Okay Sup Forumstards, I've posted this thread a few times...

Okay Sup Forumstards, I've posted this thread a few times, but admittedly I was a lil drunk to take any messages to heart. Now I'm decently sober, so I have to ask your advice.

>Very high iq, hs valedictorian, dual STEM major at top tier school
>Cant find a fucking job, get interviews but either get WAY lowballed on salary or just ghosted
>Cant get girls, despite being constantly told I'm a solid 7
>Borderline incel, mid 20s and had sex 4 times with 3 different girls (only one came back more than once)
>Difficulty empathizing with others, even though I wish I could
>Been to shrink, autism, sociopathy, psychopathy not my problem
>Do have depression, taking zoloft
>Emotionally abusive father, he died a few months ago. I have a hard time thinking this is a bad thing
>Only real friend I have is my doggo, with whom I have probably a too strong of an attachment
>Anger issues, but abnormal. Takes A LOT to make me snap, but when I do I rain hell.

Tldr faggot

What's pissing you off the most?

Your angery? Lack of poon? No job?

Talk. I'll listen.

What exactly do you want advice on you cunt? Ask a clear question and I will try to answer

You sound like a self-centered dick.

Stupid faggot. You can't always negotiate salary in your 20s. Take a job and quit crying you fucking snowflake.

Or kill yourself.

maybe you talk too much. maybe you reek of desperation. chill out, relax. listen to those around you. everyone else has problems too and maybe having you around will just add to their problems. what do you like talking about? do others find you relatable?

also post face

Stop taking the drugs bro and stop fucking worrying about what people think dude. I used to be a lot like you, minus being really smart. You gotta just live life to be happy. You gotta do what you want to do in life and the rest will come naturally. Im not saying browse Sup Forums all night but you gotta get a hobby. The jobs will come. You might get lowballed at first but its all about experience. Taking the jobs and making the connections. But seriously get out of the house. Do literally anything as a hobby and you'll meet people. You gotta learn to love yourself and the rest will come I promise you. I've been to rock bottom before, been cheated on, been told im worthless. Its all about just finding whats gonna make you happy and not worrying too much. I know its all easier said than done but you really need to look yourself in the mirror and realize your own flaws. But SERIOUSLY stop taking drugs. Your brain will thank you. Im here to talk if you want for about 20 more mins... lmk

Being self centered is how we should all be. If everyone looks after themselves first, then no one needs help.

Good luck with that theory.

I feel like its a combination of multiple that makes me pissed off:
Objectively good looking, but girls shun me left and right.
Try to make friends but find they quickly start ignoring or trying to take advantage of me
Cannot relate with people well (eg my memory is really really good, so I remember every little thing a person tells me. I find I have to pretend to have forgotten things in order to seem nornal, but varies from person to person how much it seems "normal" to have remembered.
Sold meme that "you work your ass off in school and you'll get a great job." I double majored in biochem and economics with a minor in comp sci and math (required double full time units) while also doing some extra curricular. Finding that pretty girls with comm degrees are getting offers with higher salaries than me.

Also I'm white and again not on the spectrum if that changes anything.

Stop rejecting jobs because they "lowball" you, people rarely find good paying jobs in their 20's. And also you most likely can't get girls because you're a snobby self-deprecating loner. Build confidence, get a job, make some friends and life will improve.

You're a liar

Sounds to me like honestly you lack some social skills. Theres no easy to way put it but you might be coming off in a way thats simply unattractive or abnormal.

Also you gotta remember you miss 100% of the shots you dont take when it comes to girls. I remember a few nights getting rejected 10+ times and still getting laid. All about being confident and not giving a fuck

When a med device company in a pricey californian city offers me 40k a year with no commission, that's unacceptable lowball.

this is the problem. being self centered is okay until you become completely unable to empatize with others and realize that "if everyone looks after themselves first, then no one needs help" logic is incredibly flawed. everybody needs help. sometimes people don't know things, sometimes people need things from others, like favours and services. that is what networking is, and it seems to me that you do not have a network. you have a dog.

Oh I have no problem with approaching women, do it all the time. Rejected universally. Tried talking to a friend of a friend once and she blew me off pretty quickly. He asked he whats up and she said I "gave a bad vibe" but couldnt explain it more than that. Not sure what to do with that.

Can you post a body pic? As long as ur face is not beat and you're ACTUALLY a 7 theres no reason to be getting rejected outside of you lacking social skills. Im sorry. That could explain the lowball/ghosting from employers. You ever wonder why the frat douches or the pretty girls get jobs? Its because they speak WELL. Hence COMM majors

maybe you're a insufferable cunt of a person?

Oh its not that I don't care, I just dont know how to empathize with others. Might be because my dad's emotional abuse led me to hid in my room most of my youth (also an only child) but when someone tells me that somethign horrible happened to them or a family member, I have to act like I'm emotional in a way I feel seems right, but it doesnt come naturally.

You sound alike a complete dip shit. If I was your father I'd be emotional and physically abusive.

Dude everyone acts like that. Its not abnormal.

I'll post 2, one of my *better*, and one of a creepshot. The combination of the two should maybe work to tell the truth.
I've been doxxed on here before, and this may be a fruitless request, but if you recognize me I ask you not. Really going through a tough time right now and not in the mood.

Have you tried not being a faggot?
'Cos you're really gaying it up in here with your daddy issues.

On the right (5'8 in case you wonder).

Okay you are not a 7 fam. You're definitely better looking than me. Its a social skill problem. Did you ever join any clubs? How many friends do you REALLY communicate with.

Your flag shirt's backwards.

Red on the Right, asshole.

Thanks for responding... Hmmm....
Being highly intelligent means you naturally analyze things waaaaay too much. Also seems like you're obsessed with your place in the world in relation to others. I so get what you say about 'forgetting' things to try and relate with everyday people.

Its a tough one user and I get where you're coming from. I'm struggling to come up with suggestions that don't come across as trite or vacuous.

I gotta ponder this some, will post a little later in the thread.

First up. Who said you were a 7? (If it was your mother she was being super autistic/ nice)

Not a 7 in a good or bad way?

Used to be in a lot of clubs, now im out of school hasn't been much. Actually went back to school in the hopes of kickstarting my social life, didnt work really.
Didn't have many friends in school but now basically have none (a few long distance but thats it). I've done pathetic things like meet people on the street and offer to buy them alcohol hoping it'd make them fond of me and invite me to hang out, but never ends up working. Not kinda blackpilled. Don't put up with shit, wont pay for girls on dates, etc.

you sound like 90% of all mid 20's white males. alcohol usually does the trick

Not a 7 in a good way.
Straight dude here just saying.

But seriously thats a shit way to meet people. Become like a TA or tutor or something if you really are super intelligent. There are so many HEALTHY ways to meet people.

Its the same dude thats been replying to you.

I drink WAYYYY too much. No other drug has done it for me though.
Got low key jaundice from it.
Trying to quit, but it's tough.

you shouldn't have to act. be yourself.
i'm a monotonous, eye contact avoiding, picky, brutally honest, cold and calculating asshole with daddy issues too but i still manage to have friends because they like who i am and think im funny

stop putting on an act, get a job. also reading ahead, go volunteer if you dont want to *settle* for 40k a year. do something and there is bound to be some antisocial fuck just like you and i who understands how difficult it is to be an antisocial fuck and you can help eachother flourish like the antisocial mother fuckers you are

take any lowball salary and keep looking while you have an income.
Money and the job will help meet new people and girls

Ya basically im considering going into airforce and an officer or going back to grad school. Not sherrif airforce will take me with my mental issues though, but to some extent I can lie.

But just for ego boost, what would you say I am? Consider, I am a 5'8 manlet (though decently fit).

Hi OP, might sound weird but keep in mind these are legitimate questions and in order to help you I need you to answer me truthfully. Was size is your penis (erect), rate your last sexual intercourse(1 - 10) and your current emotional connection to it.

You are that smart and want to blow 4+ years in the military?

Take the lowball and get the exp fam trust me.

>low key jaundice
>mental issues
You sound like a hypochondriac.

>and faggot

Other factor, my dad died a few months ago. He was a piece of shit but made really good money. Not trying to brag, but frankly, inherited enough that I never have to work again if I really dont want to. It's not my desire, I want a career, but makes me blow off lowballs. Way I see it; the amount a company values you is reflected by salary as a proportion of profits. If I busted my ass with 25 units a semester to get the creds I have, then I would expect to get paid just a *little* more than Stacey with a 3.0 and a comm major from a third tier school.

I'm kinda in your boat but just getting out of it now so I'll say:

1. Take any job (within reason). Being good to work with and good with clients (or stakeholders or whoever) is a huge determinant of success. Work hard and don't complain. It really doesn't matter what your qualifications are when you have no experience, so you just knuckle down and get started.

2. Engage in some social interests. Mixed sport, pottery class, church group whatever. You don't need a passion, just be mildly interested and go for the social aspects.

3. No one owes you anything. There's no magical counter which keeps track of how hard you've worked or how nice you've been or that you didn't do something bad.

4. Do some charity work. Gives you perspective (being young an earning $40k is a beautiful life compared to many people) and it will make you feel good. As long as you're not a bragging cunt it will give you something to talk about with people that makes you seem good.

5. Nothing will change until you focus and address it yourself. Holding on to some hope that people will change for you, or women will look for different things as they get older, is pointless because you're supposed to change along the way too.

6. If you can afford it, travel. You'll meet people and, once again, have something to talk about other than being an embittered job seeker.

I wish I'd been told these things after finishing university

6.25", 6.5" when a rager. Never cum from sexual intercourse, even with a hooker I hired once back while I worked and traveled a lot(not counted in the 3). No I'm not gay. Questioned it a few times, but never clicked.

You're definitely not gay. I think I know what it is, or could be though.

well if you have money, choose a job for the experience and fun and not the salary. You're in a lucky position in that sense. Alternatively, start a company

Sorry bro. Not even a 5. There is a fat girl out there for you somewhere.

you could be one of two things within my professional opinon.

1: A faggot
2: A nigger

it sound like you have autism

He'd probably succeed owning a whinery.

He's a natural for it.

Is your daddy a lawyer or a corps?
(Answer truthfully)

After reading your responses I conclude you are a faggot.

Forget a job. Just kill yourself.

1. My last job paid 55k and was a startup. Boss fucked me over(long story), but not willing to be paid less than that.
2. Ya looking for things. Any suggestions for how to find them? Not religious but even considered starting going to a church for the social aspect, but feel that's very cynical.
3. No comment, just can say that when I see women and minorities with fewer credentials than I have being offered way better deals, it makes me irate.
4. Do volunteer from time to time. In my town 40k is considered poverty level (rent is minimum 1.5k a month)
5. Honestly dunno how to take this
6. Have miles and hotel rewards points from back when I worked. Seriously considering trolling around Europe (lived there a half year in hs) just to keep myself from going stir crazy

No, mergers and acquisitions
but now just a bag of ashes.

>cynical

The word you're looking for is pathetic.

this

How does this image make you feel?
(Keep in mind you will have to answer truthfully in order for me to come to an accurate diagnosis) said

Neither aroused nor disgusted
Ya seems about right.

Okay, what about this?

Dude in police uniform, idk... cool?

Ried calm down. Stop being a fucking faggot.

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Thanks friend

Bullshit! You lied to both of them questions. That can only mean one thing. (You might want to sit down for this.
You're a nigger.

This. Nobody gives a fuck how special you think you are, they want experience and value. Just take a job and make yourself known.

In my 20s I was poor, working shitty jobs. Worked hard and now I'm pretty well known in my field and can pretty much dictate my own salary and job terms.

Re:1 - it doesn't matter what you earned before. The market has decreed that you can't get that now. Take a job and stick with it, if you don't get raises at a good pace then apply for another. A lot easier to get a job when you have one and your value dips with every month out of work. "Good on you for staying out of the workforce until you found a job that you deemed up to your high standards" said no prospective employer ever.

2. I don't know. I have the benefit of living in Australia where men and women go nuts for social sport so it's easy.

3. You're still assuming people owe you something. Why does a prospective employer who you haven't done a single thing owe you anything? In fact, you're potentially wasting their time by turning up to the interview when you won't get the position. Also, Under qualified people get found out as they progress, if that makes you feel any better.

5. This might have been left field. What I meant is that if you're not happy you need to change. Never assume that you're ahead of the curve or unique and special and that others are catching up or will change and everything will be okay. Not saying you are, but never think this, it's poison.

>Seriously considering trolling around Europe

Do this. Get a change of scenery. Get the heck out of your home town. I don't think you realise how much its holding you back.

Seems like you've accepted your father was an asshole. But at the same time you are grateful for the money that he's left you. This is probably your ticket and gives you some freedom that all of us wish to have.

I say travel around Europe. Settle in somewhere like Stockholm or Edinburgh. Get a Joe job waiting tables or in a book store. People will be interested in your story, you'll automatically become cool and interesting. Why's an American doing this here? I think you just need a reboot, and putting yourself in completely different surrounds is the way to go.

Stop losing sleep over feeling aloof or out of touch with others. You'll be surprised how many share that sentiment.

If sex worries you here's a suggestion. Find an escort that you can trust. Stick with me here... Might take a while but find that one hooker with an ad that clicks with you. Be upfront, tell her you feel like you're not getting what you want out of sex with your random pick ups and that you wanna use her to try out all sorts of shit to work up your confidence, try out different shit, see what works best for you. She won't care, in fact might appreciate the honesty and be happy to work with you. Repeat that for a few weeks, throw in another hooker just to mix it up and use what you've practised on her.

Random questions, but all fairly important regarding discipline...

> Do you lift?
> eat well?
> keep regular hours? Such as in bed by 11 up at 7?
> do anything like yoga or meditation?
> keep a strict budget?

You can see where I'm going here.

you most likely have 0 experience. By now you should at least have a year in somewhere

Have you ever thought about doing something out of your comfort zone!? You know!? Live a little!!!!
Go skydiving! Travel! Do meth! Head butt a knife! Rape an innocent little girl! Whack off in on a playground! Do some time! Eat out a prostitute! Stop being such a fucking loser and just die!

Only been with an escort once, very unsatisfying experience. Any tips?

As for questions
>Yes, actually very athletic
>Pretty well, though sometimes succumb to shit food every now and them
>Sadly naw, trying to get a wrangle on this but it's basically whenever alcohol says I should sleep or wake up
>Running, which I have pretty deep introspective thoughts while doing
>I'm good with finances. I know how to stretch a dollar as far as it's worth.

Maybe that helps.

I strongly recommend against the escort option. Sex should be about intimacy, though there's nothing wrong with a random hookup. However, at least a random hookup has to be earned and you can feel good about it afterwards.

Is OP a case of "white privilege"?

>and of course - faggotry

5 speaks to me.
While at the same time I get no one needs to or even will change for me, I also was out of the curve. I'm too smart to not feel cynical about all of the social bullshit that people go through just to be considered "acceptable". White lies? Tricky fucking line, and the line between a white lie and a lie that hurts someone because you were trying to protect them isn't perceivable by anyone but the person you're trying to protect. And meanwhile, I was too lazy/depressed to fit in with the smart kids who got good grades.

I don't really have a place in this world, as it stands. I can't be fucked to force myself to do anything beyond distract myself from how much I hate my life, and even that's not at 100% uptime.

I have the first tier on the pyramid of needs, but assuming things progress at a constant, I'll never hit the third.

Also doesn't help that I literally have no memories of myself before I started wanting to kill myself/die (around third grade), so I can't possibly imagine this elusive "happiness" being worth the amount of effort it'd take for me to get from where I am to there.

I feel like my story's either gonna end up with me contributing to some scientific understanding/discovery, or I'll die having been a disappointment to everyone I've ever known. Don't really see a middle ground.

this person clearly isn't as smart as he thinks he is

he's a manlet without social skills. there's little hope for him.

You sound like my partner.
She suffers from Asperger syndrome and mild depression. I'll tell you what I tell her when she feels uncomfortable / out of place.


We as humans aren't meant to all be the same. We aren't meant to all get along with each other, understand each other. You just have to remember one thing. Stop being a faggot or you'll become a nigger.

Hope this helps OP.

> hookers can be fairly shitty. But there's actually decent ones out there. Think if it from their perspective, they would prefer multiple times with a few guys rather than single sessions with hundred if different guys.

Just call one up, tell her you want multiple sessions over a few weeks. Treat it like you're interviewing her. Tell her at the end of your 10 sessions (arbitrary number) you'll give her a bonus. Maybe ever negotitate a session which includes you guys going out for pizza or something. Might seem weird hut believe me, unless shes a drug addict or scared of being seen in public she wont mind. Shes getting paid and for the time being doesnt have to be on all fours. That'll keep her on board with making you happy. Shit she'll probably develop a bond with you and wonder if you could be her sugar daddy. And don't necessarily go for the youngest prettiest one with the best tits.

A bit of crap food is fine now and then. But you need to curb the booze. It ain't your friend atm. Runnings good, but I'll repeat- stop the self analysis. You might need to retrain your brain to focus on external things. Like how a combustion engine works or pros and cons of different presidents. As for the finances, good to see, give yourself a pat on the back for getting that right. Your life is unfulfilling enough right now, you don't need sleepless nights freaking out how you're gonna meet next months rent.

OP here
IQ 150. Not bragging (my life is hardly something to lust over) but maybe that gives soem folks an idea. Also been tested for aspergers/autism, not my deal.

You're just an uneducated insufferable cunt op. Face the truth.

Ha OP, you sound just like me when I got out of school.

I was on scholarship from middle school till I graduated from uni (college for amerifags) and thought that the work life should be as easy as school life. But it wasn't. I spent months searching for a "decent paying job", but had to finally settle for 48k a year job in sales at a small distributor house. I was an economics and finance major but sales was the only job that I could get that paid that much. Five years down the line, I'm now overseeing the sales department of Nestle in 3 countries in Asia region, making about 400k a year plus awesome benefits. I've learned that it's not where you start but how you start that determines how far your career goes.

I suggested an escort to op just for some sexual stability. Fucking the same chick for a few weeks at least will give him an idea of the comfort of knowing you'll be scoring next Tuesday and the Thursday after that. Because he's only had a tiny amount of brief hook ups he hasn't been able to explore what he's comfortable doing with the one woman. Its late and I'm rambling, but I'm sure that makes some sense.

You look serial killery

Besides you, who the fuck cares?
It sure as Hell ain't getting you anywhere.

Thanks gais.