so unless shes willing to do the same for you, peace the fuck out of that relationship before you make the biggest mistake of your life. Even if she does you should probably still strongly consider peacing out imo, because even though you got yours it will still eat at you to one know she was big enough of a whore to be the 3rd, on top of that you know the couple she did it with, on top of that she hid it from you. You will never be able to let this shit go.It will always be eating away at the back of your mind every time shes out later than she said she would be. Whenever she hangs out with Sony and or Tony and you're not around etc.
Get her into a threesome if you can then get the fuck out for your own sanity and self respect.

tony is a cunt fight him

>and if she's done half the things with them than she's done with me that's A LOT of things

So you gf is into anal and Tony has sodomised your gf.

Tony is most likely laughing at you behind your back.

im not trolling you. this is real advice. you need to beat the fuck out of tony for disrespecting you. keeping you in the dark gave them a secret with you as the outsider. beat his fucking ass for thinking youre okay with it. and dump her. theres plenty more awkward silences to come if you dont. but beat his fucking ass with a hammer if you need one. beat him down so bad no woman will ever fuck him again. beat him down with the hammer and then use the claw to rip his dick off. then throw his dick to some pitbulls and walk away from that group. yeah youll do a little time but at least youll be a man. and have a dick. fuck them dude. be a man here!!!!

Also kick Tony's ass for lying to you about it. Don't be a beta bitch.

Go to a hotel for a week, listen to what I`m saying.
Just take your stuff right now and go to a hotel, or else you`ll fight til you too can`t take it anymore. After you`re out the house you can start trying to feel better and forget about that. A week without her whereabouts, just you and your friends or family having some quality time, you`ll miss her, and decide what to do with this feeling with a clear head. Let me say it again, go now

Don't marry her. A girl who slept with another man and his girl for fun but won't do it with you is a hypocrite. Once you get married you'll realise you've made a deal with the devil's child and now owe her 50% of your shit, if not more.

I won't tell you what to do in general, but don't legally marry her.

in my experience, its not gonna work, theres no way she can be around tony and you not have constant doubts

LOL are you Ben Affleck

wow it's almost like people do different things sexually when they find the person that they want to be with the rest of their life how weird.

Naw dump her she is a whore man you don't wanna deal with that in the future

You are either a cuck or a bitch. Fuck off. the entire group disrespected him. If he accepts that he might as well accept niggers fucking her.

Actually solid advice. Leave for a week, no contact. Figure out your end of why this hurts, then return back and see how she did without you. How she was and did that week you were gone with no contact will be very telling.

I wouldnt even tell her, just go.

>I love you I don't want to share you with another woman

>but I'm gonna go take a nigger dick

You're an idiot, accept that your wife is actual wife material. I don't want anybody's hands on my wife, woman or not because she's mine. And she feels the same way, there is no issue with it.

just start treating her like shit. beat her psychologically constantly, and always go back to the fact that they had a threesome. obviously still act loving, but go batshit crazy sometimes. leave her mentally scarred for the rest of her life. sink the idea that no one will ever love her or accept her like you do.
go full sociopath on this, user.

once a whore, forever a whore. real wife-tier women never even think about having fucking trios you cuck.

Don't listen to this guy. He's probably fapping to cuck porn and trying to turn your thread into a fantasy of his. No worries on your end OP.

Reply to this post or your mother/father/dog/cat/fish/sister/brother tonight.

>Seriously though just kill them all and leave no evidence then get on with your life

keep asking her about it. like at dinner tonight, ask her "what did sonyas cunt taste like with Tonys cock up your ass?"

>This is exactly how I should be thinking
Only if you're as big of a bitch as your fiance thinks. Not only did she used to fuck Tony, she knew you wouldn't like it and they all wanted to hide it.

Top fucking kek can't fucking believe I lost to that

You shouldn't be talking to us about this, you should be talking to her.
Don't push for a threesome, but explain how this affects you emotionally.
She should have told you about this earlier in your relationship, when you weren't so invested yet. Keeping it secret and having it come out like this is not good.

Congratz, you are her safety Beta Bucks. Now that she's fucked people in all kinds of ways, she's not "willing to do that with you" means she's not as attracted to you as Tony, and this is her hamster wheel justifying it. You can do better. So do better.

Stop being such a worrisome filled sack of shit and realize that you will never make her as happy as she was when she was with them.

you're surprised people grow up?

She doesn't respect you. It sucks. move on.

You got a point there user.

She hid this from you, what else is she hiding.

Iv been married ten years now, i can say with absolute certainty that i know everything about my wifes past. Literally every last detail.

You cannot say the same. I think that is part of what upsets you.

once a whore, forever a whore you actual beta overlord

This is accurate too. Move on and find someone better.

THIS. This user knows what he's talking about.

Yeah right. That's bullshit right there.

Sorry you dont trust your wife and there are secrets between you two.

Iv known my wife since middle school faggot.

Fuck that, she doesn't deserve that kind of understanding.

The most real reply on this thread.

That means nothing.

Dump her. I mean, is there any chance this relationship doesn't end in divorce?

Go watch chasing amy. Seriously.

This.

Anything else is actually retarded. Either your cock enters Sonya's pussy while she while she watches or it's over like George Michael's life.

Yea I agree with this user

If this was a "phase" in her life, she's probably done some freaky shit, and now that her freaky phase is over the only weird stuff she does in the bedroom with you is if she's in the mood/nostalgic

simple question...could you ever see yourself hanging around the other couple now that you know this?

its gonna eat at you. you need to tell your wife exactly what youre telling us....that you feel jealous and cheated and inscure

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look at this cuck

You poor thing. I hope you find true love user.

If Tony's dick is bigger than yours, rest assured that she misses it all the time.

holy fucking shit this is literally the plot of chasing amy lmao

What's wrong bro? Don't like the idea of marrying a degenerate piece of shit woman and having her worthless friends as your buddies? ...

Look at your stupidity.

You are upset that she was with this couple but now you want here to have a threesome with you and some other bitch....

Your degeneracy is beyond compare.

You deserve a shit woman like this...

If you were a moral man who had values I would recommend that you bail on this bitch. Cut ties and start over since there are many women in the world. But since you are a degenerate like this nasty whore I suggest you stay with her and celebrate future anniversaries finding out new secrets of dysfunction that she devulges.

Your life is fucked and your lack of moral compass is preventing you from seeing how shit your reality is ...

This guy says it well. But I don't know what fighting tony might get you. Probably just arrested. Those three kept a secret from you making you an outsider. A husband/wife couple are supposed to be a 'unit', on each other's team and willing to defend each other.

I like this guy's idea. Removing yourself from the situation for a while will allow you to step back, and look at the problem clearly. Take some time to think it over what the real problem is.

To me, the primary offense would be leaving you as an outsider by not disclosing her past this far into the relationship.
If shes willing to neglect disclosing this issue, what else is she willing to neglect?

The secondary offense would be the sexual past itself.

>Keeping it secret and having it come out like this is not good.
having it come out like this seems kinda suspicious to me. i can't really imagine tony having so little of a filter that he'd accidentally slip with something like this, even when drunk (if my understanding of him being somewhat buzzed and not full-on bent is accurate). i interpreted this as a possible sting against OP to provoke a reaction, but maybe i'm just paranoid.

Post a pic of Tony, I wanna see how this douchebag looks like

What's wrong bro? Don't like the idea of marrying a degenerate piece of shit woman and having her worthless friends as your buddies? ...

Look at your stupidity.

You are upset that she was with this couple but now you want here to have a threesome with you and some other bitch....

Your degeneracy is beyond compare.

You deserve a shit woman like this...

If you were a moral man who had values I would recommend that you bail on this bitch. Cut ties and start over since there are many women in the world. But since you are a degenerate like this nasty whore I suggest you stay with her and celebrate future anniversaries finding out new secrets of dysfunction that she devulges.

Your life is fucked and your lack of moral compass is preventing you from seeing how shit your reality is ...

Dude, your friends and your fiance kept a secret about a sex life together, then the dude casually made reference to a spot on her thigh in front of as an inside to the two women? All three have cucked you.

Are you fucking stupid? Break it off. Break that shit the fuck off or you're in for a lot of misery.

give her the choice make it happen for you or gtfo.

...

Go rape Tony. Fuck that bigger in the ass.

Have a 3some but with two other chicks. Fiance b& not allowed.

Just know that every time she hangs out with them she is imagining his bulging veiny cock pounding her senseless. I bet he even came in her a few times. If you stay with her you're a giant cuck.

It might be Tony being a shithead, that is true.
If they had agreed that it was over, said agreement would have entailed them not mentioning it, so it would be over.
Op answer me this, does Tony seem like the type of guy who would try to dominate people by taking them down emotionally?

HAHAHAH Tony fucked your wife! Might as well slice your dick off and eat a shotgun shell because that's never gonna change! Or you could be a man and fuck Tony up bad and rip his dick off then rape Sonya for good measure.

if she told you early in the relationship maybe it wouldn't of been a big deal

but she kept that from you, and you found out from an inside joke that the guy said IN FRONT OF YOU as an inside joke

leave her and find someone else.. no other person i know would put up with this kind of degenerative secrecy, deceit, and lies

remember every time she hangs out with them, she imagines his big bulging cock pounding her and most likely with a few creampie endings

someone stole mummys password again

It'd be difficult to tell because we weren't there, but it could be possible. Depending on the kind of guy Tony is, he could be a gloating douche, or a 'good' guy who is concerned about OP's well being.
But the fact that the group of them tried to recover the secret by Tony saying he was 'told' of her birthmark would piss me right the fuck off.

That's the logical thing. Tie up Sonya, whoop Tony, sever his cock, then fuck sonya while he watches, then leave the country quick.

She wasn't in a relationship so she didn't have those attachment emotions with either of them, it was just Fucking. In a relationship you got more emotions involved, including jealousy. It means she's emotionally invested in you.

You felt bad enough that you came to us for legitimate relationship advice on the situation. Does that sound like a good sign to you, op?

I do think its convenient to grow out of things when it requires an actual effort. Im not really surprised tho, many people share this trait.

the trust is gone its over. talk her into matching tattoos of each others names if she loves you. she goes first and when its your turn you leave & everyone laughs

act like you're not bothered and continue to do so for a few months. don't mention it to your fiance, don't even talk about tony or sonya. keep bringing up camping to your fiance. say you want to go camping and fishing. if your fiance isn't into fishing then ask her if she would prefer just the two of you go or if you go with other people so you have somebody to fish with.

if she wants just the two if you to go camping then do so. but you tell her you want to do it again in a few weeks. let it all play out naturally, but then later invite Tony and Sonya to go camping with you guys. You can fish with Tony.

You put roofies in their drinks and let them pass out. You tie Tony to a tree and gag him. You don't want him yelling and alerting people. You tie up Sonya and your fiance - you don't want them running off. But you do want to rape them in front of Tony. Repeatedly.

From here you can do whatever you want with them. You can drill Sonya in the ass and then nut on her face, and you can do this as many times per day as your dick will allow. They'll die in 14 days if you don't give them food, and in 3 days if you don't give them water. You might want to keep the women more hydrated so their pussies don't completely dry up. Bring some moist towelettes because the women will be pissing and shitting themselves to try to turn you off. Clean them up because the rapes won't be over anytime soon.

Once you're finished you either let them die from exhaustion, starvation, or dehydration, or you torture them as you see fit. Cut them into pieces, bundle their bodies in wire mesh, and drop them into the deepest part of the lake with some cement blocks to weigh them down.

You'll be the prime suspect when the missing persons reports go out. You say that they left you there, and that you believe your fiancee, Tony, and Sonya were all having some lover's triangle.

If that was true then she would have told OP about it in the beginning of the relationship.
>"Oh yeah I used to mess around with those two"
There's also the widely known fact that women ALWAYS catch feels after fucking which you would know if you had ever been in a "friends with benefits" type situation.

Tony is creating an issue so when they break up he can fuck two girls again. Thats all. Now OP is the dickhead that is making an issue out of the past and Tony is the fun understanding guy that didnt mean any harm. Thats why i say beat his motherfucking ass. Everyones advice that he should just accept it makes me ashamed of Sup Forums like i have never felt before.

If it was just fucking and a trivial part of her past, she would've disclosed this history well before OP got engaged to her.
This whole situation is straight bullshit and shouldn't be tolerated by any self-respecting man.