Who on Sup Forums has had experiences with unfaithful partners? This is my one experience

Who on Sup Forums has had experiences with unfaithful partners? This is my one experience

>be 18
>in first relationship, lasted about 3 years at this point
>love my gf to death, she's pretty, smart, down to earth
>one day she calls me
>I answer with my usual "Hey babe, what's up?"
>silence for a moment, it confuses me
>"You there?"
>"Hey, user...I...I have to tell you something"
>first thought is that she's breaking up with me
>heart starts beating super fast
>starting to panic
>"W-what is it?"
>"I...I did something I shouldn't have"
>uwot.jpg
>"What did you do?"
>"I...sent some...photos...nudes...to another guy"
>wtf
>feel sick now
>"Why did you..."
>can hear her sniffling like she's gonna burst into tears
>"It was late at night...and it was when I was on holiday with my family a few weeks ago...I was in the mood but you were asleep, I texted you and you didn't answer"
>one side of me is disgusted at her, that's not a fucking excuse to send nudes to another guy
>the other side is shocked beyond belief, devastated
>"...Sarah (not her actual name), we're gonna have to...take a break...I need to think about this"
>"Okay...I understand user...I'm so sorry...I hope you can forgive me. I love you"
>I hang up without saying I love you back
>Throw up repeatedly for the next half hour, sick for about a week, don't go to work or school (we go to the same school)
>About a month later I take her back like a cuck

She didn't actually sleep with the guy she sent nudes to, but I still felt so betrayed. She and I aren't together anymore

Glad you got some respect for yourself OP. Ya did gud m8.
I wasn't as nice. Can't green text because I'm about to go to work but it ended with me rimming my asshole with her toothbrush

Wow, you went all out, huh?

I don't think I could've done something like that, I'm pretty beta, plus she was and still is such a nice woman despite what she did

Oh boy I have one of these.

>Be 14
>start dating girl, she's an outcast. cute, edgy, short, all that good stuff.
>found out recently that she's socially autistic, which explains why she was so alone.
>teach her how to socialize normally
>i love her so much and i have a lot of personal issues and she helps me with them
>about 8 months in, during summer.
>invite friend into group chat and instantly pick up vibes he's trying to fuck gf
>instantly hate friend, urge others to kick him out of chat but they don't listen
>gf and him start DMing instead of talking in the group chat
>They start watching porn together
>I bring my concerns to gf
>"we're just friends, user. he's one of my best friends!"
>wtf
>up until now i had never been mad at her because she had trouble with social interactions
>this is over the line.
>fast forward 2 months
>she starts going to his house and mine 3 days a week, leaving sunday for herself.
>what the fuck why does she have a schedule.
>bring up my concerns again
>"He treats me like the brother I never had"
>She tells me they cuddled on the day she went to "clean his house" with him but thought nothing of it because she thought she could act like family with him
>my now ex 'friend' has obvious 'looking for cheap smash' vibes
>gf doesn't understand, just thinks he's nice.
>One day she breaks up with me out of the blue on one of her 'his house' days
>tells me they kissed
>instant wretch in my chest
>want to throw up
>scream and punch my walls
>she was so innocent and some guy treated her nice and she just leaves me for him
>fast forward a week
>she finds out i've been talking shit about her and i call her to work it out
>she's crying like i've never heard anyone cry
>says she regrets it
>take her back like a cuck
>find out later she slept with him
>i'm disgusted. after a week?
>cont.

cont.
>we have sex one more time in the course of the 6 more months i was with her
>breaks up with me for a sand nigger that she's in an afterschool class with
>heartbroken all over again
>stay her friend so i can make sure he doesn't do what 'friend' did

Sup Forums, i love this girl still and it fucks me in the ass that she doesn't love me back anymore. i just have to protect her from assholes like 'friend'

>dating the most amazing girl anyone could date
>would have sex whenever I wanted despite not being in the mood
>would cook and clean for me whenever it was needed
>ff to a month and half ago
>start playing kissing games with best friend and another really good friend
>My best friend is a guy the other is a girl
>the games are fun so I keep egging the games on
>in my head it's all just drunk fucking around I still love my gf and don't think anything about the games
>play games on a Wednesday night
>next day my gf is saying she needs space
>I start freaking out
>don't want to leave but decide to see if she is bluffing and pack all my shit and she doesn't tell me to stay
>I drive by her house at 2 on Sunday and my best friend's car is outside her house
for the last month I've done nothing but deteriorate and doing stupid shit like driving by her house and texting him and her threats and shit that's even worse.
I still fucking want her back so bad. we started dating when we were 15 and now we're both 19. I lived with her for 2 years and may first would have been our first year anniversary. I ruined everything all over some drunk games.

Drop her like the bad habbit she is bro. This is why i don't have female friends. Too scared of becoming too thirsty, or them using me as a backup/friendzone.

i fucking really want to but there's always that glimmer of hope in my heart that she'll take me back eventually

Lol what a crybaby

This is what females do, they string you along and make you think there might still be a chance. Better to just stop talking to a girl after a breakup.

my brain says yes but my heart says no man. i just can't ):

I stopped talking to my ex after a while after we broke up

It's great, helped me move on

you are a dumbass op

drop the bitch right now and CUT all communications with her. Your life is too important for you to throw it away wasting after somebody who doesn't consider you to even be worth their time. Be alone for a bit if you have to, improve yourself, make money, fuck another bitch whatever, but don't keep wallowing in the past. It'll fuck you up and leave you resentful. Trust me, I've been there.

Preaching to the choir, buddy

the thing is, i've fucked another girl in the time that's past. i couldn't get her fucking face out of my head while we fucked. i went limpdick and broke up with new girl the next day. i can't have someone else wallow through my pain

Why would a beta male , who clearly has a tiny dick allow himself to ruin his own relationship by introducing clearly superior males to your girlfriend .

Kill yourself man .

Been there. You need to spend some time alone (6months or whatever) learning to enjoy your own company, get over the girl, reinforce whatever mental self-coping mechanism you have and to basically get yourself strong and back into the game again. Shit takes time, but don't become like so many people who get ruined over shit like this. Learn to live with it, learn from it and basically get back on your feet when you're ready.

thanks for the advice man. i'll take it into consideration :)

OP here, totally agree with this

You gotta go cold turkey, just stay away from her, don't talk to her, forget about her. It'll make you feel so much better

Good luck bud. Whatever doesn't kill you does make you stronger.

This thread is full of fags.

>Married six years, two kids, nice house, good job.
>Wife starts being secretive, has plans that pop up at last minute or she's already gone when I get home from work.
>One night I sit her down and ask why.
>She denies she is doing anything wrong, just helping a friend.
>Fine, I tell her, Your friend is lucky to have you.
>Three weeks later she drags me out to a park we like because nobody goes there.
>I've been seeing another guy.
>I said "And"
>She stares at me.
>"And?"
>I didn't want to sleep with him, but I did.
>"And?"
>I want to sleep with him more.
>OK
>OK?
>Go ahead.
>Aren't you pissed?
>Why? I haven't noticed that you like me any less, just stop pretending and have fun.
>What if I want to leave?
>Then leave, I ain't your boss.
>She wore my dick to a bloody nub right in the middle of that park.
>As far as I know she wrecked her friend too that same day.
>Women can take all the sex they want, just help them want you.

cuck

She did you a favor. Move on. Yes that's hard but that is where you are now.

Life is very hard a lot of the time man, just get stronger because this kind of shit happens.

Remember, you are young so this probably feels like the end of the world. It's not, you just have intense feelings and not much experience with the downside of relationships.

Do physical shit. Work out, run, hike, whatever interests you. Get your dopamine flowing.

lets play a game
leak your ex gf
>Snαpchαt d.com
thank me later

> be me, 19 an American living in Europe
> Get caught smoking weed, lots of trouble, feel alone
> Wake up one Saturday moring with a wicked hangover
> Check my phone and see a text from a number I don't recognize
> It's a girl, said she had a great time last night, wants to meet up for dinner
> Try to remember what happened last night, to drunk, to many drugs
> Tell her to meet at a local restaurant
> Have her tell me what she's wearing and wait out front
> Plan was to do a drive by and if she was hot, I would stay
> Bitch was bad. Best way to describe is Alexis Texas, measured, her ass is bigger than Alexis
> Cool girlfriend, drink, smoke, play video games. She's there for me while I'm going through my legal trouble.
> Love kicks in, blinds me from her true intentions
> Fast forward a year, we get married
> Mom flies from US to see me get married, hates my wife, tells me not to do it
> Do it anyways
> Fast forward another year, find out she's been fucking anyone with a dick.
> Explains her strange behavior, I call her out on it
> I start packing myou shit and telling her I'm leaving, she gets mad and blocks the door
> I ask her to move, she doesn't. I move towards the door and she hits me
> Calls one of the dudes shes been fucking, he's a cop.
> Tells him her life feels threatened
> I get arrested, taken to jail
> Cop says I'm going to jail because she called cops first, even though I didn't hit her and I had a black eye
> Friend gets me out, find out she pressed charges
> Rape, domestic assault, adultery, and child abuse (she brought kid to marriage)
> Asks for divorce, then tells everyone lies and said im the one leaving
> Move back to states, pay $30,000
> Finally divorced

You are a weak cuck. I pray your cancer is swift

The last 2 women I cohabitated with were unfaithful. I was an unfaithful partner before being with these people, but my experiences with them have rid me of any guilt about it. Men have no in-group perference and women have no respect for things men typically hold as valuable. Any woman will instantly drop the man she is with when the possibility of being with a superior one arises, and a man will have no qualms about sleeping with another mans woman, as he sees the other man as inferior. Since I came upon this realization, I haven't been able to have a monogamous relationship with a woman and will likely never cohabitate with one again. Women will drop me as soon as it's convenient, so I am quick to dump them if and when they become difficult.

same to be honest
at least if i died i wouldn't feel like shit

>Have gf
>Have mom
>No longer have mom
>gf knows Im devistated
>"If you ever need anything and I mean ANYTHING... Blah Blah Blah.."
>FFW 2 months
>Really depressed from mom void
>ask gf to move in
>been dating almost 4 years at this point, not getting married any time soon.
>moving in makes sense
>she says 'no'
>why?
>"Cause"
>Really?
>"Yeah"

So I fucked a stripper and she left me. Now she's dating a guy who's the biggest gaping twat and I fish alone 4 days a week. Actually worked out for the better.