So, I met and talked to a young girl who is training Judo with me

So, I met and talked to a young girl who is training Judo with me.

She is hot, but quite young (17yo and I'm 25), and not that bright.

She semt to smile at me a lot and laugh at everything I say, so I asked for her number and got it. But now I don't really know what to do with it.

The issue is that I don't want to have a traditional date with her, because I think the mental gap between us is too big. I've finished college and started working nearly 2 years ago, and she is in last year of highschool...

But I've no experience in these kind of relationships.
What kind of date should I choose ?

It's not like I only want sex from her, but I don't want to act as if I wanted a standard relationship with her.

She looks like Ellie the Masturbating Autist.
Put a flower in her hair, bang the fuck out of her, take pics and share with us. Become a god.

I mean she looks like a thot,might as well give her what she wants and leave. I doubt she'll care

Ask her to the gym or to go for a run or a hike.

You're both martial artists. I've been training for almost a decade. Although not having any successful relationships with female martial artist(my ego is too big and it's a turn off because I'm narcissistic as fuck), from what I've gathered they're generally pretty active people. Appeal to her interests.

Also, make up your mind. You don't just want sex but you don't want a standard relationship. What do you want?

I don't mind trying to know her more, or having a "date" with her.

But at first, I don't want to make it romantic.
I don't want to promise her anything.
I don't want to "chase" a girl like this.
I don't want to give her too much respect.
Like if she says some stupid immature shit, I want to tell her straight, not sugar coat it.

I know the only reason why I'm considering this relationship is because she is cute and fit.

Ahhhhh I feel you man. Well, firstly, check your states age of consent laws. For instance here in Pennsylvania, the age of consent is 16 years old. As long as there is consent, a 16 year old can sleep with a 40 year old if they want.

If that's the case in your state where she is of the age of consent, then just feel her out and see what she wants. If she wants to fuck then fuck. If it wants to progress into something more then let it.

But be wary. Getting involved intimately with her opens up a lot of opportunities to accrue bad blood between the two of you and that could put a damper on your training.

Fuck girls. Be the best martial artist you can be. As one to another. Go join a gym and fuck some girl there if you think you might just end up not wanting to pursue something serious.

she wants dick, stop trying to court her

get a bottle of wine, invite her round to your place and then shoot your load up her arse

Age of consent is 15 where I live, so no trouble with this.
I don't train with her. I go with her for a fight when I'm too tired to take a real opponent.

I'm afraid she is expecting a real traditional date (movie, dinner...), because that's what she told me.

Not really. She seems to be quite "romantic" and immature. That's what scares me.

I don't want to be brutal at all, but I want to make it clear that it is not my intentions to be romantic with her at first.

Ask her for a private judo session and keep using 寝技. Then make it gone sexual and fuck her.

Netflix and chill brah

>Not really. She seems to be quite "romantic" and immature. That's what scares me.
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>I don't want to be brutal at all, but I want to make it clear that it is not my intentions to be romantic with her at first.
this is just proof that you're the immature one here

She's 17. She has no idea what a real date is. You can mold this chick to be putty in your hand. Take her to a shooting range first date then grab a light bite to eat.

Netflix and chill then ditch the bitch only go after that cash pussy wreck it while she's young don't use alcohol because that can back fire on you. You already admitted she seems immature which would just leave u with a young bitch who is crazy

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Only gap you should mind, is between her thighs

I don't know about shooting range, but this guy is right. She doesn't know the first thing about actual dating, especially if you're actually an adult, with a job. No chuunibyo faggot in her high school is going to be able to take her on an actual date and you'll make her feel fancy as fuck, she'll do whatever you want. You can essentially train the perfect girlfriend

>I want to make it clear that it is not my intentions to be romantic with her at first.

Perfect example of self-friendzoning. If you want to date her, the intention needs to be romantic. Your first few dates should be about having fun together and getting to know each other anyway - you're not going to be immediately marrying this person. So don't worry about it so much.

You are an idiot.
She's probably turned on by you because you're way older than her and despite that you show interest in her. She's probably naive enough to think you two could have a relationship while you just want to fuck her.
Let her go and don't make her life miserable

>I'm afraid she is expecting a real traditional date (movie, dinner...), because that's what she told me.

So you've verified that the girl wants a completely different type of relationship than you do?

Sup Forums will tell you to go ahead and pursue her, because she's surely not going to notice the difference between 'netflix and chill in the sex van' and 'nice romantic walk on the beach'. Sup Forums tells you this because they're being assholes. IRL, you should tell her what _you_ want in a relationship and see if her reaction is 'sounds better than my plan, let's do it' or 'meh, never mind.'.

I used to dick down 18 year olds when I was 25 all the time. I seemed older but not old, had money and some experience.

Take her out to dinner, nothing expensive or super fancy, watch a movie and get your sick sucked, then go home and hammer that booty.

Keep her around. Teach her some shut.

You don't have enough information about her, to know if you want to stick your dick in her, once, twice, every week, casually, romantically.

So the plan is clear: just get to know her. You find her to be an interesting person, and you both have a common interest in judo, so you'd like to get to know her more. What she does besides school and judo, what she wants to do after schools.

From that, you can still transition into romantic, fwb or mentor relationship as you see fit once you have intel.

oke let me get this straight;
you asked her number because she smiled at you, and laughs about everything you say.
THAT's why you asked her number? (and ofc because she is hot..) You did not had even ONE date and are thinking about a relationship already. You seem very inexperienced lad, very.

Di you like her? does she hold a normal conversation? can she make you laugh?

Dont get your hopes up, just date her, dont think about a relationship after a few weeks in before you really get to know her. She will be different when you are alone with her. As will you.

Good luck noobie

P.S. as for the date, girls her age like everything. eating ice cream in the park, netflix, movie, hang out at a mall, just drive around and go to a fast food chain to get some cancer food (i assume you got a car?).

I would go for the ride, eat, drive around (a nice hill or whatever) Driving is good for inexperienced guys like you because its normal not to have much eye contact during the driving. Also driving makes people more relax, its safe ( as in, you wont try anything funny while driving). Put some music on (radio is fine) and make sure you got some sweets in your car.

Holy shit why are you people talking about relationships before the first date? Just get to know people and find out what happens. One date isn't a fucking lifelong commitment, christ.

OP is over thinking everything, classic mistake.

Just do what your intuition tells you to, if she doesnt like it, let her be. If she likes it, you found somebody that like the real 'you'. Congrats.

True.

He is too afraid to make a move, and see what happens. Instead over analyzing everything and being a loser.

Yeah, you definitely have to be willing to meet and date people that you end up not being compatible with. Finding the right person is a process - it's not about searching and waiting for your one true soulmate.

OP, is that a pic of her, or just a random girl? Need to know for science.

OP, is english not your first language?

In my opinion and experience, I would just bang her. She is in no way mentally prepared for a relationship of a potential generation gap. I dated a couple girls 5-10 years of difference and they have different agendas as you would. However, it could be a personal/emotional thing on my part but from what I have seen, it seems to be the same. Find someone after their college years as you have, at least you have common ground. Someone in high school will have different wants and needs/ambitions compared to you.

I hope the best, also figure out what you want dude.

Fucking who?