My dad is about to die Sup Forums, feels thread?

My dad is about to die Sup Forums, feels thread?

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dude...that fuking sucks, what is he gonna die from?

Sorry user. That sucks. Here's a cat.

I'm sorry user I know how awful that is. I worry about my dad constantly. If he was gone I'd have no one left.

cirrhosis, it's now at the point of blood transfusions.

keep strong Sup Forumsro, never give up and start enjoying life, I only come here for the porn and at bad times the rekt

I'm sorry user, iktf bro. My dad's gone too man, granted I never got to spend time with him..

I'm so fucking sorry Sup Forumsrother
I know it's nothing as serious as this, but I'm suffering from MDD and social anxiety
On Friday I told girl I love about my feelings to her. She hasn't said anything, just walked away confused without any word. I'm in love with her around 3 years now
>Inb4 faggot kys

My dad ran off with a hooker and left me and my mother to fend for ourselves.

Here's a shitty comic to make you laugh OP.

Tell him how much you love him, and drink some beer with him

Hey OP I know we don't know each other, but I have lost a parent to disease as well. My mom dies two years ago to cancer, and I'm not gonna lie, it sucks. My advice would be to stay as strong as possible, and to surround yourself with people that love and support you. Never ever lose the memories you have of your dad, and keep doing what you love.

Prepare for a rollercoaster of feels, but know this, He'll always smile at you even though it is the socalled end.

man, im right there with you, this post will probably get me banned but im 16 and the doctors said my dad has three years left, black lung. he was coal miner for the entirety of his life. idk what to do or home to react, he's had like 4 heart attacks and he's still pushing on. idk what to do man

I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.

My dad was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimers this year. I'm so afraid about the slow spiral down that people always talk about. I don't wanna be there to witness it, but I know I'll have to.

I'm so sorry to hear that..

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Thanks man... Your .gif made me tear up a little, tbh

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sorry to hear about you dad, OP

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speak for yourself, i hope my dad dies

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Have talked with her since?

I'm sorry user. My dad died too, heart problems. He was the only person I ever trusted. I miss him so goddamn much.

Sorry for your loss, he is still here and he loves you enough to be this sad about the fact that he is probably going to be gone soon, don't give up in life and make him proud by becoming the man you would like to be, by becoming the father he was.

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Get the fuck off Sup Forums and go spend as much time with him as possible while you still can

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u have us

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No, I'm too stressed out to do this

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Make a wish, anons.

You could send her a text, asking her if she has anything to say about what you told her on friday.

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WV coal miner family? Shit, 16 for you is probably like 30 for everyone else, so I wouldn't ban you. Especially with what you're going through.

I'll try, thanks man

I lost my mother to a 4 year battle with stage 4 cancer. Watched her take the last breath and all. Like most people, i believed that once she was gone, she was gone for good.
I've come to realize that that wasnt true. Shortly after she died, things of hers in the house would end up in different spots without anybody touching them or even going in the room. Small Pictures inside of frames going missing. Her drawers appearing to be rummaged through when nobody had gone through them...finding receipts over 10 years old laying neatly in plain view with her signature on it...and upon finding these things, not once did i feel scared or spooked. I felt comfy. She was there. Her energy was still sentient, and so positive; and this is coming from somebody who was not at all spiritual. Nowadays after seeing these little things, i am more than confident that loves ones energies can still be with you and that there is more after death in our realm.

Tl;dr your daddy is gonna stick around with you, bud. Even if he leaves his earthly body. He will more than likely find a way to show you that he'll still be around.

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Thats pretty fucked dude. Once you lose someone that close to you it takes something from you.

Sorry, gotta call bullshit on this one. I truly love my wife. I've greentexted my story in feels threads recently. You may have seen it.

he's not close to me at all, i haven't seen him for years

Shit sucks, OP. Lost my dad four years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think of him.

No problem man. Just remember that no matter how this turns out, at least you took the chance of sharing your emotions. That in and of itself is a good thing, a move towards a more assertive version of you.

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Ending on a personal favourite.

Don't believe this shit op. Enjoy the last of your time with him and make it count. Don't think that once he dies he'll be some buddy spirit that will hang out at home all day. I mean this in the most sincere way. Ask him about his childhood. Ask him for story's about his life he's never told you before. Ask him for his advice. I didn't do this when my passed. It's my biggest regret.

Whatever happens to him, I do know he will live on in me until i die. He will be with me until i die and join him.

My father-in-law died on December 21st, 2012, fucking Mayan calendar "end of the world day". Congestive heart failure. It was apparently too late for the LVAD pump. We told him he wouldn't be alone.
He wasn't. We were there with him til the end.
I had never seen someone die before. I hope I never do again. It was like 3AM. But I'd do it again if I had to.

I kinda wish I'd been there when my dad died two years ago. My mom and sister were, and my sister told me she was glad I wasn't. They shaved his beard off for who the fuck knows why.

So I know those feels, OP. I know them way too well. My dad was 87. Not exactly young, but still not as old as I thought he'd get.

My wife's dad was only 63 though. Definitely a lot harder losing him.

It hurts, and it's hard to deal with, but you can make it. But like someone else said, spend as much fucking time with that man as you can!

My dad died when I was 15, he could have really died at anytime due to the fact that he had hepatitis c and developed into stage 4 liver disease, right before cancer. The process of the disease was also accelerated around 20 years probably because of the shitty apartments we lived in. They had roaches and we would bomb the place once a week and he would be the one doing it, breathing in all of the toxins and shit, at this time no one knew he had hepatitis. He finally got on a treatment for it around 2 and half months before he died, he had "beaten" it a week before he died. He died almost instantly due to something with the heart, he also died in his sleep. The most surreal thing was it was just a normal day, I was playing Cs go and my little brother came into the room yelling to help mom because dad wouldn't wake up. My heart sank and I rushed into to try to wake him up, but he wouldn't so my mom called 911 and we had to move him off the bed onto the ground to perform CPR, at this point I had to carry my already deceased father and watch my mother do essentially pointless CPR to try to bring him back. I ended up getting PTSD from it and for the first month after he passed, if I heard my brother yell for something across the house my heart would sink and I'd rush into the room he was in, sweating, making sure he was ok. It scared the living shit out of me everytime. I still have a slight case of PTSD due to the fact that I never went to a psychologist or anything to treat it. I hope everything goes well with your dad user i know what it feels like all too well.

Thanks for the dump, user. Much appreciated

What i said does not translate to her being some buddy buddy ghost that hangs out around the house all of the time. Not at all. Come on, be a little bit nore open minded and think outside the box, man. Death, mortality, sentience and energy and spirit are most definitely not straight cut black and white concepts and realities. Theres alot more to this existence than any of us will ever be able to comprehend.

All of you are amazing. My own dad has been in and out of the hospital for years for alcohol abuse and the damage it has done to his body. I fucking love that man with all my heart. Thank you all for being here and being amazing. Thank you for your stories and sharing your experiences. I know now that I must cherish the time that I have with him. He is 75. Thank you all.

dumping what I have for you, OP. I lost my dad, too.

was it screencapped?

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I like terry pratchett if you haven't noticed

You'll find him in the next universe. Just know you're never far from home.

I've always found peace in the grip of the beat.

The cool part about this though, is that the notion of "THE ONE" is basically bullshit. There are a lot of "the one"s out there. Just because you THINK you'll never meet another one who will set your heart on fire like she (or he) did doesn't mean it's true.
40yo happilymarriedfag here. Speaking from experience. :-)

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magnificent author.

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I guess somebody did, but I might have copypasta'd it on my phone...

Ah yes, here it is:

>be me in 1994
>be 17yo kissless virgin
>senior year in hs
>nevermind the previous years of failed attempts to get girls
>basketball player preppy pricks got all the bitches
>loved brown-eyed brunette for 5 years
>head-over-heels
>basketballbro fucked her
>she never loved me
>was just really nice to me
>i was cringy friendzonefedorafag before you kids were even born!

and that's not even the story!

>new blonde girl shows up
>weird, kinda on the same wavelength
>all other guys consider her too nerdy and ugly
>i still want her anyway
>eat lunch together a lot
>really like her
>too scared from multiple rejections to make move
>then one day she comes in with fake laughter
>as if she was so amused, but she was likely really crushed
>her frienemy liked me
>"ha. ha. ha. this. is. so. funny. i. am. about. to. fall. out"
>"ha. ha. ha. i now somebody who likes you."
>uncharacteristically bold and hopeful move from me
>i ask, "you?"
>the most deadpan "no fucking way" look from her
>(spoiler alert from 1997: she actually did like me)
>"um, no. my frienemy likes you"
>no she didn't call her that, but i'm not using names, duh
>frienemy had blue hair (lol xd wow so wild for 90s)
>frienemy went to another school, saw me playing football
>yeah, i played my senior year and kept the bench warm for the real players
>blonde gave me frienemy's number
>long distance cuz phone stuff was stupid back then
>meet her at xmas play drama club field trip

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im sitting here wondering why this hit me so hard. i think its because when i was kid i moved at least 7 times before i was 13 so i had to leave so many friends behind. so many i would never talk to again. i dont know if their dead or in jail or happily married. i just wish i had a chance to say goodbye. they shaped and molded who i am and i wish i could thank them. i realize now why my greatest fear has always been not being able to say goodbye.

Truly. No one else had the ability to make me laugh and think at the same time. After I'd finished each of his books I'd just sit there and digest what happened for a while. They brought me to tears sometimes. My favorites are probably Night Watch and Reaper Man.

He is one of the people I never knew personally, whose death actually affected me like losing a family member.

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>took him an hour to play a 45 minute piece

Not the best violinist after all, eh?

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mine are the hogfather and the wee free men, the word pictures he paints are so vivid i feel like im walking in the books themselves

if my dad died i would feel nothing but apathy.

I'm very sorry son.

Be with him now.

this breaks my heart but I don't know why. context?

I wish it would get better.

>we meet, say hi
>nervous af bc i CANNOT fuck this up!
>any wrong move i make will scare her away and she probably doesnt even like me anyway
>sit next to her away from rest of class
>she sits RIGHT NEXT TO ME
>i mean her leg touching my leg
>holyshitwtfomg
>i am terrified, not of her, but of somehow fucking this up, making her run screaming away, etc.
>remember, girls have given me nothing but rejection up to this point
>this is my ONE CHANCE ONLY EVER and if i fuck this up im foreveralone
>night ends and we say bye
>rest of drama club is all like, "user wtf were you doing? you were off alone with a girl, you get laid? lol" etc.
>assure them that nothing happened
bc truth
>next day at school, blonde says frienemy thought i was afraid of her
>honestly tell blonde i was just afraid of scaring frienemy away
>talk to frienemy on phone again another night
>meet at the mall
>me, her, and 2 of her friends walk around mall
>i act goofy bc i am
>end of evening, hug her (omg i'm hugging a grill!) and suddenly she's kissing me
>HOLY FUCK I'M KISSING A GIRL WTF HOW DID THIS HAPPEN?!
>try to be cool and tell her i'll see her later
>she acts like wow that was a great kiss or something
>talk to her on phone that night and she's like, "you sure caught me off-guard!"
>ask "when?"
>she says, "when you kissed me!"
>awkward convo about how i thought she kissed me (in retrospect, of course she did; she knew exactly what she was doing)
>see her more often in coming weeks
>kiss a lot bc omg, kissing a girl!
>finally get some alone time
>touch boobs for the first time
>HOLY SHIT, I'M TOUCHING BOOBS!
>progresses to more stuff, but never... you know... IT

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Relax. Be patient. Love yourself. Talk to therapists.

this is truly sad, whoever hasn't replied to these messages must be so ungrateful. so much hate.

Love him now.

>she told about how her mom would just crrrryyyyyyyy if she ever found out her daughter had sex before marriage
>frienemy was "raped" just before we met
>it was a "secret" that she told pretty much everybody but the police
>inb4 mra, redpill, etc.
>i legitimately believe that it was consensual and she regretted it later
>"rape" = loophole!
>told me we couldn't have sex until we were married
>i gave my word
>i never fucked her, because she said she didn't want to
>no matter how many times she tried to get me to
>prom night
>another spoiler alert from 96/97, confirmed from 2 sources who went prom dress shopping with her:
>she was looking for a dress with "easy access"
>she wanted to fuck on prom night
>tinfoil hat time: she wanted to get me to say i wouldn't fuck her, then get me to fuck her, then she could hold that over me
>of all the stupid things, my nephew cockblocked me that night
>long story, irrelevant, but i hated him for it at the time
>i need to thank him for that, srsly!
>frienemy and i were on our way out after that, among other reasons
>one day i get drunk at my cousin's house
>tell frienemy the next day and she "flips out" and "cries" and "is upset"
>talks about jesus
>acts like she legit thinks i'm cheating on her with my female bff
>(if i coulda had bff, i never would've wasted my time with frienemy!)

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His death really hit me hard. Especially since he wrote so much about Death as a character, a being. It was like a gut punch.

Thanks for the dump. Have a good night.