>she likes me too >we met online >hanged out twice >a lot of chemistry is going on >perfect gf material >her boyfriend of 3 years cheated on her and it made her really afraid of any intimacy like kisses, cuddles and sex (before that she was just fine) >I really enjoy all those things and it seems to me like they're a "must have" for any healthy relationship
How do I help her become less scared of being intimate with me, do I just take it very slow, one step at a time?
I really wouldn't want to fuck this one up bros
Caleb Reyes
Kiss me
Levi Torres
No, but thanks
Landon Cruz
Fuck you and your happyness. I hope she gets run over on her way to meet you
David Sanchez
Slow and steady. If she thinks you're just there to fuck then she's gonna dip.
Chase Lopez
Sup Forums is not the place for good relationship advice. with that in mind, if you show her your cock as often as possible, that's certainly intimate
Jaxson Torres
Tbh OP it sounds like that's some BS she made up to avoid doing anything with you. Just putting that out there, cause being used for surface level affection from women for nothing in return feelsbadman.
Aaron Thompson
Not sure how retarded you gotta be to not notice that she's basically just using you to make her feel good. Of course while you're being her beta orbiter, some chad is fucking the shit out of her. But hey, you're so deep in this shit that you probably think she's oh-so-innocent. She's a woman, and that is natural. Deal with it. Your fault for becoming her beta orbiter.
Jackson Hernandez
talk to her about it my dude. if youre scared to do that though, go slow.
Isaac Adams
>a lot of chemistry is going on You two cook meth, dont you?
Matthew Fisher
Sounds like she's making up nonsense in order to keep you at a safe distance. Girls (not women, girls) do this as a self-esteem boost; some of them like having a guy around who they aren't interested in, yet who is clearly interested in THEM. It isn't a great situation to get into. Of course I don't know her, so I might be wrong.
If I AM wrong, then she's clearly NOT relationship material right now. She's still carrying around hurt from the previous breakup and needs time to fix herself up before jumping into another relationship. Give her time and be there for her, but don't neglect your own life in the process. Don't put everyone on hold for her in this situation, you're important as well.
I'd keep a safe distance though, man. You're clearly attached and that happens, but don't put everything you've got on her. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out; sometimes that happens. When women behave the way she's behaving, maintain a healthy amount of skepticism.
Bentley Miller
SLLLOOOPPPPYYYY SEEECCCOOOONDS
Juan Rivera
Yeah man, and OP gotta know that she's getting railed by Chad instead of him
Jacob Powell
If that was a case I would've dipped long time ago. She's been single for a whole year and just now got comfortable with going out with people.
I know you won't believe me but I'm pretty Chad (at least 8.5/10, 6'4", lift, nice cock, nice face, deep voice Russian accent) and all the people I ever met from online (3 besides her) were super into me. She also drew a picture of us after we hanged out the first time and is texting me 24/7
Evan Sullivan
refer to as reply, but thanks for first solid post of advice
Anthony Jones
Hm, let's say I believe you. You gotta take control, if you're a Chad with good aesthetics, nice face. You're expected to act like one. Don't act like "Hey sweetie, it's alright... I'll wait for when you're ready." Show the girl that it happens or doesn't happen. If it doesn't you'll find another one. That's what I do, and I'm probably not even as good looking as you are. Believe or not, if you keep being like this, install it into your personality, she'll do whatever you wanna do.
Easton James
Been there Just keep being nice with her so she knows she can trust you. All this "I don't feel secure with kissing etc" is quite true, but she persuaded herself about it. And you pretty much have to convince her that it's not true. Your efforts are gonna pay off, but you have to be patient (sorry for broken english)
Jacob Ross
That's what I usually do, I actually juggle 2-3 chicks at a time and whoever becomes the best option becomes my gf and I just drop the other 2, but this time I don't even want to talk to anyone else. !FAG ALERT! there's something about her that makes her ACTUALLY special, idk man, she's not even that cute, just a 7.5/10
Landon Brooks
It's up to you. I recommend not putting up with that shit. You can either take my advice, or you can take the advice of these boys who say "Be patient". My girl knows that if she's not sucking my dick, someone will. You're the prize here, and she's the winner if she gets to lick those muscles of yours.
Dylan King
If you like her that much, just keep trying, but become clearer in time about your intentions. No need to act "I don't care anyway there's plenty of gurls", but don't waste your time either
Cameron White
whatever you do don't be like this guy
Asher Morris
I think I'll be "patient" for couple weeks and if I will see 0 progress, I will just straight up tell her everything and will either go elsewhere or get my dick wet
Brayden Flores
lmao wtf I hope she finds him out
Andrew Ward
Yeah did you read the replies where they sent her the link? Kind of feel bad for him though
Asher Sullivan
Too bad it 404'd
Hudson Parker
Oh it did? Rip
Jayden Bailey
Was it the guy was fucking his sister-in-law?
Blake Foster
Uh I don't think so Just some fag who posted pictures of his school crush and anons found her social media and linked her the thread
Nolan Thomas
Ahh, too bad. I was rooting for him to get rekted.