I found out my girlfriend of almost 10 years has been sending nudes to her online friends. At first I only found out about one dude.Then more recently I found out it was a few dudes.
They guys have been her friends for quite some time but only online.
When I found out I freaked the fuck out. I considered it a form of cheating. She even tried her hardest to keep it from me...
She says I'm overreacting and there's nothing wrong with it.
Your thoughts on this?
John Reed
It's cheating. This serves no other purpose than to fuck with you. I feel for you man. Go blank face and end it cold turkey. It will save you pain.
Carson Evans
you are getting cucked. She wants a better Chad than you.
Grayson Hill
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Oliver Diaz
Some shit has happened like this to me before. Not even bullshitting. When i found out though she just cried and we talked about it and ended up dropping those people. Honestly talking about it is the best thing you can do. Good luck user.
Aiden Nelson
I've talked about it. She wants to do it still and doesn't care.
Luis Long
Break up with her. She doesn't respect you and if you stay with her she'll always regard you as a cuck. Soon she'll be inviting BBC's over and you'll be licking there cum out of her pussy hoping she doesn't get pregnant
David Howard
And you didnt instantly tell her to fuck off? Pathetic. Someone that will do that after 10 years doesnt love you bro. She needs you for money or a place to stay or she woulda left you by now.
Nicholas Price
Well if she wants to do it still then fucking leave her ass. She clearly doesn't care about you or your feelings and is just wanting other guys to look at her tits. Fuck her. I would have left my girl if she kept doing that shit.
Kevin Ramirez
I did flip. However it is easier to say then do. In my case I can't just instantly up and leave yet. I feel like shit though.
Jacob Baker
Either you you start sending ur cock to chicks and make it clear or break up with her. this shit is to dumb to deal with /bro
Tyler Moore
Allow it to continue if she agrees to help you satisfy one of your fantasies.
Logan Barnes
That's pretty shit user. I'd end it if she says she still wants to do it, it doesn't sound like she has much respect for you at all.
Eli Bell
I've always wanted to see my gf do a Tyrone. I suppose that can be negotiated now. Anyone with a BBC on Sup Forums curious? Must be a stud.
Christian Hall
Of course it's cheating. Sorry you wasted 10 years with the whore. Get rid of her she's worthless. I've had similar experiences and it's a big problem with social media. Women are naturally more vain and prone to narcissism. They often tend to become raging online whore's pretty easily. Also if she hid that from you for that long who knows what else she's been hiding? Probably worse than you think. Get rid of her. At least now you know.
Ryan Robinson
Cant leave why
Leo Butler
We support each other financially and have a kid. Cost of leaving on our own here is ridiculous. So just walking out is a bit harder.
Cooper Taylor
Are you living with her or is she living with you?
Dude it's not hard to leave a whore like that, I'm guessing tthrougout those 10 years it's really made you attatched like an abused wife?
Honestly bro you need to leave her and have someone jump her she is literally useless and good for nothing but being a fuck toy.
Jason Campbell
You're dating a shitty human OP. End it off.
Elijah Johnson
You're fucked bro
Joseph Clark
>We support each other financially and have a kid Well, looks like you fucked up user
But the real question of the hour is, are you married? and, is that your child?
Isaac Cox
Lol op is cuckold that won't leave his wife. That's why she's sending Chad a bunch of nudes and probably fucking him behind his back. You sure the kid is even yours op? LOL
Connor Foster
let's get him on maury and fuck the whore's life kek
Camden Ortiz
These major issues have only started more recently. Before that I thought everything was fine,
I'm not going to kid myself. I did get emotionally attached and it does hurt and have a hard time imagining myself without her.
I just can't keep doing this shit. I'm literally always thinking about this shit now. It's driving me crazy and I feel like I'm becoming someone I don't want to be.
I'm growing so goddamn bitter,
Connor Watson
You're the biggest faggot. Who has a kid with their GF. Just kill yourself m8, your decisions aren't with of life.
Gavin Lee
I can help. Are you sure that's what you want?
Christopher Butler
Not everyone lives the christian life. Honestly we both found that marriage was pretty pointless. At this moment it would make things even more complicated.
Anthony Russell
get some fucking self respect and leave her
Ayden Allen
If she hid it from you that means she knows it was wrong, but she doesn't care about how you would feel about it.
Adam Rogers
tell her to do the same and quit being a whore
Jaxson Gutierrez
It's not about being Christian doofus. It's about commitment that's why you're in your shitty situation.
Zachary Morales
That commitment could lose me most of my shit. Though I get your point.
Andrew Hughes
>Honestly we both found that marriage was pretty pointless Lucky for you, it makes it easier to leave her, which you should do.
>get some fucking self respect and leave her
What he said, come on man. I guarantee you're worth more as a human being to have to endure that shit.
Jacob Reed
she has no respect for you. if you're ok with that, by all means stay in that relationship you soon-to-be-cuck. my advice: break it off
Henry Barnes
That child sorry money is going to get her financially stable. Good luck op.
Jason Robinson
Make sure you have proof and then walk out. Taking the child. Submit proof to court that she is a cheater and unfit to be a mother. Get CS from her. Leave that stupid bitch fucking immediately. Get two weeks worth of clothes for yourself and child along with whatever else the child needs and go stay with a friend. The longer you wait the worse off you'll be. Fucking seriously leave now. This will not end well for you or the child if you stay.
Joshua Young
OP here
Thank you Sup Forums for always being there for me. She is actually currently viewing this topic. I wanted her to see that the world views this shit the same way I do.
Adrian Anderson
>She is actually currently viewing this topic. You really are that much of a cuck...
David Fisher
I sent it to her to prove a point. It has nothing to do with being a cuck?
Kayden Martin
reeeeeeeEEEEEEEE
Logan Long
You need to fucking leave her. Idk how much more straightforward anyone can be on here.
Kevin Carter
What a cuck. Pussy her overly loose and abused vag.
Landon Garcia
So what. She feels naughty having her friends see her nude. As long as she ain't cheating, no harm no foul. You probably get great sex and extra blowjobs everytime she sends nudes to her friends. You should thank her for spicing up your love life.
Owen James
it just proves you won't leave her you fucking cuckold. Cheat on him, he won't leave you
Bentley Bailey
It has everything to do with you not being an independent MAN
Don't listen to this moron. Drawing a line in the sand is very important for this type of issue, and if she's willing to send nude pics to other, what stops her from doing anything more?
Bentley Collins
This literally sounds like her words....
Jace Harris
>I sent it to her to prove a point. Also show convo
Jace Thomas
Lol I bet this is the dumb cheating cunt trying to defend herself.
Camden Baker
Femanon here that sells nudes. Save your comments and hear me out: What she did is wrong and if she doesn't see that she broke your trust and doesn't care how you feel about it, leave her. But understand she's probably not doing to hurt your feelings. Trust me Sup Forumstards, it's not really that fun or ego-boosting. It's just for money. If the two of you could compromise somehow that would be key. Take the whole "slut" concept out of it and think about how you feel. Does it hurt you that she's talking to these guys in a sexual context and therefore cheating? Or does it hurt because she's selling her pics to these guys? Does it hurt because she hid it from you? There's a difference. You gotta think about exactly what hurts you about it. Talk about it, talk about it some more. But if you really do find that you don't like it and she doesn't care, dump her ass.
Justin Hughes
She doesn't sell nudes. She gives them away for free.
It hurts me because it's not me she's being sexual with. I don't need other dudes getting shit that should be meant for me. Instead I'm getting hand me down nudes some other dude jerked it to.
We've talked about this.
There isn't really a convo. Pretty sure she's ignoring me. Not sure if she's even viewing this topic anymore. When she finds out she's in the wrong she tries to ignore the problem and pretend it's not there.
Luke Ortiz
>Femanon here that sells nudes. Save your comments and hear me out: Some good comments in here, but regardless, we better see some tits w/ a timestamp
What the fuck do you people not understand about the fact that you don't need to use your gender or race as a qualifier for validity of your words
Everything you said could have been stated without saying you're a femanon, but yet you included it with the intent to make, or have, your words carry more weight over other anons
Stupid cunt
Angel Roberts
>When she finds out she's in the wrong she tries to ignore the problem and pretend it's not there. Jesus christ, yet another red flag
Bail you idiot
Ryan Ramirez
wow, who hurt you? i just said it bc maybe it'd be beneficial to hear that she's wrong even from the side of another chick who does it instead of these insecure little basement dwelling dudebros.
Carter Davis
This this this this
I stayed with a girl after this kind of situation, she damaged me further then fucked a guy and said she needed space from me but she still wanted me to be her beta orbiter. I cut her out of my life now but I've been a drunk ever since. I have zero trust in women now.
Andrew Hughes
Can you at least get her to talk to you about your future plans with the kid? If you're still with her by the time this post 404s I swear
Ethan Cruz
Fucking christ. this is exactly how I picture things going. How do you get trust in women again? I just figure most will do the same shit to me.
Lincoln Ross
fuck the shit out of her tonight let it be a night to remember. torture her. deny her orgasms. fuck her like you never did before. fuck her as long as you can as long as possible
Ayden Sanchez
>wow, who hurt you? No one
>i just said it bc maybe it'd be beneficial to hear that she's wrong even from the side of another chick who does it instead of these insecure little basement dwelling dudebros.
Unfortunately that has no relevance since after op stated
>She doesn't sell nudes. She gives them away for free.
Which isn't by any means your fault, but still no longer relevant to the conversation
Wyatt Bell
Like someone said above, if that's her fantasy(and that's all she is doing), in exchange for allowing her to continue doing it with no issue have her help satisfy one of you fantasies. She wants to send nudes to friends, fine, you want some MFF 3somes or have her get some nude pics from some of her female friends.
Your love life will be better if you both feel free to share turn ons and aren't afraid to help/encourage as long as it doesn't damage the relationship. You going to end a ten year relationship because she has an exhibitionist side she likes to let loose.
Hunter Evans
It's the fact that she's going behind my back. Lying to me about not sending nudes. Then continuing to keep the lies going as I kept finding more information.
This wasn't something we both sat down and agreed to to improve our sexual life.
This was something she took into her own hands to get off on. With people she spends hours on the comp with.
Jeremiah Cruz
Dump that cheating bitch!
Isaiah Walker
Aaand you are also a whore. Worthless opinion.
Andrew Fisher
I bet it's a bunch of Chad's she is sending them too. Slit that bitches throat.
Colton Brooks
FUCK YOU POS QUEEN PUSSY SUCKER(i like the new england generation Harry or something), CHOOSE FRENCH SOCIALIST IN AMERICA. LES CANADIENS(AKA FRENCH SOCILIALIST) VONT GAGNEES CE SOIR.
Jaxson Garcia
How did your relationship go, be fully honest so I can give you advice. This is the user you replied to btw. I'm a damaged cyborg so I might be able to help you out.
Adrian Peterson
Well yes, that is wrong of her, hence you coming to an agreement she helps you with your fantasies now. Sounds like even if you put your foot down she would still do it. Or you would always have doubts she continues to do it. So you only have a few options...1. leave her 2. Decide from this moment on you two agree to a fantasy share partnership with 100% honesty 3. Stay commonlaw for convenience and sake of expenses and child. But you are no longer a couple and each free to do what they want with they want.
I have a friend who let's his wife fuck whoever she wants. They have two kids together. She is completely honest with him, uses protection, and they are a happy couple. How much you willing to take to make the relationship work? If it will make you go insane or you think she is up to more than just pics, get out.
Levi Phillips
Yup. I said it before and I'll say it again. Who knows what else she's been hiding from you then? You'll never get to the bottom of it if she can be that dishonest with you for 10 years. You're right to not put up with that and anyone who would put up with it is a complete faggot.
Brody Nguyen
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Liam Bell
Lol
Andrew Morales
You will never trust women again.
Isaac Sullivan
Pretty much feel the same way after my last bitch. It's to easy for them to fuck around with social media now. And it's all glorified and encouraged in the "you go girl" culture. Forget it man I'm out.