Can you guys give me your opinion on what someone who feels like a leech on society should do about his current situation? I have diagnosed depression, have had suicidal tendencies but i really don't want to do it. I feel there's more to life and i just don't want to quit, but yet i still don't do anything and fall back to the same routine of feeling shit about myself, wanting to die, and feeling like a leech on society.
Am i just a horrible person? I mean i'm looking for a job, stopped school because i just can't bear the stress it causes me, and the fact i keep in my head that i have to be extra perfect because i have two parents nearing their 50s that are supporting me... But yet i dont show anything of good back.
Realize that the only person able to change your life in order to live your dreams is yourself. That means that if the life you are living right now doesn't appeal to you, then you have to change something. Learn to love and to respect yourself.
Don't pay too much attention to that useless voice in your head telling you negative things about yourself, your brain is just trying to convince itself you're a piece of shit, but you're not. You are just a little lost rn and that happens to everybody at least once in their life.
Get out of your comfort zone and try some new things ! Go to places you don't usually go, do things you don't usually do etc.. Try to meet new people.
Define your dreams, how would you describe your ideal self ? Once you answered that question then do everything you can in order to be that person, and you will.
Benjamin Jones
go to the next fucking animal shelter and get a dog. take a golden retriever or a husky because they are so active that a whiney faggot like you can not hand over the responsibility to his parents. also those races shit large dumps so you can not refuse to go out with the dog. that's it. get a dog. they'll be goodest boys and bestest friends and you will be much outside in forests and parks and talk to other dog owners and maybe nice ladies come over and admire your dog (and maybe later your wiener, who knows?). you'll learn to be responsible for that dog cause it can not feed or walk himself. you'll feel very good after one week with at least three long walks a day. believe me. so get the fuck out of this shit board and reconquer your life (and safe a dog from le needle).
Tyler Hall
Nothing? Who cares? Be a leach. What does it fucking matter? We're just going to die in a few years or decades. What you do doesn't matter.
Oliver Butler
Wow... I never thought Sup Forums would be able to make me cry...
Thanks user. I guess i just have to work harder to change. As much as i would like to have a dog, the apartment i live in right now doesn't allow pets. And parent's already have a dog at their place, but it's a bitch that doesn't dig going outside. She's good company tho.
Thanks guys.
Christopher Morgan
Start by getting a job you think you can handle. Can be a shit job too just sth to get a daily routine and a bit of money to get your sense of self worth back. Maybe look into online or night courses to get your education back on track. These should be less time intensive and less stressfull (in adult education there is less social pressure). Having achieved a better degree start looking into better jobs or a continued education (an affordable collage). Care about your social life. Maybe get a Gf. Make long term plans you can look forward too. Doesn't have to be expensive shit just sth you're exited about. Don't spend too much time on Sup Forums.
Daniel Ramirez
of course it matters or you wouldn't have bothered saying shit. you think you have some kind of point to prove and so that mattered to you. stuff matters. this brand of nihilism is dumb because you can say shit doesn't matter but no matter how hard you try you're still gonna get upset and hurt when negative stuff happens to you and act like that matters. you're basically just saying fuck all the good things in life.
Liam Diaz
Volunteer. You'll be contributing to society and end up feeling good about yourself at the end of the day. After a bit you'll probably make some friends through it and your social life will pick up and the upward spiral will continue
I'm happy if that helped!! I'll dump a few motivational pics because those really help me to keep the faith when I have doubts about my own life
Nolan Brooks
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Isaac Price
Lol no it doesn't matter.
You're mistaking my post for giving a fuck about your life. Literally only read the first sentence. What you do does not matter. You think anyone is going to care in 100 years from now about anything you did in your life? Doubtful. How about 1000 years from now? We'd be lucky to still exist as a race.
No matter what you do in life, you will always end up dead and forgotten.
Kayden Barnes
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Mason Carter
you basically just proved my point and simultaneously justified hitler. congrats.
Tyler Sullivan
so fucking edgy dude you sure show us how dark and unique you are. You should just kys then since life doesn't matter anyway, right?
Landon Gomez
Just get a job and then join a class or club to make friends, I have been depressed to the point of suicide, so I moved back to my home state and took up hunting, I met some great guys to talk shit with and hopefully you can do something similar and get out of your current situation.
David Barnes
Thanks again everyone. I'm feeling a lot better now. I'll make sure to try your suggestions as best i can.
Connor Cruz
I play guitar. It makes me feel good and I don't think about things when I'm playing music. So my answer to all my problems is just play more music. Makes life a lot easier to suck at.
Joseph Parker
Discipline yourself user. There is nothing anyone on this site or any other that will make you change, only you can do it. It's not easy, but it's simple. Just do. Stop finding excuses and spend that energy on something productive.
Sebastian Rivera
Suicide is not the answer to any problem. Yes, I have tried. Twice.
If you are like me, I just get on Garry's Mod, and roleplay tbh. I have made a lot of friends on role playing servers. Some men, some women. People whom I won't ever forget because they talked me out of it twice.
Like said, stop paying attention to that stupid loud ass noise in your head. I have one, and I try to ignore it. Its loud, Ik, but you got to get through it.
Roleplay changed my life. It really has. I don't know for the better or for the worse, but I need you to know, user, that life sucks. But you do not need to end it. Things will get better...
Connor Robinson
I had almost the same problems. Make a decision to actively change your life and work hard to achieve your goals. I got back into school made my A-Levels in an adult education programm, enrolled into collage and I'm writing on my bachelor's thesis at the moment. user you can make it out of this shit too.
Nathaniel Morris
>Sup Forums made me cry >Faggot.jpg
Jonathan Cook
You are the main character in your life. Why do you give a shit what other people think?
Gabriel White
Honestly because i feel i have to appeal to others... So others can like me. If that makes any sense.
Camden Bailey
Get help, op. This can mean a lot of things. I don't want to push to go see a medical specialist, just find someone.
A friend, new friends, real friends, not internet acquaintances.
This might seem hard at first, but really it isn't. Any activity or hobby you could think of will bring you friends.
Find something you like to do, you want to do, or learn something new.
Just simply having "something new", a little change in your life can give you a huge boost in motivation.
There are countless activities that you could get into, most of which won't cost you anything.
Good luck
Aiden Gonzalez
Get a job? And then when you get a job just get friends that you can rely on and youre set. Dont chase a bitch btw, if she or he isnt interested go get that check, take care of yourself.
