I need to become more alpha

I need to become more alpha.
>got a chance to have sex
>acted real submissive and wanted her to take charge
>kept complimenting her and telling her how lucky and honored I am to be with her
>kept going down on her and kissing her feet and then laying on my back in a submissive pose with my hands behind me
>wanted her to rub her pussy all over my face
>she hit me a few times, I guess to provoke me, but i just let her or I kissed her hands
>closed my eyes and sighed
>couldn't stop apologizing or asking her if she liked something and pleading with her to tell me exactly what she wants and to ask shamelessly and I would do anything she wanted for as long as she wanted
>I kept acting like I was intoxicated by her femininity and would close my eyes and become unresponsive, hoping she would be flattered by the effect she was producing
>she eventually became unamused and called an end to things
>I didn't speak and she asked why I wasn't talking
>didn't respond and she got weirded out and I had to leave
Didn't get to have sex. Was hoping to be pegged and playfully tortured but didn't ask for it.

Bitched out man

I know, I was all cuddly. I can't bring myself to be aggressive

I wish an experienced girl could give me a sex tutorial

Lets be honest, just expecting to be able to lie there and let her do all the work is just fucking lazy and kinda selfish.

Sex is about give and take, you want to be a little bitch-boy and get fucked around, cool, communicate about that later. But first, y'know, figure out what she wants and give her a little of that too.

You can just expect her to satisfy your needs without even addressing hers.

Fuckin retard

You are a pathetic beta cuck. She will tell all of her friends about what a submissive bitch you are and how they shouldn't fuck you. What were you thinking man? Do you think women like dominating men? Man up or become a faggot. You will never get pussy.

Fucking omega, man. Better just an hero imo.

I'm not lazy, I am just uncomfortable taking the lead or being aggressive. I was willing to eat her out for a long time and massage her and I just feel so awkward if I try to thrust into her. I'll sound so out of character if I say "What's my name bitch?" Or something

what the fuck you are literally gay how do you not realize that

kek thread

This has to be B8
or you're just a sad excuse for a beta cuck of a "Man"
KYS

I feel like I don't have psychological permission to be sexually assertive. Like I'm being watched and disapproved of and it won't go away. I'm thinking of taking black dock and being dominated, already found a guy on grindr

Dude's not even beta, he's something far behind that

Then stick to guys and stop trying to fuck women. If you want to take something, go female. If you want to be taken, go male.

I think you need a man in your life.

>Lets be honest, just expecting to be able to lie there and let her do all the work is just fucking lazy and kinda selfish.

but that's 99% of HOT women, yes i know your 3/10 does everything you want.

I should kill myself I'm thinking

Suicide is best option

Agreed That's me

I may be a 21 year old virgin; but at least i am not this fucked up.

>What's my name bitch?

Is that how beta's actually think men talk during sex?

I tell ya h'what.

I think I've gott say something

Nothing as beta as using terms like alpha and beta.

> faggot moves OP

Not surprising since OP is traditionally a faggot.

i think u waste ur last chance

How fucked up are you?

What kind of autismo speech is this

Obvious bate is obvious.

>tfw too nice

I've actually said this to a couple girls.
It's situational.. If you have a handful of their hair, and they are vocal as you smash. Perfectly acceptable.

As for OP.. You sound fuckin hopeless.
Get angry about not getting laid next time. When you feel aggressive, instinct may kick in. I assume you have some Y chromosomes hiding in that beta body of yours.

I am a 25 year old female and at this point in my life I just want to be dominated. I want to be forced to give oral, eat ass and lick and suck a mans feet. Is it to much to want something like this? I feel like I am getting to old for one night stands and I just want to be looked after. I have a degree and a well paid job but I am so sick of control. I just feel the need to be owned.

You spelled bate like masturbate

96% of Sup Forumstards can't go 2 minutes without thinking about jerking their chodes.

Dude if you don't become dominant instinctively while having sex something is definitely wrong.

THIS

Suicide should happen

My ex was like this too, the relationship ended however because I was too caring outside the bedroom. The sex was great, although I did what she wanted a tad too often for my liking, but after we were finished I went into aftercare mode and she hated it...

Is there a sexual dominance training program?

If you like turkey sandwich pussy and hipster bitches.

r u retarded

Can you describe it in greater detail?

Again OP, if you want to be taken up the ass, don't try your luck with women. Ofcourse you could just make a post on CL and ask for a woman to come and peg you, I'm sure there's people interested, but you won't find these women in a bar.

I wouldn't mind the aftercare bit. I just want excitement in the bedroom. I want to worship a man. I wouldn't mind doing switches on occasion.

wtf fucking cucks not knowing shit

I don't want to be known as an angry person, so I don't want to have angry thoughts or be considered sadistic or be told I have issues. I want to be an alpha sex machine. I need a role model and an overhaul of my personality

Bondage was used a lot in our relationship, but it was always on her. She never seemed to want to be the dominant one, even 1/10 times seemed too much, and she'd make up a bullshit excuse to -not- have to do anything. The only fun thing was that she became really submissive whenever I was horny, and wherever I was horny.


After bondage and all the spanking and and shit though, I'm the kinda guy that just wants to cuddle. She however just saw the bedroom as a place of sleep and submission, so she hated every second between sex and sleep. I'm not the kind of guy that would yell at her to clean up the cum and grab me some water, I did that shit usually because I wanted to care... Looking back I don't mind the relationship ending, it was for the best. I've learned alot, especially about being dominant. Women just love it when you take what you want, even if by force.

Turkey sammichs are dank first off
and I wouldn't mind doming most smug hipster bitches and putting them in their place.
Here's a black Misty for you fucking happy?

You just gotta remember woman are just objects to be used for your pleasure

But only in the bedroom, not in the real world anymore. Could get in a lot of trouble for doing that shit

kek
easy bait worked
Sup Forumstard gettin' his chode in a twist because an user said something sarcastic about his precious folder of turkey pussy

Sup Forumsro, in the bedroom nobody will look at you oddly if you suddenly "change" personalities. Most women actually like being manhandled and (in your eyes) mistreated. The thing is, there's various ways to have sex, and the main two are passionate, and pure fucking. If she hit you to provoke you, she wants you to get angry. She wants you to throw her on all fours and start railing her from behind. Grab her shoulder/hair for deeper thrusts and throw in a few spanks, and you're already golden.

As you said at the start though, you're looking for someone to rail YOU. My advice is to just look for a man instead. If you want a GF that takes you up the ass, be prepared to have a "normal" relationship for a few months first.

I think I love you. Explain how you would spank your woman please.

With hand, going in a spanking motion, towards the ass.

I don't even have a folder for turkey Pussy but thanks for the dank idea Fam
also its just a picture.....?!?!?!?
Idgaf about girl in real life tbh why would I care about one in a picture.
you sound like you think your the slick/stinky troll master of Sup Forums

Do even the dominant, outgoing, strong minded, speak-their-mind girls like to be dominated? It sseems impossible to do unless you are an NFL player

Damn you, I was hoping for eroticism then but all you gave me was laughter. When you say stuff like that your meant to say you will tightly fist one hand in her hair forcing her face into the bed, and while your fucking her doggy you will alternate with hard, sharp blows to each ass cheek. or at least something along that line. The idea of that gets me wet, I'm sure if you said that to any woman she would be horny as fuck.

kek
haha
i tricked you again and got you to reply, you're so buttmad just go to bed manchild kek

Not that guy but my gf doesn't like being spanked ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
She's really a bit too vanilla

Just bitch-slap the cheeks man. During sex pain is turned into endorphines, that's why spanking is pleasurable instead of painful. Ofcourse it doesn't make them immune to everything, so go easy or hard depending on how they react. Try hitting the same spot 2-3 times, and get the cheeks nice and pink. Judge wether she liked it or not on the last spank (trust me, you'll know). If she didn't, swap cheeks or hit another part of the butt, if she did like a little extra "pain", hit the same spot again. Shit isn't rocketscience, my best advice is just to do whatever the fuck feels good at that time. If she's really horny, put your thumb on her asshole and start massaging it a bit, maybe things could escalate there too.

As much as women like to be dominated, they'll still have boundaries, and if you cross them, they'll correct you. There's no need to feel like they think you're a rapist or sadist...

I am very dominant. I go out a lot, and It comes extremely naturally to me. The more dominant a woman the more likely she wants to be dominated.

^ This is not me. check

Yo you just got pranked by the spank master

I can reply all day what tf else am I doing with my life
I'm on Sup Forums lets be real
A for effort on your part KEK

I am a female. But thanks for the tip. Generally boundaries should be made before any real domination. First time sex unless she is mostly sober and has asks for it hard, should remain mostly vanilla. A few sharp slaps to the ass is very passable though and signals to me that the guy is willing to go into kinky land so to speak.

It depends entirely on the woman, but yes, most of them will like being dominated. They don't just have sex because it feels good, but also to be able to let go of all the control in their life. It's usually women like this that actually prefer having some decisions made for them, these women don't want to be asked what they want for dinner, just say "I'm cooking, and this is what we're having". The same goes for the bedroom, they'll love just letting go and will love you for taking what you want aswell.

kek
wow i even got you to use pepe more like normie reee lmfao get fucking baited you newfag kek

Fucking spank master

That's not the spank master, you nig.

I AM

Are you a man? There's at lesst one woman in the thread is why I'm asking

Most women find sex okay. I mean, if he is going to be all vanilla I can get more out of a vibrator right?

I'm gonna split apart from all these faggots and in all seriousness recommend you trying to get into rape or incest porn, it might help you thinking more dominant in terms of sex, also stay away from all that cucking shit.
I don't know about x-change, it might make you more open to sexuality watching that shit but it might also make you a sissy.

I know. I was just letting the dude know that you were in fact, a fuck =p

I am the female

Your fuck not me u dam nig-nog.

Just accept you like taking dick and get with a guy. At least then you can find a someone to fuck you in the ass and you can be the bitch

That is not how it works, the entire education system and every second thing in society is constructed so that we learn how to make our own decisions and conclusions, if you haven't got that by the age of 18 you are seriously wasted. I really think you should get your mind straight before taking the next chance to have sex. I dunno though, I'm as much a virgin as everyone else in here.

It's a natural progression. you went down on her, so then ask her to reciprocate, or just fucking put your dick in and start fucking her. Maybe make out or something if you feel weird. How do you not understand this?

Fucking kek man, that chick probably laughed her ass off later

that is pathetic kid
how can you live with yourself?

Are you trying to out KEK me BRO?!?!??!
KEKEKKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEKEK
ALSO
"Newfag" hahaha only the cancerous autist who have showed up here in the last few years seem to throw that around like they are hot shit
sounds a lot like someone in this thread kinda

Nothing beats having someone there with you though. This might sound "cringy-beta" but I prefer alot more passionate sex, two bodies and alot of love between the two.
Ofcourse with a one-night stand you won't do this, it's purely for the sex. And yes, a woman might prefer a vibrator over a man that only knows one position and only lasts 2 minutes.

I have never cringed so hard.
That poor girl must have been thinking WHAT THE FUCK.

You will be a laughing stock after she tells her mates, but you're probably the kind of wimp who gets excited by humiliation.

I don't know how you can live with that mindset.

Ning-nong? I know Ning-nong, but not nig-nog.

it means nigger
which, in turn, means negro
and that, my friend, means black person, mostly used for males

now gtfo

I don't like sleeping up cuddled for too long because it get hot too fast. I used to sleep at my ex's feet at night instead after we lay together for an hour or two. Its embarrassing being a female with a foot fetish, I have only told 3 people in my life and they were all sexual partners.

>but that's 99% of HOT women
99% of women.

kek newfag calling me newfag? kek what is this autistic nonsense your seriously making me kek for real user, i bet you think milhouse is a meme or something kek why dont you become an hero live

I don't believe I should live much longer

NEVA. Also if that's meant to be an insult in Australia we don't really care much about that word. Not many blacks about anyway. I haven't seen any in a month. Excluding 1/4 casts.

If they're not weirded out by you sleeping at the foot end, then why not. I too get very hot during the cuddles afterwards, one of us always fell asleep fast, so either I didn't care or just moved after. And there's nothing wrong with a foot fetish, I have one too, just know there's a time and a place for everything. Despite liking feet, nothing beats falling asleep while holding a titty...

you ruin things and that is why no one loves you except your parents who are deeply disappointed anyways

stop saying kek every sentence

Netflix n chill

Tube.getthelube.com

Australia? Aren't you the guys that periodically get purged by the local birds? Whooping season or something?

Ive thought about it tbh but rather slay cumdumpsters and get $$$
I never said you were a newfag either you just implied that yourself KEK

kek be buttmad newfag kek you're so retardidly autistic just go die with your blind insults,

durr ur parents dunt luv u

ur making me ecks dee for real user

Be gentle to them Mr. Oldfag

Do most girls like having their pussy eaten or being fucked more?

My advice

NEVER DO FUCKED UP THINGS THE FIRST TIME!

It's ok after that, but on the first night you have sex just stick yo the basics

The best way to become more of what you want to be is to realize how nonsensical the alpha/beta shit is

If new relationship, yes.
If one-night stand, just fucking go all out. Build up to it and start exploring boundaries. You'll never see 'em again anyway. Unless ofcourse things work out, in which case, you might see them again alot more.