Why is Sup Forums obsessed with getting/having a girlfriend? I'm not saying it's wrong, but there's way more to life than having a relationship.
There's plenty of other ways to involve women in your life too, whether its friends, friends-with-benefits, one night stands, even prostitutes exist for a reason.
No point in putting a relationship on a pedestal your whole life, it's just another human being.
>No point in putting a relationship on a pedestal your whole life
The point is you will have children with this person eventually.
Also, being in a long-term relationship validates YOU as a person. Nobody would want to seriously date someone who is an asshole/lazy/liar/piece of shit/etc.
Make sense?
If you will never have children, then you are a machine that transforms food into shit. And if you have children, wouldn't you want them to be successful?
Some people marry assholes/lazy pieces of shit/liars, etc.
Just saying.
Why do I still love my first gf?
uhhh... just cause you get one GF doesn't mean you're gonna have kids with this person... that's a huge illogical leap
And why do you need another person to validate your existence? WTF, no wonder you guys are perma-virgins, you have no personal fortitude.
Cause you're too much of a pussy to move on? Idk man, you never stop loving someone once you start, but you can definitely stop being IN love with someone.
I guess that makes sense
>Fuck women! Stop putting pussy on a pedestal! Marriage will ruin your life! Stay single and be happy you have more money! MGTOW AMIRITE GUYS!
The only people who say this are either ugly virgins who couldn't get any if they tried, or people who ended a relationship badly and now think that one woman now represents every other woman on planet earth.
Wait until your balls drop and you grow up and realize how much of a faggot you were for saying this.
I mean, it's not that I'm against relationships, but why is it so important here? Like shit, having a girlfriend is great, but it's not everything.
Never said anything about marriage being bad.
Who hurt you man?
OP is right, when I realized this and really internalized it and explored the idea, I became a whole lot happier. And eventually found a girlfriend.
Let me guess, too bitter for a relationship or too ugly?
well, i'm married... so that's not really the point here.
Honestly? For me? It's the companionship. I hate being alone. I know some people thrive on being alone.. but I definitely don't. Sex is nice, but honestly at the end of the day, I just want the comfort that goes along with the companionship.
Yea, this is what helped me when i learned it in high school, realized women shouldn't be looked at as a goal but just as people.
What about friends though? Even of the opposite sex, friends are what get you through things.
Me too man. High school relationship (7 years ago) still sticks with me 3 gfs later
Yes. They are also scum most likely.
>that's a huge illogical leap
Is it? What's the point of dating if your not looking for a spouse to start a family with?
>why do you need someone else to validate you
Well if you're the only one saying you're a good person and yet you can't find anyone to date you there might be a flaw in your analysis of yourself...
So why did you make this thread if you're married?
Becuase the demograph this board attaracts.
This board tends to skew Young
>there's way more to life than having a relationship.
literally our primary motivation is finding a mate and breeding. it is the purpose to our life. anything else is secondary.
uhhh... It just doesn't seem to make a lot of sense to need other's validation. Nor does it make sense to think you need a spouse or children in life. That's just an archaic concept.
Because I didn't get married to find happiness, I got married because i found someone I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. But i'm independently happy. As is she.
Our primary motivation is breeding, not necessarily finding a mate.
lol fuck women tbh
>No point in putting a relationship on a pedestal your whole life, it's just another human being.
> I got married because i found someone I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.
>What about friends though? Even of the opposite sex, friends are what get you through things.
Female friends are fine, I have quite a few of them myself but honestly? I don't get much companionship from them. They are too wrapped up in their relationships or guy problems. I want someone I can cuddle with, talk to about anything, confide in, that kinda thing. Sex is also nice, but not a must for me. but you can't really fuck your female friends ya know? Generally they see you as a brother type or "just a friend".
you're missing the point dipshit, our relationship isn't idolizing one another or believing we cause each other's happiness, we'd be fine without one another. It's just no point in beating around the bush and having a non-committed relationship. Plus tax benefits are nice. We don't even want to have kids so it's a pretty solid set up.
I never gave a shit about relationships and used women for sex constantly. Then I fell in love and it completely changed my life. 2 years since she left and I still think about her constantly. Fucked plenty of sluts since then but there's nothing that can replace the feeling of genuinely loving someone.
Ehh, while true, back when I was single years ago, I had sex with a handful of my good female friends and it only made things awkward maybe 2x, but it all ended up working out and we remained friends. And there were plenty of good girl friends that would cuddle during a movie and stuff. Guys friendships definitely have a different bond, but that's understandable.
Well of course, but you're not who I'm questioning here. I'm questioning these virgin asses who think a relationship will somehow give them happiness and validation. You can't even have a healthy relationship until you're happy independently and can validate yourself.
I'm a little envious. I've never had sex with any of my female friends. A few i'd actually like to, but yeah. There is always the risk of things getting weird afterwards. I'd even be fine with cuddling with female friends, but none of them seem like they'd be up for that. They just want friendship and nothing more, which is fine. But for me? Where females are concerned? I crave that close companionship. It's honestly the only reason I have ever wanted to be in a relationship at all. I just like that closeness with the opposite sex. And yeah, guy friends? The bond is completely different.
This.
You said it. Pussy is one thing, you can fuck any female you want to, but true love? That doesn't come around very often.
i used to be like that, i hated sleeping alone and shit, but it kinda wears off.... there's diminishing returns on most things in life. And don't be envious, a lot of it was just us being young and drunk. The cuddling though, idk that might have just been an environmental thing or possibly even that it's just cause i'm really not threatening at all. I was always young and innocent looking for my age, even though i was one of the bigger shit heads back in the day. substance abuse was bad back then.
>Why is Sup Forums obsessed with getting/having a girlfriend? I'm not saying it's wrong, but there's way more to life than having a relationship.
Because they are all lonely Trump supporting incels. Too fucking angry, fat, and unattractive to land a woman.
OP, I don't have friends either. So I am obsessed with whatever I can get.
you can't force friendships or relationships. The only thing you can do is initiate. I can't really help you with whatever mental block you've created to prevent yourself from connecting with others, but you can possibly help yourself.
all those things are just obstacles that can be overcome.
Get a load of this fucking loser. He's been single so long, he's given up. Now he's trying to convince us there's nothing wrong with it. Keep being sad and miserable you little bitch, you will be until you decide to make a change. 1st goal of yours should be to STOP fucking your sonic plush doll. Good fucking luck.
>uhhh... It just doesn't seem to make a lot of sense to need other's validation.
Never said you needed it. But the person who is validated by only himself and no one else is typically a weirdo.
>Nor does it make sense to think you need a spouse or children in life. That's just an archaic concept.
Since you just 100% ignored my question the first time I'll ask again.
What's the point of dating (a monogamous relationship) if you're not planning on marrying this person and having a family with them?
Why not just fuck other people?
military pilot here. largely successful by pretty much any normal standard.
Having a girlfriend wouldn't fix my problems, I knew that. The only thing that bummed me out about life was that I didn't have one. That's why we obsess about it. It will indeed fix all your problems as long as it truly is the only problem.
Oke i am going to give it too you straight.
You are masturbating way to much, /b is flooded with porn.
Nothing but lonely losers ejaculating excessively, destroying their testosterone levels.
Our only weakness , porn.
After ejaculation you are calmed you are made docile and lose all motivation.
This needs to stop, this is the reason our birth rates dwindle.
This is the reason why /b turned weak , we are all contempt wankers, drained of our manly juices that makes us /b.
We let our guard down now tumbler and reddit have grown in numbers ,they made us weak with this infection of porn.
It is time we put our sperm in nothing but jars or women, no more little swimmers waisted on webm`s.
No more ejaculation unless it is for the cause of /b.
It is time for discipline, It is time we make /b great again, It its time we stop masturbating with out a cause.
/b unite ,Abstain , Return to your natural form of frustration, hate, contempt and anger.
Your mission , no masturbation for 9 days too reach the maximum amount of testosterone in your system.
This will also flush the build up oestrogen out of your system and reduce your bitch tits.
Do not watch any porn.
Sexual stimulus causes the prostate to produce prostate fluid that over time becomes a carcinogen.
If you roll dubs or higher in this thread you get a 7/10 gf, trips gives you a 7,5/10 gf etc.
If you already have a gf you get a second one.
I believe it is because I beat myself up. I am one of the worst pessimists out there and people just end up snapping at me. Plus I am loud and love talking to people, which scares them when I get too pressuring. I am the little girl suffocating a pet bunny as it is my only source of affection and this endless chain makes it hard to stop.
You're not a military pilot.
If you are then prove it with some knowledge.
At best you're some fuckin e3 air winger.
How do you avoid the naked pictures on Sup Forums when browsing for these posts?
If you let me fuck you in your mouth, pussy, and asshole. I will stop masturbating. Until then? Please shut the fuck up. Thanks and have a great day. :)
idk, monogamous relationships are more fulfilling i'd say. plus the sex gets better with time if you know what you're doing. Not everyone needs the "insitution" of marriage to solidify their love, nor does everyone need children to feel fulfilled though.
what is an e3 air winger? is a pilot not a pilot?
what about flying would you like to know?
at any rate I think my quads just proved my pilotness, thank you
What if you look at porn but have suppressed the urge to masturbate? Am I the master race?
If you don't know what that is then it's blatantly obvious you've never served in the military.
Why lie on a Mongolian image board?
i don't even know how to respond to you
You fucking asswad. I said what is an e3 air winger? I know what the hell an E3 is, in fact I fly it.
>idk, monogamous relationships are more fulfilling i'd say. plus the sex gets better with time if you know what you're doing
I agree with this.
The rest though I suppose could be true but how many people do you know that hold such a view? I've never seriously dated a girl that never wanted to get married and have kids eventually.
I think you're part of an extreme minority.
Once again, my dubs confirm it.
I agree that my wife and I are very odd for never wanting kids. But there are people like that. The norm is not the rule.
An E3 is a military rank. An air winger is someone who serves in the air wing of his branch. It's common knowledge that you didn't know.
Where are you stationed?
There are only 3 bases dipshit, pick one.
Ahhhh......I see what you're saying now. I took that as the plane.
I'll guess Elmendorf. Don't know the others.
Oki?
well there's only three (not counting Germany) and to maintain my anonymity I'd rather not say which one. Kadena is maybe the one you're thinking of?
Here's a guideline
Men go solo, female go duo
But not always