>be me, 21 y-o shy male >see this cute girl on a train >looks about 20 >wtf she has a teddybear >post on Sup Forums about it >anons tell me to talk to her >I do and we actually get along well >she seems really shy but smart >we agree on lunch the day after >we eat together, she pays her part of the bill without being asked >still has her teddybear though >we go to the movies the day after >then she invites me to her place >we cuddle and make out >I get back home >get a bit stressed out and ask Sup Forums about it again >following advice, I invite her to eat for dinner >I make spicy pasta because I know she like spicy stuff >she gets here and she looks so stressed out >when she tastes the pasta she lightens up saying her italian mom made puttanesca a lot when she lived with her >we talk for a long time and play a bit >we end up having cautious and tender sex (i didn't want to scare her) (she's really weird) >it was great >she stayed at home for a day and we kissed a lot >she left this morning to get to where she's staying
Ask me anyhting also here's her being all shy
Julian Young
What's her name
Jack Hall
Won't give it like that
Her second name is Cécile
Kayden Carter
I was curious because she looked like someone I know
Jason Long
I doubt that you know her. She doesn't know many people
Noah Lewis
She looks like a fuckin pig, man. She looks like a fuckin pig.
Lucas Morales
That pic clears it up. I don't know her
Brody Perry
so what's the story behind the bear?
Sebastian Hill
It's name is Philbear, she's had it for years now. She carries it around because she feels stressed around strangers so when she goes out she takes it in her bag and sometimes takes it out to give it a hug.
Gavin Powell
How many daddy issues does she have?
Nathan Barnes
Psychfags? What is that?
Jacob Jones
the same as yesterdays thread.
Lucas Morris
Certainly a lot. She didn't call me daddy during sex (and thank God she put away her teddybear so I didn't have to stare in its eyes.)
Daniel Myers
She's fine bro... a little bit broken, but aren't we all broken? Go ahead and find out if you two can fix each other and get a bear for yourself if you're that jealous man
Logan White
that's cute as hell nigga
Adam Price
This is when Sup Forums is actually helpful
Kayden Bailey
I wasn't in yesterday's thread, I'm not a faggot
Cute girl though, OP. She's gonna be a super-freak, the quiet ones always are
Henry Walker
Dude, marry her man. Or at least think about putting some time and effort into this.
Thomas Martin
Not jealous. I find it weird but it's not a deal breaker. Also I'm kind of impressed because I know now she has heavy anxiety issues and she found ways to deal with it effectively.
Ryder Taylor
Its actually called the TeddyBear sign. It usually means some sort of abuse and they keep it for safety purposes. They are usually very childish at root with anxiety issues.
Brayden Ross
> >Certainly a lot. She didn't call me daddy during sex (and thank God she put away her teddybear so I didn't have to stare in its eyes.) >Not finishing all over the teddy bear Are you sure you're on the right board?
Alexander Ward
kekkele
Mason Hall
Good for you, glad it worked out for you, I'd never have the balls to do that, I don't think I could stand putting myself out there just to be shot down
Ryan Martin
Yeah I intend to. She's weird and shy but she's smart and funny when she gets confortable. Also she owns a surprising amount of really fluffy clothes, plushes and cushions which are comfy as hell.
Thomas Hughes
Cecile--> italian mom dafuq
Blake Lee
Ahh, a common psychfag. What are your qualifications? P.S there are a few theories on the TeddyBear sign linking to non-epileptic seizures OP so watch out.
Bentley Edwards
I had some bad experiences before and I actually didn't think this would work out.
Her actual name sounds more italian.
Blake Kelly
Yeah I know. 3rd year MD program
Lincoln Gray
Really ? Damn. I'll find a gentle way to talk about it.
Jack Taylor
Looks like some girl at a convention. Try anime user.
Carpe Diem!
Jonathan Baker
Ah, I have a masters in psychology, a PhD in psychology and a post-graduate in criminal psychology. The field is great eh, you'll never get bored of it - Working with people is some of the most rewarding stuff.
Nathaniel Evans
Same user you replied to. Thats good to hear man! Im legit happy that you found someone for yourself. Heres to your future, yeah?
Oliver Morgan
nice dubs probably wait for her to bring it up ? if she has a condition she probably knows about it no need to be overly stalkery
Noah Kelly
Seems never-ending training at the moment, but I agree, medical work (doc stuff) is tops
Aaron Gutierrez
Yeah ! Thanks man. She's a treasure.
Yeah obviously she knows she has problems. She takes it pretty well and with a lot of pragmatism : she has a job in which she does well, she has friends with whom she communicates via internet...
Elijah Howard
Remember that non-epileptic fits are just psychogenic seizures, they're often triggered by subconscious thoughts or overwhelming emotions. Watch out because she may have self diagnosed herself as "epileptic" because of them. If, later down the line, she claims she is epileptic without having going to the doctors get her there son. Have a good life with this woman. -PhD.
Christian Howard
>mfw this thread
Eli Bailey
Best of luck in life fellow psychfag :)
Eli Parker
In other words she is crazy
Owen Adams
Same to you!
Jordan Howard
You should put the bear to watch while it watches say something like bear look how im doing her you like dont you cuck.
Jordan Morales
U two gotta become a pair....pls dont let her go to waste, she doesn't deserve to be alone
Jack Roberts
We all have our thing man. I say don't try to fix her. She is who she is and you are who you are. There are some things you can't change.
As a 30 yr old user the best advice I can give you so far is be happy with what you have and don't think on how to change things. Don't forget that her cuteness, her teddy bear, her anxiety and shyness is why you talked to her in the first place. Love her for who she is.
Gabriel Foster
then Sup Forums must be like a fucking playground for you.
Cameron Lee
I too have a socially anxious/awkward girlfriend. She's fucking weird, but in an extremely cute way. Only problem is, her extreme awkwardness and social anxiety make it hard for her to hold down a full-time job. This is the only thing preventing me of imagining a future together, because I'm no rich guy and I can't support the two of us. If only she was *slightly* more functional things would be fucking ideal.
Nathaniel Taylor
No. No. No. Often people self diagnose themselves with things, I for example have self diagnosed myself with OCD (I don't know If I can count it as an official diagnostic.) It's actually very common in people with issues in the past, often traumatic events they can;t get over.
If there was to be an attack watch out/ be prepared for the following: - Talking during the attack (Often mumbles) - Crying during the attack (Common) - Closed eyes/ mouth - Side-to-Side head movement
Remember this often last longer than two minutes but no longer than 5 so just stay calm. Remember that the more calm you are the more calm she will be...
I shit you not - If I could have a sample group of like 100 Sup Forumsro's I swear to fuck I could make some amazing breakthroughs in my field.
Ethan Hall
This girl works with children. She seems to love it, mostly because she has a great empathy with them and cares about them while being smart enough not to let herself get crushed by their tiny feet.
Thank you for the advice
Kayden King
this is by far the nicest Sup Forums thread I've ever been in
Adam Anderson
Yeah. Lets see some tits!
Nathan Bennett
Dude you dun fucked up. You NEVER bring a girl to your place NEVER!. If she gets mad at you or you break up she can stalk you, send people after you, and do whatever else god only knows. NEVER FUCKING BRING A GIRL TO YOUR HOME UNLESS YOU GET MARRIED!
Alexander Bell
Here are tits. Nice, loving tits.
Jaxon Robinson
I'm getting an idea, shy-guy and teddy-bear-girl does sound like a superhero team. Can you post a somewhat recogniseable pic of yourself (compareable to the one in OP), so I and maybe some fellow drawfags can work sth up? Also, how tall are you in comparison?
Oliver Martinez
Yay
Brody Sullivan
virgin confirmed
Liam James
>lolwut who shit on your heart, user?
Not all girls get like that because not all girls are territorial psychos. Maybe it's time to find a different social circle if this is how you feel about the world?
Robert Ramirez
is your field "edgy, autistic kids on drugs"?
Lucas Edwards
holy shit nice but is she cool with you posting this? Cause if not, that's pretty fucked up, m8. As in she could be doing better. If you actually like her, treat her with respect even when she's not around or shit's gonna crumble beneath your feet when you least expect it to.
Nathan Price
That's not her.
Daniel Myers
Still me : I would never do that to her I'm not that kind of guy. I just have lots of porn.
Easton Lewis
Good boy
Andrew Morgan
aye gotcha. My bad swinging assumptions around. And good for you, man. She seems like a genuinely sweet/cool person. Be good to her and stay good to her. You're a lucky one, user.
Jeremiah Thompson
Thank you ! I think I'm really lucky too.
Have some more tits.
Cameron Hernandez
She was most likely abused, once or a few times, by one or by multiple people, probably not in her family, but random strangers. She could make a wonderful partner if you fix her up user. It's like buying an old mediocre used car, it won't ever be anything special, or amazing, but if you put enough care into it, you'll start loving it and you won't ever want to change it.
Jackson Fisher
The teddy bear could be multiple things:
Like other anons said, it could be a sign of previous abuse
It could be a sign of simple social anxiety, I work with a teenage boy who carries around a teddy bear for that express purpose, it helps him calm down. The bear could serve the same purpose for her.
An adult carrying a teddy bear around normally is a bit of an odd behavior, so it definitely serves some purpose for her, most likely as a tool for comfort in dealing with symptoms of anxiety.
To diagnose you'd have to know more about her history and the function of the bear to her
Jordan Stewart
Well I don't know much about her yet (even though we spoke a lot) but I know she was badly bullied as a teenager. Also she asked me to dimm the lights when she took of her clothes, when I asked her about if afterwards she said she wasn't afraid I'd see her she was afraid of seeing herself.
Sebastian James
>looks like a pig Check in the mirror once in a while user
Caleb Lee
Said the permavirgin
Charles Brooks
Anymore? She seems cute.
David White
Badly bullied eh? And afraid to see her own body?
They could be related, she could've been bullied over a weight issue or a body image issue (anorexic/bulimic), this is just conjecture though
They may not be related, but there's a connection in between them somewhere.
Definitely a low self esteem in general, wouldn't be surprised if there was depression and anxiety symptoms
Ayden Nelson
There you go that's all I'll give
Chase Davis
Anxiety yeah. She also gives names to almost every object she uses in her daily life. Her phone, her computer, her fridge... her teddybear.
Asher Gray
Now, a pic of yourself to match. I really wanna draw you guys
Anthony Foster
A very child like behavior, could support the idea that anons have been throwing around of abuse.
Is she all there cognitively? I know that's a silly question, but would you say she's on par with other individuals her age?
Brody Moore
Well she seems really smart. We talked about cinema for a bit, then we went on talking about economy and philosphy, then politics, she was very articulate, logical and convincing.
Xavier Brooks
>>she left this morning to get to where she's staying What does that mean, she doesn't live in your town?
Anyway, glad that worked out for you, user. It always pays to try. Can't win if you don't play.
I like confident, brash girls so I don't think I'd have the patience to deal with a girl with her eccentricities. But it sounds like you're doing things right, since she already felt comfortable enough to sleep with you.
Joseph Phillips
Here you go !
She doesn't but she comes here often cause her family lives around here.
Elijah Lewis
Ok, any head trauma or anything? Just trying to rule out stuff
Elijah Hughes
>An adult carrying a teddy bear around normally is a bit of an odd behavior, so it definitely serves some purpose for her, most likely as a tool for comfort in dealing with symptoms of anxiety.
Could it even just be a way for her to get attention? You know, like a girl with bright pink hair, or a dude with a mohawk and piercing.
Hunter Powell
I don't know, I don't think so.
Matthew Roberts
Perfect nipples.
Isaac Price
post her b-hole!
Jace Rodriguez
You're really cute, well play user, you're the living proof that this board can bring good things sometimes =)
Andrew Walker
If this is real, please stop posting her pics here, that's an awful idea.
Noah Hall
Possibly, but coupled with her other childlike behaviors I doubt it, seems like a regression to a younger state of mind, a defense mechanism
She could very well also be a Little and just enjoy that kind of stuff, like you said for attention
It's a tough call without having more info, I'm a psych doc student btw
Nathan Sanchez
this
Eli Sullivan
kek >PhD in psychology >thnk him scientist >dufaquthinkin?.pdf >psychologynotscience
Psychology is not a science. Sorry you waisted so many years. You might want to check into somthing like biology, physics, mathmatics of any kind, engeneering, etc... but please do not try to "evaluate" people. This false "science" ,known as psychology, cannot even retain a theory as being true for more than a few years, and still, the theories that do, have many more "exceptions" that render the theory false (from an actual scientific view point at least).
Nathaniel Murphy
It's a tough call, I'd say something with anxiety or depression, probably both
Also, like the other guy said, probably not good to share her pics, don't want ppl harassing her, if she's suffering from something it definitely won't help her case especially since she was bullied in the past
Ayden Carter
Would be hard to track her down.
Nathaniel Torres
What if she came her and saw this? that would be even more traumatizing for her...
David Fisher
I'll try at sketching it, maybe some other guys 'll have a go on it (that sounds wrong), and will keep posting it throughout next week
Aaron Carter
You mean her, the anxious probably traumatized woman who enjoys culture and complex conversations about interesting subjects ?
You don't know Sup Forums do you ?
Ryan Davis
>Philbear What will you do when Based Big Cock Philbear eternally cockblocks OP?
Xavier Lewis
Her sextoys have names.
Xavier Price
social anxious guy here. How do I go about asking a co-worker out or at least talk to her?
Isaiah Nelson
YOU do not know Sup Forums fucking newfags idc wtf happened to her >autistic grl >autistic guy >autistic teddy >shouldhavecumonteddy.wtf >shouldtxtherdickpicwithrapeface.timestamp >show/b/ >master keks for all >this is what Sup Forums is supposed to do
Charles Taylor
Give her a teddy bear soaked in chloroform.
Robert Reed
cum in her eyes, and then shit on her teddy >"plzzz dont user" >"stfu femanon!" >dizzly drizzly pooo >wet and warm >FILLED WID CORN >"user why!?" >"cause i has shtz dum btch!" >"now stfu, i neeeeed foooccuuusss >blam boom bap bang bam >"da shitzo iz gonroo materrr poooroooo" >bow >walk away >never speak again
Sebastian Hughes
Call me when physics explains how to treat someone with schizophrenia, not gonna say that psych knows how to treat schizophrenia well, cause we frankly don't other than meds, but it's still a better shot than anything other fields can offer
Owen Evans
Hey, dude, I remember your previous post. Congratulations on successful date! I hope all goes good for you two
Zachary Morris
>admits psych can't treat psych illness >says it does through meds
meds are made from analysis of the relation between different subtances (chemistry) and the human mind/body (bilology), and using the mathmatics found to come up with a solution for a cocktail of chemicals that would cause an action of the brain to produce the desired reaction.
NOT A SCIENCE. It's a field of study and analysis, not a field of science.