I think I fucked up more than I've ever fucked up in my life before.
>be in relationship for a couple years >gf is nice girl, i'm a good guy. was planning on asking her to marry me in a year when i'm halfways through my masters >got drunk a couple months ago and fucked another girl >no condom cuz idiot and it feels gud >whatever that's the only time i've ever cheated and the only time I plan on doing it. felt like shit afterwards. >fast forward to today, i keep getting the shits, random infections, and white spots on my tongue. >i look it up and i may have hiv >gf starts having the shits a week ago >she has Irritable bowel syndrome so doctors think it's just that but we can tell it's diffferent >planning on getting tested this week
what the fuck do i do if i have hiv and i gave it to my innocent girlfriend? how do i come out of that without everyone i know hating me?
like i said, i'm not usually a scumbag, but that stupid slip up may cost me everything. i'm mostly worried about her having it than me.
Matthew Rodriguez
bumping with fake ariel winter nudes
John Reyes
Bump as well. I'm interdasted on what the prevailing opinion might be on this.
Jacob Powell
You done fucked up user You only choice at this point is to become an hero
Jaxon Bell
thanks for the bump
i just realized this is my last ariel winter fake pic
Kayden Kelly
it's just "an hero"
not "become an hero"
Kevin Brooks
I was actually thinking that, but that shit would traumatize my family even more.
right now all i'm thinking is on how to minimize the damage to my family, friends, and her.
Luke Williams
First off, don't assume you have anything until a progressional runs the tests and gives you results. Secondly: go get tested and wait for results.
If you do have anything, and it's treatable, get it treated and have gf tested as well. After that, I dunno, be truthful or come up with an awesome lie
Easton Baker
Also, ignore an hero shit. That's not only not a solution, but it's the pussy's way out. There are alternative ways to see to one's...debts.
Chase Murphy
The situation sucks, but there are tons of meds out to keep you from losing your lives to it. Also you could just say you got it another way.
Ryder Rivera
if it's something treatable i'm going to lie my teeth off. She always used to say her ex may have given her something before we started dating. I can always blame it on him and say he got it treated and is lying if she ever confronts him.
if it's hiv, then i'm going to have to be partially honest.
Brody Long
if test is positive say you were infected when you donated blood or you picked up a syringe or some shit.
James Miller
Do you have swollen lymph nodes? You add that to the other symptoms you have and I'd be concerned.
Samuel Thomas
HIV is a possibility, but there are fuckload of other STDs with similar symptoms as far as i know HPV for example. Go get yourself tested as fast as possible!
Anthony Miller
hmmm then they'd assume i'm a junkie. which in comparison to cheating it may not be so bad. I can say i shot up once to know what it felt like but dun goofd. then they'd probably throw me in rehab for a while, and my girlfriend would leave me and only a couple people would hate me.
Michael Peterson
compared to the alternative of her dumping you, her whole family and your family hating you, and being forever alone, i think its the more preferable alternative. night out with the boys, you got drunk and someone offered you something.
doubt its aids tho. if it is, find the bitch and sue her ass for not disclosing her condition
Angel Parker
not that i can tell. then again, i've only checked according to specifications i've found online.
Carter Sanchez
Some twenty seven other states in the country have enacted criminal statutes that allow for prosecution of those who know they are infected with the HIV virus and engage in sexual conduct without disclosure.
Julian King
If test comes positive, tell her, then get in your car and never come back. Go missing, go somewhere, do something, but accept your fate, make peace with it, and go out gracefully.
Henry Flores
Symptoms of HIV dosen't show up within 2 months.
Jeremiah Rodriguez
yes, the initial symptoms show up within a month
Nolan Davis
If this is true, and you really have infected your gf, the only way you can marginally attempt to make up part of the mess you have caused would be to fly straight to africa, and spend the rest of your days helping children with aids.
Your poor gf and family clearly don't deserve a piece of shit like you in their lives, so be a man for once and free them of that burden while you try to make amends with humanity.
Nolan Parker
dont rule out the hypothesis of her riding the cock carousel and giving you the aids instead
Angel Flores
Bro, how do you know that she didn't give you HIV.....
Nathaniel Morris
I'm inclined to agree with this. I would suggest an even harsher self punishment by way of castration to remove the urge to pass it to more people, then dedicating your life to a good and selfless cause. After all if it's HIV you've ruined her life, and made it so she can never have a child/family of her own.
If not HIV, more options are available to you.
Nathan Wright
almost happened to me years ago, was so happy when the test came back negativ, so I hope you will have the same luck otherwise your life will be pretty much fucked
Evan Jones
Wholeheartedly agree. You may have done a terrible thing, but you can dedicate yourself to doing some small measure of good.
Logan Barnes
Jesus, yeah, you're pretty much a fuck up.
You raw dog a rando, get tested. Full stop, always.
In fact, why are you on the internet right now? Go get tested.
Gavin Rogers
Ask girl you fucked if she has aids....
Chase Russell
HIV is now treatable and it may not even turn into aids so don't give up all hope
Blake Jackson
Tell her everything, then suicide. I am DEADLY serious.
Don't fuck the girl who you're apparently in love with's life up more than you already have.
She can get treatment. While you off yourself in the most painful manner of course.
But you won't because you're a fucking coward and a terrible person.
Zachary Carter
Get tested Then come back and make a thread
Jace Williams
you're probably alright then, 90% of new HIV infections begin with swollen lymph nodes in the groin or neck and rashes at the knee joints, elbow joints or armpits. If you haven't had any of that, you'd have to fall into the 10% of HIV cases that don't have those symptoms
good idea to get tested though
if it does come back positive, i have one question, have you told her that you boned that other bird?
Leo Reyes
If you honestly cared you would just admit it and save everyone the trouble of having to find out on their own later.
You're only attempting to save your own interests by concealing it
Josiah Hill
Helping niggers? What the fuck? Get off Sup Forums you fucknugget
OP, you're an asshole
Adam Watson
True don't worry over nothing bitch
Jordan Lewis
Great probably the one guy she can be with because well they both got it and he goes and offs himself. She'd probably feel guilty too Don't kill yourself op
Hudson Lewis
this even if you get the hiv+ result dont go immediately saying you cheated on her, tell you both need to figure out how this happened and read her reactions just because you cheated once doesnt mean its the only sex out of your relationship that happened the entire time she could be riding a different football team every week without you knowing
Sebastian Perez
Who are you? White Knight Quar of Zanzibar
Carter Wilson
Infect the planet with your hoe-bag disease.
Laugh, chortle, and snortle, at how bad these threads are.
Thomas Adams
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Asher Morales
Cocklords commit suicide, which shows what a massive pussy you are. OP can do other more meaningful things.
Enjoy being the biggest fuck up in your circle of friends though. Every group needs an omega.
Jordan Morris
post a picture of your aids tongue bro.
Liam Anderson
post girl pic and then i will tell what to do
Jordan Mitchell
the whole Africa part doesn't sound bad. in a way my family would still be hurt, but they'd understand it a little more. my siblings would disapprove but the action would still set a semi good example. Even before this possible disaster I had considered going to help out the little nigglets.
i'm not going to castrate myself tho. i can still jerk off and not give my hand aids.
Daniel Jenkins
No. If he is going to just disappear just do it and be the coward you're always going to be and save everyone the hassle of having to deal with your "most of the time" good guy act.
The sooner it's dealt with the sooner it's over and life moves on
Jaxon Phillips
do the world a favour and start fucking as many gays, jews and politicians you can find take as many as you can with you
Connor Bennett
Going to Africa is a cop out, everyone got aids there already. Don't run away like a little bitch. Infect infect infect negro
Noah Long
Take it to the grave user deny deny deny
Joseph Parker
>>fuck her one last time I've got aids and now so do you!
Landon Bell
what are you doing being nice to someone on Sup Forums? fucking normie
Adam Myers
You've potentially got HIV and you're worried about your girlfriend and your friends might think? Fuck them all, they are completely replaceable and you need to stop being a fucking faggot, put your health first and get tested. If you've got it, tell her you're breaking up with her and that she needs to get tested too. Then go out and do a bunch of wild shit before an heroing.
Owen Jenkins
Fair enough. I think you're thinking the right way in the event of the worst. Get tested though, and see where your options lie. If it's the worst, face it.
And again, don't listen to suicide shitposting. Sup Forums is a fantasy land of swamptalk, and 90% have no concept of the true depth of the problem you face, or it's possible outcomes when looked at with adult eyes.
Chase Turner
> Cock carousel
Made me chuckle
Jaxson King
Welcome to the Manosphere bro
Carter Lee
Just say you tried heroin and got it. Then go get treated.
Isaac Allen
OP it's probably chlamydia if anything. I had the same symptoms, turned out my gf (now soon to be wife) gave it to me. Or maybe i gave it to her from hooking up with my ex a week before we met. Either way, two antibiotics later it was gone.
Don't panic just yet boo.
Austin Morales
Dude, get tested, that's it. Don't kill yourself, and definitely don't run away. If you love this girl you'll at least stick around until you know what you actually have, and then take it as it comes from there. Again, don't kill yourself.
David Edwards
yeah like i said, if it does come back positive, the next step would be to try and minimize damage to family and her, and killing myself won't do that.
my parents would be more than devastated because like most people alive, i have a good relationship with them. my siblings would be too for the same reason. my girlfriend would probably hate me even more because i'd more or less be leaving her all alone to deal with the disease. she's going to hate me irregardless, but if i kill myself it'll be even more traumatic.
Bentley Walker
tell her you've been doing H
Anthony Rogers
ive done something like this before, and man... vaginal intercouse is very hard to get HIV, almost impossible for one time fuck, wait for the tests and dont tell anything...
Tyler Wright
What you need to do is very simple, but it's going to suck. First, get tested. There is always the chance that you are clean. If that is the case, then yay! You managed to cheat on your girlfriend consequence free, you piece of shit. But if you test positive, then you need to tell her. It will suck and there will be consequences. I imagine she will leave you, everyone you know will judge the shit out of you. You will lose many friends, and the support of many family members. There may also possibly be legal ramifications for getting her infected. You are fucked. But if you don;t come clean then you are even more fucked. Because this will be discovered, and if she finds out before you come clean it will be so much worse. Any possible sympathy or empathy you might have hoped for will be gone for sure. And if it becomes a legal issue your chances of being charged with a more serious crime increase.
TL:DR Do the right thing, because you are even more fucked if you don't.
Connor Nelson
HahahhahHHhahahahHah spreadit around you done fucked up t
Eli Phillips
How is that even possible, HIV doesn't come from the heaven, one of the two HAS to be guilty, it would be completely absurd to blame the girl, because she would know INSTANTLY it is his fault anyway... except if she has been cheating too
Logan Barnes
If you contracted HIV by cheating on your spouse, and in turn gave your spouse HIV as well? You've effectively ruined her entire life. As someone who supposedly loves her, you shouldn't be able to live with this. If you can, you never loved her to begin with.
You know what needs to be done.
Grayson Cruz
Dude, it's like a 1 in 2000 chance you would become infected if you raw dogged a girl you were 100% sure was infected with HIV. Picking up HIV from a chance encounter like you are describing is statistically improbable. Don't blow your cover with the lady until/unless the docs confirm you dun goofd. And whatever the outcome, let the terror you're feeling right now be a lesson to you.
Jackson Sanders
looks like someone has never read other boards but Sup Forums
probably for the best user, you seem like a closed-minded idiot without a clue
Jacob Bennett
In the worse case scenario, you can say you got infected in a different way, doing drugs or some shit. That won't fix anything but at least to avoid telling the cheating part, if that helps
Dylan Foster
Actually you're wrong.
Andrew Harris
No shit, thank you. That shit bugs the fuck out of me too
Tyler Nelson
did you just pull that probability out of your ass?
Anthony Ross
No, he's not, fuckwit.
Christopher Turner
yeah if it comes back positive it'll probably the only time i'd be crossing my fingers hoping she's cheated on.
but this thread has made me feel better regarding the outcome of the tests.
if it comes out negative i'll come clean eventually even if it costs me the relationship. i ain't a nigger.
if it comes out positive i'll come clean much sooner and deal with the consequences. again, i'm not a nigger.
Parker Hall
Edgy
Caleb Clark
No, different user here (med student in immunology). It's true, HIV in heterosexual vaginal sex very rarely results in the transmission of the virus.
Seriously user, as a med student, you're fine. Trust me, these things happen all the time. You'd be amazed how many people I've had in the clinic tell me they think they have HIV and they're worried about their partners. It's only been HIV once and that was through anal homosexual intercourse.
Jason Young
Yeah, he is.
Daniel Diaz
Shut the fuck up queerbait
Nathan Adams
Wise choice. I won't lie, I don't pity you even remotely and your decision to cheat on her is deplorable.
But I respect you -if- you do what's right.
In that case, I would wish you the best going forward so long as you never hurt anyone in such a way again. My heart breaks for her in the worst case though.
Evan Campbell
Not that user, but i did look it up. According to the cdc, there is a 1/2500 chance for hiv to be transmitted to a man via vaginal penetration
Cameron Cooper
which means, its far more probable that your girl got it and infected you, than it would be that you got it from that 1 time cheat
Christopher Hughes
If it's negative I don't know why the fuck you has to tell her anyways. If you are regretfull just don't do it again.
Jackson Davis
wtf... how did they run this study? who was the unlucky test subject....
Justin Rogers
>fly straight to Africa to spread the shit til you die
Fix'd
Tyler Mitchell
Commiting suicide isnt pussy move. Most faggots like yourself would never have the balls to actually go through with it
Cooper Mitchell
say you got HIV because you are an Heroin Addict. I know this is a hard story but its trustfull
Jordan Scott
maybe your whore gf gave you the aids??
Wyatt Cruz
Says the one who would rather run from his problems for keeps. There's no bigger pussy move than that, you autist teenage cringelord omega.
In your case, an hero is the right move.
Zachary Kelly
This. Life isnt special and you dont owe anything to nobody its just an illusion. Aids might actually set you free for once
Julian Diaz
sure its seems deep down you might be a true nigger only standing around for the mere principle not being one. You want a valid excuse to end the responsibility plain and simple. Good thinking.
Chase Morales
>I'm a good guy. >Cheated on gf and gave her HIV
Pick one
Landon Ortiz
>>gf is nice girl, i'm a good guy. was planning on asking her to marry me in a year >> how do i come out of that without everyone i know hating me?
You sound like a bit of a sociopath there OP
>>gave it to my innocent girlfriend? >> i'm mostly worried about her having it than me.
Programmed response, false empathy
Easton Morris
praise be to Nurgle
Nolan Bell
You are right on user.
Jeremiah Young
This nigger gets it.
Owen Ortiz
very unlikely it'll be HIV. maybe something common and treatable. go get tested on the sly, if there's anything that needs to be treated then work in an excuse, like a stag week where a stripper got too close, or a drunken night where you don't know what happened, or you were raped..
or, dump her.
get treated yourself and bang gf again. get tested again. if you've not got it again, then you didn't pass it to her. probably. you're in the clear.
if she gets it again, then say you need to sit down with her for a talk. say you tested pos for something. . you just recently had symptoms. .you don't know where you got it... maybe, maybe, she'll confess to something. if not, then fall back in the stripper/black out/raped set up you created earlier.
4.profit
Joshua James
That does make a lot of sense. If she's positive, you have a moral duty to support her through all that, and as you noted killing yourself would be incredibly irresponsible and cowardly. Plus, if you're both positive, you can actually support each other, you'll need it. But maybe you're just overreacting and nobody is infected at all, just do the test as soon as possible and wait for the results.
Mason Davis
no it isn't
Dominic Miller
meanwhile over here I've fucked over 100+ girls bareback and no ramifications and when I decided to get married and have kids it took right away and my child came out healthier then healthy.
Looks like I got luck +8 and you are 0
Ayden Russell
A sound piece of advice on Sup Forums ? I be damned.
Zachary Torres
Hmm the tales are true very interesting although still a edgy tryhard faggot