Has Sup Forums ever been in love? Tell me about it, most of the time you guys seem like dicks...

Has Sup Forums ever been in love? Tell me about it, most of the time you guys seem like dicks, but maybe there's something decent.

I loved a grill for her eyes and her beautiful voice.

been single since I was 16, am 26 now. Probably will be like this forever

Are you me, user?

I'm not sure are you fat, and mediocre looking?

I am incapable for falling in love with a girl.
I may find her pretty or arousing or like a specific thing about her but in the end I look at girls like I watch a porn.

>love
doesn't exist, OP. It's just a hormonal response meant to facilitate reproduction. Don't waste your time on such a trivial pursuit.

Oh god. It's retarded

It's just chemicals, user.

pretty sure everything you do, can be broken down to a chemical level. There's really no benefit in calling it useless. I mean if anything our only real purpose is to fall in "Love". Otherwise we should just kill ourselves if everything is just science.

I do not understand humans who are motivated by love. A person is born, lives for a number of years, and interacts with up to eight billion people. What proof is there of something they can't even define?

But yes, maybe suicide wouldn't be such a bad thing (it isn't), but the reason some of us--such as myself--don't yet, is because we're still looking for some way to contribute to the advancement of mankind. That is, OTHER than oiling the cogs of consumerism in a blind frenzy of pursuing 'love and affection' as well as mindless reproduction.

Ohhhh don't we have ourselves a little philosopher. Well while you waste your time thinking about how important we really are. Or "benefiting mankind", (some kid on the internet will help us cure cancer). I will be having a lot of sex not worrying about that, and actually enjoying love. Unfortunately you'll come to a point in your life wishing you werent a faggot

ok well whenever you feel like suicide go right ahead little buddy.

if you are gonna keep living maybe consider turning the cynicism down. you're unconvincing and seem like a bitter tool.

> Has Sup Forums ever been in love?
Yes, twice.
> Tell me about it
The first time I ended up crying on the kitchen floor in fetal position when she broke up with me. It was almost impossible to overcome but I was young and made it through somehow.

The second time we got married and we have two kids.

Not edgy stuff, sorry.

>faggot, I have tons of sex while you mull over the purpose of your own existence!
Typical of someone who puts pussy on a pedestal. I'll still be here when you realize it's all empty bullshit and start raving about how much of redpilled MGTOW you've become.

I see things as they are, not as you or someone else thinks they ought to be. Notions of 'love and affection' are not immune to truth.

Falling in love and being rejected is the reason most of us are cynical dicks

Dude it's not that were saying your particularly wrong, but do you think that your some higher grade of intelligence because your emo, and depressing? Okay we don't matter, So fucking what? we never have, and never will. So yea I put pussy on a pedestal, and live my life happy, because there's no point in not doing that. Like the other guy said, if you think it's that bad, kill yourself.

what he said

I am neither emo nor 'depressing;' I just see things like this as they are and don't allow myself to fall for it as far too many other people do. You think you're 'happy' living from one orgasm to the next (instant gratification), but you fail to realize it's just another escape from the harsh reality you refuse to accept.

You and the other user allow yourselves to be manipulated.

Ya Im in love with shitting on emotional faggots like yourself.

Refuse to accept? I'm literally agreeing with you, that our existence in this universe is meaningless. You're argument is basically " If you don't kill yourself, or be sad about it, you haven't accepted it"

what truth? you're cherry picking one fact about love (its endocrine aspect) and acting as if that's all there is to it

humans can experience love, and it is emotionally deeper than procreation, and not just endocrinology

i'm not moving from one human to the next, i'm in the most emotionally deep relationship of my life experiencing feels I could never have anticipated

what manipulation? what harsh reality? don't confuse lust with love

I fell in love and all i did was hurt. Ive never been as depressed as when i was in a relationship, my personality just made it very hard

>cherry picking
You know it's the truth; this is why relationships, marriages, etc deteriorate no matter how much the partners claim to 'love' each other. It's pure, hormonal hokum, and is merely a tool to (as I said before) facilitate reproduction. If you're a man for example, ask yourself: what do you *really* get out of a marriage? A woman gets shelter, protection, financial support, and possibly a few other benefits including a sperm bank for when she wants to reproduce before her eggs expire. As a man, you simply watch as everything you worked hard for (like your personal freedom) be snatched away from you, with everything about you having to be according to whatever new title she has given you (be it "father," or "husband").

Open your eyes and zip up your pants. You're being manipulated and don't even realize it. This shaming-tactic of yours only keeps the machine moving.

>harsh reality
That it's all empty, hormonal bullshit and shouldn't be entertained by any man worth his salt.

I can post a love story but its like literally a page.

anyone want to know?

Do it man, this thread will die soon anyway

ok....its a sad story tho

I use to work for retail store a couple years ago. While working I noticed that the store was interviewing people. This one girl caught my eye to me she looked amazing she was about 7/10 girl. I said to her to just relax and say some key things during the interview because the manager already kinda told me on what he was looking for. 3 weeks later I found out she got hired thrilled that she was joining the store. Now before I go any further about her let me tell you what was going on with me at the time. Before she came I was having serious problems at home and work. I could write a book exactly what was going on but to just save some time I will just say this. My job was threating me for months to fire me because I wasn’t selling services and I was on my final. The people that have been hired in the last couple of months were the worst. They were basically friends of people that already worked at the store. They were lazy and didn’t give a shit about anything all they did was talk to each other. Usually the work load fell on to me and a couple of others. It’s also hard to report them when most of them were drinking with the managers after work. My manager was a complete jackass who played favoritism on people. The ones that I was cool with when I first started left or found something better. I was working with morons and when I told them to do their job they would just tell me to fuck off or they would tell the manager. Since I was in my final I didn’t want any problems.

part 2
Now on to family problems to make it short I received probably the worst news anyone can hear my niece, a niece that I literally grew up with, told me that her father raped her when she was kid and recently she has been having flash backs. I was absolutely outraged. I went to talk to my sister about it and she didn’t believe it. Which made me even madder. Police came, investigations were done, my niece couldn’t handle the stress and she went on a phase of suicide for about 2 years. It put a heavy burden on us. Everyone was depressed and it completely broke trust with everyone in the family. So as you can see my life was completely miserable, I was depressed, verge of getting fired, with nothing to look forward to…but the girl. This girl was the only reason for several months that actually put a smile on my face. We started out great we both talked, had lunch together and laughed about stupid shit. Hell people at the store started rumors that we were hooking up. She made me soo happy Sup Forums. No one knew what I was going through at the time not even her because I didn’t want her to know out of fear. I eventually did ask her out after 3 months of knowing her. Surprisingly she told me she had a boyfriend. Stunned because no one knew this about her. I later found out she was in the process of breaking up. I was disappointed once again. We still talked but I didn’t want to be just friends. I wanted to get to know her more and tell her about me. Then during all that HR came to our store one day and said that they were shutting down the store cause of the economic crisis back then.

part 3
Everyone was either transferring to another store or quitting but getting severance. I choice the severance because I hated working there and the only reason why I stayed there in the last couple of months was the girl. When the store was shutting down in its last couple of days. I found out that one of the guys was getting really close to my crush. She was getting really close to him to. I started to get angry and confused on what the hell was happening because the guy never really talked to her in the past almost kinda ignoring her back then. It was around this time also that she officially broke up with her last bf. I was worried that he was trying to take her from me so I went to her and again asked her out again. She said that she just got out of a relationship and there was nothing going on between her and the guy. She knew I liked her (I think). Even though she said she was just friends with him it was kinda hard to believe it when I saw her sitting on his lap, sharing each other’s food/drinks, and both of them playfully fighting. This completely destroyed me in the inside. He was living what I wanted the entire time. A person to connect with me like that. This fagget guy was a completely player he always sweet talked into everyone in the store and fucked several girls in the past. It was the last day of the store that came. She was still hanging around with him.

Grill here, had a really embarrassing love story, here we go
>middleschool days
>mom was really conservative and christan
>sent brother and i to christan camp during the summer
>had a crush on this guy from my church
>went to the camp too
>the place we were staying had 2 floors; girls and boys
>girls on top, boys on bottom
>my room was with a few other girls from my church
>boys from our church right under us
>some cunt brings up crushes and who she likes
>fucking Slut had a crush on the 17 year old of the boys group
>they fucked and got caught and were escorted away from the camp
>good thing too
Anyways back to me
>she starts singling out people
>singles me out, my dumbass flat out tells the bitch
>little did i know the fags were listening under us
>guy finds out I like him
>could t convey feelings very well and got asked abt it the next day from one of the boys
>freak out and beg them not to tell him
>fag does it
>awkwardly sitting alone making a lanyard
>guy I like walks up to me and asks me if I wanted to take a walk with him
>freak out again and run away for some stupid reason
>fast forward to dinner time
>everyone sits in a big room and at any of 12 tables
>Sittin with my girls
>Guy walks up and hands me a note, with the lanyard attached to it
>smile at him, he walks away
>bitch girl grabs the letter and reads it
>starts telling everyone at the table
>get supper embarrassed
>take it and read it
>"hey I really like you. Will you go out with me?"
>yes and no check mark
>I don't have a pen so I decide to do it later
>after dinner bitch girl and I go back to the cabin room
>Put the letter in my bag
>I walk out with bitch girl still in the room
>come back two hours later to check it and give it to the guy
>the letters fucking gone
>panic.jpg
>tear apart the whole cabin but can't find it
>stupidly think that I came never face him again bc lost the love letter he gave me
>avoid him for twodays
(Cont.also a new fag sorry for errors)

I was in love with my best friend's girlfriend. She was 19 and cute as a bug's ear. She also had no sense of modesty. She would come home or to my friend's house, or my house, and strip down to undies if she was on her period or flat naked if she wasn't. My friend got tired of her being naked around me and said something, she told him goodbye, she didn't need a boss. She asks me if there is anything terribly important I need to do at yhat moment, I say nope. She grabs her purse and says "I need a ride home"and walks out to my car naked, carrying her clothes. I married her two years later, only took me 5days to ask her. only lasted 6years but damn was it worth it. That old friend, he got married and divorced twice in that time. He likes women who are whores for him, he doesn't get they like being whores period.

part 4
I thought maybe I was getting too jealous and maybe I was just seeing things. I asked someone else in the store on what he thought was going on between them and he imminently said that they look like a couple. When the end of the day of our last shift was near it was only me, her, and the guy that were left. The guy had no choice but to stay to finish some other things but me and her were allowed to go. While walking to the door I did one final effort to see if she could just spend one meal with me to explain how I really felt about her and how she helped me through a tough time she didn’t realize. I asked. She said she was planning to stay behind to help out a bit more……the last thing she said was “sorry” and shut the door on me……………..I yelled in the car on the way home like no other. I lost the girl to a fucking asshole who used girls for a month or two then moves to the next one. I was pisst…..I’m still pisst. Even after four years. During those five years I have met other girls and went out with them for a while but I could never really connect with them like the first girl. I have dreams about her from time to time. I try to forget but I can’t. I can’t forget. It is pushing me into madness. This all happened in a 8 month period in 2012. Its 2017 and I still want her.

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This was rly sweet thank you

Never fall in love.Worst thing you can ever do.

(Cont.)
>free time
>playing a game with bitch girl and a few other friends
>bitch girl gets a text and asks me to come with her
>uhhhh.png
>go with her, walk up to door with stairs coming down
>open the door and see the guy outside with a flower in his hand
>have a panic attack and freak
>thinks he knows I lost his love letter and is mad
>fake faint a few times but no avail
>end up going on a walk
>so scared I stared to pick up sticks and break them
>every 5 seconds I'd pick up a stick and break it
>end up talking for half an hour and I never tell him abt the letter
>we talk about liking eachother and shit
>dinner bell rings
>walks be back to cabin
>start to overthink and think he's going to kiss me
>panick attack p.2
>freak and say by to him really fast
>run to room and avoid him for the next year and a half
>f.f. to freshman year
>back at camp and more mature
>still liked him
>keep getntjng flashbacks of horrible times
>start talking to him again
>he says he thought I hated him and avoided him bc of that
>start laughing and explain what happened
>still liked him
>he has a girlfriend
>he confesses that he had to "give up" on me
>hit me hard
>finish talking and agree to hang out more
>go back to cabin and cry alittle
>bitch girl finds me
>asks what's wrong
>tell her everything that happened
>she laughs and said she the one who took the letter
>said "it would help me and force me to talk to him"
>this bitch fucked me
>get super angry
I guess it wasn't all my fault but he was my first love, I still kind of like him to this day but yeah that's my love story

your fault for being such a pussy

yep

It sucks when you have to leave it in the past