As a married man I'm having stronger and stronger urges to try and cheat on my wife with a dumb slut...

As a married man I'm having stronger and stronger urges to try and cheat on my wife with a dumb slut. At the moment pretty much the only thing stopping me is I'm ugly and o don't know where to meet them. I am wish I had someone to talk dirty with and get this shit out of my system.

Talk to your wife fucking cuck

>I'm having stronger and stronger urges to try and cheat on my wife
Just kill yourself please.

You obviously have some serious emotional issues. You want to cheat on your wife because you sincerely believe it will make you feel empowered, desired but most of all important.

It's not going to solve any of your problems, contrary to that it's gonna create a shit ton of new ones. And if your wife is a decent person she doesn't deserve to suffer because of your mental instability.

just fucking talk to your wife, maybe invite a third person into the bedroom, nothing wrong with threesomes. that should do it for you

Why the Fuck are you married?
Wedding vows should mean something and be upheld.
It's not, yea I promise to love you and be faithful to you, but only until I get bored or horny.
That's a lifetime commitment.
Talk to your Fucking wife.

Dude...these feelings are perfectly normal. You need to make a decision and stick with - Supress the urges, or go to a hooker etc and just get it over with.

Don't listen to the fags that get all faggoty and try and tell you cheating is bad. Monogamy isn't natural.

do you beleive in personal integrity?
do you ahve empathy for the person you may/will hurt by cheating?

i mean... pointing out that monogamy isn't natural (and, btw, in several species it is) doesn't really justify anything except maybe not getting married in the first place, and certainly not committing to a monogamous relationship in the first place.

im with the white knight, don't do it or tell your wife. not because i give a shit about marriage or your wife, but because you should have a little more integrity than that, you shit-rotten excuse for a man.

As a long time cheater - im telling you never ever cross that line. Fix yourself and deal with it. Its normal and compromising your inegrity and values for sex isnt worth it. No different that a junkie who sells out for a fix.

If youre gonna do it anyway, do it safe and always protection with hookers. No emotional attachment.

The moment it becomes emotional and an affair, someones fucked and not in a good way.

If you really need a new hole to put your dick in get a mare.
As far as humans go, pussy is pussy. It's all so close to the same its stupid to feel like you have to have a different one.

I agree with the comment below yours.

Marriage is meant to be about having somebody whom you care about greatly and can trust completely. That's why you decide to spend the rest of your life with this person. It's not just about sex and lust. It's about friendship loyalty and most of all Love.

You no longer get to act selfishly and ignore the fact that your partner will have to suffer the concequences of your selfish actions.

By believing it's acceptable to act that way I can conclude you've never truly loved any partner, and should think twice before giving further relationship advice to other people

having sex with another woman besides your wife is only cool if your wife is ok with it (not because you need her permission, but in order to avoid backlash). don't have an affair if your wife doesn't know, as she will lay a torch to your whole life

instead, you have to slowly manipulate her psychologically over many years to accept you having sex with other women. this is easy to do if you are a real man with balls. took me about 10 years of firmly shoving it

now i'm fucking like nobody's business, AND I have a stable family with a completely loyal wife- best of both worlds

>completely loyal wife
makes me wonder what, exactly, loyalty means to you.

When your kids find out they'll think you're a selfish dickhead.

What a brilliant example of what a man is meant to be. Do you have any daughters?

Wisdom

my wife is my best friend. we connect on an emotional level that I don't connect with the whores on. we are the only ones who share children, and a history. we have a bond. also, she doesn't have sex with anyone besides me. i'm kind of old fashioned, you could say. basically the man can do what he wants, and the woman has to submit

This. Get some horse cooter.

hopefully they will never have any idea. But i'll never admit it no matter how strong the proof

deny, deny, deny

so many people crack and break this simple rule

if you continue to deny, even in the face of overwhelming evidence, some people will actually believe your story and not the evidence, based on emotion. I imagine children would be especially prone to this

>basically the man can do what he wants, and the woman has to submit
well i agree with your anti-feminist sentiments of patriarchy full heartedly; i cannot agree with the fact that you would treat the mother of your own children with such overt disrespect. infact that offends me. don't care if you cheat on your bitch wife, your retard GF, but your children mother? why didn't you have children with someone you respect?
or do you not respect anyone?

i realize i don't know you or your wife, so my opinion might be misguided, but i think thats highly unlikely.

Dude if you are going on thos old values then adultery is majorly not cool in that value set. The man can do what he wants within the rules of that setup. This is some hypocritical shit

don't feel bad bro. I'm 35 and in the past two years only I slept with more than 7 married women, some of them colleagues, others their wives, some randomly met. I don't count how many married chicks I nailed in the past 20 years but it was a lot. I pity the guys who say they can't imagine their wife doing sth like that. Oh yeah? You just don't know your wife, you haven't seen her relaxed on a team building, that's all. Poor guys.

Anway don't feel bad man, she has probably fucked another guy too. It's us humans ... we eat, shit and fuck people who aren't our partners. It's as simple as that. The people who don't realize that are doomed to end up miserable.

Well I've got news for you buddy. Your children will believe you at a young age, but when they're somewhat emotionally mature. And they hear about what you've done there will be no hiding. Your wife will be telling the truth and you will try to hide it with more mistruths.

What on earth would be her motive to lie about such a thing? Your motive would be very obvious though.

What's sad is that part of you wishes your children to live without being able to tell when someone is decieving them.
Which is a crucial life, and completely counter intuitive to your future plans.

And the fact that you plan to lie follows suit with everything that you're doing now.

Remember you're meant to be a role model. Your actions effect everyone around you

how is it disrespectful if I am always truthful with her though, and she is ok with it?

The only point I am making is that no woman who grows up in our culture can possibly be ok with it unless you psychologically condition them to it. all real men have to train their women, like you would train a child. most men are too weak to do this. "break" your woman, and you will be happy for the rest of your life.

I just enjoy having sex with other women. Are you reducing marriage to just sex? I have a deep personal bond with my wife. We connect emotionally in a way that I don't with anybody else. It's kinda silly to be so obsessed with a physical act that you equate it with love

I do respect my wife. she's a good woman, because she does what women are supposed to do. she keeps at home, she cooks, she cleans, she raises beautiful kids, and I provide for her. she lives off me, least she can do is allow me to have some variety

btw, this is the way men have behaved for thousands of years, and you know that to be true

in the old value set, only sex involving a married woman was adultery, i.e. if I slept with another man's wife, which I would never do. men deserve respect

Inb4 Sup Forums is full of moraltumblrfags

Don't do it OP. My wife just had an affair and left our family for some douchebag Web designer. Just threw our marriage away. It's one of the most painful things I've ever experienced. Don't make someone else feel like I do.

you will regret it

She might be ok with it, but probably not. But telling her ahead of time "I've got these fantasies and I think it's a problem" is a better start than compromising your relationship.

Cheating is shitty and disrespectful. If you want to fuck other women and that isn't something either of you anticipated, talk about it. You'll either adjust your relationship to something open or you'll talk through it.


Or she'll spaz on you

You make it sound like you brainwashed her so it's possible that she only has this "deep" connection with you cause you fucked with her head
You're shit

Don't I did and the shit storm afterwards isnt worth it. Its totally fine if you dont care or love your wife or if its just a gf you can move on from easily but if you care its gonna eat you up.

see, you're operating from the assumption of equality. what your wife did to you was horrible, because she belonged to you, she was your property. nobody had the right to be with her but you. but it doesn't work the other way.

which, by the way, is the reason she cheated on you. you're too weak. you weren't possessive enough. you didn't put her in her place and tell her whose boss. she didn't fear you. she went to find another guy who would treat her like a woman; i.e. not as an equal

man up- respect yourself, and your wife will too. when you allow her to rule, you're not respecting yourself, and she begins to hate you on the inside

I'm telling ya, get the mare pussy.

maybe I did. who cares? people also "brainwash" their children. but you can't argue with the results, with that smooth slow choined flavor

there won't be a shitstorm if you have trained your woman properly. if you have been a weak beta, then no wonder she's upset, because she believes she owns you. she probably does, pussy

It's called the 7 year itch for a reason. It goes away. There is literally nothing wrong with physically cheating. Needs are needs. Just never tell anyone ever, and don't get emotionally attached.

male monogamy isn't natural. all of human history shows that real men cannot be with only one woman. the only ones who can manage it are people with low T, not winners, not heroes, not history makers. just beta cucks are satisfied with only one, and then the wife is the one who "cheats" on that sucker

>how is it disrespectful if I am always truthful with her though, and she is ok with it?
who are you trying to convince with that rhetorical question?
its like saying how is it bad that i beat my girl if she doesn't leave me, clearly, she is OK with it. your wife, like the hypothetical girl friend, has a low self-esteem, so she is OK with being treated as less than you, because she think she is less than you, thanks to what im sure was no small amount of persuasion by you.

>The only point I am making is that no woman...
i could summarize that paragraph by quoting you as saying "My wife is a weak person with the emotional capacities of a child, so i have to "break" her so she is ok with me dicking other pussy."
and btw thats a non sequiter, her immaturity, real or not, has nothing to do with your dick!

>I just enjoy having sex with other women. Are you reducing marriage to just sex? I
its not ok for me to do but its EXACTALLY what you did above when you said you had to BREAK your wife emotionally so that you would have sex with whores. lol. wow.

your level of rationalization is so poor that i can tell you have no thought this through, and probably have not even thought your own morality though. you shallow cunt.

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Any chance you're Trump?

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>I do respect my wife.
no, in fact, you don't even respect yourself, in all likely hood. your ego is just rationalizing. nothing you have said so far comes close to a logical reason for your cheating.
repecting someone as your equal means that you treat them as your equal, not as a "child" to "breakl" so you can sleep around but she can't because she is not your equal, she is your child bearing emotional slave. keep telling yourself how emotionally complete you make eachother, god i hope your not wrong on that small thing, for her sake. but don't bother telling me, like i said, its irrelevant.

>btw, this is the way men have behaved for thousands of years
great let me swing by real quick to murder you and your kids, and take your wife or youngest daughter as a sex slave. after all, man have done this for thousands of year.

still getting the pussy doe, and I have a beautiful wife and children. i'm living the dream, baby, and your moralizing can't stop me

Yes. I hope you voted for me. We're going to make America great again, greater than ever before!

assumming your all the same guy here,
you know its fine to assume men own women, i happen to agree with patriarchy on a biological and scocietal level, totaly and completely, my problem with you is that you lie to yourself when you say you respect her, then not 5 minutes later tell us all how she is a child to be manipulated and owned. lol.

at least get your story streight in your own head. you are shallow, for you own sake you should think your values though.

don't care if you cheat. don't care if you think women are property, i care that you have in your head and try to present to others opposing ideas like respect for something which is subservient to you (your wife/women).

you probably think you sound like such an alpha, such a bro, to me you sound like an idiot.

im this guy btw:

please see and if you want to, reply to this then:

Pleasantly surprised by /b.

Go join a sport, you lazy fuck. physical outlets help those urges. Don't say you can't help but think of fucking other people if you're browsing netflix every night. Go do shit. Take your wife on a fun date, recreate old fun. If you don't do all of those things and still cheat, you're pathetic.

MAGA bitches!

Obvious troll

Physical monogamy is not "natural", sure. But as an adult, you need to learn how to mitigate that shit. If you try and channel in to your "pure alpha male", you will be alone and miserable. Have a threesome (actually respect your wife's boundaries on it, and watch her want a repeat). Do roleplay with her. Watch porn together. Wear costumes. Channel into her bisexual side (science also says most women are bisexual), and live vicariously through her finding women hot. Stop being so outrageously pathetic. If she isn't up for at least one of the above, idk why she's your wife.

As much as I agree with captain morality, I have to say if she's willing to go with it, then why not?

The people who think THIS way have never had the joy of being with a partner who fulfills them sexually. I pity you. Those women are hard to come by, but it's still your fault for settling and needing to cheat now.

Blaming human nature for things is so idiotic. blaming human nature also justifies murder, rape, fucking teen girls who are legally underage but still have gone through puberty, and also killing your children if they are not in peak health. Take personal responsibility for your own actions. You have fucked up your bed, now lie in it before killing yourself.

hey, im the captian morality guy you agree with, and you (and the shallow douche guy im debating with) are right in that, if she is OK with it, its OK.

I think as long as a relationship is mutually consenting then it is appropriate, end of story.
i take issue with shallow guys claims of respect and monogamy as a justification for cheating. that's total bullshit.

if you wana be a douche, a stereotypical chauvinistic man, then do it, i know i do!
but don't run around saying your the next thing to jesus christ and bhuda treating your wife with respect and talking about your emotional connection as though she was more to you than a hold to put your dick in and get your kids out of.

Agreed. I think you're spot on with the honesty. If you're going to act like a dickhead at least take responsibility for your actions. But some of the crap this guy had said is unbelievable.

He claims to respect her but actually majorly disrespects her.

He says there's nothing wrong with what he's doing. But his game plan for when he is questioned about his behaviour is to deny he did anything!

So he obviously knows what he's doing is wrong. He just wants to do wrong and be right at the same time. Quite like a child who wants everything to go there way, and will throw there toys out of their pram if it doesn't. Quite happy to have people whom he supposedly loves he mislead and mistreated as long as everyone goes along with his false reality he's manifested.

To that guy I'm talking about:

You're an absolute dickhead and your children are going to suffer because of you. Your childrens children will suffer because of your actions. You are so fucking selfish.