I left tumblr for Sup Forums 5 years ago after getting into politics and realizing reblogging pics of black girls with coloured hair and commenting how cute and empowered they were was bullshit. The saddest, hardest part of it was leaving behind the friends I had made, which I realize now only talked to me because they thought I was like them.
Before, I had so many online friends during a time when I had no IRL friends. We chatted all the time about everything from politics, to (then) school, to our sexual and romantic relationships. They supported me and cared about me, writing to me at random times to ask how my day was going. They always remembered appointments I told them about, and we would stay up late into the night chatting about nothing, and having fun.
When I started talking rightwing politics they all dropped me one by one, and I figured I could make new friends on Sup Forums. But, it seems like no one here is really happy or supportive of each other? I just want friends to talk to, who won't get angry with we disagree about politics but we still support each other and stay up late chatting.
I suck at making IRL friends because I'm very private, I really did think the anonymous nature of Sup Forums would make the website funner, but I'm just sad and even more alone.
Considering going back to tumblr and faking politics for some friends again
I don't care if this gets deleted, I just wanted to put it out there. tumblr is psychotic, but if you dodge politics and play along, you can actually have some friends.
Sup Forums has been called the internet hate machine. People can be shit here.
Ryan Jones
ill suck your cock if you suck mine op
Evan Allen
have you tried going to other boards?, Sup Forums is the worst board to make friends or find people to agree with you
Connor Cook
but i just want online friends and not have to worry about walking on eggshells like you have to with tumblr, It's like a union. You pay your dues by reblogging feminist shit every day, and if you don't anything you say could be construed as racist/sexist/what the hot button word is of the day
and if you are a straight white male, you have to withhold this info but in exchange, you got people who will ask how your day went, listen to you when you want to talk about your problems, people who message you everyday with "things that reminded them of you", etc etc
ok but no kissing cause it's gay
Carson Scott
Try other boards. Sup Forums isn't that good. have you tried Sup Forums?
Ian Foster
Besides Sup Forums, I've been to /x/, Sup Forums, Sup Forums, /s4s/, /fa/ and /fit/. Tried /lgbt/ real quick cause I thought it would be like tumblr, and it was not.
I just posted this to Sup Forums cause I don't think there's anything else where this fits?
Adrian Wright
Yeah, but they got this meme shit going on I don't even touch that level yet
Jeremiah Richardson
Shit blog post, also Sup Forums is not the best board to "make friends"
Andrew Morris
All she had to do was put some food in kitty's bowl then come back, take off her sweats and rub her bare feet into the spilled sauce making nice footprints on the fridge door and showing her sauce-coated BARE FEET to the cameras! Doing this she could have made a nice chunk of change selling the video to Messy Splosh Foot Fetishists.
Justin Adams
We are supportive in the punching girls you like kinda way :)
Do you have boobs? Can I see them?
Parker Baker
im going to make best friends with a nameless poster on an anonymous imageboard! this was a great idea
Jaxon Mitchell
also 4 chan isnt really a place to make friends is more like a place to be yourself, which is never a good thing as you can see, maybe go to reddit?
Lincoln Nguyen
All of Sup Forums has a Sup Forums mentality, even though they act like Sup Forums is the shitposting board. Truth is, everyone is a Sup Forumsturd at heart.
Anyway, you're going about this the wrong way. Sup Forums's entire premise is end-user anonymity, you ain't supposed to talk to someone here twice. If you want online friends, go play a game on steam or something, or go to a right wing forum (lots of them around).
But if for w/e reason you want the toxic le funny edgy memers of Sup Forums for friends, go to /soc/
See ya when some faggot shares your doxx on a cringe site.
Jonathan Perez
It was a blog post, you're right. so is every feels thread lol
no, I am a dude. wtf mang there are no girls on Sup Forums
the concept is the same on tumblr! it isn't facebook. You are as anonymous there as you want to be, I was completely doen to changing URLs every other week
ugh, i tried reddit it sucks if you're not into making OC every single day
I'm being a bitch but you guys are trying, thank you
Dominic Ramirez
I heard about /soc/, visited once a while back and never returned. Scary place.
I guess you're right, I am looking at this the wrong way. I thought the anonymous nature was cool at first, maybe I just miss regular contact with predictable people
thx user
also >good luck i'm behind 7000 skeletons
Isaac Cox
In tumblr you have a username by which people recognise you. It's not the same thing. Yes it is as anonymous as you let it be but info on you is still piled up and there is a direct way to contact you.
Plenty of femanons, some of them are hot. You'd be surprised.
Why do you need to make OC to enjoy plebbit?
Hudson Walker
Have you tried the different Generals? I think it's pretty good now but everyone has their own tastes.
Grayson Baker
>the concept is the same on tumblr the fuk are you saying. everyone there at least has names you can follow and shit. i'll never find that user who made my heart go doki doki after my thread 404'd again because he is user
Jaxson Russell
the what about twitch, i got really lucky there, i watched a small streamer and got to meet awesome people i can confidently call friends, or maybe play some mmorpg's you can get to meet people there
Ian Cook
What about a dic pic i ain't choosy
Julian Stewart
/soc/ is shit tier, but it's the closest to what ya want.
Sup Forums's nature is cool, but yah, not what you want right now.
Well, no matter how many software/proxies you hide behind, if you show your face and share things about you, some bored kid will find you.
Luis Ward
Let's be friends OP!
Henry Mitchell
Okay, I guess you're right. I just overextended myself trying to stay anonymous, which was the original appeal of Sup Forums besides the political discourse.
Honestly not really, but I'll check them out now, thanks user
I considered twitch a while back when I wanted to start a channel, but do I have to in order to join or be taken seriously?
maybe you're right, i should just try a different place all together. It just seems to be that politics is such a big deal on the internet, I can be friends with liberals online but it doesn't go both ways more often than not. I thought finding a place with the "right" politics first would be the safest bet, but it seems to be just as hard lol
shit now i don't know how to begin lmao
Benjamin Rogers
Welp. I tried.
Adrian Hughes
Yes! And I'm grateful! Thank you for your advice, whichever one you were I'm just in a feels mood rn dont mind me
Noah Young
I'm the drunk fag who wanted to be friends
Jacob Davis
you dont need a yt channel if thats what you are saying, none of the friends i met have a yt channel and they have like 100-300 followers
Owen Edwards
oh shit. Why you drinking tonight user?
ah, gotcha. didn;t know that ty!
Isaac Hughes
damn you dont even have to stream you can search for small streamers and if you find a cool one with a cool fanbase you can be friends
Noah Miller
now you know why everyone is psychotic on tumblr. just carry gum around
Eli Ortiz
Have any contact info like a disqus account?
Hudson James
>implying you can unswallow the redpill
the ride never ends user, you're here forever
Thomas Bennett
So this is a nigger hate thread right?
Jace Turner
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Angel Perry
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Charles Bailey
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Jack Hernandez
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Dylan Roberts
Threads are what you make of them.
Isaiah Clark
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Adrian Reed
you are the real cancer of not just Sup Forums but of all Sup Forums
John Cox
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Carter Phillips
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Nathan Mitchell
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Zachary Johnson
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Ayden Sanders
The dishwashing machine in that picture is massive
Brayden Clark
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Ethan Phillips
Damn OP You know you're a loser when Sup Forums is your last resort
Nolan Reed
I have seen this for years, never got the story though. Anyone know what happened to the woman behind it? Was it mother or baby sitter?
Lincoln Wood
I thought disqus was just a comment section, damn. honestly no, after tumblr i kinda just stopped all that. Used to use chatango a lot, I think my username was.... nicolascage or something? circa 2009 or nicolascoppola, can't remember
they call me mark the mintman
ok
could be a washing machine? i heard in the UK they keep that shit in their kitchen
Samuel Lewis
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Justin Fisher
Maybe you could try another view of leftwing politics ?
I am french, and french left is not like american left. Thought which majorities oppress which minorities is still a part of leftwing culture, the main concern here is economic rather than cultural: how to reduce inequalities.
It therefore may be a point of with you c identify more.
Noah Perry
said tyrone demarcus washington jr as he used his teeth to tear open the most recent welfare cheque
Nathaniel Adams
no one gives a fuck about you.
Isaac Watson
trips confirmed, op is fag
I'm actually Canadian, our left wing is different to American left as well. Our politics on the whole are more liberal than in the States, with the CPC being more centrist.
But it's a thought, thank you. It's easy to forget on sites like this and Sup Forums that every country is different, and not everyone is american
Jacob Ramirez
Steam is nice though. Tf2 and csgo are the best games for it
Hunter Barnes
Porn or gtfo
Connor Stewart
This. Sup Forums can be a good place to play vidya with random steambros
Camden Bailey
You should really consider trying harder to make IRL friends, maybe targeting specifically open minded people, if you like to debate. It has to benefits : 1. you get "friends to talk to, who won't get angry with we disagree about politics but we still support each other and stay up late chatting" 2. you progress on yourself. it is useful and enjoyable to be able to make friends.
I'm btw
Evan Butler
>what is the little blue arrow next to the post number
Michael Anderson
Disqus likely is just for comments. But I cant talk to you in the future if I you dont have a contact method.
Camden Long
My sister usually involves her with her friends, she's a journalist and meets many people from different cultures. Honestly I have a good personality, I'm very polite and in tune with social codes and people's feelings to the point I could get along with people who speak very little English (and have many times in the past)
it's just... so exhausting for me? I dread how emotionally exhausted I'll be after a couple hours of hanging with people in real life. At least online I can just close the screen when I'm too bored or busy to talk and not have to feel bad.
One penpal I've had since I started using the internet properly almost 8 yrs ago, i stop talking to her for several months between each email and it's never a problem. IRL friends are a lot of upkeep and sorry I sound like a bitch lol
you're right, i should try harder
Juan Ross
Join one of the discords floating around here
Grayson Lewis
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she better clean that up before her husband gets home and beats her ass
Leo Richardson
Post pix of black girls or it never happened.
Owen Cox
I've met some good friends through Sup Forums. It's basically just trickle-down. You go into a Discord or group chat late night as part of a raid or a happening, chat for a while, and chances are someone's going to drop their Skype or Steam.
Christian Turner
I thought those were all for porn lmaoo
>I SAID NO SPICES
there really not that attractive, just the whole culture of obsessing over minorities and building them up over everyone else. I would love it if the love was spread equally, but it really isn't.
Ethan Bell
>Find an online game, join a clan/guild whatever. >Instant Friends.
It's that simple
Colton Fisher
Aaaah SO YOU WERE NEVER ON TUMBLR
Adam Williams
What you mean?
Brayden Morris
Good luck finding friends op. Seems like a nice guy.
Michael Collins
Thanks guys, honestly I haven't played vidya since I was a young teen, even then I was into non-social games like RE. Still have the entire series lol maybe I do need new hobbies
your dubs speak louder than words ever could. Thank you user
Aiden Rogers
nice trips, btw what are you going to do to look for friends?
Carson Sanchez
Sweet, I got digits too.
Alright, drawing from this thread here's what I learned in boating school 1. try for friends IRL, get new hobbies 2. join forums relevant to my interests and chat lots of people up 3. follow through when Sup Forums posts chatroom links and shit 4. get into online gaming
Solid tips. Let's all do this and make friends
Adrian Hill
Relationships are not important enough to give up what you believe. Ive been completely alone many times in my life and majority of my friends haven't spoken to me in years, but you know what? Fuck'em. There's so many other people out there that people are quite literally replaceable. Stick with the ones that care, the rest be damned. IRL relationships are overrated anyway. Hug yourself at night bitch. But if it's worth anything. I'm your friend. I don't know you or anything about you, but you're in pain and I sympathize. I hope it gets better for you, but don't ever give up you.
Robert Campbell
good luck with that OP
Ryder Johnson
Like general tso?
James Stewart
This made me feel better, thank you. It's true, you're right that at some point you can't keep changing yourself for others. Thanks again user :)
ty mang
Lucas Butler
general interest or topic threads, we got them on Sup Forums too
Isaac Nelson
>right wing politics
Jack James
kek have (you)
Leo Thompson
*right wing in canada isn't the same :)
Jonathan Butler
t. nigglet
David Adams
KYS
Jaxon Ortiz
just create a discord, post it here and see what happens
Asher Smith
I would listen to your problems and ask how your day went, if I was a faggot.
Austin Williams
It's a mutual thing, we support each other
You be my faggot I'll be yours
Julian Carter
This is the price you pay when you're against the norm. It's not your fault that you want supportive and caring friends despite having to fake your beliefs. There are sites like Reddit and others that allow you to make friends for reasons other than politics.
Christian Miller
Kill yourself
Blake Allen
Alright, trips convinces me. Downloading it now
Tyler Ortiz
Thought about it, but I got my trip to Russia next year keeping me alive
Chase Turner
Discord servers are a good for making friends with people like that. Look for a discord thread on /r9k/ or Sup Forums. Check the archives if you can't find one
Easton Rivera
Holy shit didn't think the UN would available >daviduke No pressure to add me, now that I got one I can do what the other anons said:
Thanks to you too user :^)
Christian Garcia
Make reals friends in real life in the real world.
Here is my kik katyaharkov1996. If you are serious about making friends
Jayden Ortiz
Adding. I don't know how to say this and bit sound like an ass, but is that really you in pic or someone famous?
Andrew Robinson
OP, why is right wing politics so important for you to find friends? I understand it easier to get along with people with similar mindset, but you higlighting this as pretty much an requirement to get along would imply that it is all you care about. If so, just distance yourself away from politics and just become bit more of a 'normie', you can have plenty of friendships that are completely apolitical. Honestly, politics can be very emotionally and mentally draining if you are to engaged in them, no matter where you fall in the political compass.
Nathan Ward
Why would you expect any friends here you faggot? anonymoose
Luis Evans
It really isn't, I think I mentioned this above but it seems to me whenever I try to be friends with someone of opposite political beliefs, at some point no matter how hard I try to avoid it it'll come out and then suddenly we can't be friends anymore. It really doesn't matter to me, but I feel like maybe I gotta try it this way and see if I get a different result
But I mean... I sort of.... I work in politics so it's kind of a big part of my identity? Not intense national politics, just to be clear. Impassioned little politics.