Has anyone on here ever gotten rid of a fetish? Particulary femdom? Ive had it for as long as i can remember...

Has anyone on here ever gotten rid of a fetish? Particulary femdom? Ive had it for as long as i can remember. Its really tearing apart my marriage, my wife hates it, but she can tolerate it, but we've gotten into fights about it. Id rather just get rid of it rather than have her tolerate it. Has anyone gotten rid of a fetish, if so, how?

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Easiest thing is to substitute it

Fights? Why? How do they go?

A fetish is only one of several desires which cause suffering in your life, seek a Buddhist meditation center in your area to help rid yourself of these desires.

Like subsitute it for another fetish?And its more or less we'll have a fight about something else and she'll bring it up about how much she hates it or how she wishes we could have just regular sex
And ill look into it, thank you

Same here. Im a 20 yo virgin and my fetish is so insanely extreme that it will fucking scare anyone off. I feel like a fucking degenerate and it honestly hurts me. Im afraid of not being able to have a normal relationship and found a family later on because of this, and it makes me depressed.

Isn't this what port is for? Just have normal sex with your wife and occasionally watch porn of your fetish.

It's only feet. You don't HAVE to stare at them.

In a sense yes, until you actually crave the legitimate thing. Thats what i did while we were dating, then i told her about my fetishes. And now she doesn't want to have sex cause she thinks i wont be into it.

kek normie.

>Just have normal sex

What if you cant? I find that idea disgusting tbh.

Well not "regular" sex, but just fucking like trying different positions

I genuinely am not turned on by the thought of penetration of stimulation of any other kind.

Or*

Since you're not married yet, you can afford to just keep looking until you find someone who is into it. I found out one of my girlfriends was into pissing when we were in the shower and I pissed on her. She didn't even know it herself until that moment.

Been there. There is conversion therapy (the same therapy used when attempting to turn a gay person straight). How well it works depends on who you ask.

No personal opinion, as I couldn't afford to even try. And I wasn't about to submit a request to the insurance company even if they do cover it.

I ended up divorced. Never found another woman as wonderful (outside bed) as my ex. But I finally accepted myself, and even found like partners making life easier.

OK, if it's entered the land of marital problems, then go straight to a therapist to understand if this is due to personal issues. Don't fuck around with trying willpower and shit. You absolutely don't want this to turn into some closet secret because eventually it'll break to the surface and you'll have an affair or something else.

This is also an option if you're need to express is greater than your need for this particular person.

I dont really believe in "conversion" of sexual orientation. Maybe the converted just found something else that they were also into.

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Marriage is Femdom.

This
Same boat, my Ol lady hates me too. But fuck her anyways she's a spoiled brat.

You're a virgin 20 yo. The first pussy that threw herself at you, you'd forget those fetishes for years before they come back
Tldr; this thread isn't for you

black women

there is such a lack of attractive black girls in porn that even if I wanted to have this fetish again it wouldn't really be possible anyways. however bm/ww is now my strongest fetish and there is no way I can lose it.

reason I lost it is because I eventually found out every other women are hotter. then I realized there is very few attractive black girls in porn.

I would love to get rid of my sissy fetish. It's just not compatible with my real life. And I always have to hide it from my gf.

Ill look into it. I love her to death, and dont wanna lose her over some fetish i dint even wanna have

Why would you marry a woman who hates your fetish?

Find a mistress thats willing to participate in your fetish and keep it on the hush hush

>cause she doesn't love you and would leave you for how you think/ejac
Ftfy

I'm lucky to have found a woman who shares my fetishes - and we'd both fuck the woman in OP's pic.

take the redpill on women, you won't be able to stand it any more.

She has never really explored her own sexuality by herself before we came together. So she's rather innocent in that concern. She's open for experiments but I don't think she could handle something as degenerate as that.

It wasn't that straightforward. We married very young and stupid (and so in love, like a bad comedy). I thought I could ignore my fetish, she thought she could deal with it. This was before the internet.

In reality my ex hated my fetish. For years I ignored my desires, but that led to tensions, especially in bed. It finally just became too complicated as the tensions spilled into other areas of life.

This guy on Sup Forums did

It's disgusting to you to insert your penor into a vagina, remove it, then re-insert it a couple hundred times? You're a defective man. There's probably nothing that can be done

The real trick is to go back in time and marry someone else.

If you really have the BDSM bug, trying to live vanilla simply sucks harder and harder as the years go by. The cravings just get worse, and you start feeling more insane and climbing the walls. Femdom is tougher too, as even if you were single again, the competition is awfully fierce - there just aren't enough dominant women to go around. Maledom/femsub is so much easier.

I dunno, I know this isn't great advice, but in my experience shit only gets harder. I tried it for seven years (first relationship, didn't understand just how tough it would be to be "normal"), and toward the end I was climbing the walls. I just don't do vanilla anymore on principle, and life has been much better.

Me and and an ex used to run a popular bdsm relationship/OC tumblr, and I have read *thousands* of messages from desperate people in your situation. Some of them would try the communication route and have their partners meet them halfway, and things worked out - the most rewarding part of that whole hobby was people writing about how we inspired them and changed their lives. But for those whose partners weren't willing? Things are kind of grim.

Wish you luck bro.

So I should try bullying myself out of it? I'm afraid that won't work. As soon as I'm really into it when I fap to degenerate stuff my brain is so far gone that I'm not able to care about anything that I thought about before. Every rational argument or reason to stop just suddenly doesn't matter anymore.

It's rarely disgusting for most people with these sorts of kinks, more like, depressingly boring.

Like, yeah, I could have sex without beating women, painal, forced ass to mouth, and other wonderful things, but it's boring as fuck. So I don't.

Never give up hope. This elegant lady loved this scene. She took the dildo home to play with some more after filming. (From an interview with the director, John Blakemore.)

I used to be into rape/forced. Then I started be an asshole to bitch women. Now I am completely out of a fetish

Yeah, I guess bullying yourself wouldn't really work when your fetish is essentially having women bully you lmfao.

Not really into the whole humiliation thing actually. It's more about completely losing control and being taken advantage of.
And I love my own cum.

source?

Perversion Special. One of nine films in the Erotic Perversion series, directed by John Blakemore and produced by HOM back

Above information from an interview with the director.

**back in the 70s or 80s, the article wasn't clear.

I used to have a scat fetish in 8th grade. I should shit on myself and masturbate in it pretty much every night. I gradually realized it wasn't really normal and just made myself stop doing it as much as possible. I haven't done any shitplay since 8th grade and i'm not really into it anymore, for better or worse. You can do it, just put your mind to it and try to find other weird shit. maybe even stuff the draws upon similar ideas

I`m a guy and I`m trying to overcome my corset fetish. I love to wear them I don`t know why. But I wanna stop, tried throwing them away and cutting them up but I always but new ones to wear. Black color my favorite. love to masturbate while wearing them. I know its purely mental and just a fetish but I can`t make it go away.

i have never been able to get rid of a fetish, i just gain more
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