Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
I am 19, have no friends, can't make eye contact for more than 2 seconds and there is literally nothing interesting about me so I don't see myself having a girlfriend anytime soon.
Are there any anons that did it? Was it worth it?

Wondered just the same thing. Am 19 also

They might give you a pity discount if you tell them youre a virgin because of your autism.

No but you might as well go for it. You can't even get some whale off CL to fuck you for free?

in the end its really not worth it, just a waste of money

Jeez you guys are hopeless, I'm 19 and I don't have any issues.
Act confident = Pussy

Use tinder user...

Yeah do it, no big deal, I've seen over 20, make sure you get a good one, the real hot ones are bitches though.
I'd get a slim one in her early 40s

You're only 19 OP. Don't buy a hooker.

Right, don't do it. Hookers are for loosers and you're still young to know if you're one of them

You'll need to be very careful.

Choose your hooker wisely. There's a lot out there who will try to fleece or if you are inexperienced or lack confidence. Yes the pressure is off to be able to perform as she won't mind whether you can get it up or if nerves get into the way. Unlike a girl on a date where you may worry shell lose interest if you are too nervous.
There are some good girls out there so it may be worth a try.

Not OP but I have a question
Sometimes I look in the mirror and think to myself "damn, I should be a fucking model" and other times I look in it and am shocked by how ugly I look. It's confusing the hell out of me. For that reason I can't be confident.

>the real hot ones are bitches though

What? I thought that as long as she gets paid, she should just do whatever you want?

Wait dude, I do my 1st time with a prostitute, I was 20, 2 weeks later I meet a girl for fuck a lot, wait a little + 2 weeks

If you're struggling to make eye contact then how the fuck will you get a hooker?

well done! the first fuck its nothing special. Now you realize that you can fuck a woman. Now go out and find anyone and fuck her

Oh and what ever you decide to do OP , don't risk falling for her. Falling for a hooker is the absolute worst thing you can do. The girl will probably go along with it, for the money, but it's just an act. If you must do it this way, try not to do it in your home city/town so it makes it a lot more difficult.

Talking from experience here.

It depends on how spergy you are and how much you're willing to pay.

Do your research ahead of time online (backpage and craigslist) to find someone you like. If you want to actually have a good experience, you need to pay them. Talk to her ahead of time; tell her you're nervous and a virgin, ask her for the rate for the full amount of time to nut more than once.

Pay her first, and then give her a decent tip (another fifty or hundred). Don't do anything rapey, and respect her limits.

Hookers are for instant release with no consequences. As long as you don't get addicted and use a condom. I use whores because I can, not because I need to.

its like cheating op, but yeah if you wanna feel like a pathetic faggot go for it op

Can't you just use Tindr or something?

I lost my virginity to prostitute when i was 18 with exactly the same logic. I am 19 now and my life has changed a lot since then. I have a lot more confidence, i found friends, albeit a small group, and i have a gf that thinks i lost my virginity to her, just because im ashamed to tell her.
To this day i haven't told anyone about this and it is actually one of my most shamefull secrets.
Not saying that all this must apply to you too, but it may be harder to live with yourself than you might think.

Virgin confirmed.

You don't pay a hooker to fuck you, you pay her to leave afterwards.

But also, you're paying for a service. Anyone who says their first time was great is a liar. A good whore is a sex expert and instead of getting an awkward bumbling teen who doesn't know her own body or yours, you're paying for someone who is a sex professional and has clients that go to her regularly specifically because she's a good fuck.

Damn missed quints by one

I used to have performance anxiety but seeing hookers helped a lot. And helped confidence.

Yes, of course. There is no better way than to be with someone who is completely willing because they want to get paid. Makes the whole thing so much easier.

I would advise against it because it won't fix the problems you have with women, and not only that there's a good chance you'll feel far worse afterwords. But if you insist, try looking for a girl to fuck in a strip club instead of online. That way you'll know what you're getting upfront and it'll force you to talk to a woman face to face

1.virginity is not something holy fuckin jew
2.eye contact for more than 2 seconds = practice make 2 sec to 3 sec
3.nothing interesting about me. lol the question is can you hold an conversation can you >physically escalate or just escalate< KEY FACTOR JUST FUCKING GO FOR IT GUYS MINDS ARE FUCKING STUPID WHEN IT COMES TO THIS

Nah bro, their attitude goes a long way. Some just lie there, some actively ride you and rub their clit etc

What? Are you saving yourself for the right guy, princess? Go fuck that whore and enjoy it faggot.

Honestly, losing your virginity is nothing to feel special about. Hell, having sex with someone out of lust or for money doesn't feel any better than jerking off. At least by jerking off you can decide the tempo. Sex starts feeling great when you honestly get the feeling that the girl wants your dick and wants to do everything in her power to make you cum hard while also cumming hard. There's a difference between sex and sex. A hooker won't let you experience sex like someone who loves you/wants you does.

>not just saying sexpert

It's probably not the actual snagging that op wants , it's actually to touch and see irl a naked female not just see one on a screen

Everything is just a waste of money, really

>have no confidence
>act confident anyway
Doesn't work that way

>having to deal with fickle girls on tinder
No fucking way

Its not the 1980's user, you don't walk down the ave looking for hookers in dark alleys any more. You call or text them and tell them where to come if its an outcall, or where to meet if its an incall.

Its not about fixing the problem, its about getting the first time over with so he won't be as nervous the next time.

>A good whore is a sex expert and instead of getting an awkward bumbling teen who doesn't know her own body or yours, you're paying for someone who is a sex professional and has clients that go to her regularly specifically because she's a good fuck.
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>Are there any anons that did it?

I lost my virginity to a callgirl at the age of 18. I was one week exactly from being 18 and a half, and I had never even kissed a girl - I felt very ashamed of the stigma of being an "adult male virgin". I spent 280GBP for two hours with a 9/10 blonde, I found it hard to come due to nerves but I did eventually. She was very understanding and nice, don't go for a hooker/streetwalker unless you want to regret it forever.

> Was it worth it?

Yes, I couldn't talk to women at all and was very shy before this. I've since slept with 27 women, all but 5 of whom were escorts/callgirls, but I genuinely believe that I'd still be a virgin if I hadn't paid for it.

I'd recommend it if you're a kissless virgin by 18, but remember that "you get what you pay for" applies to prostitutes as with anything else.

I say go for it. If you pay him enough he might use lube and not rip your arse open too much.

No, if you can't get properly laid, become a wizard... OMW too

There are enough sluts out there you shouldn't ever have to pay for it.

Listen..

Your first time is something you're always going to remember. For the rest of your life, your only memory of losing your virginity will be "I had to fuck a whore because I was too desperate to wait". It's up to you if you think you'll be fine with that, but let me tell you something. That's a shitty thing to think of yourself for the rest of your life. I wouldn't do it, but I'm not you.

Yes do it. It's just a bunch of stuff that happens.

No man . It won't make you man to do that crap . Don't belittle yourself just to get a piece of ass . And pick up some stank ass STI or worse std . It's not worth it

but a STI is a mad car.

look op, you fucking some hooker wont change anything. You're not solving anything that you dont like about your self. if you think that it will help you then do it and every time you feel sad about your self remember my story.

i lost my virginity when i was 21 and it was the most painful thing for me. i was deployed to Afghanistan and i got blown up a lot. sex hurts for me like a lot, like sand paper and needles all over my tip and yes anal feels the same for me also. and its been about 6 years and you know what out of all the dates ive been on only one girl was fine with me not having a dick.

just make friends with an ugly, homely chic. you'll be ok...they need lovin', too.