So, I've been talking to this girl. We get along fine, we like each other.
Everything is going well except one major thing. She's a rape survivor. We can't have sex because she has a panic attack, we've just done mutual touching and kissing. I really like her but I'm not ready to commit to that level of emotional investment that is needed.
She needs love and care, I'm just not ready for that emotional rollercoaster at this moment. How can I break this off but still remain friends? She told me how she always thinks about me and that I mean so much to her. She sends me cute good morning texts and everything.
I find it very hard to break it off because I like her and it seems she's falling for me. What do?
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Andrew Carter
Rape her
Bentley Gray
ask reddit, not Sup Forums retard
Daniel Clark
slow clap
Dylan Lewis
Sup Forums is a "random" board...this is a random question. No issues here
Brayden Hall
if she's already messing around then she'll put out eventually
i'd stick with it, especially considering you like her
Jack Wright
>driving >song comes on >oh cool i like this one >singing along >girlfriend is making a fucking face and just waiting for me to notice and respond to it >oh shit >it's "rape me" by nirvana >she's a rape survivor >starts again about my insensitivity, her struggle and daily bravery what the fuck man
Ryder Phillips
How long have you been dating? How old are both of you?
Evan Morris
For about 3 months
Jacob Peterson
gb2facebook faggot
Robert Hill
Wait are you the OP? Cause that sounds like an attention whore you're describing more than a rape victim.
I dated one of those in high school. She would cry for attention and talk about this guy that had date-raped her. And then I'm like...wait I remember that party. You were boyfriend and girlfriend with him for like 5 for months after that.
I had to dump her because she went absolutely NUTS after 6 months or so. She even told people at school she was afraid of me, that I was going to hit her.
Fortunately people knew me well, and she had a history of crying wolf at this point, and this is the last straw, and she ended up getting ostracized by everyone at school except her best friend.
And I'm still friends with everyone from high school 15 years later, and no one wants to give her the time of day still.
Logan Evans
Not op
Matthew Jackson
Oh shhh-...you got me, man. You called me the f word. What will I ever do now?!? You fucking burned me, bring me the aloe
Alexander Carter
She is broken. Unless you want to spend your life giving and giving while getting very little in return then run away. Just be friends and have a real gf. She will not be able to reciprocate your emotions. She will drain you of life.
Justin Butler
nope. peace out she wacky eject eject
Jaxon Anderson
this is so true, I got sucked into a relationship with a rape survivor, it was pure hell
Jacob Thompson
Hmm...yeah, unless you really love her are ready to put in a lot of time for possibly little reward, it's probably best for you to move on.
Tell her that you care about her, but you realize that you're not ready for a real relationship at this moment.
Just keep it simple like that. No need to hurt her by saying "it's because we can't have a physical relationship due to your emotional trauma".
Jacob Campbell
get her therapy ASAP
Joshua Davis
actually good advice I would take it op
Jace Perry
Remember OP, it's not your job to fix her.
Only she can fix herself, and that's through recognizing she needs to see a weekly therapist for however long it takes to move past this.
Juan Bailey
Don't want a gf. Had one for a year and a half. Just want to date different women. I'm currently sleeping with 3 other women. They don't know about each other, don't know if that makes me a bad person.
I don't use them, I legit care about all of them. I just can't say no to women
Jonathan Cox
>rape survivor like rape act supposed to kill
Justin James
Top tier advice. You can be supportive without having to sink all your time and effort into her, she just has to take responsibility for herself and work towards fixing her own problems. That being said, I sincerely doubt she's worth the effort. I mean who wants used goods? And its not like she was even worth dating as far as the other guy was concerned. He just raped her and went on his way. I think thats pretty indicative of her dating potential, don't you?
Nathaniel Thompson
If you buy that bullshit you're a dumbass
She's probably in her late 20s and you're making decent money, yes?
You put the puzzle pieces together
Dominic King
and no she won't learn to love you or become easier to handle. Never. YOU will be the one who has to tipper tap around her daily needs, rather than her maturing and getting the fuck over it. she ONLY wants attention, that is the sole reason she makes it such a fucking issue. if she wanted to get over it, she wouldn't bring it up.