Random survey. Say you were about to sleep with a chick you actually like, and were ready to commit to.
You're removing her clothes and everything is perfect qt3.14, I mean beautiful, until you come across self harm scars that are clearly very old and completely white, but so gnarled that you could tell they were incredibly hardcore--I mean tally after overlapping tally of thick scar tissue finally beginning to sink back into her skin--what do? Would you ignore it? Is it old enough that your maturity can gather she is well past that, seeing as there are no fresh ones? Superficially, is scarring like that a "no" longterm for you? What are your first thoughts, if any? Bear in mind normally this is a "who the fuck cares it's pussy," but I mean for your dream girl. Not just for some random pussy.
Carson Baker
>bitch is prone to crazyness id get the fuck outta there.
Jaxson Hughes
They're seven years old and I've had literally no other issues with her so far, not even an inkling. She's always been pretty chill. Still a red flag?
Chase Reed
>what do? Would you ignore it? IF she made these scars, I'll ignore but I'll ask questions about it too.
But if someone force her for self-harm. I will find who did and I made scars on him too.
Carter Morgan
Do you want my honest opinion OP? Speaking from experience here.
Benjamin Russell
She doesn't like to talk about it but she says they aren't self-inflicted. She doesn't act very PTSD about it and always remains calm but makes it clear she'd rather just ignore it.
Should I press the issue or leave it be?
Yeah I know I'm an adult and should be able to make my own decisions and whatever, but I've never encountered this sort of thing. New for me...
Dominic Thompson
Of course.
Colton Campbell
I would say to an extent, if she was prone to it at that point. and she is as hardcore as you said she was. How mentally stable could this person be. No amount of being in a "phase" would lead to that sorry to say.
Thomas Rivera
If they were self inflicted then no matter how hard it is you need to get out. No one that ever self harms can ever actually function in a relationship. However, you say They're not. How else would she have come by them?
