Feels thread. Let it all out user

Feels thread. Let it all out user.

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Fucking this.

We broke up almost a year ago but goddamn every week I think about her.

She went back to her ex, and ex who is pretty much more successful and better than me in every way. I always feel like shit to the point where I avoid going out most of the time because I'm worried I'll see her.

Fuck me.

Well she probably went back to him because she cant get over him... Probably had to forgive him in some way...
You just were a past time to her... Now is over you can go on with your life... Fuck other btches

>me and my ex GF broke up last week
>Seen her taking another guy into her flat late last night and passed him today when leaving the building (me and the ex live in the same apartment block, can evens ee each others flats)

it fucking hurts Sup Forumsros
>I always feel like shit to the point where I avoid going out most of the time because I'm worried I'll see her.

I feel you. I avoided being with my friends this past weekend because she was involved. Sat at home alone instead.

If I could go back in time and never make a move on her when we started hanging out, I would. The good times we had aren't worth this feeling, it's like getting smashed in the chest with a brick.

She was my best friend. She was the only thing in this world that I didn't want to lose. Ended up losing her anyway. I still think about her sometimes but I know she doesn't ever think about me anymore.

I wish it were that simple.

After her I went through depression and I'm still kind of working my way out of it. It isn't easy. After the break up a tonne of shit happened to me:

Friends stopped talking to me;
Starting doing worse in school;
I got run over by a fucking car

Not really fun. I still feel like even though what we had is now just history, it's still keeping me back.

After 5 years, i still feel like there is no one for me but her. FML, im gonna die alone.

Yeah you know what fuck it, I'm just gonna go shower and sleep. Night anons

She was the first girl I really loved and note she's gone I feel like shit, I keep myself busy with anything to try to not think of her but it's seems impossible user, how do I stop thinking of her?
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>me and ex broke up 3 years ago
>still crazy in love with her
>fuck her every couple months when she's bored/lonely and hits me up
>always have an internal argument with myself about going vs not going
>always end up going because I'm weak and miss her
>always ghosts me after a short period of us talking/fucking/her using me for whatever
>always ends up with a new boyfriend
>always hits me up to fuck when they break up
>the cycle goes on

Don't become me fellas. I've hurt so many girls and missed so many opportunities for a happier future because I'm too hung up on a dumb slut that doesn't give a shit about me.

Why you are me? ;-;

Hahaha that's just hilarious, thanks user
Pd:Note the sarcasm in my post

I'm done with feeling sorry for myself. Now I just feel anger.

Idk. She hit me up last night to come "cuddle" and I told her no....so I guess thats something.

Tell me your tale.

She had for past 5 years. Your point being?

what does his shirt say?

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Good job sacrificing yourself in the name of "love"

I refuse to be second choice. You faggots need to learn how to meet new girls instead of lingering with old ones.

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Was in love with a girl for two years in college, dated a little bit, but when we went for it, it never worked. Shes still my best friend, in a committed relationship with a good guy, and I've been with an amazing girl for two years, but I still wish that things had worked out between her and I. I fantasize about her constantly. I have never been more in love than I was with her

I don't have any issues meeting new girls. I went kinda nuts a few months after my ex left and fucked 10 girls in the span of 3 months. Left me feeling kinda gross honestly but the main issue was I couldn't care less about any of them. Fucked them just out of boredom/spite. Hard to move on and give someone else a fair shot when you've still got strong feelings for someone else.

I guess it says big black, idk but the artist it's called chiara Bautista, she makes a lot of feelsy artworks you should check her out

technically you're in a very good situation, you just think you're not because you have the feels.
you CAN move on with your life and still fuck your ex from time to time. it's easier than you think, you just gotta move on. (from personal experience)

how do you go about doing this? My feels are strong for this girl dude. Every time I start to feel like I'm getting over her I'll hear from her/see her/fuck her and it starts all over again.

Teach me your ways.

good that I never had girlfriend
I am lucky one
right guys?

Holy fuck dude, my history is just the same but some days ago she and I have this big awful fight and I guess even our friendship is over, I've always wanted to be with her but I guess that she love just for a while and then she just get bored of me until our fight, well fuck me backwards

welp then you're obsessing over an illusion you've had. The grill you miss either only lived in your head, or she's not there anymore. Either way she's gone, move on. Relationships never really last more than a few years anyway, deal with it.

Break contact, don't fuck her, don't let her fuck with your mind. Moron. Of course she's still going to control you if you let her.

>Make yourself sheep and you'll be eaten by the wolves.

Ex is fucking another guy less than a week after we broke up.

I know she wasn't doing it before we split, we always stayed at each others places every night. It's just insane how quickly some people can jump onto someone else and be totally normal.

I'm a fucking mess, have absolutely no interest in talking to other girls and yet she's already taking another dick 5 days later.

right, but I mean how do I continue to fuck her while also moving on...like the user I was replying to suggested was possible.

We used to be into each other, but I was a self-loathing chickenshit, and she moved on. We're still friends, but the regret still keeps me up at night. I tried to cut her out of my life for about six months, but that just ended up making me feel even worse. I just wish I knew how to move on.

Had a girl come over last night, we didn't fuck or anything. I cut her off months ago, she begged to come see me. We caught up and talked about us and where we stand. She was flirting with me a bit and saying how much it sucks not having me around. I treated her like shit when we were cool and for some reason don't feel too bad about it, she was a bitch to me too. Confused about whether or not to make amends or just leave things the way they are.

I used to feel shit guys. I used to feel alone and useless in the world. I was lonely. cripplingly lonely.
>I auditioned for a play
>met a girl
>we flirted back and forth for months, acted in the play together
>i've never had a good thing before, she's got to be in this for only friendship
>We act like friends for ages, begin cuddling a lot more.
>I ask her out.
>"Yes"
>life changed
>I'm happy, im in a loving relationship, have been for months, i'm snapchatting her as we speak

I never thought I could have something like this, and im sure a lot of you think you won't either.

"If you're willing to be there, the love of your life is too" is something i've always tried to live by.

Do your best Sup Forumsros, hang in there, something will come you're way at some point, even if you refuse to believe it.

She left me 1 month ago mostly because I did nothing this year (searching for a job.. sort of..) and today I found my dream job but she doesn't have feelings anymore, I have plenty
Iit sucks so much, I'm 21, we had 3 and a half year in common, the first 3 year were so fucking good and now I'm alone with a job I wanted to have in order to do cool things with her

She was talking to new dick weeks beforehand, if not months. Women break up in their mind well ahead of actually doing it. Also they'll never leave if they don't have a solid grip on the next branch. Stop thinking of women as virtuous creatures, their world is amoral.

You pick one faggot. How can you expect to get over her if you're subjecting yourself to those hormone rushes over and over again. Honestly stop doing this to yourself. Tell her to stop contacting you and ignore her from then on. Delete her from social media and remove all reminder of her, it's the only way.

She and I have had some big blow ups. If you're truly close, it will repair itself. Give her space, you'll both want to have each other's support and comfort again. You'll be friends. My girl and I went through much worse.

How does it feel to be a backup beta? Fucking pathetic how you idiots let yourselves be controlled. Pussywhipped.

What? Things didnt work between a girl and I. We're still friends. I was in a relationship afterwards before she was. Suck my ass nigger

Only thing worse than being a backup is being the pathetic loser that women won't even bother with AMIRITE?!!!

The first years are always the best, it never gets better again. Now you know. Be glad you learnt at 21, some people don't even get it when they're 70.

Just know that you're going to move on and get over her, so what you're feeling right now is a waste of your emotions, simple as that.
and what i mean by that is, you just gotta learn to accept the fact that one day , you're just going to have to move on without her. simple as that. meanwhile, fuck her brains out every chance you get. use her for your satisfaction and treat her like the piece of meat she is.

REMEMBER: SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU AND SHE DOESN'T DESERVE SHIT. DON'T FEEL FOR PEOPLE WHO DON'T FEEL FOR YOU. BE A MAN

Honestly you could prolly get a whole lot more chicks than you think. You just handicap yourself by letting yourself be emotionally drained by some succubus whore. now that's fucking stupid. Start again with a clean slate. If one woman is/was interested no doubt there are more out there. it's this mentality of scarcity that drives you to choose the "safe route" anyway.

Waste of time. always better to invest in new grills than going trough the trash. For your sanity.

What I lack in confidence I more than make up for it in objectivity. Besides, at my age I don't want to even bother with the human trash that's out there.

>broke up 3 days ago
>she was seeing another guy for ~ 2 weeks atleast
>i found out myself
>she dumped me and went for him
>wants to stay as friends and says that still has feelings for me
>still love her extremely much

what do Sup Forumsros

So you'll just deal with the trash that's already in your life instead of cutting it out. For someone who cherishes objectivity you sure have a funny way of dealing with things.

Don't be friends. Don't give her the satisfaction of having you still spun around her finger as a backup. Get on with your life and don't assume she will come back. Zero contact. It's the only way, don't linger like some anons ITT or you'll only end up killing yourself inside. Because she doesn't give a fuck about you anymore, only about herself.

Cut her off 100%. Tell her she is human scum and go bang some hotties

Say idi nahui to that bitch

no, because she is dead

>be me
>wife of 5 years decided to start fucking other dudes on my birthday last year
>we had two houses and on our way to owning our own business
>I found out almost immediately
>walked out on her after finding out what happened

It's been a fucked up year of dealing with all the bullshit that comes along with a divorce, but at least I was smart and had her sign a pre nup.

Here's the new kicker, I found a girl this last month. She's awesome, we love so much of the same things, I feel 100x better being around her. Her face is beautiful, but she's... larger. Much larger than my ex wife, but I'm so much more attracted to her than my cold fish ex wife. We have crazy sex. She really appreciates being with me, and that drives me even more wild.

Is being with an unhealthy woman worth it? I think so. My wife was super hot, perfect ass, but she was a dead fish in bed. New girl is not perfect at all, but she drives me crazy and is wild in bed. She'll do just about anything.

Is life better?? Yes, I think so.

I don't know if we are close, the thing is that my relationship with this girl is not as healthy as I want to think, it's kinda like she was treated like shit before and I'm just tryna fix her but I do it bc I want to feel needed, do you think is better for both of us just to cut contact?

Leave it. Ex did this to me. It's torture. She feels guilty for dicking you over and wants to keep you around to feel better about herself. Let her know what a filthy cunt she is and cut her off Sup Forumsro, it's for the best

just go full no contact, basically completely ignore her. I did that with my ex it was hard the first couple of months but then it got easier and it also helped me get over her. And guess who wanted me back after 4 months? Yep, girls often work like that, i denied her though even if i still had some feelings for her.

That's what you get for being captain save a hoe. It's better for her if she keeps you around, just in case. But it's better for you to move on. There is nothing virtuous about one sided love. if you're a man you don't wait for her to turn around. You fix your life and live it for yourself. Women come and go man.

This is the only way to correctly deal with that situation, props user.

Well you're right but still... hard to go on

It's even harder if you still try to make it work. You'll get there. Better to have seen trough the veil than be one of those beta faggots thinking life is a Disney movie or a chick flick.

I concur.
Bitches don't want someone easy who will do anything for them. Show em you dont need em and they crawl back

thanks!

Thanks my man, I gonna do this and I wish you luck with your girl, and maybe finally gonna get my life in track again

No problemo my dude

Don't wish me luck, I don't do relationships anymore. Just fuckbuddies until they get bored or fall in love and that's the end of that. it's a bleak solution but at least I'm free from the usual drama. Good luck user

>go out with the girl of my dreams
>she apparently is angry at me all the time
>Leaves me , I fight for her in everyway
> I was the greatest boyfriend I could be
>After everything I would still take her back
>Mad at my self that I cant get her out of my head
>Scared to fall in love again

Whatever works for you my man, glad you've find your way, I'm working to find out what fits me meanwhile I just try to drink or so

Thanks Sup Forumsros for the kind words and advice , will do just that
Nice trips , and also she is indeed russian ,how'd you know

Guess she wasn't "the girl of my dreams" after all. But hey, at least you fucked her. Now on to the next ones. There will always be women, just don't go too deep into their world.

im destined to be a wizard. its 5 40 am, i'm failing my bachelor and everything i do.I'm alone, and i have no purpose or love.
Ho hum.

I soon came to realise I didnt, also thats the thing I didnt. She didnt want to, I was prepared to wait. I respected her choice. I honestly did everything she liked and didnt do what she didnt. I didnt text even one girl while I was with here, and there she was texting her ex. But "apparently" she was trying to forget him...

I just met a girl and we are together like 2 months already had sex and seems like she likes me.
But im not an expert in this matter.

Last time she likes to talk on phone with some guy from internet what annoys me and i know deeply it wont end good.
What to do?

How do you heal and do "no contact" when your ex is is in the same social group?

It's killing me. I cant be around her at all and function at the same time, so my only choice is to avoid socialising as shes involved 90% of the time. I feel so alone.

And at 29, I cant just "make new friends". it's really hard once your past the university age.

Welp never listen to a woman's words, look at her actions instead. Also never wait you moran. Waiting is for beta faggots and it's a waste of time, energy and hope.

Ride it out knowing it will end on her terms. Don't catch any feels or you're fucked.

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if this waiting"mode" is going on for more than 2 years, what to do then?

never too late to quit being a bitches bitch

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But i like to be with her, its better than being alone.

I was such a beta, i tried to agree with her and try be a bf she would like. Didnt tell her not to do anything. Scared she would leave...never again will I act like i did,lesson learnt. If the next one doest like something i say she can gtfo

but how to get on with life? i basically gave up everything after the break up.

I recently joined a dancing class, really helped me connect to new people. alot of the people around in their 30's or above. took initiative, made a whatsappgroup and asked when people if people were going to social dances. once there, in between dancing I talk to them, and now I get invited to housewarming parties and such. If I can do it, so can you. I believe in you.

man the same shit happened to me. always focus on the woman and never on myself. it was the worst shit on planet. i hoped for cancer back then but not the "kek"-one , the real one

I didn't lose my vtag until I was 23. Now I've fucked ~150 times spread over 4 girls, which isn't loads but at least I've participated.

Best part, all 4 of them were hot. Real hot.

There's still hope for you. Sorting your life out is more important than sex though. Sex is just a nice addition. Sort your education and get a solid career going first.

Rebuild it one day at a time. Dabble into new social prospects. For me a started going to see live bands regularly, made a lot of new friends there. Met a few chicks too. Find reasons to go outside I guess.

Maybe, but not as good as nutting in a fresh and eager pussy.

Yeah i agree,I tried my best to say stuff that she would agree with me on. Just gonna be myself from now on completely. And eventually the right one will come along

You know, thats actually really something user.
thanks

There is no "right one". But you're getting it, be yourself and be unapologetic. Call them out on their bullshit. They like that more than having a pushover doing everything for her. Women want an emotional rollercoaster, none of this stable steady shit. Piss them off a little and learn than being called an asshole is actually a compliment if a woman says it.

I don't pursue people, I was content going to strip clubs, frat partys and being a virgin, but their is that one girl that it just hurts that she's not with me, she's not with anyone but she's just so far away from me and all I think about is her and wish she'd just show a little affection

She's your ex. She doesn't wanna see you either. Quit being scared.

She's an illusion glorified in her absence. if you'd live together with her you'd be sick of her shit within the first six months.

Thanks user , great advice. I will do exactly as you say. I wont be a pushover anymore or any bullshit like that, lets give em' a emotional rollercoster if they want one

this asshole thing is a fuckin sex trigger.

Yes, yes I am. And it fucking hurts. She said she loved me, but couldn't take being in a long distance relationship. Said that it was better this way. I was going to move across the world to be with her. Leave family, friends and career for her. I was going to marry her. And not even a fortnight after she dumped me she found another. I consider myself a mentally strong person but the day I found out about her seeing another I was ready to end my life.I haven't hurt that bad before or since. Not even when my grandmother, whom I was very close to, passed away. So now I'm sitting here another night, drinking and crying.

"how do I know I found the right one?" people ask. I'll answer for you: when it's too late. THEN you know it she was the one.

Good man, you'll be doing yourself a favour. Both of you will enjoy this more than you walking around on eggshells all the time.

>be a fuck up half my life
>finally see some light, its getting better
>get a good job
>start being social, make friends
>find courage to talk to my dream girl
>wow she interested, start dating
>fuck up everything due to no experience and anxiety

ye guess i am just not meant to be a normie.

10/10, manned me up

Fuck them all!