Been broken up with gf of 4 years for a month today

Been broken up with gf of 4 years for a month today.

How long until it stops hurting?

It takes time bro, dated a girl for a year and it hurt for a while, keep that head up

my solution to my own problems seems to be
the sort of existentialism mentality where i dont really give a fuck about any aspect of life beyond thair own understanding, or at least letting that stress go because it doesnt serve you at all whatsoever.
and if you cant understand that perspective, dont feel bad, most people would agree its a little wierd to be existential when so much is going on in our own lives. but you may just reach a point where you die within and a newer brand of madness is born
this is your truest self, accept it when it comes
all in light and love
-some random asshole on the internet

If you actually loved her and it's your first bad breakup? 1 to 2 years.

*my own understanding

trying my best

oddly helpful

not my first bad one, but did really love her. 1-2 years sounds like hell, i hope it doesnt take that long

When you man the fuck up and accept that the validation of women means nothing.
Have a drink/cigar and fap it off.
Its just chemicals in your brain, thats it

It's going to take some time, OP.
You'll be in the dumps for some time, but it'll get easier.

To be brutally honest:
You'll always remember her.
Heartache has a half-life. It never really disappears.

Not for me, at least.

Source: I broke up with a gf of 2 years about 4 years ago.

I'm with ya, bruh.

it really is
as a child i was abused mentally and emotionally
and now im a high school dropout with genuis creativity, yet all sorts of psycological bullshit that fucks up my motivation to do anything
ive been lurking everywhere since i was 14
very skeptical/cynical for my time
and im miserable to be like anyone else besides a person who doesnt give a fuck what happens
perhaps i may become a sort of famous troll or comedian
we all have dreams
and one may as well be crazy enough to go for it when they dont got fuck all else to do with themselves

It hurts until you fuck someone new
You're probably some sweatfag but someone out there will fuck you so cast a wide net and take what you get.
Just don't fuck a whale or everyone will laugh at your pathetic rebound

easier said then done, but taken on board

yeah i think thats how its gonna be, hopefully one day i'll look back and feel a happy nostalgia instead of pain

not a sweatfag, i dont think, not 100% sure what the definition of that is. but im not sure fucking someone new will help at this early stage

my brothers fucking a goddamn whale
fuckin bitch hates him and is heavier than my 6'5 dad who weighs around 230 pounds

couldnt help but giggle in front of him when i heard that bitch talk and saw her face

Don't listen to this douchebag, OP.
Stick to your principles, keep your standards.

If anything, you should raise them.

Probably closer to 8-9 months, then. Try not to overeat.

That happened to be back in December, it stops I promise. There's a light at the end of the tunnel I promise

Broke up with gf of 6 yrs. took about 1.5 yrs to get over that one. Long time ago broke up with gf of 3 yrs and was over that one almost instantly. Now I wish I could have one of the girls I was with half way through that 1.5 yrs of bad, this girl was perfect and I was just a terrible person at that time.

its overdrinking / smoking im doing now, not a great solution i know, but im working on it

i agree with you, maybe not raise my standards but at least keep them level

This guy is still heartbroken too, don't listen

the douchiness was probably a coping mechanism for an insecurity problem
it helps to stimulate our assaholic sides as well
let dick be dicks to pussies
and pussies be pussies to dicks an so on
it all dies with the rest of the other bullshit in the end
but i appreciate your standdown nonetheless

that sucks man, say something

thats why i dont want to meet anyone now, they might be perfect but im not in the right place to keep them

insecurity? everyone's insecure whether they fuck everyone or not. Insecurity just creates ambition anyway

I appreciate your sincerity.
Can't blame you for taking the hedonistic route, but if OP is planning on having a nurturing relationship one day, he's better off keeping the magic alive, even if it's only for the sake of his dreams.

Hell, it's up to him to flip that coin.
Gotta have both sides of the spectrum, so kudos.

Not easier said then done.
Its just that simple bro.
Man up and accept it

everyone else in my family is laughing at him low-key
turns out he is about as mental as she is, when they argue its like a zoo
my brother squeals like a fucking chipmunk
and the fat bitch roars like a whale

you should try throwing peanuts and fish at them

Up to 2 months to stop thinking daily about her, up to 6 months to feel good about other girls, but avoid seeing her or talking to her, it stays forever when you're in her company, you'll soon fall in love again. JU MAST TRAST AS

it makes sense though, my brothers a fucking logical genuis (174 IQ)
and cant interact with women for shit
i feel bad to say that but fuck its true

maybe he can get some decent tail when he's rich and bangs golddiggas

sounds like a realistic option. and i'll never be seeing her again, so no worry of that, we are in different countries now

eh, maybe
though i think he actually wants to start a family, though im as cynical of life as they get, i say to each their own

You should find a new gf, this will help you forget

Me and my ex of 4 years broke up about 9 months ago. Still hurts. Sorry.

Until you stop being a little bitch

seems a bit soon to do that

dammit

great advice

but have you been seeing and hooking up with other girls? surely right?

Show me how big your dick is... I'll 440 let 344 you 5438 know