Hey Sup Forums I seriously need help

Hey Sup Forums I seriously need help

I was sleeping this girl with severe daddy issues and decided to end things because she was fantasizing about sleeping with too many guys. We had a thing for like 8 months.

Long story short -- She thinks I'm the perfect guy that got away & she's been drinking, dropping acid, smoking weed, throwing herself at guys regardless if she likes them or not, to get over me.

She apparently was an alcoholic before me but when I was with her, those 8 months she drank like once every other month.

Apparently she has a thing with a drug dealer now & been trying a lot of new drugs. She never did acid, molly, pills before she met me.


Uh I kept her life together? And now I'm gone she's probably gonna end up dropping out or something.

I want to help her, but that's going to emotionally ruin me -- but if she an hero's, I'll feel at fault.


Wat Do?

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an hero before she does so she can move on from you

I'm all for just leaving her to ruin herself, but don't know if that's a terrible thing to do?

dude whatever.

Seriously though, forget people that can't stand on their own two feet.

I've been in your situation before OP. Just wall away. It's all you can do. Stepping into the shit typhoon never ends well.

is this a common thing some girls do?

She'll tear you down, it hurts, but move on. For your own sake.

give what help your willing to give to anyone in particular to her.

not ur problem my nigga

and if u do want to make her "your problem" and help her, then congrats, you're gonna have a crack whore of a wife who had multiple black men run trains on her.

pic related its probably her right now

You're dodging a bullet user, sounds like the type of girl who's a huge ball ache to be in a relationship with. Whatever she does to her self is by her own volition, you have no responsibility to that.

Yeah, in varying degrees tho. OPs situation seems severe though.

OP here,

I gotcha. Yeah, I'm confident she's going to turn into one of those trailer trash girls or pornstars.

Never been in this situation so just wondering


Yeah dude it sucks ass. She was pretty cool, but she's went completely off the edge.
she was raped by her father daily when she was like 10 and that just did it for the rest of her life

Theres no obligation
U wanna help but u cant
Only she can help herself

Sup ForumsOPfag clearly she's not into you. she is probably railing coke off black drug dealer dick and talking about her pussy X boyfriend who would probably have a tighter vagina than her

Everyday text her a line from this song's lyrics youtube.com/watch?v=O4o8TeqKhgY

Easy, stop fucking children.

I didn't care enough to read your whole post but that's just always good advice.

If you want to make yourself miserable then go ahead.

Listen to the thread dude, she's not your problem and will drag you down if you go back.

encourage her to end her life with drugs quicker, so that she doesn't hold you down anymore.

Yeah, I know her problems are above me, but it's kinda shitty.

So, I do nothing? Do I block her???

She's been texting me late at night reminiscing about cute things I used to do for her.

terrible situation, sorry OP.

Imagine if the roles were reversed though and you were the one relapsing and sleeping around. It wouldn't be h e r fault for y o u r actions.

In your case, you weren't responsible for her not drinking.

There are some other deep seeded issues at play. Hopefully she seeks professional help, but it's not your responsibility.

You'll be OK, and hope that she is too.

Don't look back OP.
I totally understand the situation you were in, and it's just going to be bad for you if you try to interfere more than you already have. You probably were her support system, and she's coping with it the only way she knows how (by destroying herself).

If you go back, she'll use your abandonment against you, and suck you dry for everything you have. Don't go back to filth, you can and will find something better. She had a shit upbringing, and instead of rebelling and raging against the injustice done to her, she is indulging her pitiful self with pure shit in an attempt to make herself ignorant of the reality around her.

No offense, but she is a drain on society at this point, and a danger to others if she isn't willing to change. If she kills herself because of it, then she'll have rest and peace because it would be better than torturing herself with drugs and random sex. If she hasn't developed a sense of self at this point, she probably never will and she'll just reduce herself down to her basic animalistic instincts and become nothing more than a meatdoll for whatever guy wants to drug her, take money from her, or take advantage of her. You will gain nothing by going back. Get yourself tested for STDs and get her out of your life. She will only drag you down.

tell her you still love her, have sex with her and make it really passionate. after you nut, leave without saying a word and then NEVER talk to/acknowledge her again

Gotcha. I'm leaving the city for the summer to intern in Cali so distance + Cali girls should help me get completely over her.

Yeah, I've been sleeping with other girls so it's been easier to get over her.

It's just a lil difficult because she fucked literally like a pornstar, but she's 100% damaged goods now. Getting tested next week.

You don't have to block her, just don't engage her or constantly reply. If she thinks you still give a fuck then she'll try sink her teeth in.

Have her get you drugs on the cheap, cheap

^ This, enough said.

Nothing, she is a loser and you are an asshole, losers will always be losers and assholes will always be assholes.

Whatever that happens will not be your fault, the only one to blame for her problems is herself, it's not like you really care anyway.

You wanna just dust her now after how long of a relationship?
After how much knowledge you have about her abuse, what DoD you do with it all?
Use it to get off in bed?
Maybe try and help her instead of make her issues worse but it's pretty much to late.
Best thing you could do is tell her family about the abuse of they don't know.

you me op?

forget about it all bro, move on

lol acid and weed isn't even that hard. She'll be fine. Also if you left a girl because she was fantasizing about sleeping with other men it means you're not good enough in bed. Fix that before you try to date anybody again.

kill then rape then an hero

Wow you must be really good at picking out the right ones. Sounds like a keeper

Gotcha.

I'm almost 100% she's fucked like 4 guys within a span of a week. I feel like I'm disrespecting myself by replying to her lmao

Apparently, she was like this with her old boyfriend of 2 years. The guy was labeled as "crazy" for being upset with it.

I slept with a couple girls after I broke it off and found out and told me to come over to talk & started crying because I'm having sex with other people?

It was like some weird double standard cuck shit

LVL UP!

In all honesty,

the thing I miss the most was the amazing sex we had.

We fucked whenever where ever & she fucked like a literal porn star.

Why bitches gotta go full retard with drugs and end up on the hard shit? It's impossible to find a grill to just smoke weed and drop acid with who isn't also an alcoholic or some kind of junkie.

This is why marijuana possession should remain illegal and be criminalized wherever it's currently tolerated.

Yeah, literally she would have been fine as a qt3.14 gf if she wasn't raped by her father.

It's all down hill from here.

sounds like you dodged a bullet

Fuck yeah I did.

I was hype as fuck when my friend told me all this stuff, but just a little sad.

Underated post

because when grills, being the emotional hormonal cunts they are, try drugs and start using regularly one of 2 things often happen.
1. they start to find nigger culture and the drugs rap and lifestyle 'cool' and start to act like the skanks you see in nigger music videos

2. they are suddenly children of the earth, attempting to live like the flower power generation of the 60's, keeping their iphones and modern luxuries of course, ready to be fucked by any ponytail haired tie dyed """hippie""" promising himslf as the next prophet of peace

What the fuck is with all these normies in this thread?

same with alcohol bro
>Mental and behavioral disorders attributed to the use of alcohol

Acute intoxication
Harmful use
Dependence syndrome
Withdrawal state
Withdrawal state with delirium
Psychotic disorder
Amnesic syndrome
Residual and late-onset psychotic disorder
Other mental and behavioral disorders
Unspecified mental and behavioral disorder
Degeneration of nervous system attributed to alcohol
Alcoholic polyneuropathy
Alcoholic myopathy
Alcoholic cardiomyopathy
Alcoholic gastritis
Alcoholic liver disease
Alcoholic fatty liver
Alcoholic hepatitis
Alcoholic fibrosis and sclerosis of liver
Alcoholic cirrhosis of liver
Alcoholic hepatic failure
Alcoholic liver disease, unspecified
Alcohol-induced acute pancreatitis
Alcohol-induced chronic pancreatitis
Fetus and newborn affected by maternal use of alcohol
Fetal alcohol syndrome (dysmorphic)
>also
domestic violence
families in poverty from alcoholic parent/s
drunk drivers killing people
alcohol related assaults
loss of inhibitions and the resulting behaviour stemming from it - dudes cheating on their gf's and vice versa

ban the shit

OP here,

I'm thinking of texting one of her sane friends to keep her in check. And after that, leave her be.

Is this ok?

you still want her
let her go faggot, she will only be a negative influence on your life.

OP here again

You right, you right.

if u want to stay with someone who does drugs with random people, bribes drug dealers with sex, go ahead. Ideal wives/ gf are to each their own.

Dont do it man... shes got no respect for you. Certainly dont fuck her.. move on or she'll just use you for what she wants and do it all over again.

I would buy viagra and fuck her till she bleeds

This

OP here,


Thank you guys.

It's been hard as fuck convincing myself to never speak to her again because emotions are really fucking with my head.

I just need to stick it out for 3 more weeks.

Is her name Audrey?

Get back with her and then let her fuck Chad's. It's the only way for you both to be happy

Yeah bro all these guys are just as much as a shithead as you are lol.


The last 30 posts go on and on about girls and alcohol/drug problems one guy even so far as to blame WEED.
SHE WAS RAPED WHEN SHE WAS 10.
THAT'S THE CAUSE OF HER MENTAL ISSUES.
if you were RAPED at 10 years old how the fuck do you think you would react?

How did COREY FELDMAN react to getting butt raped at 10?

DRUGS AND ALCOHOL.
Did it till he died CAUSE NOBODY CARED ENOUGH.
Every insider in Hollywood knew about it and they did nothing.
Just like you

Get her nudes. Post them here.

This. Except as you're cumming in her whisper in her ear "you need therapy uuuirghhh ehhhggh'

I know this is the cause of everything.

What would you do in my situation?

Corey Feldman is still alive though?

Did you mean Corey Haim?

you're only after ways to get her back and looking for beta anons who will agree with and encourage you

You'll be back with her and the cycle will repeat itself. kill yourself, she's going to anyway

>Gunna txt her friend

Hope you're prepared to be labelled as the creepy stalker ex and laughed at by her friends even though you're trying to help.

sounds like you are on I at the moment

Once you reach 3 weeks, go another 3. Small steps.

Yea true. But he doesnt need to be with the piece of pedo fuck meat and her mental shit. Not his problem

Yeah, you're right.

She's the first girl I've actually had feelings for, first I've fucked without a condom(she has the implant). Just to give you a little context on my side.

Yes, I know I sound like a beta faggot, but it's not easy when you've had limited sexual experiences. I'm pretty attractive, had sex with girls afterwards, but it's still a little difficult forgetting her..

I'm getting closer to fully letting go.

Once I hit 3 weeks, I'll be gone in Cali for 3 months, which means I literally will not see her which will make things easier. I've never gone before too so I'll be hella distracted

Yes I get the coreys mixed up.
Haim got butt raped and feldman just got fondled he told the whole story recently.
It depends on a lot of things.
How long you were together and how much you actually cared for her or if it was mostly sexual relationship but either way you should talk in person and tell her the usualsheep. You hear from women about how you care about her and want her to be happy but don't know what you want in life and arnt trying to be in a relationship with her right now.
At the very least bolster her up a little.
Also if NOBODY knows that her dad raped her you should just tell and/or hire a Mexican to break his legs.

This is quality

we've talked in person. And yeah, we were really really close. She always told me how great I was for getting her life together & showing her what a real man is like. She constantly hits my phone up when she's drunk(almost daily) talking about how she misses me now.

My friend apparently saw her with some random ugly dude in the same booth cuddling at a restaurant????


I guess he's next on the roller coaster.

You never know what can happen in life.
My parents met when they were late teens and dated for a while. Broke up my mom married another guy had two kids got divorced then ended back up with my dad to have me 12 years later.
Not that that's super appealing in writing but moral of the story Is people break up and get back together years later slot but that's not gonna happen if she's strung out dead or a crack ho so leter kno

I have an ex with daddy issues. Granted she didn't go doing mad drugs, but when it ended it ended bad. She first tried getting a new bf. That failed. Then she fucked some random dudes who have been after her for years. Then she felt used, tried to get back with me, I said no. So she tried getting another bf. That also didn't work out so she started going out to the city and banging sugar daddies who would buy her thousands of dollars worth of shit. Then she tried to get back together with me again.

And the stories goes on and on. She assumed I wouldn't find out about anything (Even though she called me 4 times for the first year of our breakup to tell me she had fucked someone and then cried about it with me on the line).

But all the other stuff I mean. I was surprised actually by how well connected I am. In finding out everything she was up to I mean. And it actually made me feel kind of good knowing so many people like me and look out for me. But nonetheless. There's nothing you can do. Mine was a 6 year relationship. I was ready to marry her. She's always going to be baggage man. For the rest of her days. You need to ask yourself if you have any major plans with your life, are you willing to put them all aside to carry around that weight?

I thought I was. But now I'm getting ready to go into the Navy as an officer, I have plans to travel the world, I get laid whenever I want, read books, chill whatever it may be. She's with some faggy kid who chased her around like a puppy dog, and when I run into her, she tries to act high and mighty while others tell her that she fucked up.

Just move on.

>Wat Do?
Ignore that psycho bitch and live your own life.

People like to slutshame hardcore when before the internet bitches would just move towns mid 20's and start life over.

If she's on the mental illness train already the best you can do is console her and tell her you want the best and that she should get professional help and try to not be in a relationship for a while.
Beyond not being a dick and breaking it off gently which you basically already have maybe just have another discussion about her wellbeing and you hope she changes blah blah blah

How's your friend know the guys ugly is he gay ask him

That was a very weak attempt at a funny.

Christ.

I'm only a sophomore in college just enjoying life, not really looking for anything serious unless someone worth it comes across.

If I can hold out for these 3 weeks, and make it to California I'm smooth sailing.


She's a solid 7/10, and he described him as someone with poor hygiene, unkept beard -- you know when someone is unattractive. Apparently they were really touchy feely with each other so dude is just trying to get laid.


Sounds like he's just in it for the swoop.

I made myself laugh lol

I was with her from Senior year of highschool to junior year of college. (year off to work makes 6).

I actually chose my major for her, because I was planning my life around her. But looking back, as much as I loved her and wanted to do everything I could to make her happy, I recognize now that she made me miserable by how psychotic and difficult she was.
It blows, I know. Because even when someone is fucked up, if you care, you care. Just the way she goes. But as some other anons have said. If she isn't leaving you alone. Have a serious talk with her, telling her that she needs help. That you do care about her, but it just wouldn't work out right now and you really only want the best for her. Tell her things like You believe in her and you want to see her get past all this bullshit with drugs and random hookups. Tell her that's not who she is, and that you hope one day you can run into her and see her happy and fulfilled. (Do not tell her one day you will get back together)

I suppose that's all that counts

You dodged a bullet man, if she's like this simply because you left, who knows what would happen if something like this happened with you together.

Forget her. Let her be her own undoing.

leave her for good op, that means no contact at all. Posting them nudes is the first step to freedom from guilt

who cares what she's doing? if she takes enough acid she will realise she's fucking her life up and probably be a much wiser and more resiliant person than you in the long run. you seem a bit soft and whiney, no offense.

Don't do shit boy, not wirth your time
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The ultimate sacrifice. Sacrifice your life to save someone else's.

quit being a bitch and move on, maybe next time dont treat women with respect and they'll respect you

fuck outta here

Location?

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Not your problem

OP, I know it may feel nice to help someone, but you were still in the "honeymoon" phase. It was new, exciting. No offense, but eventually she was going to see your flaws, and you were going to see even MORE of hers.

She would have been so distraught by her "slowly failing, but used to be PERFECT" relationship.

How would she cope? Drugs. Drinking. Cheating on you.

You can still be stability for others, but you can't be the foundation for both of you.

Sorry, I think she's a lost cause. Sad, but it's what it sounds like.

You sound like a decent chap, and you shouldn't let someone like that drag you down. Find someone that is energized by a healthy relationship, not dependent on one.

Stop lying and get a job

I say Danny Glover the woman. She seems like she's falling apart enough to let you do whatever you want. Just keep her at your hip to attract more mates. It's fucked up but remember, she needs you to the highest degree.

Tldr, take her back and get a side peice.

kinda yeah

Nothing. Her actions are her own responsibility.

Yeah,

You're right. I'm not looking for anything right now, because girls essentially impede on my growth in college.

Maybe I'll start getting serious gf's outside of college