I need advice.
I am engaged due to be married in May. However, I have become doubtful.
I have been in a relationship with my fiance for three years now, and engaged one year - living together two years.
I use to be a sailor, but I gave it up, som I could spend more time with her; I got myself a job abroad, where I would work for seven weeks and be home for seven weeks; sadly I lost the job in January officially because of management reconstruction, but unofficially because I broke my collarbone, and would not be able to work for some months.
That's were the problems arose; when I got home, I couldn't do anything myself, still she left our apartment a 07.00 and only got home at 18-19:00, very tired. I was very fustrated, because I needed fucking help, and she didn't.
Now as time has gone by, the bones have healed, but she continues to be away all the time - studying, working, spending time with her friends, training or coaching. She is gone all day, all week, we never fuck, never spend time together, and when she is a home, she just want to lie on the couch. She makes a mess at home, and then she leaves; expecting me to snuggle her, when she gets home.
I am not needy, but this is too much. She doesn't mind borowing my car og letting me pay for the groceries, but we are more roomies than anything else, and I am really concidering ending the relationship.
I like her very much, but this isn't the first time, we have had this problem; last year she was busy all November-December and promised me, we were going to spend time in January. I was set to go out sailing three months in the end of January, so we needed to spend time together - but come January, she had made a thousand plans, with everyone else, and I had to tell her, that our relationship was on the brinck of ruin. She gave me the tears and we talked, after which she decided to cancel her plans and mend our relationship. But now we have the same problem again.
So, what should I do?