how do I deal with my GF Sup Forums? She's consistently depressed. When she's not, she's just building herself up again to go through another depressed phase. This has caused her to be a toxic person, and has literally no friends. Never goes out, even when invited out, and complains she never goes out to party and shit. Doesn't know what she wants in life, yet complains she can't find a good job or career path.
I've tried everything in terms of patience and consoling her. I am out of ideas.
wat do?
Julian Brown
you and need to fuck off rn
Jaxson Allen
Hey bud maybe it's time to give up on her.
You tried to help and she hasn't changed. Then really what else is there to do? I'm actually trying to be nice and not call you a faggot. You're being a caring boyfriend you want to help her but if she can't help herself then is it really worth it? Tell her straight up what needs to be done. Tell her what needs to happen. If not this relationship isn't gonna work out man you're just wasting your time/you have been wasting your time.
Luke Collins
crossed my mind. But we live together. It would be a hard escape. It's only been like this for the last year or so. Something just snapped in her.
Evan Long
Because there's always that chance she will bounce back right when you bail.
Had it happen twice and it feels pretty fucked up. Had another one die within a year though so I'm not entirely sure what to make of it all.
Xavier Reyes
She either has bipolar disorder or could benefit from drugs for bipolar disorder.
She should see a psych or if she is already ask them about the above.
She needs meds that balance her so the highs aren't so high and the lows aren't so low. I lived the same way for years until I finally got on the right meds. I had been treated unsuccessfully for depression for years until they tried bipolar meds and they worked immediately.
Cooper Hernandez
What did you do to control it before you actually went to get diagnosed?
Henry Roberts
You may need to let it go if it doesn't improve. OP needs to have a serious talk. Even if you live together, this may be something that you need to do.
Jonathan Gomez
dump meg, brandon
Jason Stewart
Agreed. A serious talk really needs to happen. No more mister nice guy type shit. You need to sit her down. Tell her that her depressing reclusive ways is causing a huge rift in the relationship.
Landon James
Nothing, there wasn't anything I could do. When your head chemistry is just fucked up you're going to feel those feelings either way.
Jayden Young
I'm in a similar situation to OP and dude, talking doesn't do shit, it makes it worse if anything.
And like I said above, it's always in the back of your head that she will bounce back and does that mean you are the factor that's causing her to freak out or is she just crazy and need help. My bitch is crazy but we been together a minute and have a lot of shared assets, not to mention she makes a fortune.
John Hughes
Everyday is a 'serious talk' Doesnt work like that. Try telling someone who is depressed to just get over it. Won't end well. Goes in one ear and right out the other.
Juan Foster
Has it ever occurred to you that you might be the problem?
Juan Gutierrez
Unless you're picking girls up outside the psych ward you're either unlucky as fuck or the cause of their issue
Xavier Hall
Hivemind
Samuel Cooper
Absolutely
Alexander Campbell
Good, kill yourself
Logan Powell
There's nothing he can do if she does not want to change. Giving out is the best thing he can do! So you're with the girl just for her money?
Jaxson Gomez
Well look either you be a dick and talk to her straight with a stern voice. Tell her hey "YOUR DEPRESSING WAYS IS FUCKING US UP. YUP SORRY YOURE DEPRESSED BUT WERE NOT GONNA MAKE IT IF THIS GOES ON. CHANGE THE FUCK UP"
Or
Continue the way you are until you can't handle it. Could go bad. Could go good.
Anthony Lee
Hey guys im starting to think my gf is cheating we were having our cute chats like we do sometimes and i said "not as much as i love you baby" and she said something that didnt make sence really like she was taling to another guy the same way well she replied " i love you more thats why" She hasn't been making much sence today there more that doesnt either just need help..
Grayson Flores
Give up more of your life for her or let her go. The first one might make her open up to you and if it doesn't the second choice is a better bet for both your sanity
Grayson Parker
Post screenshot of said convo.
Dominic Thompson
Nah, those girls and this one have some issues they don't control or deal with correctly. The dead one was obviously drugs, she actually became a hooker for a good while.
It's impossible to know for sure and I honestly don't really care. You are who you are, can't modify it very much even though it seems possible.
John Parker
the junkies are a proud people
Cameron Parker
I replied to it just in case she is not
Anthony Sanchez
Could of been a simple slip up honestly.
Connor Williams
Yeah but she has been kike it all day but she has had a bad day today and she is kinda drinking at the moment
Ryder Torres
looks like a typo. not really enough to be suspicious on.
David Miller
well leaving her like that definitely helps
Isaiah Adams
Thanks man i hope it just is, ive always had dated girls who have cheated on me so ive git trust issues
Ethan Bailey
Next time you see her see if she's texting a lot. And if you can take a glance with who.
But seriously looks like a simple slip up I wouldn't think she's cheating based on that. Don't stress too much over it.
Daniel Williams
get her a bbc to satisfy her.
Jason Howard
Alright man will do when i see her ill have a look, and wont stress to much. Cheers man.
Sebastian Wood
that happens. Probably to a small majority of us in our lifetimes. We snap, anywhere from a month to years. She'll get out of it eventually, but it's a dark road for her now
Robert Lopez
this isn't reddit femanon
Carter Cruz
Either get her professional help for her issues or break up with her.
Carter Price
how did the crazy bitch end up making so much
Lincoln Miller
Nice trips
Michael Turner
5-HTP + B6
Nicholas Anderson
RN, unit manager did 80 hours this week.
It's pretty sick, but she just sleeps and works anymore.
Brayden Campbell
Dated a girl like that. Put up with that behavior for 3 months. The best thing to do is to separate entirely and don't keep her around at all now or in the future. She is nothing but poison and will ruin your life in one way or another