Update on my story, here's a recap

Update on my story, here's a recap

>be me, 21 y-o shy male
>see this cute girl on a train
>looks about 20
>wtf she has a teddybear
>post on Sup Forums about it
>anons tell me to talk to her
>I do and we actually get along well
>she seems really shy but smart
>we agree on lunch the day after
>we eat together, she pays her part of the bill without being asked
>still has her teddybear though
>we go to the movies the day after
>then she invites me to her place
>we cuddle and make out
>I get back home
>get a bit stressed out and ask Sup Forums about it again
>following advice, I invite her to eat for dinner
>I make spicy pasta because I know she like spicy stuff
>she gets here and she looks so stressed out
>when she tastes the pasta she lightens up saying her italian mom made puttanesca a lot when she lived with her
>we talk for a long time and play a bit
>we end up having cautious and tender sex (i didn't want to scare her) (she's really weird)
>it was great
>she stayed at home for a day and we kissed a lot
>she left this morning to get to where she's staying

Ask me anyhting also here's her being all shy

What's her name

Won't give it like that

Her second name is Cécile

I was curious because she looked like someone I know

I doubt that you know her. She doesn't know many people

She looks like a fuckin pig, man. She looks like a fuckin pig.

That pic clears it up. I don't know her

so what's the story behind the bear?

It's name is Philbear, she's had it for years now. She carries it around because she feels stressed around strangers so when she goes out she takes it in her bag and sometimes takes it out to give it a hug.

How many daddy issues does she have?

Psychfags? What is that?

the same as yesterdays thread.

Certainly a lot. She didn't call me daddy during sex (and thank God she put away her teddybear so I didn't have to stare in its eyes.)

She's fine bro... a little bit broken, but aren't we all broken? Go ahead and find out if you two can fix each other and get a bear for yourself if you're that jealous man

that's cute as hell nigga

This is when Sup Forums is actually helpful

I wasn't in yesterday's thread, I'm not a faggot

Cute girl though, OP. She's gonna be a super-freak, the quiet ones always are

Dude, marry her man.
Or at least think about putting some time and effort into this.

Not jealous. I find it weird but it's not a deal breaker. Also I'm kind of impressed because I know now she has heavy anxiety issues and she found ways to deal with it effectively.

Its actually called the TeddyBear sign. It usually means some sort of abuse and they keep it for safety purposes. They are usually very childish at root with anxiety issues.

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>Certainly a lot. She didn't call me daddy during sex (and thank God she put away her teddybear so I didn't have to stare in its eyes.)
>Not finishing all over the teddy bear
Are you sure you're on the right board?

kekkele

Good for you, glad it worked out for you, I'd never have the balls to do that, I don't think I could stand putting myself out there just to be shot down

Yeah I intend to. She's weird and shy but she's smart and funny when she gets confortable. Also she owns a surprising amount of really fluffy clothes, plushes and cushions which are comfy as hell.

Cecile--> italian mom dafuq

Ahh, a common psychfag. What are your qualifications?
P.S there are a few theories on the TeddyBear sign linking to non-epileptic seizures OP so watch out.

I had some bad experiences before and I actually didn't think this would work out.

Her actual name sounds more italian.

Yeah I know. 3rd year MD program

Really ? Damn. I'll find a gentle way to talk about it.

Looks like some girl at a convention.
Try anime user.

Carpe Diem!

Ah, I have a masters in psychology, a PhD in psychology and a post-graduate in criminal psychology. The field is great eh, you'll never get bored of it - Working with people is some of the most rewarding stuff.

Same user you replied to.
Thats good to hear man! Im legit happy that you found someone for yourself. Heres to your future, yeah?

nice dubs
probably wait for her to bring it up ?
if she has a condition she probably knows about it
no need to be overly stalkery

Seems never-ending training at the moment, but I agree, medical work (doc stuff) is tops

Yeah ! Thanks man. She's a treasure.

Yeah obviously she knows she has problems. She takes it pretty well and with a lot of pragmatism : she has a job in which she does well, she has friends with whom she communicates via internet...

Remember that non-epileptic fits are just psychogenic seizures, they're often triggered by subconscious thoughts or overwhelming emotions. Watch out because she may have self diagnosed herself as "epileptic" because of them. If, later down the line, she claims she is epileptic without having going to the doctors get her there son. Have a good life with this woman. -PhD.

>mfw this thread

Best of luck in life fellow psychfag :)

In other words she is crazy

Same to you!

You should put the bear to watch while it watches say something like bear look how im doing her you like dont you cuck.

U two gotta become a pair....pls dont let her go to waste, she doesn't deserve to be alone

We all have our thing man. I say don't try to fix her. She is who she is and you are who you are. There are some things you can't change.

As a 30 yr old user the best advice I can give you so far is be happy with what you have and don't think on how to change things. Don't forget that her cuteness, her teddy bear, her anxiety and shyness is why you talked to her in the first place. Love her for who she is.

then Sup Forums must be like a fucking playground for you.

I too have a socially anxious/awkward girlfriend. She's fucking weird, but in an extremely cute way. Only problem is, her extreme awkwardness and social anxiety make it hard for her to hold down a full-time job. This is the only thing preventing me of imagining a future together, because I'm no rich guy and I can't support the two of us. If only she was *slightly* more functional things would be fucking ideal.

No. No. No. Often people self diagnose themselves with things, I for example have self diagnosed myself with OCD (I don't know If I can count it as an official diagnostic.)
It's actually very common in people with issues in the past, often traumatic events they can;t get over.

If there was to be an attack watch out/ be prepared for the following:
- Talking during the attack (Often mumbles)
- Crying during the attack (Common)
- Closed eyes/ mouth
- Side-to-Side head movement

Remember this often last longer than two minutes but no longer than 5 so just stay calm. Remember that the more calm you are the more calm she will be...

I shit you not - If I could have a sample group of like 100 Sup Forumsro's I swear to fuck I could make some amazing breakthroughs in my field.

This girl works with children. She seems to love it, mostly because she has a great empathy with them and cares about them while being smart enough not to let herself get crushed by their tiny feet.

Thank you for the advice

this is by far the nicest Sup Forums thread I've ever been in

Yeah. Lets see some tits!

Dude you dun fucked up. You NEVER bring a girl to your place NEVER!. If she gets mad at you or you break up she can stalk you, send people after you, and do whatever else god only knows. NEVER FUCKING BRING A GIRL TO YOUR HOME UNLESS YOU GET MARRIED!

Here are tits. Nice, loving tits.

I'm getting an idea, shy-guy and teddy-bear-girl does sound like a superhero team. Can you post a somewhat recogniseable pic of yourself (compareable to the one in OP), so I and maybe some fellow drawfags can work sth up? Also, how tall are you in comparison?

Yay

virgin confirmed

>lolwut
who shit on your heart, user?

Not all girls get like that because not all girls are territorial psychos. Maybe it's time to find a different social circle if this is how you feel about the world?

is your field "edgy, autistic kids on drugs"?

holy shit nice but is she cool with you posting this? Cause if not, that's pretty fucked up, m8. As in she could be doing better. If you actually like her, treat her with respect even when she's not around or shit's gonna crumble beneath your feet when you least expect it to.

That's not her.

Still me : I would never do that to her I'm not that kind of guy. I just have lots of porn.

Good boy

aye gotcha. My bad swinging assumptions around. And good for you, man. She seems like a genuinely sweet/cool person. Be good to her and stay good to her. You're a lucky one, user.

Thank you ! I think I'm really lucky too.

Have some more tits.

She was most likely abused, once or a few times, by one or by multiple people, probably not in her family, but random strangers. She could make a wonderful partner if you fix her up user. It's like buying an old mediocre used car, it won't ever be anything special, or amazing, but if you put enough care into it, you'll start loving it and you won't ever want to change it.

The teddy bear could be multiple things:

Like other anons said, it could be a sign of previous abuse

It could be a sign of simple social anxiety, I work with a teenage boy who carries around a teddy bear for that express purpose, it helps him calm down. The bear could serve the same purpose for her.

An adult carrying a teddy bear around normally is a bit of an odd behavior, so it definitely serves some purpose for her, most likely as a tool for comfort in dealing with symptoms of anxiety.

To diagnose you'd have to know more about her history and the function of the bear to her

Well I don't know much about her yet (even though we spoke a lot) but I know she was badly bullied as a teenager. Also she asked me to dimm the lights when she took of her clothes, when I asked her about if afterwards she said she wasn't afraid I'd see her she was afraid of seeing herself.

>looks like a pig
Check in the mirror once in a while user

Said the permavirgin

Anymore? She seems cute.

Badly bullied eh? And afraid to see her own body?

They could be related, she could've been bullied over a weight issue or a body image issue (anorexic/bulimic), this is just conjecture though

They may not be related, but there's a connection in between them somewhere.

Definitely a low self esteem in general, wouldn't be surprised if there was depression and anxiety symptoms

There you go that's all I'll give

Anxiety yeah. She also gives names to almost every object she uses in her daily life. Her phone, her computer, her fridge... her teddybear.

Now, a pic of yourself to match. I really wanna draw you guys

A very child like behavior, could support the idea that anons have been throwing around of abuse.

Is she all there cognitively? I know that's a silly question, but would you say she's on par with other individuals her age?

Well she seems really smart. We talked about cinema for a bit, then we went on talking about economy and philosphy, then politics, she was very articulate, logical and convincing.

>>she left this morning to get to where she's staying
What does that mean, she doesn't live in your town?

Anyway, glad that worked out for you, user. It always pays to try. Can't win if you don't play.

I like confident, brash girls so I don't think I'd have the patience to deal with a girl with her eccentricities. But it sounds like you're doing things right, since she already felt comfortable enough to sleep with you.

Here you go !

She doesn't but she comes here often cause her family lives around here.

Ok, any head trauma or anything? Just trying to rule out stuff

>An adult carrying a teddy bear around normally is a bit of an odd behavior, so it definitely serves some purpose for her, most likely as a tool for comfort in dealing with symptoms of anxiety.

Could it even just be a way for her to get attention? You know, like a girl with bright pink hair, or a dude with a mohawk and piercing.

I don't know, I don't think so.

Perfect nipples.

post her b-hole!

You're really cute, well play user, you're the living proof that this board can bring good things sometimes =)

If this is real, please stop posting her pics here, that's an awful idea.

Possibly, but coupled with her other childlike behaviors I doubt it, seems like a regression to a younger state of mind, a defense mechanism

She could very well also be a Little and just enjoy that kind of stuff, like you said for attention

It's a tough call without having more info, I'm a psych doc student btw

this

kek
>PhD in psychology
>thnk him scientist
>dufaquthinkin?.pdf
>psychologynotscience

Psychology is not a science. Sorry you waisted so many years. You might want to check into somthing like biology, physics, mathmatics of any kind, engeneering, etc... but please do not try to "evaluate" people. This false "science" ,known as psychology, cannot even retain a theory as being true for more than a few years, and still, the theories that do, have many more "exceptions" that render the theory false (from an actual scientific view point at least).

It's a tough call, I'd say something with anxiety or depression, probably both

Also, like the other guy said, probably not good to share her pics, don't want ppl harassing her, if she's suffering from something it definitely won't help her case especially since she was bullied in the past

Would be hard to track her down.

What if she came her and saw this? that would be even more traumatizing for her...

I'll try at sketching it, maybe some other guys 'll have a go on it (that sounds wrong), and will keep posting it throughout next week

You mean her, the anxious probably traumatized woman who enjoys culture and complex conversations about interesting subjects ?

You don't know Sup Forums do you ?

>Philbear
What will you do when Based Big Cock Philbear eternally cockblocks OP?

Her sextoys have names.

social anxious guy here. How do I go about asking a co-worker out or at least talk to her?

YOU do not know Sup Forums
fucking newfags
idc wtf happened to her
>autistic grl
>autistic guy
>autistic teddy
>shouldhavecumonteddy.wtf
>shouldtxtherdickpicwithrapeface.timestamp
>show/b/
>master keks for all
>this is what Sup Forums is supposed to do

Give her a teddy bear soaked in chloroform.

cum in her eyes, and then shit on her teddy
>"plzzz dont user"
>"stfu femanon!"
>dizzly drizzly pooo
>wet and warm
>FILLED WID CORN
>"user why!?"
>"cause i has shtz dum btch!"
>"now stfu, i neeeeed foooccuuusss
>blam boom bap bang bam
>"da shitzo iz gonroo materrr poooroooo"
>bow
>walk away
>never speak again

Call me when physics explains how to treat someone with schizophrenia, not gonna say that psych knows how to treat schizophrenia well, cause we frankly don't other than meds, but it's still a better shot than anything other fields can offer

Hey, dude, I remember your previous post. Congratulations on successful date! I hope all goes good for you two

>admits psych can't treat psych illness
>says it does through meds

meds are made from analysis of the relation between different subtances (chemistry) and the human mind/body (bilology), and using the mathmatics found to come up with a solution for a cocktail of chemicals that would cause an action of the brain to produce the desired reaction.

NOT A SCIENCE. It's a field of study and analysis, not a field of science.