Me and my girlfriend both agreed to try it out. Shortly we'll move to a place where we can fuck whenever we want, so the right moment is coming up quickly. I especially want to make it feel good for her, so that we keep doing it after the first try. My fetish would be to cum deep inside her ass.
Do you have any tips to share about preparation, lube, toys, coming inside the ass, and so on? Any help will be really appreciated. I already scanned the web but also would like some first hand experiences.
As a person whose had lots of anal sex, from the top perspective anal is fucking a bad vagina. From the bottom perspective it's fun if you like the feeling of being full and being penetrated. It's massively over rated OP.
Noah Barnes
Go fucking snails pace slow. Don't hurt her, she will be hung up on that "one time it hurt" forever.
Lube lube lube. Start with finger. Itty bitty butt plugs etc. I got a bigger dick and I assure you her ass will accept a python if you take all the proper steps. Make sure she cleans her ass really well. Maybe even enema.
If you get shit on a little bit do not even acknowledge it. Don't embarrass her. Make it all about her man.
A lot of girls like it facing each other the first time for some reason. Less impersonal maybe.
Connor Reyes
Don't listen to this virgin. Anal is actually very hard to pull out. It can be a nightmare.
She should eat a few hours before you do it, let her clean her ass (not only the hole, the whole digestive system, you can find stuff to make her empty her ass), also use a lot of lube. Don't forget to be gentle and stretch it softly (use fingers, toys if you want).
Cooper Walker
> Go fucking snails pace slow. Don't hurt her, she will be hung up on that "one time it hurt" forever. Yes, this is exactly what I want to avoid. I know the first time will be extremely important.
Thanks for the tips! Do you agree with >726844430?
Levi Diaz
Thanks for the tips about eating some time before we do it! Do you have any recommendations about toys?
Jaxson Taylor
>She should eat a few hours before you do it, y tho?
Julian Ramirez
huh.. sorry i'm drunk af. She SHOULDN'T eat before doing it. For the toys I don't have anything in mind. I actually never used some. Fingers are your best bet. One, then two. The asshole is a muscle, train it.
Jason Diaz
top kek user is about to have massive Mexican dinner with GFbefore going for anal
Parker Lewis
only do it after shes taken a dump. approach this however you want
Evan Gomez
Shit all over the room situation: avoided.
Xavier Perry
he means shouldn't
Adam Williams
Just imagine the mess.. I'm picturing the guy like: > eat!! some guy on the internet told me you have to! > user, it seems kinda stupid.. we shouldn... > NO EAT, ALL YOU CAN
Carson Williams
beans and cheese and cheese and beans thats what she should have for lunch beans and cheese and cheese and beans then fuck her up the ass (i got it)
Carson Young
I have one question though what is the time one has to wait after her taking a shit? what is too long what is too short?
Caleb Davis
Your comment on the top perspective is accurate. While I enjoy anal from time to time, it doesn't feel as good as a vagina once your penis head is past the sphincter muscle. I have done anal before and not cum as a result of that.
Matthew Gomez
Eat out her ass/tonguefuck her. Use your tongue to push spit into her asshole.
You still need to use lube, but this will help with the fingerfucking to loosen her up. The head is the hardest part to get in, partly because it's the widest and partly because it's the first thing and girls freak out.
Don't pull out fast unless you want to make her shit.
Don't freak out if you have bits of shit on your dick, that will happen.
If you cum inside, she will have to take a dump shortly after. Unless you're into the whole "make her gape and push it out" thing.
She needs to push out as you go in to make it easier. I know that's counter intuitive, but that's how it works.
Adrian Roberts
she should do an enema before you try anything, also lots of lube and start with one finger, then two and after you have fingered her ass for a while with three fingers, she's ready to take your dick
Adrian James
I disagree in part. I do agree it's overrated on its face but as an act of dominance it's wonderful for a male and for the dichotomy of a sexual relationship. It's a real submissive thing to get your asshole fucked.
A LOT of girls love it though and describe it as a different form of pleasure all together for them.
That's why it's smart to just make it about them. Keep the fact that you're owning their body and defiling their ass in the back of your mind.
Evan Rivera
You can get a small enema kit at CVS, make sure she eats plenty of fiber and green leafy vegetables the day before it so she takes a nice SOLID shit before. Don't eat in the 2-3 hours leading up. Get her excited by eating her ass, then fingers, then a buttplug that's smaller than your dick, then ease your dick in nice and slow. Lube up liberally. They sell small lube injectors on Amazon I think it's called a lube launcher, looks like a plastic syringe. If you can get lube up her ass it will be much easier and less painful. That's key because if you just lube your dick and her hole then it will rub off once you get an inch or two in and cause pain. Give positive encouragement during, tell her how sexy and hot it is, it's so fucking tight, etc so she knows you're really enjoying it. God speed user.
Luke Walker
Use toys, start small, enema beforehand is preferable, and use anal lube. Most kinds of it have an anaesthetic component that helps ease the pain.
Matthew Lee
This guy is all wrong with the prep. All you need to do is clean up to her colon with an enema. Just finger her with 1 to 2 fingers and lube to stretch a bit. Ease into her until you're as far as you can go, then you can pump.
t. Bottom faggot
Kayden Evans
OP
LISTEN
Buy two buttplugs, one slightly bigger than your finger. The second buttplug must be bigger than the first, but smaller than your cock.
Start with a finger and some lube. Insert first buttplug for 5-10min, go down on her make her cum. Pull out first, insert second. Go down on her moar and maybe make her blow you a bit. Pull out second, goto anal, start slow (she will get used to it pretty quick because of the buttplugs though) then have at it.
Use a dildo on her while you fuck her so its like she is being DP'd, also have her use a vibrator on herself while you ass fuck her so she associates orgasms with anal.
There, you win.
Thomas Miller
The first time I didn't even tell her. Straight in. Hard. She didn't like it, I didn't care. Came in like 53 seconds, shit was cash.
Charles Perez
I read a lot about enemas. Do you usually have to buy a kit or can you make it DIY?
Aiden Miller
Depends what you have around the house, really. I used to use a large syringe, but you can use a plastic water bottle if youre gentle with the tip.
Aiden Turner
Yes, buttplugs are definitely on my list. Thanks for the suggestions about sizes. Yes, I agree that a solid shit would be the perfect thing. Probably, telling her about this will be the hardest part (I wouldn't want her to feel awkward and back out of the deal). Lube specific for anal? Nice suggestion, thanks.
John Powell
Ok, thanks. So, just out of curiosity, are you a femanon or a bottom?
James Reed
Yes, the dominance is definitely a key aspect for me. I think it's linked to me wanting to come inside her ass, too.
Lincoln Ross
honestly OP, the best anal I ever had was entirely spontaneous. She was in the kitchen, i came up behind her and started feeling her up, pulled her leggings halfway down and stuck it in her cunt. Fucked her hard, standing up from behind for a while, she was loving it (I'm not typically that forceful and assertive), and then I grabbed a fistful of hair, pulled her head back, bit into her neck/shoulder and shoved my dick in her ass at the same time. I think the pain of the bite distracted her from the pain in her ass. Maybe not, I dunno. Fucked her hard in the ass for about 10 minutes until she came and collapsed on the floor, I stood over her and finished, then turned the shower on and dragged her into it still cum-drunk. Probably the most alpha thing I've ever done. 10 years later, she still talks about it.
tl;dr - don't plan shit, don't be gentle, just fuck her good and hard for awhile before you shove it in the ass. Make the transition quick, don't give her a chance to hesitate and ask you to 'be gentle'.
Dylan Howard
2 hours after poop clean out ass use hybrid silicone / water-based lube have her understand she is meant to endure anal submit to it not "avoid" the pain or reverse-sensation having a cock in your ass can feel like have god inside you because your body thinks it is very very wrong
Nicholas Ross
I'll let you believe what you want lol.
Christian Thomas
Nice. Would love to do the same.
Ayden Garcia
I'd advise springing a few bucks for a real kit, if this is her first time you're going to scare her off if you try to jam a water bottle up her ass lol. Also I advise against numbing lube. It will numb your dick too, it will make it meh for her (you want her to feel it and realize she enjoys it, which she will if you do it right), and if it does hurt, that means you need to be gentler so you don't want her to be completely numb then get hurt, she'll never do it again.
Matthew Taylor
Fuck I love dumping a load deep in a girl. It always comes out slowly and they complain about having sticky panties for the whole day lol.
Nolan Robinson
directly after is as fine as 1 hour after, not more tho. But a small enema is reassuring. lube, then small quantities of water, 4 or 5 times
Eli Nguyen
This is probably the worst possible advise for a first time anal, that shit hurts. Stretch her up, lube her up with double the lube that you think is needed.
Kayden Perry
Not receptive until balloon knot has been tampered with. Lick the doughnut ring and feel around while pussy play. Eventually, drive down the dirt trail.
