Help me move onto the next stage of my life, Sup Forums
I just need some sage ass wisdom that'll help me never feel depressed again
I've contemplated suicide for a long time, and I'm concerned I'm reaching a point of deciding to commit to it, and I need a way to turn around before the nihilist in me embraces the abyss and lets it take hold
tl;dr: help
add me on kik: guiltywall
rather not have my life ruined by someone reporting a kik user talking about killing themselves (unfortunately the real world isn't taken as fiction)
then, I would only do it for sure, because I hardly have anything to live for as it is
you dont want to turn me down
Add me on Kik and we'll talk about it
Guilt4
if you got something to say then say it
Happiness is a state of mind.
im gonna help you
What makes you think there's a formula to "never be depressed again" it's autistic as fuck, people always look for these kind of things "how to get hot grills" or "how to get rich" expecting there to be a unique formula that works everytime and for everyone. If you approach this depression problem with that attitude you're not going to achieve anything.
if by that you mean 'the best thing for you is to be institutionalized against my will,' then nah, I'm good
I would definitely, 100% kill myself if that ever happened to me, and I'd play them like a fiddle until I got out
now that's advice
thank you, anons
your loss
rather miss out on being mentally tortured than miss out on life by killing myself for being mentally tortured
What do you think is the root of your depression?
Was that sarcasm
really, my entire life
have dream after dream (or really, simply goal after goal) and having them continually destroyed by things entirely out of my control, from friends to family to coworkers to bosses to administrators to coaches, along with generally having a lack of control over the things that happen to me, from abandonment because of selfish pursuits to abuse for the same reason.
It's been a constant cycle I've never been able to climb out of, mostly because I've never had any proper support in my life
it really wasn't
neither was that
or that
I genuinely appreciate grounded perspectives that make you realize the full pettiness of your problems. Those pieces of advice actually made me realize something I realized a long time ago to fight depression, that actually worked: emotions are nothing but chemical reactions; nothing more or less
I really don't mean to offend so sorry if that happens, but drop the little bitch attitude, you're the only one responsible for your success, achieving your goals, happines and such things. People who have the "things happen to me" attitude will never get out of that hole or cycle if you prefer. Somethings I wish my father would have thaugh me are discipline and determination, those are the keys for everything, grab on to your fucking dreams like you're a tick biting a dog's skin, that's determination, do the stuff that you would prefer not to, but do it really there's no thinking about it just do it like dont process the question, take the decision to do it immediately and go ahead with it
Sage ass wisdom. Ok, be me, 40+ married with three kids and a wife getting fatter, lazy and bitchier every day. Shitt ass dead end job behind a desk in a mega-co, going nowhere. I am thinking "Is this it? Is this really all there is?" Travel to a nearby city (college town) and sitting like a lard ass in a hotel room. Start chatting on AOL with some chick. Funny, seems nice, pretty smart... She names a college bar she is headed for with a friend. Asks me what color shirt I have on. If I am not creepy she will come see me, but otherwise I will never know that she came in. Ok, I smell bait, but fucking bored and depressed enough.. I go. Sit a while before a small blonde in bibs and a tank top walks up and sits sown, says "Hi, I'm Eva." Girl looks 16 to my 40. Ask her for DL and she produces it. Ended up fucking her for her last two years of college, every visit to her city, 3-4 times monthly. Realize that anything is possible. Keep living. Don't off yourself with a winning lottery ticket in your pocket.
Cont.
Help other people, dont be selfish and put other before you, if you can do something nice to someone do it. Even if you don't give a shit about doing kind stuff, people will like you more if you do so and you can get something from that, it's better if you do it with good intentions... But anyways
And a nihilistic approach to things has always helped me, you realize that things don't really matter so you stop crying about it, and that nothing really matters, there's no purpose to life, no real end no nothing so you can do whatever you want and it won't be right or wrong it will just be
i ll be there if you ever give me a chance
there's nothing you can say on kik that you cant say here
true but i want to be your friend
sorry for being distrusting, not sorry for being skeptical about a filthy ass world with filthy ass people who want to ruin good people's lives for nothing but a laugh