Sup Sup Forumsros. Last night I lost my virginity (20 yo), problem was I couldn't finnish (neither her), and I hadn't a raging boner (just a normal one).
She's hot, cute and has a high sexual drive. The problem was clearly me, I was high, drunk, very nervous and really tired (had a really long day).
I don't know if the problem was my condition or beacuse of watching a lot of porn has made me "impotent".
I need help, I don't want it to happen again, should I stop watching porn?
just dont be high, drunk, nervous and tired next time you fucking beta.
OP here. By impotent I mean not being able to have a proper erection without porn.
That's boring, at least high. But I'll try anyway.
Some people can't cum because they spend years wanking so they are used to that technique.
As for you boner problem it couldve been just nerves lad
These prob wasn't affected by being high and drunk cause people have sex high and drunk all the time, it's the best sex
So, if I stop jerking off maybe next time will be better?
This.
I'm 31yo and I lost my virginity last year. Impossible to cum except with my own hand. Not drunk, on drugs or whatever, just 15 years of fap...
But if you're just 20 and keep going with her, you should be OK very soon I guess !
i fap so much that porn now has no effect
>be 28
>be virgin
>whatdowithmylife.jpg
It's a matter of luck. A week ago I almost didn't knew her
Well to be honest not jerking off makes sex 100x better cause you will cum and your dick hasn't been pleasured in a while so you will enjoy it alot more
However I wouldn't go full cold turkey unless you know the sex is always going to be there like it would be stupid to stop jerking off and waiting months to have sex again.
Not cummin isn't a big deal and women don't mind because at least then they know they aren't gonna get knocked up
You lost your virginity at 30, you really should not be giving sex advice
Tinder and the app yellow will get you far, see if you bring a chick on a date she will put out because then she thinks you are classy and shit
Sounds like my first time
well, luck is being a bitch with me
Maybe stop jerking it's too hard, but masturbate less. In spain we say Las mujeres van y vienen pero las pajas no se detienen
This.
Just cut down, doesn't help going on this board tho it's all porn. Maybe go on Sup Forums for a while and shitpost, unless your Canadian I doubt you will get a hard on from it
>I was high, drunk, very nervous and really tired
Bad moment for losing virginity IMO.
It's nerves OP as beta as it sounds I didn't cum the first time either. Stone sober but I was a nervous 16 year old. Second gf was when I was 20. Didn't cum first time either. I think it's nerves and getting comfortable with that person. My current gf I never had the problem, but I have a connection with her that I haven't had with anyone else. Good luck. Don't overthink it.
Some people get so nervous, it might be better this way. People look at losing your virginity like some sacred moment. Some are just glad to get it over with.
Yeah, maybe, but you gotta find it also. You can make your own luck. My life was total shit but all that bad luck has gone in a few days
Well, Sup Forums Is the place where someone will understand me.
I needed a little help from drugs to achieve it, so it helped
Beta shit doesn't matter. But ok, I'll play it cool and see how it goes
That's why i did it. I also told her that it was my first time, and she took all the work. She didn't bother (or that's what she said)
That's normal, you were nervous.
You'll do better next time dont worry
Honestly man, I learned that when I stopped over thinking it, everything came naturally (pun intended). She knows your a virgin so you don't have to impress. Just get used to banging lol. Good luck OP. You truly remind me of my younger self.
You were nervous cause it was your first time. You'll get better
Don't worry next time just try to relax and most importantly have fun. The first time is never supposed to be great or amazing and now that you have gotten it out of the way, next time just don't fap and you'll be fine.
>high
>drunk
>nervous
>tired
And you're surprised you couldn't finish? Jesus Christ, it really was your first time, wasn't it? All of those things (especially alcohol) can be boner killers. Honestly, I'm impressed that you were able to get it up at all. Stop stressing your body prior to sex, and you shouldn't have any trouble at all.
Very common. Just lay off on the fapping. The death grib jerk kills dick sensitivity. Your dick is in love with your hand. Needs retrained. As to being high being a problem. Some stuff makes it hard to cum or even get hard. I.e., stims. While some stuff ramps things up.
Op to be honest i had the same problem yesterday, girl was fit n shit. as i couldnt get a proper erection (my wiener was soft as a tissue) i went down on her and eat her out like i were an african boi that hadnt had a meal in years, played with her tits n fingered her like I was invoking exodia or some shit, her face of pleasure was worth it, finally i could get my little friend up and fucked her right in the pussy.
Penetration aint all comrade, her body is like a temple, get that Indiana Jones vibes and explore that shit