User

user,
how does one acquire confidence ?

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Stop caring, realize youll die one day. And no1 cares in the end.

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Get in better shape. That is all it takes.

No, fuck off
I want to know as well how to acquire confidence so i can talk to my crush

you either have confidence or you don't. if you're asking on Sup Forums, your only solution is to an hero

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leave Sup Forums

Getthelube.com

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Well, honestly just talk with people in a casual setting.

Experiment and make jokes.

On that note also, porn lowers your confidence.

>porn lowers your confidence
>being this retarded

Fake it till you make it. It doesn't matter if you don't have confidence at this time, what matters is that you're perceived as confident, you'll eventually acquire it. You won't notice when it happens.

>also get in shape if not already

Yeah, half of confidence is realizing no one actually cares about what you do or notices. It's a liberating realization.

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Please share how you would fuck Anzu? She's so qt.

Fake it for now.

Do everything you can to acquire attributes that will give you good reason to be confident. Become better and you won't be able to help but exude it.

Remember. Everyone has those feelings and those thoughts at times. Even the most outwardly confident.

she's too qt to resist. no question in my mind, would rape and impregnate/10

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>you either have confidence or you don't
That's wrong
You can get confidence from achievieng stuff and recieving appreciation
You can also loose confidence from failing and getting rejected

>your only solution is to an hero
And how do i do this?

Also contributing

thx for contribution
>how to an hero
literally kill yourself
gaining confidence through accomplishment doesn't mean much when she rejects you and you lose double the confidence

don't, become a woman for the real men who enjoy it.

Experience. You're not going to win every time, but you'll sure as hell learn something that you can use for the next time.

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Pay two whores $200/hr to come over and film with you. Also, lose some weight.

YEAH... he is my favorite tranny

>>how to an hero
>literally kill yourself
The user i replied to made that up

>gaining confidence through accomplishment doesn't mean much when she rejects you and you lose double the confidence
Yeah, i agree with this but i just want to have enough confidence to talk to my crush

that pic turns me on, user

fake it.

eventually youll realise that you arent faking it any more and you actually are confident.

>just want enough confidence to talk to my crush
that's just it, user. fucking talk to her - now. there is no good time. there is no magic trick. walk up and talk to her. that "mental bridge" you have to cross never gets any smaller. you just have to do it.

Alcohol.

this is also an acceptable answer

That thing needs to be shot.

>not loving anzu unconditionally

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Faking it until you make it. Seriously.

Every habit can become habitual. It takes 3 very difficult days of trying very hard, 2 weeks of maintenance, and about 2 months until you have rewired your brain.

These aren't exact figures, every brain is different. There are certain drugs and habits that you can use/perform that will increase neuroplasticity. Positive feedback is probably the best.

i'm willing to stop posting anzu if you post moar of her

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Thanks user
Sadly i put girls in general on a pedestal and i have a rather shy, introverted personality
I wish it would be easy for me to just talk to her
But i can't and that's why i need other people to tell me nice things and compliments so i can develop a healthy amount of confidence
I started to workout regularly 6 half a year ago and i'm starting to see some results

>shy/introverted
me too, user. that's how i know it doesn't really get easier - ever... i'm 40 and it never got easier. the only exception is when i know she thinks i'm hot before talking to her. if i don't already know she likes me, i'm sheepish, and that dries up a lot of pussies that could otherwise be wet

Don't give a shit what anybody thinks to a certain extent, don't come off as arrogant but don't be afraid to speak out. Get a job that requires you to talk to strangers a lot, helped me a lot in my youth to build confidence.

fake it til you make it fam

also, it's important to ignore any advice you get from niggers. they don't understand. when "muh dik" is the height of civilization, it's a pretty low bar to have lots of confidence

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Fake it til you make it. It's really as simple as that.

keep posting anzu nigga idgaf

Fapping is like a drugs, every time you do it you get a high.
This high overshadows normal joys in life.
You are a addict.
You dont like anything else because you get high so much on fapping nothing else matches it or is enjoyable.
stop fapping so dam much.
Just start cutting back.
it takes time to readjust your mind and body.
Your prostate is still geared to spilling load after load this needs tho slow down or you get risks at prostate cancers (so avoid/block arousals that kick the prostate in higher gear).
Now they say sometimes that fapping is good for this reason.
But you need to stop the problem and not the side effects.
This guy nails it youtu.be/hbIaP6dZzDA when it comes to the psychological effects you get from excessive porn and fap habits.
You clearly suffer from the beta observant complex.

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>if i don't already know she likes me, i'm sheepish, and that dries up a lot of pussies that could otherwise be wet
Same goes for me
I need to find out if she is interested in me as well or at least doesn't find me weird or something
I hope she doesn't have a bf as well
This would brake my heart

new pic. thanks, user

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Series of small victories. Set attainable goals, and reach them. Momentum

Anzu is hot

She's hotter than Anzu

Can confirm

actual good advice in a sea of some cunt trying to be ~animu~

Grow a pair faggot

>tfw best way to talk to a girl is by not giving a shit if you talk to her - negating the entire reason you wanted to talk to her in the first place

By putting his face in the dirt

An hero

Jesus.. just talk to her.
Ok I realize it is hard, I was a shy guy-turned-best alpha. I was wondering a lot back then how to approach. So let me try to give you advice to my best ability.I will try to imagine how you feel.

Try this - a day before do A LOT of very heavy lifting.
Preferrably in gym, but if not - like find something heavy, about the weight of yourself and deadlift it (keep your spine straight whatever you do) till you are exhausted.
Sleep it off with good 9 hour sleep.
After such heavy work your testosterone will boil in your weins for good 2-3 days and you will feel like a wolverine on cocaine.
That is exactly the moment to talk.

You can combine it with no-fap. .. actually wait, I'll draw a graph.
Nigger we will set you up in notime.

>look at graph
Do exactly as told.

Now I know how weird it was to talk to crush.
Literally write something like "Hi, I am doing this and that Friday/Sathurday. you can join." (have assertive tone as if she already is missing her chance for fun)

then meet her and talk.
Also don't be a wanker and do not pussy out at two cruical moments
1. hug her when you meet her
2. at the end, when you feel it is kissy time, but your gut is being afraid as fuck, say, ok, hug her, hold the hug for just tad few seconds more. Kiss her on the cheek exactly for 3 seconds and slowly go back. things will either start or she will think about you for a loooong time.

Very important psychological note - at the beginning of any meeting/date whatver - make normal simple sexual inuendo. then drop thesex subject.
I have consciously tried this a lot of times - drop small cracker. Women will remember it and think about your peener. And later it will lead to sexy times.
Imagine yourself - if a girl gave you hints you would love it. Gorls love when guys make hints to them.

I ahve had the most terrible mutual relationships mended just by giving women something to think about.

ok I am high and I feel I am losing my train of

Fuck an ugly, easy to get chick. Then progressively upgrade. The more u do that, the faster confidence comes. And also realize that nobody really gives a fuck except for you.

While this is semi correct it is not the whole deal. I've been doing the gym thing for 3 years down to 190Ibs and look pretty tone but would still say I'm socially awkward.

Also read this. He speeks absolute truth.

What if your crush doesn't like you at all? If she is lesbian, for example, you will spend tons of time wondering how to approach, instead of being turned down quickly, so you can move the fuck on and learn from your experience.

gq.com/story/unexpected-steven-tyler

this advice is fucking gay

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>just talk to her.
First be sure it is a her... In today's world you can not be sure...you can try pulling a Trump and grab it by the pussy... but unless you are a famous billionaire I do not recommend this. Just talk to her as you would your cousin.

OP sounds like a very young and completely inexperienced guy.
I wrote what I think he can actually use.

naturally you can go
- pff, just lift and get big and fuck bitches. Go to her and jsut crack a joke and she will be yours. and have excellent dance moves and just surprise her like noone else.

Yeah, you can write that, but can it be applied to real life by someone who FUCKING ASKS CONFIDENCE ADVICE ON Sup Forums? Doubt so. Hence the overexplained version.

>Just talk to her as you would your cousin.
No.

you want her pussy. You don't want a new best friend or cousin.

as for your faggot friends - sorry, mental ilness is none of our concern.

Stop seeing traps everywhere, they are a ver(y very tiny part of the population, as long as you do'nt go for weirdoes and psychos, you should be ok

No problem user

Wow thanks guys
I really appreciate this
I already do workout but it doesn't seem to motivate me or something
Maybe i have a low testosterone level by nature
But thanks again, i will consider your advice

Thst troll is a cuck. You gave 100% legit advice. Kek will bless you.

>Preferrably in gym, but if not - like find something heavy, about the weight of yourself and deadlift it (keep your spine straight whatever you do) till you are exhausted.
cannot stress how much you need to do REALLY bring you to your limits and once you go over and push with teth clenched - that is when magic happend in your body.

like buy those 1 week-free or likewise gym subscriptions.
I had all my confidence whenever I wanted just thanks to physical workout. (Before I read a shitton of info about enhancing brain activity and did lots of experiments. Plain physical effort works best)

THIS

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The rules of attraction are still primal:
1) Physical Attraction: Dont be neckbeard fedora wearing weeaboo, Goto a gym, ditch your glasses, If you like geeky shit dont let it be the only thing that defines you. Maybe take up a martial arts This conveys strength and protection
2) Money, Possessions, Security in the early time of man these woulld have been land ownage or territory and providing food for a partners young.

Humans are still animals when you break it down, Women still crave the same things they did 5000 years ago.

All the things mentioned above will make you feel better about yourself which in turn will make you more confident, Wont cure it but it will certainly help

Success

disgusting man with wig

>2. at the end, when you feel it is kissy time, but your gut is being afraid as fuck, say, ok, hug her, hold the hug for just tad few seconds more. Kiss her on the cheek exactly for 3 seconds and slowly go back. things will either start or she will think about you for a loooong time.
I am giving you the "soft" version, as I imagine you are young and things do not get straightforward as quick.

Personally I like to kiss girls straight up with very little touching before. sometimes awkwardness is funny enough to do it.

In clubs you can get girls do whatever so there is no real art in that. I have in one night kissed 4, slept with 2 in their car (more like we jacked each other off) and few hours later I found yet another girl with whom I spent the night. That was the time I thin I broke my soul a bit and stopped being excited about clubs. to better or worse.

but back to you
Physical contact with hands is needed before you grab her by the pussy.. I mean kiss.
Very little, just to reassure you both it is ok to touch.
and then just go for it if you feel it. 90% of times she feels the same.

Do it enough and it will become second nature. that is when you can develop your mental/talking game when you are a tad older. Now you are too preoccupied thinking about how you behave and what to do etc.

>2) Money, Possessions, Security in the early time of man these woulld have been land ownage or territory and providing food for a partners young.
I fucked girls when I was poor too.
Real value is needed when you want a wife.
Nowadays the careless-wanderer is pretty loveable character as well adn women go for it.

But it is always smart to look good. Have tight T-shirt, good manly haircut, good jacket, slean clothes, white teeth, tan.
Those things alone wil get you far. Also all that costs very very little if you are smart.

>Stop seeing traps everywhere
UHHHH... what do think ANZU is??

just stop caring. that's about it.