I just found out the girl I've been dating for the past TWO months is a stripper at a fully nude strip club.
She has been lying to me. She told me she was a waitress.
This really sucks. I really, really like her, but now I don't trust her.
She says that she only lied about where she works because she really likes me and was afraid I wouldn't keep seeing her if she knew what she really does for a living.
What do?
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Get over it
>What do?
post her pics
ohh a stripper who starts out lying surely you can trust her
did you pay for anything in last 2 months? hope not cause she makes more money than you
Fucking dump that ho, she lied once, she'll fucking do it again. Bitch was straight up about what she's about tho, can't knock her for that. Fucking run before you (((owe))) her half your paycheck.
dump her. i dont care what her excuse is, you dont lie about something like that when youre getting into a relationship. and youre right, you cant trust her. so cut it off before you get even more attached, otherwise itll just cause you more pain down the road.
>go to where she works but don't tell her
>wear a baseball cap or a pair of glasses that cover your face
>observe how she behaves at work when she thinks you're not look
>watch her sit in a guys lap complete naked and put her tits right in his face
>watch her do that over and over again
>realize she does that every night
>realize that knowing she does this and accepting it makes you the definition of a cuckold
thats a huge red flag right away, OP. not a good impression for someone you just started dating. she might as well wear a sign that says "im not trustworthy. i lie when its convenient" get out of it.
Well, I mean... she wasn't wrong about how you might react.
Anyway, yeah, if you give her a pass on lying now she'll more than likely lie later as well.
This
it's a genuine concern for someone in that line of work for people to reject a relationship based on what they do, it's gotta be REALLY easy to lie about that.
ask yourself a couple of questions here OP:
1. would you have done the same thing in her circumstance?
2. do you think, if you stay with her, that she will lie to you about serious topics instead of discussing them?
the first is just for perspective, the second is for communication. without good communication a relationship is shit.
>the reason he reacted this way is because she lied
>you dont lie about it to trick someone into being with you; thats something you tell someone before they get into a relationship with you so they can decide for themselves if that is something theyre comfortable with. if not, it was never going to work anyways
acid in the face
ruin her career and life forever
Femanon here.
I used to work as a stripper. I got offered cash for sex every night.
I usually said no, but when someone offers you $200 dollars for a blowjob and you know for a fact they aren't a cop...
I had one op one of the best chicks i ever had ride or die kinda chick....
>look at you thou she was right
this
It's what attractive women deserve, as they know that's their only asset, and they know they use it to their advantage in life.
...
Get over it or move on. It's that simple.
im sure this story is totally legit!
His gf lying about being a stripper IS a serious topic faggot
Strippers need love too, user.
If you accept her for who she is she'll fucking adore you.
Bro, you got a girl that guys only fantasize about. Two months? it isnt like youve been together for years. Shes a stripper, and you post your problems on Sup Forums. Nobodys perfect. You have a hot stripper gf, so what? You got a girl whos job it is to turn guys on, and gets paid well to do so. If it really kills you on the inside, then dump her. Otherwise ride it out. Find out more about what she does, how did you find out, did she tell you? Is she suckin dick in the VIP lounge? If not then embrace being young, live fast w your stripper gf bruhh.. if you really wanna know more, do what said and go check it out. If she is infact catching hpv in the VIP lounge then yes, dumo her. If shes shakin her ass and a bunch of oldmen are getting off to it, learn to enjoy it.
theres no question here. she lied about something as big as that and kept it from him for two months (maybe longer if they knew each other before they started dating). thats a bad sign. there is no other smart option at that point other than "dump her." she lies when its convenient. she lies to manipulate.
>trying this hard
>on Sup Forums
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kys
>who she is?
you mean what, right?
lol what she is, is a slut
have fun, you are fucking someone that every other guy wants to fuck but cant
Enjoy it
yep, and he'll also be a dumbass.
theres no excuse for lying about something like that. youre a fucking idiot if you keep dating this bitch. only a naive faggot would continue with the relationship.
Pseudo relationship experts and counselors reporting in. Faggots. Shut the fuck up. I've turned down more pussy than you fags have had, so what makes you think you can get advice?
Stand down beta maxes.
OP, stop being a bitch. Be an alpha. Tell that skank you know what she does, and henceforth you just want an FWB. Sex and friends only. But fuck her a few more times before you do
/thread
>hot stripper gf
>hot
>stripper
sounds legit
>Is she suckin dick in the VIP lounge?
if she's already a stripper, if someone offered enough cash to make it decent she would.
not saying OP should keep dating her, but your logic is retarded. any hot girl is a girl that every other guy wants to fuck you fucking retard, thats no reason not to date someone.
YOU
Strippers are notoriously promiscuous, dumbass.
Expecting a stripper to be monogamous is like expecting a politician to be honest.
>I've turned down more pussy than you fags have had
kek stopped reading right there. suck my cock user, your fat ass can pretend its a hot pocket if you want.
>every guy wants to fuck
No actually, hes fucking a girl that every other guys has already had they're dick in
>or will soon
Dumb her. Otherwise everyone will know you're a cuck, as dating a girl that strips for men (and possibly fucking) is the equivalent of being a gay cuck.
>If she is infact catching hpv in the VIP lounge
Implying anyone who lurks this shithole could make it into the VIP lounge.
>the reason he reacted this way is because she lied
Partially but I think it'd be a mistake to not take note of how OP put it, "...is a stripper at a fully nude strip club." Why didn't OP just leave it as "is a stripper!" if the lie was all this was about?
>you dont lie about it to trick someone into being with you; thats something you tell someone before they get into a relationship with you so they can decide for themselves if that is something theyre comfortable with. if not, it was never going to work anyways
Agreed
End it she can't be trusted. Plus the majority of strippers escort on the side. I'd go and get tested if I were you.
Dude u are fucking a stripper stop being a fucking faggot and just keep seeing her.
What a fuck is wrong with u faggots.
>horse fucker shit in the op
> trying this hard
> this hard
> hard
i can say yeaa post her pics faggot, but if the dude is actually concerned and all he got is Sup Forums to ask. fuck it Ill b the one normie w an actual response for him.
go look at lolis, and find a thread where u belong..
wtf?
i met this one ugly idiot who married this slutty stripper. he paid for her breast implants and then she cheated on him (of course). dont be a cuck, OP. and even if she isnt a cheater, there would still be trust issues. she will lie in the future, theres no question about that.
>still trying this hard
>go look at lolis
You forgot where you're at faggot?
Agreed. Get tested. As the old adage goes, its better to be safe than sorry.
>go look at lolis, and find a thread where u belong..
Bashing Sup Forumstards into CP is like providing niggers freedom – it doesn't make any sense.
why do these desperate dumbqueefs think dating a stripper is somehow like hitting gold or some shit?
this
How on earth do you equate CP with loli?
It doesn't compute
> I've turned down more pussy than you fags have had
...so youre gay?
>>I've been turned down more pussy than you fags have had
>kek stopped reading right there. suck my cock user, your fat ass can pretend its a hot pocket if you want.
>I fixed it for him user
LOL
even being a "waitress" at a strip club is a red flag
you either have to be carefree and accept she's doing shady business or be retarded and not see this coming
props on you for seeing a stripper and kek on you for being caught off-guard
>>>I've been turned down by more pussy than you fags have had
Facefuck her really good and forget bout it
Desperate? like u can do better then a stripper?
>youre
you're*
Op here
I guess I left out the part where we stopped using condoms about 3 weeks ago and that this is by far the best sex I've ever had in my entire life by several orders of magnitude.
Get her to bring you some coke
no one cares
stfu
gtfo
thread die already
story is probably a lie
/thread
sage
sage
sage
sage
take your attention whoring ass to facebook
its not, but if he likes the bitch, and if shes hot, why the fuck break it off bc she shakes her ass for a living? im from east brooklyn, you should see what can qualify for "stripper" material.. but if he likes what he got, dont just fuck outta there bc of what she does
uhh yeah. strippers are nothing to get excited about.
Rolling for dump
Fuck her a bunch, tell her it's all right. Then after months and months of fucking, leaver and tell her she is human garbage. Also eat all the food at her house over and over. That's what a man would do.
guess the herp will be worth it then
Thanks for wasting my dubs faggot
I bet she can get some really good drugs.
For me it wouldn't be an issue that she's a stripper, but that she lied. Confront her and hear her side, then dump her if she doesn't have a really good excuse, OP.
not because of what she does. because she lied about it.
>more pseudo relationship experts
The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
Derail commencing... 1, 2, 3, 4....
>leaver
samefag
So if u got a loyal, std free hot fuckmachine? u just gonna dump her? you are retarded sir.
samefag
Requesting full frontal as payment for couple counseling
god dammit her fett are too big fuck it i am out
>best sex I've ever had in my entire life
of course it is. she's had lots and lots of practice.
>kissless virgin pretending hes not a kissless virgin
Give her one more chance and see if she would lie to you again.
To lie about being a stripper while dating is a common thing, I think. To actually tell the truth from the get go would keep people away.
samefag
sage
Wrong
samefag
sage
op is a lying faggot
I worked titty bars for years. Just accept the situation for what it it(she is selling her body for cash) or move on.
3 of them was mine u dumb fuck.
>samefag
>
samefag
sage
op is a faggot
samefag
sage
op is a lying faggot
samefag
op is a lying faggot
sage
WRONG !!
>304x308
>samefaggin this hard
sage
op is lying faggot
do not feed
if i knew for a fact she was loyal and STD free, then no, i wouldnt dump her. but we live in reality and thats not how things are.
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@7:19
>it's you
>samefag
op is a lying faggot
sage
well tbh anyone whos a "waitress" at a stripclub is kinda a dead give away.. anything from 12 dudes grab her ass a night, from blowing the manager for saturday off, to being a fucking an entire batchelor party bc you covered for "candy"
>samefaggin this hard
op is a lying faggot
sage
>samefag
>trying this hard
>pseudo relationship expert
OP is a lying faggot
sage
Im not op u retard?
Prove her wrong and don't be a little bitch.