It sucks knowing any girl ill ever love will always be able to text some random dude "Come over and fuck me" and it...

it sucks knowing any girl ill ever love will always be able to text some random dude "Come over and fuck me" and it will happen. I dont know how to get past this, im fucking terrified to be in a relationship because of this

That's just the nature of the beast. Women will never have any trouble getting laid. It doesn't matter how fat or ugly they are, there will always be guys on hand who will hit it. In the end we're all cucks. Just accept the fact that you're gonna get cheated on and deal with it. Best case scenario is for you to be in an open relationship so all the cheating is out in the open

I was gonna offer some advice as I've been in and are currently in a relationships. But then I realized that I have this legitimate fear as well.

thats the hard part, ive tried being in open relationships but they always end up hurting me more than helping me. All i want is to be able to hold a girl in my arms and know shes mine, i dont care if shes ugly or fat i just want to know we are for eachother no matter what

Damaged

i think u need to stop being a beta and control the relationship. it also helps to take away their phone and regularly beat the shit out of them

Girls don't wanna get laid as much as we do you idiots. They want feels and shit for the most part. Don't treat them like garbage or they'll fuck a co-worker who's nothing but nice to them

Very

find 1 whos ugly and fat and ur good to go. fat ugly chicks, just like betas, will try harder bc theyre fat and ugly

Lmao my women don't want other men, my women are afraid I'll replace them.

But then again, I have talent, athletic prowess, and social skills so

You sound like a beaner

OP women like men, they don't like boys. You need to probe you're not a push over and fuck her, or whom you end up with. As much as women "like" nice guys you can be nice, but be a man. It's like instinctual they want a provider and they also like being choked and what not.... basically be a Man not a boy.

You sound like a fucking retarded nigger

Fat and ugly chicks are sluts in my experience. they try harder to get laid and end up getting all their self worth from sexual attention

Date a muslim chick, if she cheats you can stone her to death.

agreed. unrelated but spics have the highest rate of incest in the US

They wanna get their hole filled, and they want feels. Just from two different people. Women are whores by nature. They have the primal desire to spread their genes as much as men do.

Women don't like sex like men. Her saying " come over lets sex " is more like come over and give me money, attention, make my boyfriend jealous, ruin your own relationship with your girl friend. Women are manipulative. If you had a girlfriend that liked you, chances are she'll never cheat on you. They despise sex. It's a tool for them to get what they want. That's the sad truth. Hell you'd have to beg you girlfriend to even give a shit about sex in the first place, and even then they'll just disappoint you.

What you're saying is you want a slave, not a girlfriend.

Who fucking cares? Women are fucking sex dolls. The minute you accept that they're not people, the easier it is to accept the way they are.

Women are people to other Women. Men are not people to other Women. Men are people to other Men. Women are not people to Men. Women try to play it off like it's misogyny but it's the same across the board.

We're not the same. Accept it. Maybe after that just appreciate that you stuck it in the dumb bitch and move on. Don't get clingy and turn into her fucking lap dog in exchange for the same fucking pussy over and over again.

Shits not worth it.

absolutely true

>Is actually a beaner

kys

You've been watching too many romantic comedies man

fuck off carlos

dude what did I ever do to you?

i believe this is where the term "cum dumpster" originates

I feel you. I had a fwb thing going on for a long time and I thought we were exclusive, so I finally asked if she just wanted to have a normal relationship and cut the FWB crap and she said she was banging someone else too. The physical pain of finding that out was crippling. I was a mess for a while after that.

If your grill doesn't wanna sex, you're not doing it right or you're with a robot.

OP, get over your insecurities. Too much cuck porn will do that to you.

fuck, what's wrong with people nowadays?

ur alive. ur a spic. kys

he needs to be the cucker not the cuckee

I'm fucking Irish retard

fwb means no strings attached. don't jump into it expecting strings in the future dumbass.
My rule of thumb is cut off an fwb after 2 months or if you catch feelings, whichever comes first.

>lmao

Newfag

This is the best advice you'll get OP.

Needing to be a cucker means he's insecure and needs to display dominance over another guy.
I mean if a grill is offering it, whatever, but actively searching to cuck tells me that there's deep rooted issues there.

I could see you staring intently at your computer screen and then adjusting your glasses after smirking and nodding contently to yourself. It must be hard being so superior and edgy

I think he's a bit slow, go easy on him. He's probably very far on the spectrum

>fwb means no strings attached. don't jump into it expecting strings in the future dumbass.
this was a thing for 2 years when I finally asked her

Yo fuck every single one of these other faggots that replied, bottom line if she cheats on you she's not the one. Drop the bitch and move on.

Treat women like you'd treat your dog.

>Don't hit her
>Feed her
>Take her for walks
>Give her attention
>Buy her shit

The bitch will be loyal. It's not hard, just don't be a fucking idiot and go in expecting some fucked up anime relationship.

Another bit of advice... if you go into the relationship with more "plans for the future" than her, she's going to fuck someone else.

HOW MANY BITCHES DO I HAVE TO DROP THOUGH, WHERE AM I SUPPOSED TO FIND THE BEST BITCHES THAT WONT GET DROPPED

I meant it more as like if the situation popped up. Like don't be the one getting cucked, be the cucker. Not seek to do that, but like be the hunter not the hunted. If that clears it up, be an alpha not a beta.

delusional

Woman say they want nice but really they want someone who they think is hot and mysterious.

Only once they get bored of their whoring is when they will settle.

What happened, did your tampon dry out? Getting a little bitchy there, princess.

Refute what I said. If you can't, go think of an actual rebuttal short of "Durr dis iz u, f@g"

truth

that's why you have to take their phone away, if they cant text there's no problem

become a cuckold

OP listen to me good , 1 ex of mine cheated on me , ok cool what ever I was down and I got my shit together , that ex then cheats on new bf with me , leaves him gets with her now father of her kid , but before that she cheated on him with me even fucked behind a car as we saw him walk across the street to her house , I found this Albanian bitch fucked her brains out let her know that's all she was she cried found comfort in my friend now they are married , a different ex GF cheats on her now baby daddy with Me after years of not speaking I showed up beat that pussy she wants me to get feels with her , sure I'll entertain the idea I'm never in town anyways work OT months pass by she gets mad because no Feels just sex goes back to baby daddy he accepts her ... today she sent me nudes ... go figure .. love your kids and mother only OP nothing is sacred

Yup. For whoever can financially support them and whatever mundane career in childcare, nursing, or other jobs that don't require actual work they decide to do.

He Sup Forumsros it's healthy to be a little sexist correct

Dude, just stop treating them like they are property.

If you are interested in someone enough , you should focus on your actual 'relationship' with them. You build that on trust and be able to talk about being worried about lust. The person right for you will respect that and be more open.

>My rule of thumb is cut off an fwb after 2 months
I'm going back to school next year. I'll keep this in mind for then

op here, thanks for all the advice guys i appreciate it. I'm honestly trying my hardest to not get attached but im not exactly rolling in bitches, so it makes me want to cherish what i have, ya know. How do you guys keep yourself from falling in love?

You sound like you're just really insecure, you need to fix that before you start contemplating relationships.

Relax, it's not like you were ever going to be in a relationship anyway.

Fix

Be the random dude.

Yes, extremely insecure. I'm starting therapy soon and hopefully thatll help.

>"Girls don't get laid as much as we do"

Then are you fucking men, faggot?

no, girls do like sex dude.

listen, here's what you do, better yourself and be outgoing and wait for a girl to come to you, make sure she likes you a lot and there's a lot of trust and you have a good relationship and that's never gonna happen. alternatively, go for that cute asian girl in some of your lectures that doesn't talk to anybody.

Understand his words in full context and try to understand it all the time stay golden op

yeah get some pills to make you a full of estrogen comatose cuck

then prep the bull and let your wife cheat on you and take half your shit

youre not insecure

youre smart

Unfortunately this is true for a lot of them. The fact one guy likes them keeps them close and protective but then, some other guy flirts and fugly girls are overwhelmed by the attention because it's something they've always craved.

well hello irish retard

There is a fucking adorable girl that I've been looking at for a long time, but I'm terrified to approach her. She's the typical quiet shy emo chick, she doesnt talk to anyone, she wears all black, and she always stutters when talking in front of the class. I know its anxiety because its exactly how I act. I see so so much of myself in her, and I just wish i knew how to start a conversation with her. I know she wont like me at first, because shes adorably awkward and will want to escape social situations. she has no social media (That me or my friends know of) so im planning on giving her a note saying that I think shes cool and that id love to get to know her better with my phone number on it. I feel like thats the way I'd most appreciate if a girl asked me out, so hopefully she'll appreciate it too.

Text a chick "come over and fuck"
Also dont be a bitch

This actually really helps

ouch, guess I'm gonna have to go cry that burn out

why do cuckposters do what they do
it's strange

Anyways, OP, life is full of fears like that, you're rolling the dice every time you get in the car. But there's worse things than being cheated on. And if she's actually worth loving, she won't cheat on you.
That said, if you know she's ever cheated, or cheated on someone with you, don't take that gamble. Some people would never cheat for any reason, some people are averse to it but consider it an option on the table. Avoid the second group, for a lasting relationship.

join an amish community
join an amazonian tribe
have longterm relationship with anime character (must be ongoing anime with a future [think misty from pokemon])
become a random dude that responds to "come over and fuck me" texts

theres plenty of options quit being a fucking cuck

Once you're secure enough to ask your girl to fuck other guys, you're in a good place mentally. When she says she's not interested, you're golden.

because i have cucked other guys

your "loyal gf who you would marry and never think she would do anything" is out friday night looking to replace you

i have made out with those girls and talked about how sad their bfs are etc

fam just pluck up the courage to ask her if she wants to have lunch with you or something, the note thing is cute in an autist kinda way but even though it feels like you're distancing yourself from the situation and probably makes you feel more comfortable, it's low key weirder

Trust issues? Listen man its not shit. U could also do the same. Dont just obsess with that shit or else your relationship will never grow. Knock her up if u feel that way. But then the tables will turn and she will think that any chicka u hang with is blowing u. If your that fucking worried about your girl doing something behind ur back, tell her.

If you are that worried, there is a solution. If you have your testicles removed, you will lose your attraction to women. Without it, you will have no more anxieties relating to women. You'll be able to pursue your dreams without females as a distraction. There is even some evidence that you might live longer with your balls removed.

There are doctors who are willing to perform this surgery. Give it a thought!

it's generally not a healthy attitude to want to own a person, to "know that she's yours"
beyond just feminism (which I don't think is a bad word, for the record) we're born alone, we die alone, you can't take it with you. being able to accept and encourage another person's autonomy, independence, freedom, is key to founding a healthy relationship. if you can't do that, you're setting yourself up for heartache.

OR, bear with me here. Don't give a fuck about women and live your fucking life.

speaking as a guy that people are afraid to leave their gf's alone around, or scared to see around their ex-gf's,
I don't like you. You aren't a nice person.

life kinda sucks huh, to be honest OP don't get into a relationship. to learn to accept loneliness and to learn how to live single will aid you to finally find someone who loves you truly. plus without a relationship its just much more liberty involved

>newfag

how do i upboat this post?

fuck outta here feminazi
nothing wrong with wanting to feel secure in a relationship, take your toxic femininity somewhere else

my gf cheated on me 3 times after that i got cuckold it began to turn me on

>outta here feminazi
Praise Kek, rid us of the feminazi scum and start the decuckening

OP just to let you know ... you are really lucky right now , you got some of the most ruthless anons here and we are literally giving you heartfelt advice ..... that being said what we want to tell you is stop being a faggot bro .. you like the girl you go get the girl , worst case scenario you get a no beat case scenario you get and unexpected out come that would be more than what you thought you wanted .... go full existential retard but keep principles ..

Dont become a cuck. Kill yourself instead.

Women who are with Cucks know they have a pick of the liter. They are beyond abusive knowing they have full control. Women will never respect a cuckold, they are just using him for his provider aspect. The bull is the man of the relationship. If he decides he wants your woman for more than sex you wasted most of your resources.

Never be a cuck. Women want a man not a boy. Cucks are boys with money.

I couldn't do the same without spending 60 dollars an hour. I'm not attractive enough, or funny enough to make up for the attractiveness.

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in nomine pepe, et frog meme, amphibious sancti.
ramen.

>It doesn't matter how fat or ugly they are, there will always be guys on hand who will hit it.
not really. and half the time if there are, they're people you'd never fuck in a million years anyway no matter how desperate you are. can speak from personal experience here.

honestly if you hunted hard enough you could find some hambeast who'd do you. but it would be someone you wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. someone who is invisible to you, just as the 1/10 and 2/10 beta orbiters are invisible to the girls they orbit.

nobody ever gets laid sitting in their apartment. go the fuck outside.

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reeeeeeeee

I'm not talking about security, but the need to completely own a person is a barrier to trust, not a foundation of it. It gets in the way of a healthy, secure relationship.
Do you know who gets cucked the most? Insecure, controlling guys who girls want to escape from.
I'm not advocating for cucking or open relationships or anything like that, just saying, you need to understand that your partner is a complete human being that can never be owned, nor own you, to even begin to have a trusting, truly loving relationship.

passing notes like that is a good move
but dont just immediately give her your number or u might scare her off
just pass the note back and forth creating conversation.
its more fun and less intensive than normal conversation (for lack of a better term) especially if she has social anxiety

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Was in the same position, 2 years of fucking and i knew she wanted a relationship at the 2 year mark, she gives signs like the romantic look, romantic kiss, holding her hand against your face as you kiss, that kind of shit. If she isnt doing that, she isn't romantically interested.

i know my place my gf is the boss and can fuck with anyone she want

Yeah, I figured I'd ask here because I feel like many of you can relate.

Seriously. Remove your balls.

...

What balls?

Gassing this woman when?