Last night I had sex for the first time in almost four years. It was also my first time having sex with a prostitute.
I met a her off of Craigslist. After we finished we just cuddled and talked. We talked about a lot of personal stuff about both of us. We also talked about our interests, and we like the same video games and tv shows.
Then I gave her a ride across town and we had more time to talk. She had me drop her off right next to her place, she told me she usually gets clients to drop her off several blocks away but she trusts me.
She sent me an email a little later saying:
Hey ! Was nice seeing you ! You're quite handsome and down to earth :)
But I hope to see you again perhaps before I leave :)
I emailed her back asking if she wanted to just hangout and play video games some time that she isn't busy, and told her I'd give her a ride wherever she needed to go if something came up. She didn't respond.
I feel like an idiot now. Am I wrong for thinking we could be friends? Did I really misjudge the situation? I'm aware that women will pretend to like you for money, but I honestly thought we were kinda like friends.
Shes a pro and youre a rookie. You just lost the game.
Joseph Jones
Ya unless she offers to fuck you for free she's just being nice for money but you already know that deep down so idk why I even bothered to type this
Owen Nguyen
I don't know if she thinks I'm looking for free sex or she doesn't want to be friends or what the deal is. Maybe she thinks bad of me for going to a prostitute?
Christopher Powell
you didn't roll triple
Gabriel Rogers
Give it too much thought and/or send her another mail -> BETA AS FUCK
Continue with your life, say nothing more -> KIND OF ALPHA
Move on pal, keep fucking sluts
Jacob Flores
She legitimately shared interests with me. She couldn't fake that. She quoted Rick and Morty and talked about Halo. She told me about growing up in foster homes and about her dreams of going to school.
I feel like it was more than just being nice for money.
Ryan Cooper
I'm about to be in the same boat. Only difference is that we haven't fucked yet. She's told me she's never gone through with fucking for money, and I'd be the first. Been getting along really well.
I'm glad I read your post, OP. It's going to help me bring my head back down from the clouds.
Thomas Wright
This, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife
Ignore this, oven if she fucks you for free, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife
Henry Price
Love me some hookers. Call these cunts, they are fine as can be
Henry Howard
I could pay to fuck her again, but I feel like I shouldn't be paying to fuck her if we're going to be friends.
Do I just forget about her? I don't know how to feel. It would have been cool to be friends though.
Noah Gutierrez
I don't want to fuck her for free or turn her into a housewife. Just be friends
David Cruz
Op, she's a fucking hooker. I understand you haven't fucked in four years but you need to try to think logically here. You don't want to get into that situation
Carson Turner
Yes, forget about her. You can't turn a how into a housewife
Aiden Kelly
>whore >capable of being anything more You realize that most of their clientele are people who can't get women right? There living is based off your wages and how often you pitch in. They suck up their pride and delve into shit they think you would like. And of course she probably has some tragic backstory shes a prostitute. All I'm sayin OP don't go looking for love in a whore it will never work. They love the money buddy not you
Jordan Long
Hoe*
Christopher Smith
I don't care. She's cool. I'd like to be friends.
Benjamin Parker
So it was your mom wasn't it
Aaron Ramirez
Hahahahaha youd be paying to fuck her especially if sje was yoir girlfriend
Cooper Mitchell
She's remembering the old adage:
Make money off your friends because your enemies won't do business with you.
I've been friends with hookers, and fucked one more often than I can remember. Another offered, but it just never happened. It's not impossible, but don't expect it without her prompting it first.
That one post is right, only initiate correspondence from here to do business. Keep it friendly though, and she just might come around.
Grayson Lee
All these chumps in this thread. Mate you paid her to be interested in you and that's what she did. She told you she liked the same shit about you. Read you as another John and worked you over like chump. She's emailed you because she sees a return client. The girl has excellent marketing and sales skills.
William Ross
Man, be honest. You don't want to be "just friends" with her, do you?
It gives me the impression that you feel lonely, and this girl suddenly gives you in a couple of hours sex and shared interests, and starts your heart engine, amairite?
Samuel Smith
I'm not looking for love. Just a friend.
Most people here aren't understanding that I'm just looking for friendship. Makes me wonder if she did the same. Maybe I should have been more explicit.
Nathaniel Fisher
No you do not want to be friends with a fucking hooker. All that will happen is she will use you in every possible way. She's doing you a favor here
Carter Rivera
I don't usually say things like this but OP you're a fucking idiot.
Just because she was nice to you doesn't mean she fucking cares about you ya stupid buffoon. Of course she's going to be nice and quote Rick and Morty for you, because she knows you'll give her money so she can shoot heroin in her asscrack or whatever.
Seriously OP not having sex for four years doesn't make you as much of a loser as coming out and saying that you think you wanna be friends with this awesome prostitute or whatever.
Seriously you need to reevaluate you're life because I'm sure this is not the most stupid idea you have had.
Jordan Watson
What?
Kayden Collins
Nope, I understand. I get it. She just might not. Read what I said about my hooker friends above.
Ethan Sullivan
This.
She's obviously been doing this for a while and the neckbeards flooding this board with "well maybe she'll see you as blah blah blah" are people who are just as socially stupid as you are.
Grayson Reyes
/THHHHREAD
Jaxon Brooks
I feel like now that I know her I shouldn't be paying to fuck her. Like isn't that kinda disrespectful and goes against the concept of friendship?
Cameron Lee
Yeah bro. Even if she plays the 'friends' card it will still cost this chump money. What's with this whole protecting weak women shit in this thread, all these losers wanting to be a hero.
Joseph Howard
Like I said before, money off your friends. The hookers I knew still tried to hit me up for a few bucks ( read $50 plus) every so often. Still a discount, and still fucked for free when times were plentiful.
Adam Walker
I do just want to be friends. I'm kinda going through an early midlife crisis. I already opened up with her, which is the hardest part of making meaningful friendships.
Asher Robinson
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Brayden Peterson
She isn't your friend. Won't be your friend and her add to fuck for cash didn't say will fuck for cash once then become friend you lonely cunt.
Jackson Anderson
I don't think so. She seems like a nice girl, I don't think she'd use me at all.
Easton Adams
Exactly, you don't want to be friends, you want to fuck her for free. And she knows that. Now you're finally being honest
Gabriel Rivera
they're faggot virgins and 12 year olds same losers who support feminism and pretend to be a tough guy when someone says something misogynistic on the internet. any guy who's dipped his dick in pussy knows they're all trash.
Angel Miller
On your side. She doesn't give a fuck about you or your feelings.
Hey dude, you are getting your headspun over a prostitute. I feel sorry for you so ill be nice and blunt. You are out of practice and not very good with chicks. This was a simple tranaction. Money for sex. And you are getting confused. So to start if you pay a chick to suck your dick.. she is not your friend. If you meet a girl at the supermarket dont ask her to suck your dick for money. You need to get out there dude.. your rust is showing.
Lucas Taylor
>I feel like an idiot now. Correct. Congrats, you fell for a whore with a heart of gold
Josiah Perry
Meh, she probably doesn't want to spend any extra time with most of her clients. They climax, she's ready to head out the door. Maybe you're the first decent looking person she's had in a while, so she hung around for a little bit.
Adam Green
Awesome Slut
Cooper Baker
I'm with this guy. Stretch your legs. There isn't anything for you there.
Andrew Thomas
>I could pay to fuck her again,
Then do it. She's at a place in her life where she has to work on her knees and back. Be her friend by paying her for her service.
OP, you can be "friends" with her like you'd be friends with a bartender. They're nice to you, but only so far as to make you feel comfortable and keep coming back.
Fuck her, pay her, talk to her. Then wash, rinse, and repeat.
She isn't running a charity.
"Keep your business and relationships completely separated." - Notorious B.I.G.
This guy is right.
Jackson Sanchez
You fell for her ploy OP, but don't feel bad. Every guy does this and more than once. It's the price you pay for not bleeding out of your genitals every month. Instead, every month some girl suckers you into some shit like this.
Just drink a beer, don't text back and move on.
Jonathan Jackson
This guy gets it.
Landon Ramirez
I'm sorry but you're a tool
Joseph Sanchez
This this this this.
Ayden Rivera
No. I just want to be friends. To be honest after I blew my load I wasn't sure if I ever wanted to have sex again.
I stopped masturbating. Dec 31 was the last time. I planned on doing 90 days without sex or masturbation. The first two days were impossible. I wanted to masturbate so bad. But then on day four it was gone. No desire to masturbate at all. But as day 90 got close I thought more and more about sex. I no longer wanted to masturbate at all. I needed sex.
So on day 92 I got a prostitute. But after I came my sex drive went to 0. It's still somewhere around 0.
I assume it will come back. But I don't know. But I do know that my life is meaningless and I need someone to add some meaning to it.
Aiden Smith
Teeth are fucked
Kayden Roberts
>"Keep your business and relationships completely separated." - Notorious B.I.G. Ohh yes, I'm sure it was B.I.G who coined that phrase
Jack Bell
Just be friends with somebody else. Move on. You can't force friendship. It happens naturally. You'd know that if you actually had a friend or two.
Aiden Foster
And her face in general
Charles Roberts
This thread is hilarious! Great story OP you should write comedies about pathetic losers.
I just see paying for sex as not being that different from paying for anything. If I had that conversation with someone who I paid to clean my place or deliver me pizza I'd ask them to be friends. I know sex isn't pizza but is it all that different?
Nathaniel Murphy
Hahaha, of course he didn't. I just really like "10 Crack Commandments".
first thing that came to my head.
David Ward
Dude get a hobby.. you think way to much about playing with your dick or not playing with your dick. This is not a fucking spy novel. With intrigue and plot twist. And who is on what side. Its your dick. Its their to play with whenver you want
Lincoln Gomez
This has to be bait. Nobody is this gullible.
Liam Parker
lets say i sell a car.
you love the car.
i made a lot of money selling you the car.
i want you to buy more cars from me.
ill say anything to keep you buying cars from me.
you buy another car from them because they jerked you off and you loved it.
they arent your friend.
just because they humor you doesnt mean they care about you.
sorry it involved your cock.
Kevin Ramirez
Fairymuff, I always assume the worst on Sup Forums tho
Benjamin White
>Equating an intimate experience with pizza delivery or cleaning
Eli Roberts
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Austin King
I do have friends. But it was a little different with her. I'm also friends with my ex, the last girl I had fucked. She's one of my best friends actually. But she has her own problems and it's hard to talk about mine with her. I have guy friends too but like it's different with the guys
Noah Anderson
Yeah, you'd be far more likely to make friends with a pizza driver
Joshua Reed
>sex >intimate
nigga its 2017
Jackson Richardson
Not bait. Maybe I'm wrong, but she was nice. That might change but I don't think so
Logan Scott
Even as an experienced hobbyist, I've been down that road.
I had an ATF. For whatever reason, the sex was really hot between us and she was h I t as hell. We always spent time talking after and she told me her birthday was coming up. I asked her if she had any plans. She said no. So I offered to take her out to a nice dinner...no strings.
Dinner went well, kissed her goodnight and we went our separate ways.
2 weeks later she called me saying her car broke down and she was desperate for money. She said she'd owe me an appointment. I told her that if I sent her money, there was no longer a professional arrangement (I saw her at least once a month...at $250/hr). She disappeared from the hobby boards for 3 months and I didn't hear from her. Then she returned with some crazy story about working out of state. Shortly after her return she was banned from all the hobby boards for being a part of a cash and dash with a girl she was doing duos with.
The true story is that she served 90 days in County jail for possession of coke. The reason nobody did anything with her on her birthday is that her family cut off ties until she got sober. That was the last I heard...
I heard she posted on BP last year in a different city in my state. Found the ad and looked at the pics. She wasn't a beauty anymore. She looked a step away from being a sreetwalker.
Moral of the story? It is possible to be friends with a whore...but only if you've never paid them for sex.
Gavin King
Become friends with a hooker. Hanging out playing games. Ask if everything is okay. She says everything is fine but her ass hurts from getting trained by sic black dudes at a Coke party last night. One of the homeboys didn't wear a rubber and she needs a ride to get tested.
Zachary Gray
its too late for alpha, faggot. by not emailing her again he simply avoids going omega.
Ian Lee
What on earth are you blabbering about. How often do you buy a pizza and become friends with that person. My guess is never not once in my life or yours. So wtf are you talking about
Blake Ortiz
>Intimate >"private and personal"
I know what you thought it meant, but you're wrong
Sebastian Flores
Hookers are just actresses. I know this from experience. They'll tell you your dick is big/nice/whatever. They say that to everyone. They'll laugh at your joke, doesn't matter if it's funny or not. You're just an organic ATM machine.
You want friends? Just go to a bar and start drinking and talking to people. And by people, I mean patrons. Don't try to make friends with the bouncer, bartender, or the bathroom attendent.
Caleb Garcia
Used condom or it didn't happen.
Kayden Cox
>bathroom attendant
I love places that have a black guy that waits on my while I'm in the john. Feels like the old days.
But not sure I'd ever try to take up small talk with them.
Jaxon Hughes
yeah, because he couldnt just cum into a condom and take a picture of it. good thinking, user!
Aiden Nguyen
I said if. I've never had a pizza delivery guy stick around to talk. I actually almost asked a courtesy driver if she wanted to be friends.
She was driving me to pick up my car after getting some work done and we had a great convo on the ride. I was pretty close to asking if she wanted to hangout some time but I pussied out. I wasn't wanting more than friends if you're thinking that, she wasn't attractive. I have decently high standards when it comes to that.
Gabriel Lewis
Hey. Wanna hang out? Uh maybe...I have a porn shoot at nine then I'm supposed to be at the retirement home at 11.
Brandon Carter
Don't be a cuck.
Michael Gutierrez
It's her job to be friendly. Don't look into it too much. Just like any service job, they want your tips amd repeat business. Car salesman isn't nice to you because he wants to be your friend. He wants your money and you to tell your friends you should buy from his dealership. You'll probably talk about sports amd cars that you both like. You may have legit overlap in interests, but that doesn't mean they want to be your friend. Don't mistake professional friendliness for actual friendliness.
Kayden Nelson
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Bentley Collins
How much did you pay?
Grayson Ross
>It is possible to be friends with a whore...but only if you've never paid them for sex.
I've known a lot of pros. Banged a lot of them, some on the clock, some not. No problems at all. If they came over when they knew I had coke, they knew their ass was going to get tapped. I loved party-and-play.
Jose Torres
Your mouth taste salty tonight honey. Oh shit! I forgot to brush!
Thomas Ramirez
>Be me >See prostitute ask her to a motel >Can you stroke my cock first it is my first time >Sure thing Dallas Diamond Dick >Didnt Cum anyway you got played OP she is a real pro.
Luke Lewis
$120. Cheaper than I expected
Joseph Garcia
That's not unusual for CL girls.
Luis Perez
Your dick is so huge compared to the other twelve I fucked and sucked today!
Hunter Bailey
I got a courtesy ride last week. I had a good convo with the guy. I wasn't going to invite him for beers on the weekend because that is weird as fuck. He was doing his job. I'm sure if I tried to get him to hang out off the clock, he would have told all his coworkers at the garage that I was some creep who was trying to kidnap him, or the most beta guy he'd met in the last year.
Nolan Long
This is the type I usually go for. Free and you can bring friends
Nicholas Ross
Op don't feel bad. She likely saw you as a potential safe "regular". Might have come off as obsessive, which is easy to do after getting laid after a four year dry spell. Obsessive isn't safe, hence the
Prostitutes, and females in general are humans dispite the opinions of some, and as humans doesn't it make sense they'd like safe friendly work conditions?
You were/are potentially a safe friendly customer, and getting paid is 100 percent a reasonable part of your arrangement with her, as is a lack of commitment, and keeping the busy comfortable for both of you.
This is the best you can expect from her assuming you straighten up your confused emotional mess of a self, that she gives you her services for pay and advice and pointers for a real relationship for free while she is doing so if you make that request plan and explicit. Like a good therapist she should work her self out of a job, making more confident and prepared for being without her. Like a bad therapist she could rob your confidence and make you less able to cope without her.
The moral? Therapists are emotional whores.
Parker Gomez
Yeah I felt it would be weird. But I thought about it was my point.
Landon Hernandez
What's with you assholes that can't get laid? I'm a literal fat fuck with am average personality and an average job and I still get laid easily. Albeit they aren't 10s...maybe 5-7s but it's still pussy
Aaron Williams
I firmly believe that bathroom attendents exist solely to make me feel guilty about taking a shit while they have to sit there and hear/smell it. At least they're getting paid to smell my bowel movements.
Gabriel Gonzalez
It's not that I can't. I just don't. I could explain my situation but I was never that interested in sex, I have a unique fetish that I'd fulfill through stories that I'd read online. I quit masturbating to hopefully increase my drive for sex and not my fetish.
I do crave relationships though. Prior to now I've only had sex with women when dating them and they couldn't wait any more.
Ian Sanchez
Don't think about it. Don't try to be friends with people in service jobs while they're working.